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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone got any tips for a fella just starting out. What do u say to the lady's and the couple's. The guys are all friendly. Just saying hi you wanna fuck never got any body anywhere. Lol so pls help.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Anyone got any tips for a fella just starting out. What do u say to the lady's and the couple's. The guys are all friendly. Just saying hi you wanna fuck never got any body anywhere. Lol so pls help."

Hi and welcome. Just be yourself, get involved on the forum and chat away. And remember, as a single guy you could have an uphill struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why what's wrong with being single. I'm not looking for love or a relationship. Or is that just the way of things? Thanks for your input tho. Much appreciated.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with the forum/cam room chat. It will take a while to get "noticed" but hey, just go about it to make friends. Anything else is a bonus...good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nervous. But I'll get over it lol thanks for the help.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Why what's wrong with being single. I'm not looking for love or a relationship. Or is that just the way of things? Thanks for your input tho. Much appreciated."

Nothing at all wrong with being single, just that there are a lot of single guys on here and therefore a lot of competition for the attention of the people you are looking for. Wasn't a criticism, just letting you know.

When you reply to a comment, if you hit reply+quote (grey box on the right) it makes it easier to see who you're talking to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why what's wrong with being single. I'm not looking for love or a relationship. Or is that just the way of things? Thanks for your input tho. Much appreciated.

Nothing at all wrong with being single, just that there are a lot of single guys on here and therefore a lot of competition for the attention of the people you are looking for. Wasn't a criticism, just letting you know.

When you reply to a comment, if you hit reply+quote (grey box on the right) it makes it easier to see who you're talking to "

Ok thanks very much. Here goes nothing lol

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Maybe try putting a bit more on your profile to say a bit of you and your personality to stand out. Also maybe some more photos but not all dick pics. Shoulders, bums, backs are all under rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some more pictures of something other than your cock will go a long way to putting you ahead of a lot of other guys. Also consider changing your profile picture; while there's women who don't mind dick pic profile pictures, most don't and will likely block you before they even read your message.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't get all angry and make a ranty post because women aren't falling at your feet.

Not saying you would, but sometimes guys come on and have a whinge, I doubt it makes them more attractive on here.

It's tough for men on here and you just have to accept that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe try putting a bit more on your profile to say a bit of you and your personality to stand out. Also maybe some more photos but not all dick pics. Shoulders, bums, backs are all under rated "

I was told dick pics. Is what people want. What if you don't have a nice body all muscles and tone. I've got a what's none as a dad body no one wants to see that do they. Or is it just me being shy. Pls be honest this is helping a lot. Thanks to all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get all angry and make a ranty post because women aren't falling at your feet.

Not saying you would, but sometimes guys come on and have a whinge, I doubt it makes them more attractive on here.

Ok and thanks for the help

It's tough for men on here and you just have to accept that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try putting a bit more on your profile to say a bit of you and your personality to stand out. Also maybe some more photos but not all dick pics. Shoulders, bums, backs are all under rated

I was told dick pics. Is what people want. What if you don't have a nice body all muscles and tone. I've got a what's none as a dad body no one wants to see that do they. Or is it just me being shy. Pls be honest this is helping a lot. Thanks to all. "

Trust me, there's all sorts of bodies on her and there's plenty of people who prefer the dad bod. In fact there's a forum thread about it almost weekly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some more pictures of something other than your cock will go a long way to putting you ahead of a lot of other guys. Also consider changing your profile picture; while there's women who don't mind dick pic profile pictures, most don't and will likely block you before they even read your message."

Ok change pics add more. Got it thanks very much mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe try putting a bit more on your profile to say a bit of you and your personality to stand out. Also maybe some more photos but not all dick pics. Shoulders, bums, backs are all under rated

I was told dick pics. Is what people want. What if you don't have a nice body all muscles and tone. I've got a what's none as a dad body no one wants to see that do they. Or is it just me being shy. Pls be honest this is helping a lot. Thanks to all.

Trust me, there's all sorts of bodies on her and there's plenty of people who prefer the dad bod. In fact there's a forum thread about it almost weekly "

Really wow. Ok thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe try putting a bit more on your profile to say a bit of you and your personality to stand out. Also maybe some more photos but not all dick pics. Shoulders, bums, backs are all under rated "

Ok I'll have to give that one some thought thanks very much for the help. Appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

speaking as a couple yes you do have a very big uphill challenge but its not impossible read their profiles completely if profile says no single guys etc then dont try be polite get to know them if they let you but dont go in guns blazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"speaking as a couple yes you do have a very big uphill challenge but its not impossible read their profiles completely if profile says no single guys etc then dont try be polite get to know them if they let you but dont go in guns blazing"

I would never do that. I always use my manners. That's why I was told I would get far on here. But thank you very much for the info.

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