FabSwingers.com forum: What’s with straight men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

They like your bum, I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the fab "straight" syndrome

That and what he said

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I'm straight and look at lots of bi fems..its allowed

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Looking is fine now touching that’s another matter

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

People csn still be interested to find out about somebody even if they are not sexually attracted to them can't they?

There's a diffence between looking at your profile and coming on to you.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating "

But there’s a difference bwee looking once and looking 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and multiple messages

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating

But there’s a difference bwee looking once and looking 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and multiple messages "

Means they are interested then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren’t straight. People lie

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Either can't get a meet from women or desperately horny lol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Maybe you were on their "looked at me list".

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating

But there’s a difference bwee looking once and looking 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and multiple messages

Means they are interested then

Sometimes to themselves as well. Denial is more than a river...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe you were on their "looked at me list"."

That is completely impossible as my when I look a filter my search to men who are looking for ts/tv and tick the bi/ guy button at the bottom so there is no way I could possibly look at they profile if they set to stright and only looking for woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous."

Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous.

Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman "

Must be my filters. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They aren’t straight. People lie"

Never! People on Fab lying!

I never knew....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it, they look at straight profiles and fab their pics too... some guys are lying to themselves as well as others on this site

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Fab straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They aren’t straight. People lie

Never! People on Fab lying!

I never knew...."

I know. It’s awful, but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of men say straight and openly want to meet me, alone for sex, found it odd at first, then realised how many single women say no to a bi man. Just keeping themselves in the game I suppose.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Lots of men say straight and openly want to meet me, alone for sex, found it odd at first, then realised how many single women say no to a bi man. Just keeping themselves in the game I suppose.

This,I get more messages from straight men than any other gender combo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll do it - doesn’t make me gay/bi?

I see an attractive man, I’ll click and be like ‘damn, he’s a good looking man’ then leave - there’s nothing to it....

Plus there’s a few TS on here that are very very attractive...

Because I pick up a toy, doesn’t mean I’m going to play with it

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman "

Alot will say that they are straight as they don't fancy men or tvs and don't want a relationship with one. So yeah they are 100 per cent straight but just love sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman... "

It's simple, the woman here are in short supply and often hard to get, so guys look for the next best thing - a guy that looks like a lady and enjoys taking it in the ass. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab straight until they are comfortable in their own skin the maybe bi but it’s their adventure not ours so we say enjoy but your lack of honesty is not for us.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I never question those that look, it’s nice to know that in some way I’ve interested them enough to glance at me or on occasion ‘fab’ a picture or two. But unless it’s followed up with a wink or a message I’ll leave it.

Yes I get messages everyday off straight guys but due to Covid or not the best time for me to dress (got my kids over, working or just being lazy) the majority of the time it comes to nothing.

That’s Fab for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stacey Dooley covered some of this in her programme Sex In Strange Places.

In Turkey a lot of self described 'straight, family men' sleep with transexual prostitutes. Some of the reasons are because they are cheaper - not allowed to work in the state run brothels, better at satisfying a man than the women, they are not cheating on their wives because they are not sleeping with a woman, or they are actually gay.

It's well worth a watch if it's on iPlayer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My question too. I'm getting the same people looking everyday with nothing new to see on my profile. I need them all to shoot their shot, I'm nice I promise

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

And what's with the straight women flirting with all the sexy ladies on the forums? Outrageous behaviour

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business."

Couldn't agree more (I was having a dig at myself btw)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business."

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business."

Exactly this which is why I always reply telling Male and TV/TS profiles which send me a message that I am straight and not interested in them that way personally but hope they find what they are looking for.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I looked at a Reliant Robin once. I dont want one though.

Sometimes people are just following a veri trail.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I look at lots of profiles, men women couples TV.. Doesn't mean anything. Maybe they just like the look of the avatar, maybe you've commented on something. Don't read too much into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab straight when it’s late

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

I find some tv/ts very attractive to look at does that make me bi/bi curious?

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I look at lots of profiles, men women couples TV.. Doesn't mean anything. Maybe they just like the look of the avatar, maybe you've commented on something. Don't read too much into it"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating "

Absolutely. A big difference between looking and messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

Surely most find it hot to see their profiles have had a good few looks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

I think they would know what they was getting into to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should change my profile if you're getting 100s of messages a day!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x"

It is a good reason to be concerned as it has happened to me, luckily it didn’t get too violent but the amount of abuse I got and threat has made sure I now only meet guys with verifications and generally in a public place like a club.

It wasn’t on this site by the way, but believe me if you’ve been in the position, you won’t go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With no disrespect to the OP maybe it’s out of blatant curiosity that they look, I’ve no interest in TV/TS on here or anywhere else but looking to see how feminine you are may be the only reason to look, there’s some TV/TS that you’d have to take a second look to know they were once men and there’s others that look like Steve from the bowling club who’s put on his wife’s flowery dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a look there, nice pictures btw,

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig "

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating "

I get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous.

Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman "

I don't get many views or messages so it's diffiy to see from your perspective....but if you go on a website designed to help people look at each other......?

Maybe you'll be the one to persuade them.....try and see it as a compliment rather than something to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With no disrespect to the OP maybe it’s out of blatant curiosity that they look, I’ve no interest in TV/TS on here or anywhere else but looking to see how feminine you are may be the only reason to look, there’s some TV/TS that you’d have to take a second look to know they were once men and there’s others that look like Steve from the bowling club who’s put on his wife’s flowery dress.

Hit hit escots if you don’t believe me just go look at aw you find 100s off profiles that are on fab escoting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

Yes it is and 1000% I glad someone understands the fears x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

That is awful. And understandably worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight but often look at an attractive woman's profile. I can appreciate beauty even if I'm not sexually attracted to it.

Sometimes it's the quality of the photo, sometimes I'm just being nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

That is awful. And understandably worrying.

And this is why I am asking the this exact question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x"

They know perfectly who you are. But always stay safe xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x

They know perfectly who you are. But always stay safe xx"

Thanks and I will x

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

When you say "super common" I'd have to know what you mean by that.

TV/TS make up a tiny percentage of the population, so any sexual encounter they have, isn't common.

And of these encounters between TV/TS and men, what kind of percentage of these encounters becomes violent. Super common by my interpretation, would be what say 50% of these or more, and I don't honestly believe that's the case. If it was anywhere near that high I doubt any TS would ever agree to meet.

Im sure these things do happen, but they are not super common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People csn still be interested to find out about somebody even if they are not sexually attracted to them can't they?

There's a diffence between looking at your profile and coming on to you. "

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Does it matter?

They like what they see. That’s all that matters.

Peoples sexuality is their own business.

It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig

Why would you assume things would turn nasty?

I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.

I think your looking too deeply into this.

If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.

That is awful. And understandably worrying.

And this is why I am asking the this exact question "

It's quite a leap between looking at some pictures and having a post sexual encounter violent episode. Not suggesting it doesn't happen, but unless you agree to meet one of the fab straight guys who have been looking at your profile... So can keep away from straight profiles if you choose to. Not sure we really need to judge people for looking at a publicly visible profile.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

curiosity or temptation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someones fishing for likes on their photos a little here. Go on then lets have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They see the pictures and pounce. They don't really engage with the profile, so they forget till the next time, and do the same thing again. The loop doesn't close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say "super common" I'd have to know what you mean by that.

TV/TS make up a tiny percentage of the population, so any sexual encounter they have, isn't common.

Im sure these things do happen, but they are not super common. "

You're right! Let's move on from your dismissive "why would you assume things would turn nasty" and my overcorrecting "super common" into agreeing this is a potentiality the OP has to consider, and therefore a valid concern for them, though obviously not a concern for you or me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a guy who insisted he was straight as he only meets TVs on Fab "as they're easy and only want to please the man, when they're dressed up I consider them women". A selfish lover to avoid i think, whatever your preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think someones fishing for likes on their photos a little here. Go on then lets have a look"

Wasn’t fishing for likes it was a legitimate question that’s all infact I would prefer to stay off the hot page to be honest with you as it just brings more unwanted attention to my profile

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"They're not straight but like to think they are.

It's hot though

It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x

It wasn’t on this site by the way, but believe me if you’ve been in the position, you won’t go back. "

Im sorry that you had to go through that, must have been very scary

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