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" Is it any different from women who aren't married? " Physically no, but I think the OP is referring to the mental stimulation. | |||
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"I find married women playing away from home such a massive turn on. Have had some amazing sex with married women when they are suppose to be ‘shopping’. " til their husbands catch up with you | |||
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" Is it any different from women who aren't married? Physically no, but I think the OP is referring to the mental stimulation." I get that obviously. Perhaps someone can enlighten me on what exactly is the turn on? I understand that people have sexual meets outside relationships and have done since history began. But how can being implicit in the deceit be the actual turn on? Power over anothers misfortune? Making up for your own inadequacy? Or something else. | |||
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"I think you'd be incredibly surprised how many men have messaged regarding my profile. Not because they want to get in my knickers, but because they read the words and felt as though I could have written it about them. They feel like I've given them a voice and thank me for being so honest and open about my experiences. Men get broken too" | |||
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"It's probarly because OP maybe married himself and is justifying his actions " The double bluff line. Yeah, seen that one on here a few times too. | |||
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" Is it any different from women who aren't married? It’s also entirely possible that the married women are just better at sex than the non married ones that he has met " I would think that they have a similar 'mind set' to married men... | |||
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" Is it any different from women who aren't married? Physically no, but I think the OP is referring to the mental stimulation. I get that obviously. Perhaps someone can enlighten me on what exactly is the turn on? I understand that people have sexual meets outside relationships and have done since history began. But how can being implicit in the deceit be the actual turn on? Power over anothers misfortune? Making up for your own inadequacy? Or something else." All of those and more. I think some guys see it as fulfilling a need a husband doesn’t, or that they’ve tempted the woman away from their husband with their good looks and charm or whatever. A power and ego boosting based thing, I think. Then there’s just going to be some people who like breaking rules and find it a turn on. Same as those who flash (illegal) and fuck in public places. | |||
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"I find married women playing away from home such a massive turn on. Have had some amazing sex with married women when they are suppose to be ‘shopping’. " Bet Tesco kicked you out. | |||
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"I thought meeting a married women would be safer for me for the fact am married ! How wrong was I .... " Indeed, if they're hypergamous. | |||
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"I think you'd be incredibly surprised how many men have messaged regarding my profile. Not because they want to get in my knickers, but because they read the words and felt as though I could have written it about them. They feel like I've given them a voice and thank me for being so honest and open about my experiences. Men get broken too" Just read it... Awesome words... Compliments PP | |||
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"I think you'd be incredibly surprised how many men have messaged regarding my profile. Not because they want to get in my knickers, but because they read the words and felt as though I could have written it about them. They feel like I've given them a voice and thank me for being so honest and open about my experiences. Men get broken too" I just read it and before I comment I'll say I'm a man who for a long time thought he'd never be able to be the same after a failed relationship (she didn't cheat but there are other ways of affecting someone's trust, self esteem, happiness etc). My only comment is you'll never be happy all the time you blame your unhappiness on someone else. The truth is, we are all responsible for our own feelings, no one can make us 'feel' anything, we do that to ourselves. Good luck and I sincerely hope you find a way to be happy (and trust) again. Mr | |||
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"I thought meeting a married women would be safer for me for the fact am married ! How wrong was I .... Indeed, if they're hypergamous." won’t lie ! I did have to look hypergamous up | |||
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"I think you'd be incredibly surprised how many men have messaged regarding my profile. Not because they want to get in my knickers, but because they read the words and felt as though I could have written it about them. They feel like I've given them a voice and thank me for being so honest and open about my experiences. Men get broken too I just read it and before I comment I'll say I'm a man who for a long time thought he'd never be able to be the same after a failed relationship (she didn't cheat but there are other ways of affecting someone's trust, self esteem, happiness etc). My only comment is you'll never be happy all the time you blame your unhappiness on someone else. The truth is, we are all responsible for our own feelings, no one can make us 'feel' anything, we do that to ourselves. Good luck and I sincerely hope you find a way to be happy (and trust) again. Mr" I'm not unhappy, I'm not sad. But.... I know full well what being deceived can do. I ended up off work for 9 months in recovery from a breakdown. I didn't have the breakdown because of the action of being cheated on... it was the deception and not knowing what was true, what wasn't and who I could or couldn't trust. That broke my brain. It took all I had to allow myself to put my faith in another human when it came to love. I was petrified and, against my better judgement i thought fuck it, let's do it. I opened my heart and exposed the side I swore I'd never let another close to. Fast forward 2 years and here we are. Just out of a relationship with the guy I thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with. Now, I'm not unhappy it's over. You see, it turned out he was deceptive too, but he never lied once to me that I'm aware of....but he was most certainly lying to himself and to others in his life. For now my happy is being alone, trusting in me to know what's right for me. | |||
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"I'm not unhappy, I'm not sad. But.... I know full well what being deceived can do. I ended up off work for 9 months in recovery from a breakdown. I didn't have the breakdown because of the action of being cheated on... it was the deception and not knowing what was true, what wasn't and who I could or couldn't trust. That broke my brain. It took all I had to allow myself to put my faith in another human when it came to love. I was petrified and, against my better judgement i thought fuck it, let's do it. I opened my heart and exposed the side I swore I'd never let another close to. Fast forward 2 years and here we are. Just out of a relationship with the guy I thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with. Now, I'm not unhappy it's over. You see, it turned out he was deceptive too, but he never lied once to me that I'm aware of....but he was most certainly lying to himself and to others in his life. For now my happy is being alone, trusting in me to know what's right for me. " You’re not alone, my friend x | |||
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"I'm not unhappy, I'm not sad. But.... I know full well what being deceived can do. I ended up off work for 9 months in recovery from a breakdown. I didn't have the breakdown because of the action of being cheated on... it was the deception and not knowing what was true, what wasn't and who I could or couldn't trust. That broke my brain. It took all I had to allow myself to put my faith in another human when it came to love. I was petrified and, against my better judgement i thought fuck it, let's do it. I opened my heart and exposed the side I swore I'd never let another close to. Fast forward 2 years and here we are. Just out of a relationship with the guy I thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with. Now, I'm not unhappy it's over. You see, it turned out he was deceptive too, but he never lied once to me that I'm aware of....but he was most certainly lying to himself and to others in his life. For now my happy is being alone, trusting in me to know what's right for me. You’re not alone, my friend x" | |||
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"I thought meeting a married women would be safer for me for the fact am married ! How wrong was I .... Indeed, if they're hypergamous." What has birth status to do with anything? | |||
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"I think you'd be incredibly surprised how many men have messaged regarding my profile. Not because they want to get in my knickers, but because they read the words and felt as though I could have written it about them. They feel like I've given them a voice and thank me for being so honest and open about my experiences. Men get broken too I just read it and before I comment I'll say I'm a man who for a long time thought he'd never be able to be the same after a failed relationship (she didn't cheat but there are other ways of affecting someone's trust, self esteem, happiness etc). My only comment is you'll never be happy all the time you blame your unhappiness on someone else. The truth is, we are all responsible for our own feelings, no one can make us 'feel' anything, we do that to ourselves. Good luck and I sincerely hope you find a way to be happy (and trust) again. Mr I'm not unhappy, I'm not sad. But.... I know full well what being deceived can do. I ended up off work for 9 months in recovery from a breakdown. I didn't have the breakdown because of the action of being cheated on... it was the deception and not knowing what was true, what wasn't and who I could or couldn't trust. That broke my brain. It took all I had to allow myself to put my faith in another human when it came to love. I was petrified and, against my better judgement i thought fuck it, let's do it. I opened my heart and exposed the side I swore I'd never let another close to. Fast forward 2 years and here we are. Just out of a relationship with the guy I thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with. Now, I'm not unhappy it's over. You see, it turned out he was deceptive too, but he never lied once to me that I'm aware of....but he was most certainly lying to himself and to others in his life. For now my happy is being alone, trusting in me to know what's right for me. " Totally get the breakdown bit Time, it really is a wonderful healer. Take care x | |||
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