FabSwingers.com forum: Favour

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it wrong to do a favour for a favour if you catch my drift???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry drift not caught i'm lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry drift not caught i'm lost"

I'm saying paying in kind!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what your prepared to do for that favour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes paying in kind, well it depends what the favour is???

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We often do trade favors/jobs with our friends. Why pay when we can exchange our skills.

But I'm guessing that's not what you are getting at.....No it's not wrong but not something I would do or feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you selling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We often do trade favors/jobs with our friends. Why pay when we can exchange our skills.

But I'm guessing that's not what you are getting at.....No it's not wrong but not something I would do or feel comfortable with."

Im thinking if its saves us money and we all have fun at the end then why not??? cant be prostiution can it as im not getting paid lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not something i would do, but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plus it helps if he is hot, lets see i have toilet that needs fixing and a garden that needs doing and odds job around the house dave works long hours so im looking for a hot handy man :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i see what you mean now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often do trade favors/jobs with our friends. Why pay when we can exchange our skills.

But I'm guessing that's not what you are getting at.....No it's not wrong but not something I would do or feel comfortable with.

Im thinking if its saves us money and we all have fun at the end then why not??? cant be prostiution can it as im not getting paid lol

ah right drift finally caught, each to their own but it wouldn't sit right with me doing sexual favours

although would happly give the equivilant cost wise in free hairdos the fuedal system works well for me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Plus it helps if he is hot, lets see i have toilet that needs fixing and a garden that needs doing and odds job around the house dave works long hours so im looking for a hot handy man :P"

I d be a bit concerned if anything went wrong, eg the toilet was not fixed or the shower was still leaking... How would you go about this?

Also, for me it would take the fun and freedom of the lifestyle away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus it helps if he is hot, lets see i have toilet that needs fixing and a garden that needs doing and odds job around the house dave works long hours so im looking for a hot handy man :P"

Sounds good to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id go down the job centre and pick out a guy you like the look of.

he will be bored and fed up. for a fuck i bet he would be round every day to fix your place up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex"

No we love swinging but one guy told me he was plumber who we were looking to meet and told him our toliet was broke then a light bulb went and i thought why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"id go down the job centre and pick out a guy you like the look of.

he will be bored and fed up. for a fuck i bet he would be round every day to fix your place up

Most of them at the job centre are d*unk and dont know what time of day it is so wouldnt let them anywhere near my toilet let alone my pussy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plus it helps if he is hot, lets see i have toilet that needs fixing and a garden that needs doing and odds job around the house dave works long hours so im looking for a hot handy man :P

I d be a bit concerned if anything went wrong, eg the toilet was not fixed or the shower was still leaking... How would you go about this?

Also, for me it would take the fun and freedom of the lifestyle away."

No job done then no blow job

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think there is no difference in providing sex for payment by cash or service.

but if you want to, go for it.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

No we love swinging but one guy told me he was plumber who we were looking to meet and told him our toliet was broke then a light bulb went and i thought why not "
I think you would be blurring boundaries between his professionalism and the scene. Imagine you were nt happy with the work and told him so, imagine further he went around telling people whom you would keep your life style a secret from...

Sounds like too many possible complications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there is no difference in providing sex for payment by cash or service.

but if you want to, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

No we love swinging but one guy told me he was plumber who we were looking to meet and told him our toliet was broke then a light bulb went and i thought why not I think you would be blurring boundaries between his professionalism and the scene. Imagine you were nt happy with the work and told him so, imagine further he went around telling people whom you would keep your life style a secret from...

Sounds like too many possible complications? "

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this some handyman fantasy you have seen in a recent porno?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

Sounds like too many possible complications?

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening"

but surely to do your loo he has to come to your house so surely that is your own doorstep

or am i being truely blonde?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

Sounds like too many possible complications?

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening"

Shall I let our local plumbers know that there is a very tempting new scheme about to be launched? ....;-)

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

Sounds like too many possible complications?

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening

but surely to do your loo he has to come to your house so surely that is your own doorstep

or am i being truely blonde?"

I think they mean that they would use workmen from out of their residential area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

Sounds like too many possible complications?

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening

but surely to do your loo he has to come to your house so surely that is your own doorstep

or am i being truely blonde?

I think they mean that they would use workmen from out of their residential area?"

ah right got ya

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plus we are very open about our lifestyle if no one likes it they can jog on, the only people i wouldnt like to find out is my kids and they are 4 and 2 so they would just think mummy and daddy go to the park all the time lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so basically instead of swinging you want to find someone who will do all your odd jobs for sex

Sounds like too many possible complications?

Nah we dont shit on our own doorstep so no chance of that happening

Shall I let our local plumbers know that there is a very tempting new scheme about to be launched? ....;-)

PMSL

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Plus we are very open about our lifestyle if no one likes it they can jog on, the only people i wouldnt like to find out is my kids and they are 4 and 2 so they would just think mummy and daddy go to the park all the time lol"

sure but 4 & 2 soon go to the school and if anything did get around the neighbourhood., they may be told at some point.

not saying it is wrong tho but it is a factor that needs to be considered.

also god forbid people split up, it can get less than amicable and start to fling mud..

the last comment is not aimed at you, it is something I have always wondered with couples and if they ever consider any impact. worthy of a seperate thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure but 4 & 2 soon go to the school and if anything did get around the neighbourhood., they may be told at some point.

not saying it is wrong tho but it is a factor that needs to be considered.

also god forbid people split up, it can get less than amicable and start to fling mud..

the last comment is not aimed at you, it is something I have always wondered with couples and if they ever consider any impact. worthy of a seperate thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sure but 4 & 2 soon go to the school and if anything did get around the neighbourhood., they may be told at some point.

not saying it is wrong tho but it is a factor that needs to be considered.

also god forbid people split up, it can get less than amicable and start to fling mud..

the last comment is not aimed at you, it is something I have always wondered with couples and if they ever consider any impact. worthy of a seperate thread

My son starts school in september and i know most of the mums already and most of them swing plus they have all little secrets of there own so dont think there will be a chance of that happening

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sure but 4 & 2 soon go to the school and if anything did get around the neighbourhood., they may be told at some point.

not saying it is wrong tho but it is a factor that needs to be considered.

also god forbid people split up, it can get less than amicable and start to fling mud..

the last comment is not aimed at you, it is something I have always wondered with couples and if they ever consider any impact. worthy of a seperate thread

My son starts school in september and i know most of the mums already and most of them swing plus they have all little secrets of there own so dont think there will be a chance of that happening"

cool, I did a separate thread

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have the tradesman fantasy but I could never imagine asking for real work that needs doing in exchange for sex. What if s/he feels that they didn't get a fair exchange? What if they completed the job and you really didn't fancy them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have the tradesman fantasy but I could never imagine asking for real work that needs doing in exchange for sex. What if s/he feels that they didn't get a fair exchange? What if they completed the job and you really didn't fancy them?"

Id make sure they are hot first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often do trade favors/jobs with our friends. Why pay when we can exchange our skills.

But I'm guessing that's not what you are getting at.....No it's not wrong but not something I would do or feel comfortable with.

Im thinking if its saves us money and we all have fun at the end then why not??? cant be prostiution can it as im not getting paid lol

ah right drift finally caught, each to their own but it wouldn't sit right with me doing sexual favours

although would happly give the equivilant cost wise in free hairdos the fuedal system works well for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no harm in a bit of fantasy roleplay in a sort of Lady Chatterley's Lover kind of scenario. You seduce the tradesmen and they fix ya plumbing. If they're members on here then all you're doing is adding a bit of spice to your fun. Go for it. I'm an electrician btw.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I think there is no difference in providing sex for payment by cash or service.

but if you want to, go for it.

Thats exactly how I see it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the hell not, it both are happy doing what they do then no problem, so when do you want your hair done

lol

Also you know mums that swing?? I'm all ears

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"id go down the job centre and pick out a guy you like the look of.

he will be bored and fed up. for a fuck i bet he would be round every day to fix your place up

Most of them at the job centre are d*unk and dont know what time of day it is so wouldnt let them anywhere near my toilet let alone my pussy lol"

I beg to differ there young lady, there are plenty of sober able bodied people who actively seeking work.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

sure but 4 & 2 soon go to the school and if anything did get around the neighbourhood., they may be told at some point.

not saying it is wrong tho but it is a factor that needs to be considered.

also god forbid people split up, it can get less than amicable and start to fling mud..

the last comment is not aimed at you, it is something I have always wondered with couples and if they ever consider any impact. worthy of a seperate thread

My son starts school in september and i know most of the mums already and most of them swing plus they have all little secrets of there own so dont think there will be a chance of that happening"

Most of the Mums at a primary school swing?......yeah ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"id go down the job centre and pick out a guy you like the look of.

he will be bored and fed up. for a fuck i bet he would be round every day to fix your place up

Most of them at the job centre are d*unk and dont know what time of day it is so wouldnt let them anywhere near my toilet let alone my pussy lol

I beg to differ there young lady, there are plenty of sober able bodied people who actively seeking work.

Not at reading job centre there isnt

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"id go down the job centre and pick out a guy you like the look of.

he will be bored and fed up. for a fuck i bet he would be round every day to fix your place up

Most of them at the job centre are d*unk and dont know what time of day it is so wouldnt let them anywhere near my toilet let alone my pussy lol

I beg to differ there young lady, there are plenty of sober able bodied people who actively seeking work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why the hell not, it both are happy doing what they do then no problem, so when do you want your hair done

lol

Also you know mums that swing?? I'm all ears

Hey you get it for free anyway maybe i should start charging you with haircuts lol x

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington

I honestly don't see this ending well. In principle so long as everyone involved is happy then everything should be fine, but human nature being what it is...I just have a bad feeling in my gut about the combination of sex and services.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I agree with the poster that said its no different than taking cash for services rendered...no different just sits better than saying you got paid in cash I suspect.Each to their own though. If you are comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often do trade favors/jobs with our friends. Why pay when we can exchange our skills.

But I'm guessing that's not what you are getting at.....No it's not wrong but not something I would do or feel comfortable with.

Im thinking if its saves us money and we all have fun at the end then why not??? cant be prostiution can it as im not getting paid lol

That's exactly what it is! Prostitution is the worlds oldest profession long before legal tender when goods or services were exchanged for sexual services.

That's not to say its wrong to exchange use of your body for money or services but it is what it is and that's prostitution.

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