FabSwingers.com forum: It's a new dawn

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, firstly I would like to thank all of the beautiful people who posted on Secret Service and sent me PMs yesterday following my decision to go. It was very kind of you all and meant a great deal.

I had a good 3 hour chat with a friend on the phone in the wee small hours this morning and have made the decision to stay.

Along with that decision, I have had a little tweak of my username and today have changed to Lois MkII. This is to signify that a slighty remodelled Lois is starting from now. I will still be the Lois that spreads positivity wherever I can. The Lois that tries to acknowledge everybody. However, the Lois that allowed certain people to get the better of her has been put in a box in Room 101. So you might find a slightly tougher exterior now but for those who get to look inside I will still be "lovely" Lois.

So I will finish this ramble now with a public service announcement on behalf of Lois MkII and remind you all of the following:

We are all human beings on here. We breathe the same, we love the same and we hurt the same as each other. Compassion goes a long way, a smile can warm your heart and brighten your day. A cutting remark hurts and leaves metaphorical scars. I won't say be kind but be the best person you can be.

Have a beautiful Monday everyone

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good morning MkII

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MkII

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Good Morning Lois

Yes, theres no space for unkind ness here.

Glad you are still with us

Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, firstly I would like to thank all of the beautiful people who posted on Secret Service and sent me PMs yesterday following my decision to go. It was very kind of you all and meant a great deal.

I had a good 3 hour chat with a friend on the phone in the wee small hours this morning and have made the decision to stay.

So I will finish this ramble now with a public service announcement on behalf of Lois MkII and remind you all of the following:

Have a beautiful Monday everyone

Lovely sentiment. Have a lovely day too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning OP

Happy Monday x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Morning MkII

Yay!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Morning Louis..I missed that thread. I'm really glad that I won't get to miss you because you aren't going anywhere. That my luv would have been such a shame for the forum xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm so glad! Happy Monday Lois MkII

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I couldn't help hearing Simon Bates in my head reading that with the "Our Tune" music behind it.

It's good you're feeling better about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning Lois , your kindness shines through ! Hope you have a lovely day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good morning MkII

D."

Morning D and Jo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"MkII

Like an old Ford I keep on going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good Morning Lois

Yes, theres no space for unkind ness here.

Glad you are still with us

Jo xx

Thanks Jo. Smiles all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww we haven't spoken but I love your positivity and I'm glad you've left those people in Room 101.

I also love the sentiment in this post. Everyone benefits from everyone being a little lovlier to the world. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, firstly I would like to thank all of the beautiful people who posted on Secret Service and sent me PMs yesterday following my decision to go. It was very kind of you all and meant a great deal.

I had a good 3 hour chat with a friend on the phone in the wee small hours this morning and have made the decision to stay.

So I will finish this ramble now with a public service announcement on behalf of Lois MkII and remind you all of the following:

Have a beautiful Monday everyone

Lovely sentiment. Have a lovely day too. "

Thank you. Let's hope it lasts throughout the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning OP

Happy Monday x"

Happy Monday to you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning MkII

Yay! "

Thanks for your message yesterday x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning Louis..I missed that thread. I'm really glad that I won't get to miss you because you aren't going anywhere. That my luv would have been such a shame for the forum xx"

I snuck it in during Secret Service hoping it would go slighty under the radar

So sadly you all have to put up with my right eye peering at you all from the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm so glad! Happy Monday Lois MkII

Loving the new avatar pic xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn't help hearing Simon Bates in my head reading that with the "Our Tune" music behind it.

It's good you're feeling better about things.

I used to love listening to Our Tune in the morning.

Have a beautiful Monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good morning Lois , your kindness shines through ! Hope you have a lovely day x"

Thank you. You too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww we haven't spoken but I love your positivity and I'm glad you've left those people in Room 101.

I also love the sentiment in this post. Everyone benefits from everyone being a little lovlier to the world. X"

Thank you. Many of us struggle with different things daily in these strange times so I try to spread smiles if I can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning Lois Mkll glad you decided to stay, the forums need more nice people like you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good morning Lois Mkll glad you decided to stay, the forums need more nice people like you x

Thank you AngieBu. I try my best. Which I know for some people can be trying in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version. "

Maybe I am just strange. I have heard the Muse version and don't hate it just not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version.

Maybe I am just strange. I have heard the Muse version and don't hate it just not my thing."

We're all strange in our own unique ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version.

Maybe I am just strange. I have heard the Muse version and don't hate it just not my thing.

We're all strange in our own unique ways

Nothing wrong with strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Lois

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know you wanted to leave! But I'll tell you now I am glad you are staying. You're one of the members that I love to see around the forums. You are so kind and embracing. I'd definitely miss your posts if you left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version.

Maybe I am just strange. I have heard the Muse version and don't hate it just not my thing.

We're all strange in our own unique ways

Nothing wrong with strange

Absolutely not. I've been called strange or weird by others for most of my life. I wear it as a badge of honour if someone says it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Lois"

I am still not serving at the bar!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't know you wanted to leave! But I'll tell you now I am glad you are staying. You're one of the members that I love to see around the forums. You are so kind and embracing. I'd definitely miss your posts if you left! "

Thanks LBC that is kind of you to say. I had hit a wall yesterday. A lovely friend sat on the top of it though reached a hand down and gave me a lift up.

Catch you in the nocturnal musings x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A new day..

I cannot get the earworm of the song out of my head now. Worse because I cannot stand it

And I'm feeling good...

How can you not like it?

If you've a music streaming service check out Muse's version.

Maybe I am just strange. I have heard the Muse version and don't hate it just not my thing.

We're all strange in our own unique ways

Nothing wrong with strange

Absolutely not. I've been called strange or weird by others for most of my life. I wear it as a badge of honour if someone says it.

I like being me and not a conformist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Monday Lois, great to hear your staying lovely

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’m happy you’re staying. Big hug. Mwahhhhhh

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yay! I’m pleased you had a chat with someone who changed your mind. Well done that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well stayed Lois

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happy Monday Lois, great to hear your staying lovely

Thanks Sparkles. I hope you are having a happy Monday too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m happy you’re staying. Big hug. Mwahhhhhh"

Oh I like getting

. Of course this means you will be subjected to my cygnet pictures still

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yay! I’m pleased you had a chat with someone who changed your mind. Well done that person

You helped too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well stayed Lois

Who will tell me about people pooping in the sea if I didn't

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Glad you decided to stay, would have missed seeing you on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad you decided to stay, would have missed seeing you on the forum

Thank you

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

Good of you to share Spurs

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

Good of you to share Spurs

Sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay Lois is staying, and welcome LoisMKII

I am so pleased for you and for us that you chose to stay. I didn't want to see another lovely person leave.

There's nothing wrong in wearing a little body armour to shield your heart. Just keep being you

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yay Lois is staying, and welcome LoisMKII

I am so pleased for you and for us that you chose to stay. I didn't want to see another lovely person leave.

There's nothing wrong in wearing a little body armour to shield your heart. Just keep being you

Her x"

Well that is a lovely welcome back not that you actually left message

Yes MkII has some slight body changes with squidgy lockdown bumpers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

Good of you to share Spurs

Sharing is caring

Absolutely and there is a lot of that on the conveyor belt of fab

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’m happy you’re staying. Big hug. Mwahhhhhh

Oh I like getting

. Of course this means you will be subjected to my cygnet pictures still

I’m counting on it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see a mkll version. Its impossible to leave anyway once you have found a cosy corner here, I shall give up trying. Glad all is well xx

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to see a mkll version. Its impossible to leave anyway once you have found a cosy corner here, I shall give up trying. Glad all is well xx

I had got used to my comfy bean bag in the corner of fab so it was hard to give it up. I have just given it a shake and and a bit of reinforcement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad to see a mkll version. Its impossible to leave anyway once you have found a cosy corner here, I shall give up trying. Glad all is well xx

I had got used to my comfy bean bag in the corner of fab so it was hard to give it up. I have just given it a shake and and a bit of reinforcement

Perfect xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very glad you’re staying. You’re absolutely lovely, and spread positivity and kindness in your wake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very glad you’re staying. You’re absolutely lovely, and spread positivity and kindness in your wake

Thanks HC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey MkII didnt know you were going but glad you stayed..remember non carborundum est x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey MkII didnt know you were going but glad you stayed..remember non carborundum est x

Indeed

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We've been Fab friends for quite a while a nd i always appreciate your compliments and the laughs we have.

So I'm extremely pleased you're still here.

Big Chunky hugs. Xxx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

welcome back Lois mk11

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

I don’t really know you but glad you’re staying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always so unaware of the inner workings here unless someone is public about it.

Glad you decided to stay xx

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have never spoken with you but you seem so positive carry on being you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have missed your eye ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've been Fab friends for quite a while a nd i always appreciate your compliments and the laughs we have.

So I'm extremely pleased you're still here.

Big Chunky hugs. Xxx"

Chunky hugs always received with thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"welcome back Lois mk11

Sophie you beauty that is my first ever

from you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t really know you but glad you’re staying!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am always so unaware of the inner workings here unless someone is public about it.

Glad you decided to stay xx"

Honestly I am oblivious to it most of the time too

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have never spoken with you but you seem so positive carry on being you xx"

I try. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd have missed your eye ...

I know right!

Someone has to keep an eye on you all

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

Good of you to share Spurs

Sharing is caring

Absolutely and there is a lot of that on the conveyor belt of fab

Good game, good game.... didn’t they do well

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yay. This is fantastic news.

Some people bring light to the forums and the world. You're one of them.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to see you sorted things out, onwards and upwards Trooper Lois... there’s bugs to splat

I am off on a splat attack now

Think I left you some after this morning’s splattering, in fact I’m sure I did, there are a lot of them about

Good of you to share Spurs

Sharing is caring

Absolutely and there is a lot of that on the conveyor belt of fab

Good game, good game.... didn’t they do well

I always wanted the cuddly toy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yay. This is fantastic news.

Some people bring light to the forums and the world. You're one of them.

Jo.Xx "

Aww Jo that is a beautiful thing to say. And oh so true - only kidding - thank you xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Morning MkII

Yay!

Thanks for your message yesterday x

I meant it and I'm so very pleased you're all rebranded and staying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning MkII

Yay!

Thanks for your message yesterday x

I meant it and I'm so very pleased you're all rebranded and staying

I keep scrolling through the forums posts and forget it is me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Morning MkII

Yay!

Thanks for your message yesterday x

I meant it and I'm so very pleased you're all rebranded and staying

I keep scrolling through the forums posts and forget it is me

I keep thinking about changing my name and then figure I'd confuse myself...

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Have a beautiful Monday everyone

I hope it works for you Lois.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have a beautiful Monday everyone

I hope it works for you Lois.

You have to try at least. We are fucked as a human race if we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to hear you are staying Lois! Don't ever change, be you always

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Glad you’re staying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad to hear you are staying Lois! Don't ever change, be you always

Nobody else could be as Lois as this Lois

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad you’re staying

Thanks Estella

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