FabSwingers.com forum: ‘You’ve got a pretty face but the body could do with some work’

By *urvesncurls OP Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Why bother messaging a bbw lady if you’re just going to be rude, in 7 months this is the first one I’ve had and I’m in a rage. How dare someone decide they can comment that I need improvement, I am well aware I’m not perfect by any stretch of the imagination but that’s for me to decide, no one else.

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By *ortherner26Man
over a year ago

North East

"Why bother messaging a bbw lady if you’re just going to be rude, in 7 months this is the first one I’ve had and I’m in a rage. How dare someone decide they can comment that I need improvement, I am well aware I’m not perfect by any stretch of the imagination but that’s for me to decide, no one else.

Ignore the tossers. You’re beautiful.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Did they comment after you turned them down by any chance.

You look fantastic so anyone who says different is obviously a knob.

Did he have veris on here ?

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By *aastyKnixWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It says a lot more about the person sending the message than it says about you. Their loss,not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just mean. Don't think they can help themselves. They need to make someone else feel small just to feel good about themselves. Just block and report.

Gorgeous bod, gorgeous face OP Love the photos - I'll spend some time fabbing and perving on them

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...because they have no chance of meeting you or you've already refused to contact them...

Welcome to Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual Hell? You’re beautiful. God, I hate people sometimes

You’re perfect for you, don’t let that idiot get you down my lovely. We’re all individuals and have our own perfections and flaws, it’s for us to judge, not others. They’re not worth your breath worrying over. There’s a world that is broken out there right now and it doesn’t need the people in it to be broken further by horrible and untrue comments.

You stick as you are, you’re a natural beauty and a whole woman. Just look at it as jealousy on their part because let’s face it, you wouldn’t lower yourself to go for them anyway- you’re way above their punching weight!

Go girl! And smile at their misfortune for having a horrible streak xxx

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Because he’s an idiot and idiots say idiot things.

Disregard what the idiots say, it’s like listening to Donald Trump - why would you take what he says seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I get shit like this all the time

Ranges from ‘Can I send you a work out routine for you to follow then I’ll meet you’ to ‘I’ll meet you when you have girly hair again’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can't help sharing their pain, they don't know how else to deal with it. They are more to be pitied than anything else.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No one is perfect but totally agree, what gives anyone the right to comment on us personally!

Some people are mindless twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning OP, you should have messaged back saying, “your not too handsome and that looks like a penis, only smaller, what am I supposed to do with that?”

Stay you and be beautiful as you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah I get shit like this all the time

Ranges from ‘Can I send you a work out routine for you to follow then I’ll meet you’ to ‘I’ll meet you when you have girly hair again’

The best ones are the ones asking when if I can get rid of my stretch marks. Bitch no

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Offt you're stunning though!!

Some people on here are just dense. They think because they are behind a screen they can say anything. Usually the outburst of negative comments come when I politely decline on meeting. Some abuse is quite imaginative, some just down right nasty. The ugly side of Fab for sure

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

Just looked at your pics and you look fabulous, the twat should of gone to specsavers

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

Often happens due to turning them down, all nice as pie and throwing out the compliments until you say thanks but not for us, then the abuse starts.

Occasionally though they do just turn up out of the blue. Had a couple of occasions where the only contact was to tell us that people like us shouldn't be on fab and our pics made them feel sick.

Didn't reply just blocked and deleted the messages.

Dont let it get you down just hold your head high and forget them.

Or in true Mrs Brown fashion reply with "That's nice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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there is nothing wrong with you at all, you look stunning

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Often happens due to turning them down, all nice as pie and throwing out the compliments until you say thanks but not for us, then the abuse starts.

Occasionally though they do just turn up out of the blue. Had a couple of occasions where the only contact was to tell us that people like us shouldn't be on fab and our pics made them feel sick.

Didn't reply just blocked and deleted the messages.

Dont let it get you down just hold your head high and forget them.

Or in true Mrs Brown fashion reply with "That's nice"

That is a great way to look at it and be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you've received a spiteful message. There is to much of this on here and in the world.

You - gorgeous

Him - cowardly shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scum, ignore it lass

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Dont let them timewasters get you down.

Alot of people are just that on here,timewasters.

You look amazing... love your hair...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Aww beautiful so sorry someone felt the need to do this

I used to get so annoyed at messages like this now I just block and move on. You are beautiful and for someone to want to bring you down like that says more about them than it ever does of you

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Love your boobs too ...

Sorry had to say it...

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Idiots huni that's all .dont let them get to you .your better than them ..I get it alot but f--k them !!

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Was that after you said no to them? I get that a lot. First you're hot af and once you turn them down the abuse starts...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The guy's an arsehole, but on the plus side, he might have a really nice guide dog.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You more you react, the more you empower them. They feed off a reaction.

Press block, press delete and you have given them nothing to thrive on.

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

"Ah I get shit like this all the time

Ranges from ‘Can I send you a work out routine for you to follow then I’ll meet you’ to ‘I’ll meet you when you have girly hair again’

The best ones are the ones asking when if I can get rid of my stretch marks. Bitch no

Jeebus

I do have a helpful suggestion for the stretch marks one though!! Instead of a paper one, suggest they apply a plastic bag to their head, they won't be able to see them then, and a hassle free life for everyone else, ta da!

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Quite simply some people are just utter twats

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By *urvesncurls OP Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Ahh wow, popped back to the forum and so lovely that so many of you have bothered to reply. This has really boosted me back up, thank you all so so much

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Ouch !!! Another one from the fab school of charm . Dont listen to them hun you are beutiful both inside and out . Personaly i thrive on derogatory comments from dick heads , fortunatly they are a minority though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simply some people are just utter twats"

What they said.

No need for such nastiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every one of us curvier girls get insults. I usually find it's from a guy with a face only a mother could love

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah some people are just arseholes you look lovely

Just ignore and block

I had a guy messaging how sexy my pics were and that he loved my curves then when I replied thanks but no thanks I was a stuck up bitch with my head up my massively fat arse

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By *heMarvel-ousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

This site can either boost your confidence no end or tear you right down, if you let it.

Some people are just cruel and don't realise quite how much damage you can do to a person with just words.

Block, delete, be the better person and find the ones that shower you in compliments and build that confidence up.

No one needs people like that in their lives. Your beautiful just as you are, because you are you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d reply with, “All the better for squashing rude people, I find.”

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I will close the thread now as sharing the content of any Private Message on the forum is not allowed, be that a positive or negative comment.

Report any abuse and an Admin will re_iew and take appropriate action.

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