FabSwingers.com forum: Creepy street harassment

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Popped to the post office this morning and about 5 mins from home realised a man had been following me, he approached me and made some comment about how he'd been following me and wanted to say hi, that I was so pretty...

FUCKING WEIRDO!!!!!

I literally responded with "leave me alone, you absolute creep. Who the fuck follows women home to tell them they're pretty?!" And walked in the opposite direction.

I called my friend to pick me up and drop me home as I didn't want him knowing where I live.

This isn't the first time this has happened...why do some people think it's ok to do that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had similar things happen and it's so so creepy. I don't know why people think it's acceptable, and I'm sorry that happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had similar things happen and it's so so creepy. I don't know why people think it's acceptable, and I'm sorry that happened to you. "

Likewise! No one should be made to feel uncomfortable like that!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always shocks me when I hear about women having experiences like this. I'm sorry this happened to you, that guy sounds like an absolute creep, like you said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It always shocks me when I hear about women having experiences like this. I'm sorry this happened to you, that guy sounds like an absolute creep, like you said

I'm just glad I had a friend nearby, i wouldn't have felt safe heading home with him lurking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once approached by someone in Leeds City Centre, didn't speak great English but told me I was beautiful and to text him... Literally wouldn't take no for an answer. Luckily I was with a friend and we just disappeared off into a shop to lose him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think people like that are all there, or are just creeps? I'd never dream of following a lady, or randomly tell her she's beautiful/hot or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite honestly much like sending a first message on Fab, it's all about the approach...

If he'd have come up to me, said I was beautiful and wanted to give me his number and walked away. It still wouldn't have been my thing but would have put a smile on my face... Then it was a damned rare occurance to be called beautiful.

The way he did approach me, creeped me out. No doubt about it... Nobody likes a pushy person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, glad you are ok and hope it was just a random one off

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

I actually said to gerry yesterday I can't believe the number of weird fuckers I see when walking my dog. Surely they must no they're freaking you out or am I missing something and that the point. The world is a crazy place

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