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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...to be intimate with someone on fab, and then brag about it to mates and others you wish to be with? Telling someone on fab to ask another you've shared yourself with to confirm you are "good" in the sack?

Surely that's what veri's are for?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No my veris say I'm real and not an axe murderer (they lie!)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No it is wrong. What goes on between two people should be kept private unless you want to display a detailed veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like that would just put off the people you're bragging to

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"...to be intimate with someone on fab, and then brag about it to mates and others you wish to be with? Telling someone on fab to ask another you've shared yourself with to confirm you are "good" in the sack?

Surely that's what veri's are for? "

It's also rather crass, vulgar and indiscreet.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Over the years I have read that if 2 women share details about a guy, it's the sisterhood looking out for each other. If it's 2 guys about a woman, they are indiscreet.

I think it should all remain in the room, unless in a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like that would just put off the people you're bragging to "

This. I’d be really angry if someone used a meet with me as an example. What I do with someone is between myself and them! I’d be furious.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Absolutely not, discretion is key. What happens with sexual partners stays between them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I believe that a meet is a private affair between all those involved at that time, be it one on one, a couple or more.

If you feel the need to get someone to confirm how good you are other than by verification then you need to take a good long look at the sort of person you are!

Quality over quantity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the point of the verification system. Brag to 30,000 who you fucked, what you did, and how they rate you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not cool at all

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

What happens between two consenting adults stays between them.

Whether it be pictures, videos, chats or meets.

Once that trust is broken it can’t be repaired.

If you can’t be trusted with that information, you can’t be trusted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not.

I know some women on here do talk to each other.

I met a lady about 3 years ago, 6 months or so later I was talking to another who then messaged her to ask a question about me. For whatever reason she answered and then the other woman said she didn't want to meet me after finding out said piece of info.

Uncalled for but never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhh man really that sucks... i had an axe murderer fetish as well haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s not to cool at all. Neither is it cool for people to ask questions about who you’ve met and things about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It’s never ok whether the person is from here or every day life. I’m sorry if this has happened to you OP

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"ohhh man really that sucks... i had an axe murderer fetish as well haha "

Aww damnit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gone are my bragging days tonthe point theres nothing to brag about. Its just what i like and what i do in my spare time so keep it to myself. Tell people to much and they end up having an opinion based on there standards. So what they dont know wont hurt them/me in the process. No brainer. But what i will say and im not saying it about all but ive dated women in the real world that ive trusted and been open from the start about past relation for them to only go and investigate and ask exs what im like. So inevitably there in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless there’s people watching it or it’s being recorded for public _iewing (with full consent of course!) then it’s nobody else’s business.

Even if the other party writes a blow by blow detailed Verification, you don’t have to share it with the world. It’s what hidden Varis are for.

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston

I admit I used the veri process when I first joined as I believed I had to prove myself, but I don’t bother at all now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit I used the veri process when I first joined as I believed I had to prove myself, but I don’t bother at all now. "

Similar to this, but it was not to prove anything because with or without veri's my journey would have still been a pleasurable one. At one point I had over a 100 veri's and if I had none it would not have stopped me from enjoying myself. Fellow seasoned Fabbers remember that well

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

Our veris show who we are, a bit about our character, appearance and that we are real...

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