FabSwingers.com forum: Who are ya?

By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But can you comprise your heart without comprising your morals ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got soul ,funk and four to the floor x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But can you comprise your heart without comprising your morals ? "

No, I believe they are intertwined.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

My me-ness is being kind. Unfortunately it sometimes means I put myself at the bottom of the pile and make poor choices.

On the plus side, I’m hopefully not going to be a shit to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeerrrrmmm ...

I've had 2 glasses of wine so I'll try and be as coherent as possible

I think that I'm me regardless of environment and the people around me.

That's probably why I spend a lot of time on my own

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I am who I am.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I dance to my tune, no one else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am who I am."

I am my own special creation

Sing a long now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am who I am."

This

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m quite a positive person that’s because I would say from life experience. But to counterbalance I have a sarcastic sense of humour. So a all good rounder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I described myself earlier today....I am wee rainbow farting unicorn who swears too much. And if you don't like me...Ram it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And inner peace for me is not being affected by other people too much.

I stay away from social media apart from Fab, TV , newspapers etc ..

None of that information is good for my soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good question. I like to think I bring my own brand of sparkle, sass, wit and sarcasm to life.

I don't really care what others think of me and enjoy going my own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m feeling myself

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am a loner. Spend 90% of my life alone. This suits me as its good to be alone and happy rather than spend 90% of life not alone but sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"As I described myself earlier today....I am a wee rainbow swearing unicorn who farts too much. And if you don't like me...Ram it

Is that better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

As it was sang “ this is me “

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

I am and very happy now.x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

I like this

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals. "

My me ness

My true me ness doesn't think it can put 45 years of complexity into a sound bite

Beyond that I'm currently on a beach eating a very hot bbq cooked curry looking west into a setting sun sea and a horizon of mountains after exploring a local forest

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals. "

Very, very simple.

I am, without doubt, without question, an absolute fucking delight.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals. "

As for the morality

I think I like to follow the heart I trust her

Not my penis dont trust him

My point is my heart most likely would not need to venture into moral compromise

Thus I'd rather compromise my penis morally but not my heart

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm me.

Jo.Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No idea, I change constantly and I hope I never stop learning and evolving

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I am a totally different person here... to the ME outside of this virtual arena

Those I have met will recognise that

Those I have not met may be indifferent - people like people who are like themselves ...

Prickles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My "me" is ever evolving and open and changes day to day - I like to think that makes me different if not difficult to read....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beyond that I'm currently on a beach eating a very hot bbq cooked curry looking west into a setting sun sea and a horizon of mountains after exploring a local forest

I'm so jealous that sounds amazing x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What gives you inner peace?"

Fucking.

"Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?"

Everything, apparently. Externally: I tower over everyone I meet. Internally: My emotions don't seem to work like everyone else's do. It's taking a lifetime to unpick what that means and figure out how to navigate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

I like this.

I think that I am inclusive and kind. I look out for others and hate to see anybody hurting or desperate.

I reach our to people even if it means being ignored.

I have no ulterior motive other than to help people.

On here however some people are just mean when it comes to acts of kindness and think that they have the right to dump their excrement on you.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am what I am

Singing chilly peppers now....

....I think you're just lovely....

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Im not even sure who I am. I'm nice to people though. I like to compliment people when theyre not expecting it. Makes me happy and then worry that they'll think Im a weirdo

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Im not even sure who I am. I'm nice to people though. I like to compliment people when theyre not expecting it. Makes me happy and then worry that they'll think Im a weirdo

You are a fantastic weirdo, though.

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm also a straight forward complicated little fucker who wants everything and nothing all at once.

I'm responsibly irresponsible, laid back to fuck yet highly alert.

I'm sensitive, yet aggy, can be water off a ducks back or welcome to grudge city ya cunt.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This is more an essay question than a forum question

Brief... I can do brief (I can't do brief).

I am... striving. Always aiming for better. Pushing myself every which way.

Inner peace is... Cutting that shit out once in awhile

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m introspective and free spirited.

I sometimes feel like a balloon (easy now!) struggling to break free from the grasp of society, just wanting to fly away to somewhere different, usually somewhere more peaceful, and just be.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm also a straight forward complicated little fucker who wants everything and nothing all at once.

I'm responsibly irresponsible, laid back to fuck yet highly alert.

I'm sensitive, yet aggy, can be water off a ducks back or welcome to grudge city ya cunt.

Absolutely fantastic

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

That’s a lovely quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am what I am

Ain't we all ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I read something once...

Try to be that person you needed when you were lost.

I try to be."

I live this every day.

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Im not even sure who I am. I'm nice to people though. I like to compliment people when theyre not expecting it. Makes me happy and then worry that they'll think Im a weirdo

You are a fantastic weirdo, though.

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Takes one to know one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My arrogance and my modesty. And of course it doesn't hurt being smart sexy and funny at the same time. Now that I think about it, I'm a good catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just Scottish, but ultimately im just me, warts and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my beliefs and values but I am not them.

I have strengths and weaknesses but I’m not them

I have roles in the world but I am not them.

I have thoughts and feelings but I’m not them

I have flesh, fat, skin organs, blood and bone

I have a brain and a mind I’m not them

I have consciousness and awareness but I am not them

I have all those things and I’m none of them, yet.....I am.

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I have my beliefs and values but I am not them.

I have strengths and weaknesses but I’m not them

I have roles in the world but I am not them.

I have thoughts and feelings but I’m not them

I have flesh, fat, skin organs, blood and bone

I have a brain and a mind I’m not them

I have consciousness and awareness but I am not them

I have all those things and I’m none of them, yet.....I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m introspective and free spirited.

I sometimes feel like a balloon (easy now!) struggling to break free from the grasp of society, just wanting to fly away to somewhere different, usually somewhere more peaceful, and just be.

I know that tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a normal ordinary woman

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m Batman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happiest when I’m making other people happy.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My "me"? Thoughtful, caring, loyal, respectful and trusting, yet lacking confidence and self-belief - introverted yet open-minded - balanced and reasoned and always put others before myself - cross me however and I shan't bear grudges but I'll move on rapidly and avoid unless you give me good reason to change my mind.

In other words I'm a complicated bugger

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I speak my mind or avoid those people I think are wankers

I try to help people as much as I can, I'll go out if my way to do this

I'm also more forgiving to myself now than I was a few years ago, its given me an inner peace I never had before

It took a few complete breakdowns for this to happen

I'm an active volunteer and campaigner in the mental health sector, it's a massive part of my life

I've waffled on so long I've forgotten the gist of the question

Jo x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I speak my mind or avoid those people I think are wankers

I try to help people as much as I can, I'll go out if my way to do this

I'm also more forgiving to myself now than I was a few years ago, its given me an inner peace I never had before

It took a few complete breakdowns for this to happen

I'm an active volunteer and campaigner in the mental health sector, it's a massive part of my life

I've waffled on so long I've forgotten the gist of the question

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals.

Very, very simple.

I am, without doubt, without question, an absolute fucking delight."

Yes you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imperfectly perfect, that is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im groot

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Imperfectly perfect, that is me"

Aren't we all

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Me - I'm 21 stone of pure British beef who luvs to give hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do no harm

Take no sh*t"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me - I'm 21 stone of pure British beef who luvs to give hugs. "

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

Well I like trains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good questions OP..

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No idea. I never analyse myself really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And inner peace for me is not being affected by other people too much.

I stay away from social media apart from Fab, TV , newspapers etc ..

None of that information is good for my soul.

I tend to stay away from news in general. If it's a big enough event I will hear about it. No social media ever either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my partner and family say..Im a one off,unique..they threw away the mould...My soul and my spirit are very much connected to the natural way of things, natures ways not mankinds..I find wild solitary places easy to read but not so with society. I am boxless, boundless..no rules and no chains. No pigeon holes or categories..I m just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me is who I am. Imagination, not being swayed by fads and convention, being sceptical and questioning, looking behind the facade and not taking things at face value. Quiet, thinker, introspective, watcher, patient, problem solver. Annoying and frustrating with a mean temper when unleashed. Loner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am normal, thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A work in progress, but quite responsive, who I am depends on how you are towards me.

I can be scatty and forgetful, quick to anger, but quick to forgive. I own my mistakes and make them frequently!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

blubby, quirky and with very dark sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know, I lost myself years ago and am constantly searching for the person I’d be happy to be again. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A work in progress, but quite responsive, who I am depends on how you are towards me.

I can be scatty and forgetful, quick to anger, but quick to forgive. I own my mistakes and make them frequently!

You sound normal too

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

My resilience - it often reminds me of my younger and feistier self when someone drew their fist back at me, I looked them in the eye, stepped closer, and quietly said "make sure you put me down properly with the first punch, because if you don't I'm going to get up and kick the living daylights out of you". That's pretty much my take on life - if it doesn't kill me then I'm kicking it's arse and coming back stronger and wiser.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"My resilience - it often reminds me of my younger and feistier self when someone drew their fist back at me, I looked them in the eye, stepped closer, and quietly said "make sure you put me down properly with the first punch, because if you don't I'm going to get up and kick the living daylights out of you". That's pretty much my take on life - if it doesn't kill me then I'm kicking it's arse and coming back stronger and wiser. "

A good philosophy on life

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So? Who are you?

What I mean by that is what is it that makes you well, you?

Your core, your spirit, your soul. What gives you inner peace?

Is there anything about you that stands out as "odd" to you about yourself compared to other people?

My "me-ness" ... I would rather compromise my heart than compromise my morals.

Very, very simple.

I am, without doubt, without question, an absolute fucking delight.

Yes you are

Best kept secret on Fab that is.

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