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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What happened to respect ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask Otis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask Otis "

Perfect answer. Nuff said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a good one, you have to treat her with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect has to be earned. Have you dont anything worthy of gaining someones respect?

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Respect has to be earned. But manners can be associated with respect. Manners and respect are a must if I gonna meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Respect has to be earned. Have you dont anything worthy of gaining someones respect? "

Hate to answer a question with a question but

What are you talking about ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned. "

Agreed

But seems no one has any respect for anyone on here nowadays

It’s sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect has to be earned. Have you dont anything worthy of gaining someones respect?

Hate to answer a question with a question but

What are you talking about ?"

Sorry, have you done* anything worthy of gaining someone's respect?

Bad sunday morning proofreading by me there.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned. "

This is the right answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned. "

Agreed. Loyalty should be earned, respect should be automatic until it's lost.

Although different people mean different things by respect - some people are talking about basic human decency kind of respect, others are talking about their authority being respected. It's only the first of those that should be automatic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned.

Agreed. Loyalty should be earned, respect should be automatic until it's lost.

Although different people mean different things by respect - some people are talking about basic human decency kind of respect, others are talking about their authority being respected. It's only the first of those that should be automatic."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned.

Agreed. Loyalty should be earned, respect should be automatic until it's lost.

Although different people mean different things by respect - some people are talking about basic human decency kind of respect, others are talking about their authority being respected. It's only the first of those that should be automatic."

Can I change my answer to this please

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Respect from who to who?

Respect is a very subjective concept. A lot is down to interpretation.

I can respect a set of rules but carry them out totally differently to someone else.

It's also cultural. What is respect in one country is not in another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect needs to be gained.

I hate the whole ‘respect your elders!’ thing.

Why?

Yeah be polite, kind, friendly etc. But if they don’t respect me, my husband, my child etc...I’m not gonna respect them/tell my child to respect them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Respect needs to be gained.

I hate the whole ‘respect your elders!’ thing.

Why?

Yeah be polite, kind, friendly etc. But if they don’t respect me, my husband, my child etc...I’m not gonna respect them/tell my child to respect them. "

'Respect your elders' is often misinterpreted.

It doesn't mean listen to the miserable old cunt next door and say thank you to them for bursting your football....

It means..... understand they have lived a life and they creak a bit and move a little slowly.

Where I differ from you is that I show respect where none is needed because I respect myself.

To NOT show respect is to be the same as those you rail against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still give it as I want it back to

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Still give it as I want it back to "

Precisely x

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"What happened to respect ?"

It got 'dis-ed'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is this the same as being kind? We only have to do it to nice people who deserve it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to respect ?"

What made you post this though OP?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big believer in the whole "respect should be earned" thing. I think it should be that ingrained in your soul it's automatic. Now loyalty, loyalty should be earned.

Agreed

But seems no one has any respect for anyone on here nowadays

It’s sad "

In what way?

When did they have respect in the past?

What do you class as respect?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We always try to show respect, occasionally it gets thrown back in our faces but not very often.

Thankfully where we live and the people in or lives are very respectful. That is only of recent though. I used to work in a place where my work colleagues were completely disrespectful both physically and mentally. I wasn't prepared to put up with it so I got a new job elsewhere.Thankfully it's a great place to work where I am highly respected and valued.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What happened to respect ?"

You reap what you sow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone deserves my respect they get it. If they don’t they don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there are two different definitions of respect at play. On the one hand respect for an individual’s rights, dignity, wishes, property etc. is one definition and that for me is a given. When I say some behaviour is disrespectful I generally mean this. On the other hand there is the respect that comes from admiration for achievements, character, deeds etc.... In that case respect is based on actions for me and therefore is earned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else think this might be here, due to people not replying n wotnot though? I dunno, maybe it's just me jumping to conclusions... And too many similar posts

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