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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve just got my first experience of how cruel Fab can be. Was chatting with someone I really liked for a couple of months, shared phone numbers and were planning to meet up for a coffee to see if we would click face to face. Then BAM!, I’m suddenly blocked without any explanation.

Sorry. Just had to rant....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

People are strange! Try not to let it get to you OP, oddly it happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you've had that experience but people are strange in real life as well as here - should there be any difference?

There's someone out there for whom is worthy of your time - we arent all the same as the lady who has apparently ghosted you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your head up bud. Happens to every one, as irritating as it is it comes good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive "

It does make even to most self sufficient among us wonder.

The person might have got cold feet and just couldn't go through with it.

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By *uck_NorrisMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive "
I feel you getting ghosted isn't great. I'd much rather people say look I'm no longer interested etc nothing wrong with being to sensitive Happy fabbing

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Sorry you've had that experience but people are strange in real life as well as here - should there be any difference?

There's someone out there for whom is worthy of your time - we arent all the same as the lady who has apparently ghosted you. "

I'm probably stranger in RL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive I feel you getting ghosted isn't great. I'd much rather people say look I'm no longer interested etc nothing wrong with being to sensitive Happy fabbing "

Yeah. I’d prefer just getting told “You’re not for me” than just being blanked.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’ve just got my first experience of how cruel Fab can be. Was chatting with someone I really liked for a couple of months, shared phone numbers and were planning to meet up for a coffee to see if we would click face to face. Then BAM!, I’m suddenly blocked without any explanation.

Sorry. Just had to rant.... "

Sorry to hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry you've had that experience but people are strange in real life as well as here - should there be any difference?

There's someone out there for whom is worthy of your time - we arent all the same as the lady who has apparently ghosted you.

I'm probably stranger in RL "

Truly absolutely bonkers

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Recently got a message from a woman out of nowhere...headline was "thank you" because apparently she masturbated over my pics and had to let me know (which was hot) ..then sent a friend request and quickly lost interest when she saw my face pics and blocked me Apologising before because she "didn't realise what I looked like"..welcome to fab mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently got a message from a woman out of nowhere...headline was "thank you" because apparently she masturbated over my pics and had to let me know (which was hot) ..then sent a friend request and quickly lost interest when she saw my face pics and blocked me Apologising before because she "didn't realise what I looked like"..welcome to fab mate"

I’ve had that. I shared face pics with someone and they were decent enough to say “Yeah, you’re not for me”. I’d have preferred that instead of just being blanked.

Maybe I’m just an ugly fucker

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive I feel you getting ghosted isn't great. I'd much rather people say look I'm no longer interested etc nothing wrong with being to sensitive Happy fabbing

Yeah. I’d prefer just getting told “You’re not for me” than just being blanked. "

We were spectacularly ghosted once having met socially twice and agrees a date to take things further.

Both of us are pretty thick skinned when it comes to this stuff but you do wonder if you said or did something to make them change their mind.

I will say though that a block or as in our case complete blanking of messages etc is a pretty clear indication of intention.

It's a rubbish feeling but tomorrow there will be cake and beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently got a message from a woman out of nowhere...headline was "thank you" because apparently she masturbated over my pics and had to let me know (which was hot) ..then sent a friend request and quickly lost interest when she saw my face pics and blocked me Apologising before because she "didn't realise what I looked like"..welcome to fab mate

I’ve had that. I shared face pics with someone and they were decent enough to say “Yeah, you’re not for me”. I’d have preferred that instead of just being blanked.

Maybe I’m just an ugly fucker "

Haha we have all been there man. Sometimes things don’t click but it’ll happen both ways. It’s just unfortunate when it happens after chatting for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive I feel you getting ghosted isn't great. I'd much rather people say look I'm no longer interested etc nothing wrong with being to sensitive Happy fabbing

Yeah. I’d prefer just getting told “You’re not for me” than just being blanked.

We were spectacularly ghosted once having met socially twice and agrees a date to take things further.

Both of us are pretty thick skinned when it comes to this stuff but you do wonder if you said or did something to make them change their mind.

I will say though that a block or as in our case complete blanking of messages etc is a pretty clear indication of intention.

It's a rubbish feeling but tomorrow there will be cake and beer "

I do like cake and beer. You have a good point

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks. I know it shouldn’t bother me but it kinda makes me think “What’s wrong with me”.

Maybe I’m just too sensitive I feel you getting ghosted isn't great. I'd much rather people say look I'm no longer interested etc nothing wrong with being to sensitive Happy fabbing

Yeah. I’d prefer just getting told “You’re not for me” than just being blanked.

We were spectacularly ghosted once having met socially twice and agrees a date to take things further.

Both of us are pretty thick skinned when it comes to this stuff but you do wonder if you said or did something to make them change their mind.

I will say though that a block or as in our case complete blanking of messages etc is a pretty clear indication of intention.

It's a rubbish feeling but tomorrow there will be cake and beer

I do like cake and beer. You have a good point "

Also if it's any consolation we went face pictures to a man once who took such fright at our fizzogs that he immediately deleted his profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*sent

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

Happens to me all the time, it’s hurtful and humiliating- I’m sorry it happened to you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a regular occurence for me and i suppose many others...chin up tho, how i see it its their loss

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east


"Happens to me all the time, it’s hurtful and humiliating- I’m sorry it happened to you xxx"

How I don’t know? Had exactly the same happen to us

Not nice but you have to siv through the bad to get the good xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens to me all the time, it’s hurtful and humiliating- I’m sorry it happened to you xxx

How I don’t know? Had exactly the same happen to us

Not nice but you have to siv through the bad to get the good xxx"

I’m loving the support. Thanks everyone. It genuinely is making me feel better about it.

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east

It’s life? Good and bad

Onwards and upwards xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely been there. I got blocked in the day we were meeting, hours before in fact! No word of an explanation. Forget them and move on. Unfortunately they were not worth your time

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Sadly it does happen to everybody. You will never know the reasons but they are not necessarily anything to do with you.

Something else could have happened in their life or they may not have been everything they were saying they are and then realised it was all about to get real. Don't beat yourself up about it, it really is just that more unpleasant side of the fab experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Each and every one of you are legends

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Thanks everyone. Each and every one of you are legends "
the best advice I could give is ..its a big world with billions of people..and each one is different with different opinions/tastes/views..hang in there mate life has a way of surprising you sometimes

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