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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

I'd love to find out too. I'm not complaining, but I'm wondering if they think we all look like Julia Roberts or Michelle Pfeiffer.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

I'd love to find out too. I'm not complaining, but I'm wondering if they think we all look like Julia Roberts or Michelle Pfeiffer."
There is me thinking they miss their mums

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

1) cause they think older women will be more "desperate"... hence lower their standards...

2) mummy figure......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

I'd love to find out too. I'm not complaining, but I'm wondering if they think we all look like Julia Roberts or Michelle Pfeiffer. There is me thinking they miss their mums"

Well I hope they don't think I'll be cooking and ironing for them!

I love meeting younger guys but they lack somewhat in the conversation department.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Apparently, we're easier and more grateful than women their own age. Or at least we should be. So I was told by one charming young fellow when I said no.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Lots of reasons...... They think age equates to experienced,most have money n a car n a place to get their feet under the table/bed.......need i go on???

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"1) cause they think older women will be more "desperate"... hence lower their standards...

2) mummy figure......"

I never had any standards lol... and my figure is.. well, curvey but def not mummy like

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

I'd love to find out too. I'm not complaining, but I'm wondering if they think we all look like Julia Roberts or Michelle Pfeiffer. There is me thinking they miss their mums

Well I hope they don't think I'll be cooking and ironing for them!

I love meeting younger guys but they lack somewhat in the conversation department."

I struggle doing my own cooking and ironing should be outlawed as far as I am concerned...;-)

And yeah, conversation department is important to me ...!!!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"Apparently, we're easier and more grateful than women their own age. Or at least we should be. So I was told by one charming young fellow when I said no."

I almost said the above but dint want a war

I'm a lover not a fighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) cause they think older women will be more "desperate"... hence lower their standards...

2) mummy figure......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently, we're easier and more grateful than women their own age. Or at least we should be. So I was told by one charming young fellow when I said no."

I wish I could believe this hadn't happened.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Apparently, we're easier and more grateful than women their own age. Or at least we should be. So I was told by one charming young fellow when I said no."

Haha thats funny - had a similar experience on here... perhaps we are missing the grateful gene...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number."
And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I just got told it was cause I was more experienced than younger girls (bull shitting little fuckers). Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..? "

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"And I just got told it was cause I was more experienced than younger girls (bull shitting little fuckers). Haha! "
Just looked at your profile and you dont even qualify as a "mature" one yet - lol - you are still young!!!!!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man"

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"And I just got told it was cause I was more experienced than younger girls (bull shitting little fuckers). Haha! "

So, you're the one with the Prayer profile! Great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me... "

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I just got told it was cause I was more experienced than younger girls (bull shitting little fuckers). Haha! Just looked at your profile and you dont even qualify as a "mature" one yet - lol - you are still young!!!!!! "

When do i qualify as mature then? Cause 18/19 yr olds mailing me and I am 33 with a 10 yr old son (feel like 43 most the time).

I sure think I am an older woman.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair"

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair"

What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair "

i don't make the rules

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?"

Eternally hopeful.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?"

hopeful?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?

Eternally hopeful."

snap lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

If you wait long enough, someone will be along to mention it may be more of a GILF syndrome?

Just saying.

I wouldn't dream of doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?"

milfhunters

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair

i don't make the rules"

who does hun, but you brought the point up

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?

milfhunters"

If you say that quickly... it sounds like munters...;-)

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

To be honest, people tend to be more sexy when they are comfortable with who they are, and that can be ageless (and sizeless for that matter), but it probably is true that many youngens particularly teenagers may be insecure about who they are and try to be how they percieve they should be, maybe many older women have got to a place in thier lives where they are comfortable with who they are and what they want, its all generalisations but I can see why a perception of that can be seductive for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair

i don't make the rules

who does hun, but you brought the point up "

shall we just blame society?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I just got told it was cause I was more experienced than younger girls (bull shitting little fuckers). Haha!

So, you're the one with the Prayer profile! Great!"

Its from facebook, but fits me well, Im relgious about my toys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

What about younger guys who seek out older women? What they called?

milfhunters"

Oh yeah! DOH!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Is it vanity?

I go for the more mature women whose eyesight is changing yet don't want to admit to needing specs.

Usual disclaimer applies.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

why not everyone else does lol

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair

i don't make the rules

who does hun, but you brought the point up

shall we just blame society?"

Why not everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can't speak for the other kids on here, but don't care what a persons age is. Much more important things to a person than a number.And there is nothing wrong with that attitude - I was wondering what made some younger people specifically and almost exclusively seek out much older women..?

why not everyone else does lol

personal taste i suppose but if an older man seeked a younger female he'd be called a dirty old man

Interesting as I have not seen many posts (in theforums anyway) where more mature guys specify younger models. It does puzzle me...

older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair

A woman who has sex with lots of guys a slag

A guy who has sex with lots of women a stud

As you say

hardly seems fair

i don't make the rules

who does hun, but you brought the point up

shall we just blame society?

Why not everyone else does "

starting to sound like daily mail readers lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Is it vanity?

I go for the more mature women whose eyesight is changing yet don't want to admit to needing specs.

Usual disclaimer applies. "

Seen your pics and you re not bad for a 30 year old ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah confidence thing so I am told.. comfortable in our own skin.. oh at this age we know what we like..x and have none of the insecurities I had when i was younger xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"ah confidence thing so I am told.. comfortable in our own skin.. oh at this age we know what we like..x and have none of the insecurities I had when i was younger xx"

I have lots of NEW insecurities now.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really."

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ah confidence thing so I am told.. comfortable in our own skin.. oh at this age we know what we like..x and have none of the insecurities I had when i was younger xx

I have lots of NEW insecurities now. "

I was just about to say... you loose some .. and there you gain some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes..."

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one much younger man who came to see me said.

He liked older women because they are so horny.

You know us old dears are more grateful, especialy if we havnt been getting enough sex, for the last 30 years.

Some young men are randy all the time, if they cant get a fit young girl for some sex, exactly when they want it, then an old bird will do.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)"

Interesting statement as I always thought that just repeating a statement did not really offer any new perspectives lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)

Interesting statement as I always thought that just repeating a statement did not really offer any new perspectives lol "

why do I wish to give a new perspective when the other one was perfect.pretty simple in my eyes.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)

Interesting statement as I always thought that just repeating a statement did not really offer any new perspectives lol

why do I wish to give a new perspective when the other one was perfect.pretty simple in my eyes."

Ah, there we are ... the difference between male and female perspective once more. He thinks he has solved the problem, she still thinks they are discussing it. Now I know why so many split up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)

Interesting statement as I always thought that just repeating a statement did not really offer any new perspectives lol

why do I wish to give a new perspective when the other one was perfect.pretty simple in my eyes.

Ah, there we are ... the difference between male and female perspective once more. He thinks he has solved the problem, she still thinks they are discussing it. Now I know why so many split up "

lol nothing about me being male nor female.I'dve said the same thing lol...stop generalizing sexes.Its one of my pet hates! x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)

its an easy one to reverse..older women having sex with those young enough to be there sons....

my whole stance on the issue is ...nothing psychological based (lets all Freud....NO! lol)

most people would say they had a teacher at school they fancied.Its only natural that now outwith the school years, some fantasies about the 'older' 'mature' partner can now be realized....and obviously they couldnt be when they were outwith the age of consent.Pretty simple in my eyes really.

So why dont I fancy young blokes...

cos ur a unique human person thing.....

*pretty simple in my eyes(am gonna repeat this all day if i can be bothered...it is meant in a sneeeeeeringly condescendingly put manner)

Interesting statement as I always thought that just repeating a statement did not really offer any new perspectives lol

why do I wish to give a new perspective when the other one was perfect.pretty simple in my eyes.

Ah, there we are ... the difference between male and female perspective once more. He thinks he has solved the problem, she still thinks they are discussing it. Now I know why so many split up

lol nothing about me being male nor female.I'dve said the same thing lol...stop generalizing sexes.Its one of my pet hates! x"
Stop disallowing me the perogative to put words into your mouth...;-)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not readm, depending what you call middle aged i would say foruty. Must women tak longer tha quick fumble.

I like men that i can also hold a conversaion with. When in thre forty may not hathe looks and beng in plae.

I found women fee sexy as i got older.

Uf i knew at 20 whaat im like

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

Basically as their failing eyesight makes me more pleasing to the eye.

To be honest I dont really care much for age...as long as they'll do me.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

because they can rely on a better class of womans magazine on the coffee table

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"because they can rely on a better class of womans magazine on the coffee table "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you get to a time in your life where you no longer give a shit or care what others think.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"you get to a time in your life where you no longer give a shit or care what others think."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mature ladies

don't yell

don't swell

and

don't tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you get to a time in your life where you no longer give a shit or care what others think."

Yes thats true. I think they can like me or lump me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you get to a time in your life where you no longer give a shit or care what others think.

Yes thats true. I think they can like me or lump me. "

how i feel.

if people dont like me they can go fuck themselves.

no time anymore for shit!

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Curious what is called mature

I like younger guys too but not babies

Cant be doing with guys who full of shit and think they are the bees knees

I will tell them what i want but no way am i desperate and no way would i be grateful.....give me a stocky muscle guy any day with a sense of humour and tackle to shag

bring it on

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?"

Did nt think people had got up their own whatsits here? Come and play xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I come with lumps.

I rather like lumps. "Mature" women come with advantages too.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

I come with lumps.

I rather like lumps. "Mature" women come with advantages too. "

This the new Aldi ad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) cause they think older women will be more "desperate"... hence lower their standards...

2) mummy figure......"

Dont agree. Been at parties and seen men often going for the older women even with younger women there. Neither are mutually exclusive ( M)

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

I come with lumps.

I rather like lumps. "Mature" women come with advantages too.

This the new Aldi ad? "

Dunno, i'm only a lidl one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious what is called mature

I like younger guys too but not babies

Cant be doing with guys who full of shit and think they are the bees knees

I will tell them what i want but no way am i desperate and no way would i be grateful.....give me a stocky muscle guy any day with a sense of humour and tackle to shag

bring it on

xxx"

40+ is mature.

Not just young men who think they are the bees knees though is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

Less chance of girls their own age finding out that they are using older women on sex sites for venting?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"1) cause they think older women will be more "desperate"... hence lower their standards...

2) mummy figure......"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?"

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years ago I was with a small group of friends, we were chatting and one of the guys said it was currently really 'trendy' for young guys to 'nail' an older woman, the older the better...for the usual bullshit reasons of her being grateful, trying harder and it was something to brag to his mates about over a pint

I must admit, this really stuck with me since then and I just can't play with younger guys, it's just a 'respect' thing, I just worry that I'm just a bit of a joke between him and his mates.

I know NOT all younger guys have this attitude but I'd rather not take the chance.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Lots of reasons...... They think age equates to experienced,most have money n a car n a place to get their feet under the table/bed.......need i go on???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious what is called mature

I like younger guys too but not babies

Cant be doing with guys who full of shit and think they are the bees knees

I will tell them what i want but no way am i desperate and no way would i be grateful.....give me a stocky muscle guy any day with a sense of humour and tackle to shag

bring it on

xxx

40+ is mature.

Not just young men who think they are the bees knees though is it."

yay!!! I have 7 more years of growing up till I am mature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i choose mature women ,because er oh yeah im old lol but very nice

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

Is it vanity?

I go for the more mature women whose eyesight is changing yet don't want to admit to needing specs.

Usual disclaimer applies. "

Why did you say that young lady ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of years ago I was with a small group of friends, we were chatting and one of the guys said it was currently really 'trendy' for young guys to 'nail' an older woman, the older the better...for the usual bullshit reasons of her being grateful, trying harder and it was something to brag to his mates about over a pint

I must admit, this really stuck with me since then and I just can't play with younger guys, it's just a 'respect' thing, I just worry that I'm just a bit of a joke between him and his mates.

I know NOT all younger guys have this attitude but I'd rather not take the chance. "

Yes thats true.

Still can be a bit of a joke between older men too, they like to talk about who they have been with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i Just thought it Was maybe down to the fact that younger or middle aged or even older guys.. That They will probably shag anything with a hole..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?"

i know what you mean, if you see what i mean.

i mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i Just thought it Was maybe down to the fact that younger or middle aged or even older guys.. That They will probably shag anything with a hole..

"

Good for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah confidence thing so I am told.. comfortable in our own skin.. oh at this age we know what we like..x and have none of the insecurities I had when i was younger xx

I have lots of NEW insecurities now. "

I dont lol..rise above them sexy chicx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

yay!!! I have 7 more years of growing up till I am mature! "

So have i.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?

i know what you mean, if you see what i mean.

i mean "

Aww, I know what you mean. But I honestly think that, as long as YOU are having fun, worrying about others is pointless. Unless of course you are supposed to be having fun with them.

Know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?

i know what you mean, if you see what i mean.

i mean

Aww, I know what you mean. But I honestly think that, as long as YOU are having fun, worrying about others is pointless. Unless of course you are supposed to be having fun with them.

Know what I mean? "

erm yes and no.

i mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently, we're easier and more grateful than women their own age. Or at least we should be. So I was told by one charming young fellow when I said no."

Don't know about easier, but definitely more likely to just get on with it and savour it than muck around playing games. As for gratitude, that's always two way for me to be honest - I'm always extremely grateful with it

Wolf

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?

i know what you mean, if you see what i mean.

i mean

Aww, I know what you mean. But I honestly think that, as long as YOU are having fun, worrying about others is pointless. Unless of course you are supposed to be having fun with them.

Know what I mean?

erm yes and no.

i mean "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

not necessarily, there just might be too much competition for the newer ones. I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable. "

I just need a good oiling from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry to go off topic.

but this use to be fun before everyone got up there own arseholes.

what happened to us people?

I'm having fun. Who isn't having fun?

i know what you mean, if you see what i mean.

i mean

Aww, I know what you mean. But I honestly think that, as long as YOU are having fun, worrying about others is pointless. Unless of course you are supposed to be having fun with them.

Know what I mean?

erm yes and no.

i mean

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

I just need a good oiling from time to time."

n a good jump start!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

I just need a good oiling from time to time.

n a good jump start! "

I seem to have lost my starting handle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

I just need a good oiling from time to time.

n a good jump start!

I seem to have lost my starting handle..."

gis a crank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

I just need a good oiling from time to time.

n a good jump start!

I seem to have lost my starting handle..."

oh dont get me started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in general though, us classic models, if we are still running, are well maintained and reliable.

I just need a good oiling from time to time.

n a good jump start!

I seem to have lost my starting handle...

oh dont get me started "

oh an I was so looking forward to hotwiring you.

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

Maybe because we're not after marriage and babies! Done all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they tend to wear stockings more often!!

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

Always had a thin for older woman, might be psychological seeing as i lost my virginity to my mates mum who was 19 years older than me,

one thing she taught me a few techniques some of the mor emy own age partners i have been with appreciated though

so maybe its a teachin thing

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

I think it's the perceived sexual experience you have . Not that they are looking for a teacher as such but looking to have sex with someone with plenty experience and good knowledge of sex.

I think personally as a woman gets more mature she gets more sexier. Also less hang ups about themselves and know what they like and want in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I find most older women have a confidence that comes with age that I find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always used to pick older fems than myself, then i got into my 40's and thought time for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was because they watch porn movies and decide that they want some of that forgetting that in the real world, we aint gorgeous and slim and don't shag anything with a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I come with lumps.

I rather like lumps. "Mature" women come with advantages too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with older women being more desperate, hence easier to nail. There is no such thing as a 'type' of desperate on here. It is possible to _iew the veris of gorgeous women, especially in cols, where the woman is 30, glamour model-esque, stunning, yet sucking on some tint todger attached to a hairy paunch. Desperation is a function of hornyness imho.

I personally go for older ladies because they do tend to be more relaxed, more genuine and just better where it counts. I would not fuck any older woman, I hae to fancy them. If your desperate then you'll lower standards, whether a younger man or an older woman.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

are at peace with themselves and enjoying their life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing to do with older women being more desperate, hence easier to nail. There is no such thing as a 'type' of desperate on here. It is possible to _iew the veris of gorgeous women, especially in cols, where the woman is 30, glamour model-esque, stunning, yet sucking on some tint todger attached to a hairy paunch. Desperation is a function of hornyness imho.

I personally go for older ladies because they do tend to be more relaxed, more genuine and just better where it counts. I would not fuck any older woman, I hae to fancy them. If your desperate then you'll lower standards, whether a younger man or an older woman."
Well i think you look fab and as long as over 19 and a good brain and fun i like younger men ..like you say whether younger or older you just have to like and fancy and get on as people to have fun and age is just a number x

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By *uffinCouple
over a year ago

Chichester


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"
They are hooked on the scene where Mrs Robinson removes her stockings

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)"

they find the older lady is less likely to be updating Facebook on their mobile whilst he pumps away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some of the youngones dont have lifes hang-up i find free thinking ..with out the crap of life ... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find older women attractive as they have the confidence and the experience but not just that but also putting you at ease which alot of younger women can't offer at that moment.

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By *uffinCouple
over a year ago

Chichester


"Honestly, I want to find out what it is that makes young guys (I am talking 18 to about 30) choose women who are much older. There has got to be some deep psychological reason...;-)They are hooked on the scene where Mrs Robinson removes her stockings "

And for those too young to remember:

The Graduate, Dustin Hoffman and Anne Bancroft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"older woman seeking younger guy=cougar

older man seeking younger woman=perv

hardly seems fair"

The reason it seems unfair is that social media has fucked up alot of people in today's world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i haven't read every post so don't know if this has been said...

but my reason for loving women older than myself is that i get on better with them. They are easier to chat to and dont play the stupid games that younger, more immature girls do. Best of all... They know what they want and exactly how to get it!

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