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I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess 
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad  .
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ? "Yes i believe some guys can be too nice. I feel like I should mother them rather than fuck them.. | |||
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. " Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off  | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
Yes i believe some guys can be too nice. I feel like I should mother them rather than fuck them..
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"I like nice men Nice men are every bit as hot as arseholey men "We’ll that’s good to hear
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"I like nice guys but if they're too nice I often feel like I want to give them a shake and tell them to grow a pair! " I do have a pair of cahonas I think their just a little sweet for anyone to crave /desire | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
Yes i believe some guys can be too nice. I feel like I should mother them rather than fuck them..
I don’t need mothering ,
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"I like nice guys but if they're too nice I often feel like I want to give them a shake and tell them to grow a pair! " Oh yes this also! There’s a few like that for sure! | |||
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"I like nice men Nice men are every bit as hot as arseholey men "THIS | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
Yes i believe some guys can be too nice. I feel like I should mother them rather than fuck them..
I don’t need mothering ,
Pretty independent chap here
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"This is a general observation not a personal one. If I describe someone as too nice it's either a kind way of saying I'm not interested in them sexually or romantically or it's because they are so overly nice it comes across as creepy and desperate. There isn't a friend zone however men and wen can be friends, that is not second best to having sex with each other, friends are good things. " Well said..Exactly this | |||
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off "Welcome to paradise | |||
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"I like a gentleman with a dirty mind "Personally I’d say if you put my name in the dictionary ... This would be my description
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
Yes i believe some guys can be too nice. I feel like I should mother them rather than fuck them..
"I hate that. I come across as nice - perhaps too nice - and have had some girlfriends do the want to 'look after you' thing. Eventually they come to find out I'm not as nice as I first appeared. Still waters and all that... | |||
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"I like a gentleman with a dirty mind "Perfectly described as to what I want | |||
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"This is a general observation not a personal one. If I describe someone as too nice it's either a kind way of saying I'm not interested in them sexually or romantically or it's because they are so overly nice it comes across as creepy and desperate. There isn't a friend zone however men and wen can be friends, that is not second best to having sex with each other, friends are good things. Well said..Exactly this " Agreed. And using it as an angle for contacts moves it into the creepy zone... | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol. "I think I may try a little too hard 
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know 
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off
Welcome to paradise "Where’s paradise for you ?
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off
Welcome to paradise
Where’s paradise for you ?
Asking for a friend "Nowhere near you I’m afraid  | |||
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off
Welcome to paradise
Where’s paradise for you ?
Asking for a friend
Nowhere near you I’m afraid "Or your friend! | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol.
I think I may try a little too hard
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know
I may just not have got good game "There is no such thing as the perfect gentleman because we all like different things about men. For me I love someone I can talk to and laugh with and find them attractive by their personality. Too nice can be creepy(depending on what they say) and too pushy is an off put for me personally xx | |||
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"This is a general observation not a personal one. If I describe someone as too nice it's either a kind way of saying I'm not interested in them sexually or romantically or it's because they are so overly nice it comes across as creepy and desperate. There isn't a friend zone however men and wen can be friends, that is not second best to having sex with each other, friends are good things. " This, although I will add that I often feel that people who are sickeningly nice all the time just seem fake to me - this to me spells duplicity, which is a quality I don't much care for. | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol.
I think I may try a little too hard
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know
I may just not have got good game There is no such thing as the perfect gentleman because we all like different things about men. For me I love someone I can talk to and laugh with and find them attractive by their personality. Too nice can be creepy(depending on what they say) and too pushy is an off put for me personally xx"
I may just need to grab the bull by the horn and kick myself into better banter and stop trying to please all the time | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol.
I think I may try a little too hard
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know
I may just not have got good game There is no such thing as the perfect gentleman because we all like different things about men. For me I love someone I can talk to and laugh with and find them attractive by their personality. Too nice can be creepy(depending on what they say) and too pushy is an off put for me personally xx
I may just need to grab the bull by the horn and kick myself into better banter and stop trying to please all the time "nice is good. Too nice is scary pmsl. Only joking. Be yourself. That's what matters most | |||
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"I think it depends on the way a guy demonstrates his niceness. I was a nice boy when I was pre-teens. But being nice became less important than other qualities as I grew up. Being compassionate and kind are more important to me now than being nice. Being ruthless at times is more important to me now than being nice. Achieving things, making a difference to the world around me and learning to act with more integrity are all more important to me than being nice now. That said being nice is much better than me behaving in a self-centred, selfish way deliberately taking advantage of others to satisfy my own needs, although In all honesty I do that too at times, but hopefully less and less often."
Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want (sorry it had to be said lol).
I think the reason women treat me like crap sometimes is that they see me as nice but then the attraction isn't there, and they don't know why, so they kinda end up ghosting me... not deliberately but more out of confusion as to why I'm not doing it for them.
Even had one woman I was dating me message me to apologise for disappearing only to immediately ghost me again.
I've learned a few things and do better now but occasionally I'll do something weak and it's over.
If you want advice, ask an Alpha male who's not too much of a jerk, you'll find them under a pile of women covered in the sweet scent of pussy | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol.
I think I may try a little too hard
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know
I may just not have got good game "If you are a perfect gentleman you will come across as one. There is no game. Most women can tell when a man is trying too hard to appear to be something. That's another reason they describe men as too nice. There are men who want all women to see them as a great guy that they want to have sex with. Personable, sexy, a gentleman etc etc. Most men aren't 007, they're just men and women understand that. | |||
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"I think it depends on the way a guy demonstrates his niceness. I was a nice boy when I was pre-teens. But being nice became less important than other qualities as I grew up. Being compassionate and kind are more important to me now than being nice. Being ruthless at times is more important to me now than being nice. Achieving things, making a difference to the world around me and learning to act with more integrity are all more important to me than being nice now. That said being nice is much better than me behaving in a self-centred, selfish way deliberately taking advantage of others to satisfy my own needs, although In all honesty I do that too at times, but hopefully less and less often.
Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want (sorry it had to be said lol).
I think the reason women treat me like crap sometimes is that they see me as nice but then the attraction isn't there, and they don't know why, so they kinda end up ghosting me... not deliberately but more out of confusion as to why I'm not doing it for them.
Even had one woman I was dating me message me to apologise for disappearing only to immediately ghost me again.
I've learned a few things and do better now but occasionally I'll do something weak and it's over.
If you want advice, ask an Alpha male who's not too much of a jerk, you'll find them under a pile of women covered in the sweet scent of pussy "Do you really believe this? | |||
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"I think it depends on the way a guy demonstrates his niceness. I was a nice boy when I was pre-teens. But being nice became less important than other qualities as I grew up. Being compassionate and kind are more important to me now than being nice. Being ruthless at times is more important to me now than being nice. Achieving things, making a difference to the world around me and learning to act with more integrity are all more important to me than being nice now. That said being nice is much better than me behaving in a self-centred, selfish way deliberately taking advantage of others to satisfy my own needs, although In all honesty I do that too at times, but hopefully less and less often.
Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want (sorry it had to be said lol).
I think the reason women treat me like crap sometimes is that they see me as nice but then the attraction isn't there, and they don't know why, so they kinda end up ghosting me... not deliberately but more out of confusion as to why I'm not doing it for them.
Even had one woman I was dating me message me to apologise for disappearing only to immediately ghost me again.
I've learned a few things and do better now but occasionally I'll do something weak and it's over.
If you want advice, ask an Alpha male who's not too much of a jerk, you'll find them under a pile of women covered in the sweet scent of pussy "Anyone with alpha male on their profile is an immediate no thanks from me so that’s not strictly true! | |||
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"I think it depends on the way a guy demonstrates his niceness. I was a nice boy when I was pre-teens. But being nice became less important than other qualities as I grew up. Being compassionate and kind are more important to me now than being nice. Being ruthless at times is more important to me now than being nice. Achieving things, making a difference to the world around me and learning to act with more integrity are all more important to me than being nice now. That said being nice is much better than me behaving in a self-centred, selfish way deliberately taking advantage of others to satisfy my own needs, although In all honesty I do that too at times, but hopefully less and less often.
Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want (sorry it had to be said lol).
I think the reason women treat me like crap sometimes is that they see me as nice but then the attraction isn't there, and they don't know why, so they kinda end up ghosting me... not deliberately but more out of confusion as to why I'm not doing it for them.
Even had one woman I was dating me message me to apologise for disappearing only to immediately ghost me again.
I've learned a few things and do better now but occasionally I'll do something weak and it's over.
If you want advice, ask an Alpha male who's not too much of a jerk, you'll find them under a pile of women covered in the sweet scent of pussy
Anyone with alpha male on their profile is an immediate no thanks from me so that’s not strictly true!" | |||
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"I think it depends on the way a guy demonstrates his niceness. I was a nice boy when I was pre-teens. But being nice became less important than other qualities as I grew up. Being compassionate and kind are more important to me now than being nice. Being ruthless at times is more important to me now than being nice. Achieving things, making a difference to the world around me and learning to act with more integrity are all more important to me than being nice now. That said being nice is much better than me behaving in a self-centred, selfish way deliberately taking advantage of others to satisfy my own needs, although In all honesty I do that too at times, but hopefully less and less often.
Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want (sorry it had to be said lol).
I think the reason women treat me like crap sometimes is that they see me as nice but then the attraction isn't there, and they don't know why, so they kinda end up ghosting me... not deliberately but more out of confusion as to why I'm not doing it for them.
Even had one woman I was dating me message me to apologise for disappearing only to immediately ghost me again.
I've learned a few things and do better now but occasionally I'll do something weak and it's over.
If you want advice, ask an Alpha male who's not too much of a jerk, you'll find them under a pile of women covered in the sweet scent of pussy " | |||
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"Anyone with alpha male on their profile is an immediate no thanks from me so that’s not strictly true!" Yeah of course, maybe that was the wrong term to use because people have different ideas about what it means. I mean someone who's mature, responsible, and who's happy with his own relationships with women rather than pretending to know it all. FYI, I don't consider myself an alpha, only I've got a lot of bad advice in the past on this topic and it tended to be older, wiser, men now settled down with families that helped. They weren't speaking out of ego or trying to prove something. | |||
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"Do you really believe this? " With reference to my most recent post, which bit? | |||
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"Do you really believe this? With reference to my most recent post, which bit?" That in your experience women are awful at making the distinction between genuine niceness and weakness and knowing what they want | |||
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"I have a fab friend who is just far too nice to even think of anything sexual about him. He tries far too hard to be nice and I see him as just a friend. You cant win. You're either too nice to us or too cocky with us lol.
I think I may try a little too hard
I want to come across as the perfect gentleman I don’t know
I may just not have got good game
If you are a perfect gentleman you will come across as one. There is no game.
Most women can tell when a man is trying too hard to appear to be something. That's another reason they describe men as too nice.
There are men who want all women to see them as a great guy that they want to have sex with. Personable, sexy, a gentleman etc etc. Most men aren't 007, they're just men and women understand that. "This sums it up perfectly for me - too many on here try to be appealing to all when the truth is most probably 99% of the time you won't be. And off the back of that you can't make yourself "be" nice....you "are" nice in the eye of the beholder | |||
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"Do you really believe this? With reference to my most recent post, which bit? That in your experience women are awful at making the distinction between genuine niceness and weakness and knowing what they want" The way you've put it sounds worse lol "Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want" In terms of giving advice, yes, many women have encouraged my niceness when really what I needed to do was grow up and become stronger. It had been a tradition in many societies for adolescent boys to be taken away from their, possibly over-protective, mothers for a period and be taught how to be a man. We don't do that much anymore. If the problem of being too nice is essentially boys not having been taught how to act as men, then asking women isn't going to be the best way forward and is actually a symptom of the problem... you need to ask men. As for the bit about knowing what you want, all I can say is that I often don't fully understand why I find one woman attractive and not another (personality wise). You may know intuitively, and perhaps with experience you gain a better understanding? It is difficult for me to understand why some women I've dated seemed really kind in person and then seemingly felt it was suddenly ok to be very disrespectful. The explanation that I was unwittingly doing something wrong, which they didn't know how to respond to, is the best and most generous one I've come up with so far. Hopefully that's clearer, because I think what I was trying to convey is much less controversial than how it may have sounded. | |||
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"I think most ladies prefer nice guys to twats. Could it be that you have no game?" No game???? | |||
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"I think most ladies prefer nice guys to twats. Could it be that you have no game? No game????" I think he’s referring to me being a bit of a wet lettuce and not being able to approach or chat woman up
What he doesn’t know is that I’m an incredible dancer which starts a conversation that lasts for hours | |||
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"I think most ladies prefer nice guys to twats. Could it be that you have no game? No game???? I think he’s referring to me being a bit of a wet lettuce and not being able to approach or chat woman up
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"Do you really believe this? With reference to my most recent post, which bit? That in your experience women are awful at making the distinction between genuine niceness and weakness and knowing what they want The way you've put it sounds worse lol Being nice isn't attractive if you're doing it because you're weak. In my experience women are pretty awful at making this distinction and knowing what they want" I thought I summed it up pretty succinctly "In terms of giving advice, yes, many women have encouraged my niceness when really what I needed to do was grow up and become stronger." I'm not sure what you mean here. Women have encouraged you to be nice but you needed something different. That just means you weren't right for each other I suppose "It had been a tradition in many societies for adolescent boys to be taken away from their, possibly over-protective, mothers for a period and be taught how to be a man. We don't do that much anymore. If the problem of being too nice is essentially boys not having been taught how to act as men, then asking women isn't going to be the best way forward and is actually a symptom of the problem... you need to ask men." I disagree that being too nice is a problem and that niceness is not a masculine quality. Being too nice has nothing to do with not being taught to be men. Men don't complain that their male friends find them too nice, only that women they want to have sex with do, I think that the problem is that "some" men can't accept that the women they are friend with don't want to have sex with them. "As for the bit about knowing what you want, all I can say is that I often don't fully understand why I find one woman attractive and not another (personality wise). You may know intuitively, and perhaps with experience you gain a better understanding? It is difficult for me to understand why some women I've dated seemed really kind in person and then seemingly felt it was suddenly ok to be very disrespectful. The explanation that I was unwittingly doing something wrong, which they didn't know how to respond to, is the best and most generous one I've come up with so far." They suddenly felt the need to be disrespectful either because they aren't very nice or they couldn't think of another way to end things with you "Hopefully that's clearer, because I think what I was trying to convey is much less controversial than how it may have sounded. " It's a bit clearer but controversy isn't always a bad thing, its good to discuss stuff, it helps people understand each other | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ? "You sound perfect. I love nice men, but you can be kind, be a gentleman, make me laugh etc, as long as you are filthy and dominant in the bedroom! ‘A bit of a lad’ is a turn off for me Hippy | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol "And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves. By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless. | |||
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"Forest Gump’s mum said stupid is as stupid does, which I read as you are as you act. Hopefully you guys out there don’t think that I act like a dick. "Well......just kidding | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ? "I still fuck them but wish they would be more assertive . I love being pushed against the wall, kissed hard and my clothes ripped off. Sometimes it is me that has to do this to them. | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
I still fuck them but wish they would be more assertive . I love being pushed against the wall, kissed hard and my clothes ripped off. Sometimes it is me that has to do this to them.
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Just getting I just need the chance
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"I do have a soft spot for good old fashioned men who know how to treat a lady. Give me nice anyday" I’m just out of your age bracket and we live miles apart I’m gutted | |||
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"I'd say you're a rare gem to find - I like nice guys who are a little old fashioned in how they treat their ladies. " Kind of you to say | |||
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"I like nice guys, not into that "lad" stuff or playing games. Stay as you are OP, plenty of nice women out there who will like you for being you x" Thank you lovely I’ll keep my fingers crossed | |||
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"I do have a soft spot for good old fashioned men who know how to treat a lady. Give me nice anyday I’m just out of your age bracket and we live miles apart I’m gutted "Life is so unfair!  | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol
And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves.
By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless."That's one hell of a patronising post you've attached to mine, and what makes you think I'm constantly changing or trying to be something im not??? I'm simply polite with girls. Not however with patronising fucking idiots | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol
And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves.
By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless.
That's one hell of a patronising post you've attached to mine, and what makes you think I'm constantly changing or trying to be something im not???
I'm simply polite with girls. Not however with patronising fucking idiots
"I think you missed the bit where I said "not saying you do necessarily" so if you've taken my post as a comment on you personally then not my intent in the slightest, and I apologise unreservedly if you have taken it that way. But I stand by the basis of what I said in that a lot of guys *do* try to be something to everyone. Again apologies if I've caused offence | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ? "My experience is many ladies like compassionate empathic men who treat them as both individuals and equals Many are not so keen on sycophantic chameleons yes men Both can be defined as nice The majority of ladies iv had the pleasure of spending quality time have expressed their total disdain for the insipid bland and inarticulate use of the meh word "nice" However I think it fair to suggest if a lady desires the fire in your eyes and pants being what you call nice wont put them off  | |||
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"I disagree. I like nice guys. Oh really ... well your profile says you’re currently in paradise ... I’m currently working in paradise at the moment .. and haven’t seen you around . But I’d love to take you out for a drink and a laugh when corona has packed up and tucked off
Welcome to paradise
Where’s paradise for you ?
Asking for a friend
Nowhere near you I’m afraid
Or your friend!"Seems its about 90 odd miles from me! | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol
And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves.
By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless.
That's one hell of a patronising post you've attached to mine, and what makes you think I'm constantly changing or trying to be something im not???
I'm simply polite with girls. Not however with patronising fucking idiots
"This is a forum: he made a general observation that you have misread, and misapplied to yourself. Your reasons for that are your own, but that does not make your insult justified, it just proves his point. | |||
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In all seriousness, be your self, be Confident in who you are, confidence sells yourself. | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol
And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves.
By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless.
That's one hell of a patronising post you've attached to mine, and what makes you think I'm constantly changing or trying to be something im not???
I'm simply polite with girls. Not however with patronising fucking idiots
This is a forum: he made a general observation that you have misread, and misapplied to yourself. Your reasons for that are your own, but that does not make your insult justified, it just proves his point. "Errrr it was attached to my post therefore it insinuates its regarding me doesn't it? I do not as he spoke of change my persona to try and fit in OR try to be something I'm not. 2 years I've been on fab and I defy anyone friend or not to say I'm not one of the most genuine guys they've ever met or spoken too. It is a forum and I believe in his freedom to speak his mind as I also have the fredom to defend my character but do it on his own post. "And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here" was written directly under my post, what part of this statement have I misconstrued btw? It reads as if it's very much to do with me. | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ? "There is no thing as being too nice. Women don't put men in ths friend zone, men put themselves in the friend zone by the little things they say and do 'wrong'. Subconsciously a woman will 'make up her mind' if she's into you or not. There's a lot of info out there from sp called coaches that work. I've tried it all out and have probably fucked more women from POF and bumble theb here on fab | |||
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"I am this I think in texts but only to show my keenness. In real life I'm just a regular guy. I like other guys no I'm just one in a sea of a 1000 guys and I guess I over compensate in my efforts to not come across as an idiot... doesn't work though lol
And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here - not saying you do necessarily, but a lot seem to want to appeal to all and try too hard to fit themselves to what they "think" people are looking for, rather than realising, and accepting, that they'll probably only appeal to about 1% of people and just being themselves.
By constantly changing to try to be something they're not they never actually find the 1% that would have found them appealing regardless.
That's one hell of a patronising post you've attached to mine, and what makes you think I'm constantly changing or trying to be something im not???
I'm simply polite with girls. Not however with patronising fucking idiots
This is a forum: he made a general observation that you have misread, and misapplied to yourself. Your reasons for that are your own, but that does not make your insult justified, it just proves his point. "" Errrr it was attached to my post therefore it insinuates its regarding me doesn't it? " It says that your comments (but maybe not you) created an appropriate point to say it "I do not as he spoke of change my persona to to fit in OR try to be something I'm not. 2 years I've been on fab and I defy anyone friend or not to say I'm not one of the most genuine guys they've ever met or spoken too." By genuine I *assume* you mean consistant, unchanging, he says very clearly "not saying you do necessarily" "It is a forum and I believe in his freedom to speak his mind as I also have the fredom to defend my character but do it on his own post. "And this is where I think a lot of guys fail on here" was written directly under my post, what part of this statement have I misconstrued btw? It reads as if it's very much to do with me." Again - "not saying you do necessarily" in his opening sentence seems pretty clear to me. Of course you have a right to defend yourself, however a "nice" guy who leaps to calling someone a "patronizing fucking idiot" for a reasoned observation may want to reconsider their vehemence. The fact you are "only polite with girls" is telling. Nice people tend to not focus on gender as the reason for their approach. It may be heat of discussion but something to consider. | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
There is no thing as being too nice. Women don't put men in ths friend zone, men put themselves in the friend zone by the little things they say and do 'wrong'. Subconsciously a woman will 'make up her mind' if she's into you or not.
There's a lot of info out there from sp called coaches that work. I've tried it all out and have probably fucked more women from POF and bumble theb here on fab"What kind of coaches? | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
There is no thing as being too nice. Women don't put men in ths friend zone, men put themselves in the friend zone by the little things they say and do 'wrong'. Subconsciously a woman will 'make up her mind' if she's into you or not.
There's a lot of info out there from sp called coaches that work. I've tried it all out and have probably fucked more women from POF and bumble theb here on fab
What kind of coaches?"Private message me if you like. In general, women will subconsciously shit test a guy (read up what it is) and if you 'fail' you're immediately relegated to the no fuck zone. I'm talking real dating here and not Fab dating. Not being sexist here or owt like that, but women like to date 'up' if you appear to be below her at any stage it's over. Always had a problem until I did some research | |||
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Perfectly described as to what I want "Yup... a Gentleman who will open the door for you and spank your bum as you enter! | |||
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"I like a gentleman with a dirty mind
Perfectly described as to what I want
Yup... a Gentleman who will open the door for you and spank your bum as you enter! "A gentleman with the ability to be a pure devil just by getting THAT glint in his eye. That's what I need in my life | |||
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"I like a gentleman with a dirty mind
Perfectly described as to what I want
Yup... a Gentleman who will open the door for you and spank your bum as you enter! "I think those kind are still in the 1970s | |||
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"I think I’m too much of a nice guy for woman to think oooft I wanna tip his clothes off
I feel I fall into the friend zone because I don’t have that edginess
I make a lady smile, treat her like a lady , pay for the date sometimes cry with laughter but I wish I was a bit more of a lad .
Ladies are guys too nice to fuck that you only see them as friends or like a brother ?
My experience is many ladies like compassionate empathic men who treat them as both individuals and equals
Many are not so keen on sycophantic chameleons yes men
Both can be defined as nice
The majority of ladies iv had the pleasure of spending quality time have expressed their total disdain for the insipid bland and inarticulate use of the meh word "nice"
However I think it fair to suggest if a lady desires the fire in your eyes and pants being what you call nice wont put them off "This!! Being a good and kind person is attractive. Being a wet flannel with no interests or opinions of your own and just claiming to like everything I do and agree with everything I say is both boring and transparent. As is only being "nice" to try and get what you want from a woman. That isn't nice, it's manipulation. | |||
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