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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read a lot of chatter about the weird, insulting and plain odd messages that some recieve on here.

But what about the messages that really are positive and unexpected have you had any that stick in your mind?

I had one recently, complimenting and stating something like, they shared a lot of my opinions and liked what I wrote and felt they wanted to let me know.

It was an unexpected and welcome gesture.

You?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few like that overly the years. It is a really nice surprise to receive one.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Is always nice to get compliments that aren't related to how you look or have chosen to write your profile but how you are as a person (or as much as they can glean from forum interaction).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once.....

.... the end

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What people can be positive on here

But I think it's these little things that make fab a nicer place. Had one yesterday that said my picture for the see through challenge was really nice, and it put a smile on my face I will admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on previous profiles, not this one cause I can’t be arsed this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message once.....

.... the end "

1 more than me - unsolicited that is. Am I playing the game wrong?

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

I received a message yesterday from someone saying they hadn’t seen my profile for a while and checking if I was ok health wise. I thought that was really sweet

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Someone read a post of mine and said it was really interesting and could I expand on such and such. I gave a detailed response taking considerable time to write it given that I thought they were genuinely keen to know more of what I thought. The message is still unread a week later.

Any messages are usually a response to something. My club reviews probably got me the most messages which I am proud of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message once.....

.... the end

1 more than me - unsolicited that is. Am I playing the game wrong? "

Now I think of it.... it may have been from admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a message yesterday from someone saying they hadn’t seen my profile for a while and checking if I was ok health wise. I thought that was really sweet "

Awwww!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

My stubble beard on social media. A lot of positive comments from men and women friends. I am definately going to keep it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message once.....

.... the end

1 more than me - unsolicited that is. Am I playing the game wrong?

Now I think of it.... it may have been from admin "

Were you a naughty boy?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


" I read a lot of chatter about the weird, insulting and plain odd messages that some recieve on here.

But what about the messages that really are positive and unexpected have you had any that stick in your mind?

I had one recently, complimenting and stating something like, they shared a lot of my opinions and liked what I wrote and felt they wanted to let me know.

It was an unexpected and welcome gesture.

You? "

That's the sort of message I usually send.

Isn't that just general politeness?

Out of interest, what sort of initial messages do you (and others here) send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message once.....

.... the end

1 more than me - unsolicited that is. Am I playing the game wrong?

Now I think of it.... it may have been from admin

Were you a naughty boy? "

First rule of forum 24hr staycation club.................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I read a lot of chatter about the weird, insulting and plain odd messages that some recieve on here.

But what about the messages that really are positive and unexpected have you had any that stick in your mind?

I had one recently, complimenting and stating something like, they shared a lot of my opinions and liked what I wrote and felt they wanted to let me know.

It was an unexpected and welcome gesture.

You?

That's the sort of message I usually send.

Isn't that just general politeness?

Out of interest, what sort of initial messages do you (and others here) send? "

Hahaha! Awww You're new!

No, the average first message consists of a penis photo and "hey babe"

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


" I read a lot of chatter about the weird, insulting and plain odd messages that some recieve on here.

But what about the messages that really are positive and unexpected have you had any that stick in your mind?

I had one recently, complimenting and stating something like, they shared a lot of my opinions and liked what I wrote and felt they wanted to let me know.

It was an unexpected and welcome gesture.

You?

That's the sort of message I usually send.

Isn't that just general politeness?

Out of interest, what sort of initial messages do you (and others here) send?

Hahaha! Awww You're new!

No, the average first message consists of a penis photo and "hey babe"

"

Yep. Newbie.

I'd better get my dick pic ready then

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I get messages like this but then I like to send messages like this too

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've had a couple in response to the "say something nice" type threads. I feel completely invisible most of the time in here so it's always really lovely when someone takes the time to pay a compliment. Who doesn't like to feel seen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I helped someone. That my words mattered. That I changed their day/mood. Those mattered most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I read a lot of chatter about the weird, insulting and plain odd messages that some recieve on here.

But what about the messages that really are positive and unexpected have you had any that stick in your mind?

I had one recently, complimenting and stating something like, they shared a lot of my opinions and liked what I wrote and felt they wanted to let me know.

It was an unexpected and welcome gesture.

You? "

You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You inspired me to send a random message of kindness to someone I really admired for the honesty in their profile... but I was blocked

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