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Ladies do you like the shredded look ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

You do you. Can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about someone who hasn't been to the gym for 49 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it for you, not for what someone else wants

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Mmmmmm shredded duck and pancakes.....

You’ve got great ankles OP, you’re fine as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym fit can be intimidating for some women to want to get naked with.

The stamina of the gym fit is the best part for me

Body wise I like variety. It's the personality that holds my attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmmmmm shredded duck and pancakes.....

You’ve got great ankles OP, you’re fine as you are "

Thanks, they’re my best feature, along with my eyebrows.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gym fit can be intimidating for some women to want to get naked with.

The stamina of the gym fit is the best part for me

Body wise I like variety. It's the personality that holds my attention "

I already have the stamina, I did nearly 4 push ups this morning, personality wise I’m slightly annoying, but I’m trying to work on being a better person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?"

Similar to ripped, but with lower body fat so you can see the muscles more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?"

Same difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?"

Ripped is single tear, shredded is multiple tears... Oh wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?"

Shredded is more of an American thing to say, I think. It’s the same thing though.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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I'm "shredded" by enjoying sports. I don't do it to get attention, I do it because I love doing sports and it keeps me healthy. I'm not the muscle man, more the athletic endurance man.

Plus it has benefits - I probably have an average cock, nothing Danny D'esque about it. But by not having the gut, I can make every inch count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% hurl wheat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it."

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy gym fit guys... It doesn't mean I expect people to get down the gym to meet the criteria. Your body is your business.

I'm sure not every guy likes my figure, I won't change it to suit their tastes. Neither should you.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I have that shredded look.. And by that i mean shredded cheese/pork

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like many types of bodies personally.

No point trying to please everyone. If you do change your body, for every person who gains interest over it there will be another who is put off. Best to just aim for what you like best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Everyone likes what they like.

Dont need to be an Adonis to impress someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid that"
I said wrong. I meant the hunger levels increases but you have to eat alot less so you will feel more hungry and no you cant eat that just at a very small amount if it.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!"

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?

Same difference "

It isnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% hurl wheat. "

Hope you felt better afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you worry about what other people like, if you like it?!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Why would you worry about what other people like, if you like it?! "

Self Insecurity usually , same with ironic ridicule

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

"

It’s totally all about pleasing the ladies, just trying to see what the ladies are into then I can gauge whether I need to get my gains on, or whether I can stay on the sofa, hopefully it’s the sofa thing.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

We like being Shreddied. Though any breakfast cereal will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about the ‘dad bod’ for me, no choice anyway

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid thatI said wrong. I meant the hunger levels increases but you have to eat alot less so you will feel more hungry and no you cant eat that just at a very small amount if it. "

Actually shag

Seriously

There comes a point hunger evaporates

I find that stage scary

I have to psychologically tell my self I ought to eat rather than ghrelin doing its thing

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like the visuals but I prefer a little squish to the touch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Tip- you get shredded in the kitchen not the gym. Start by having a conversation with your stomach about who’s in charge , and learn to go hungry occasionally, millions of people spend those entire lives hungry , a few hours a day isn’t hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the visuals but I prefer a little squish to the touch "

That’s it, I’m staying on the sofa, I’m already squishable.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

It’s totally all about pleasing the ladies, just trying to see what the ladies are into then I can gauge whether I need to get my gains on, or whether I can stay on the sofa, hopefully it’s the sofa thing. "

How are you deciding which ladies you want to appear sycophantic to though? or is it just a game of numbers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tip- you get shredded in the kitchen not the gym. Start by having a conversation with your stomach about who’s in charge , and learn to go hungry occasionally, millions of people spend those entire lives hungry , a few hours a day isn’t hard "

I can’t fit weights in my kitchen

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

OP Its your body and you do what you want to do with it. My husband has been shredded and hes been fairly big (muscle wise) personally i love him in his in between stages where he just has the hint of the 6 pack and the big big arms and thighs. yum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

It’s totally all about pleasing the ladies, just trying to see what the ladies are into then I can gauge whether I need to get my gains on, or whether I can stay on the sofa, hopefully it’s the sofa thing.

How are you deciding which ladies you want to appear sycophantic to though? or is it just a game of numbers? "

Hot ones of course, it’s not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip- you get shredded in the kitchen not the gym. Start by having a conversation with your stomach about who’s in charge , and learn to go hungry occasionally, millions of people spend those entire lives hungry , a few hours a day isn’t hard "

That’s the best way of putting it that I’ve ever heard

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

It’s totally all about pleasing the ladies, just trying to see what the ladies are into then I can gauge whether I need to get my gains on, or whether I can stay on the sofa, hopefully it’s the sofa thing.

How are you deciding which ladies you want to appear sycophantic to though? or is it just a game of numbers?

Hot ones of course, it’s not rocket science "

Hmm I think you will find most have a body temp of 37 degrees c are you wanting women with diseases

Covid causes hot women

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m thinking about getting down the gym and getting shredded, but I’ve heard from quite a few ladies they don’t like men too shredded, they like a bit of soft under belly, someone who is in good shape, but hasn’t been to the gym for a few month’s kind of look, is this the case ? There’s no point me going to the gym putting all that work in and I’m too shredded for the ladies, Or maybe you like it and I will have to get my gains on down at the gym and have to start eating tofu and broccoli, instead of biscuits and crisps, even though I’m in great shape for someone who eats biscuits and crisps, just naturally athletic I guess ?!

Weird

Why concept trying to change who you are to try to attract some women

You should have the self confidence to be who you are despite what others may think or want

I suggest being very low body fat is a journey one should only EVER embark upon for ones own self discovery and absolutely never in a vain attempt to please

It’s totally all about pleasing the ladies, just trying to see what the ladies are into then I can gauge whether I need to get my gains on, or whether I can stay on the sofa, hopefully it’s the sofa thing.

How are you deciding which ladies you want to appear sycophantic to though? or is it just a game of numbers?

Hot ones of course, it’s not rocket science

Hmm I think you will find most have a body temp of 37 degrees c are you wanting women with diseases

Covid causes hot women

"

I hear also menopausal ladies ??

Bit niche hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid thatI said wrong. I meant the hunger levels increases but you have to eat alot less so you will feel more hungry and no you cant eat that just at a very small amount if it.

Actually shag

Seriously

There comes a point hunger evaporates

I find that stage scary

I have to psychologically tell my self I ought to eat rather than ghrelin doing its thing "
Yes same here. I like the challenge of not to eat more even tho you want too, it is all a psychologically battle but a fun to do, a refeed day do help too sometimes as well.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Tip- you get shredded in the kitchen not the gym. Start by having a conversation with your stomach about who’s in charge , and learn to go hungry occasionally, millions of people spend those entire lives hungry , a few hours a day isn’t hard

That’s the best way of putting it that I’ve ever heard "

Most people are only ever habitually hungry and rarely need feeding hungry

The difference is wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Washboard abs that you can scrub your sheets on as you ride the cock, multi tasking workout at its finest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll stick to riding my bike, lots of stamina but not a gym freak ....... works for me

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid thatI said wrong. I meant the hunger levels increases but you have to eat alot less so you will feel more hungry and no you cant eat that just at a very small amount if it.

Actually shag

Seriously

There comes a point hunger evaporates

I find that stage scary

I have to psychologically tell my self I ought to eat rather than ghrelin doing its thing Yes same here. I like the challenge of not to eat more even tho you want too, it is all a psychologically battle but a fun to do, a refeed day do help too sometimes as well."

Exactly shag its refreshing to hear you can project who you are without needing to pander to the fickle whims of random women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like healthy. If you’re happy and healthy I can’t ask for much more than that, nor would I. Abs are hot, but so is someone confident in themselves.

You do you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never heard a body described as shredded before.

I have heard of ripped. What is the difference ?

Same difference

It isnt "
There are 2 more sayings, pealed and diced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is all about the 6pack, the more schredded you get the more the hunger levels increases, but still the result is worth it.

If your hungry levels increase you’ll eat more biscuits and crisps and lose the abs, so I want to avoid thatI said wrong. I meant the hunger levels increases but you have to eat alot less so you will feel more hungry and no you cant eat that just at a very small amount if it.

Actually shag

Seriously

There comes a point hunger evaporates

I find that stage scary

I have to psychologically tell my self I ought to eat rather than ghrelin doing its thing Yes same here. I like the challenge of not to eat more even tho you want too, it is all a psychologically battle but a fun to do, a refeed day do help too sometimes as well.

Exactly shag its refreshing to hear you can project who you are without needing to pander to the fickle whims of random women

"
That is right it is that too, it is all about the calories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like healthy. If you’re happy and healthy I can’t ask for much more than that, nor would I. Abs are hot, but so is someone confident in themselves.

You do you! X"

Can I do you instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it for you, not for what someone else wants"

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

If you’re just talking body, then there’s different types of ripped to bear in mind too...lean swimmer, broad rugby etc...not sure you can change that with crisps alone!

Personality goes a long way...and this is the lightest post I’ve seen from you for...like...ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed that he went unlos there. I also want to add that you can fo it with a high carb diet too. I have my carbs set to about 260g aday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like healthy. If you’re happy and healthy I can’t ask for much more than that, nor would I. Abs are hot, but so is someone confident in themselves.

You do you! X

Can I do you instead? "

Anytime lovely

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

He must have gone down the gym.

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