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How did you celebrate your big birthdays?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have, just another day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never have, just another day"

I'm not that keen normally, but would like to mark it somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By celebrating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just went out with family. Nothing oved the top not keen on parties and large gatherings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By celebrating it "

Arent you specific!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just went out with family. Nothing oved the top not keen on parties and large gatherings. "

That is nice too!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My 40th was spent at Xtasia - it was a fantastic weekend!!!

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was supposed to be going to Maldives for partners 50th beginning next year, that's now on hiatus. Got cabins booked for select family and friends

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I spent a week in a lovely little cottage in the countryside with a hot tub and lots of nice food and drinks, walks and baking amazing cakes and scones. A wonderful friend sent me a cheese hamper, another a book signed by my favourite author. It was really lovely because it was a chance to relax and do things that I really enjoy. And have hot tub sex.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I spent a week in a lovely little cottage in the countryside with a hot tub and lots of nice food and drinks, walks and baking amazing cakes and scones. A wonderful friend sent me a cheese hamper, another a book signed by my favourite author. It was really lovely because it was a chance to relax and do things that I really enjoy. And have hot tub sex. "

That sounds lovely Meli

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

40th Mr N and I went away for the weekend. 50th I honestly can't remember, 60th we went out for a meal. We've actually celebrated the on between birthdays more lol. Mostly because it depended on funds at the time.

70 is the next one.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've just had my big 50.

I may celebrate my 51st birthday with a party instead. Lol

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

When I was 30 I went out with friends for a meal then on to a nightclub.

At 40 we had a big house party into the next morning and had champagne at 6am.

At 50 I held a party in a transgender club and the turnout was amazing.

Variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is on Sunday, having a few friends round in the garden for a Chinese tomorrow night, it was my big birthday last year (40) but didn't have the set of friends we have now so will be good to have a drink.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my 30th last year. Went to Sheffield a few days before my birthday with my mum and stepdad to go to a Harry Potter improv comedy night that was hilarious and went out for lunch, then did a bit of shopping the next day. My stepdad took me through to Whitby on the day itself so he could buy me my birthday presents.

If I can get away with it this year, what I would love to do is go to York with my bestie and her little girl, do some serious shopping and get some lunch, book a hotel and have my fab friend come across in the evening, and hopefully, as they now live on a narrow boat full time, hopefully my parents could be in York then too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smashed out of my trolley -mr vyper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had my big 50.

I may celebrate my 51st birthday with a party instead. Lol"

I had you down as 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 50 last year. My mam died on my 38th birthday and I've never celebrated it since but last year my inlaws paid for us to stay with them in Benidorm for the big 50. Have to say it was the best birthday in a very very long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one recently so hide my Facebook profile and generally stayed under the radar. Can’t be doing with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my 40th, I’d got wind of 2 ‘surprise’ parties planned for me. Couple of close friends tipped me off knowing how uncomfortable I would be.

So I booked a long weekend to Norway, managed to find a race to run on the day and did some sightseeing as well as decent beers and food . Totally satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my 40th, I’d got wind of 2 ‘surprise’ parties planned for me. Couple of close friends tipped me off knowing how uncomfortable I would be.

So I booked a long weekend to Norway, managed to find a race to run on the day and did some sightseeing as well as decent beers and food . Totally satisfying "

Oh that would have been awesome. I’d have freaked out at a surprise party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little surprise dinner party in a local restaurant for my 50th. Last time I celebrated a birthday before that I was a student on my 21st. For that I had a house party in the digs I was renting. I don’t celebrate birthdays usually, I prefer peace and quiet.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've just had my big 50.

I may celebrate my 51st birthday with a party instead. Lol

I had you down as 60 "

You're old than me - remember. Lol

Pops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had my big 50.

I may celebrate my 51st birthday with a party instead. Lol

I had you down as 60

You're old than me - remember. Lol

Pops. "

Ok son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the big 40 next and I will be celebrating it with a drink and listening to Jerry Lee Lewis - middle age crazy.

I can remember listening to it first when I was around 20 years old and wondering what I would be upto when I hit 40.

My how time flied.. I don't feel any older but when I see the number in text I think to myself yep that's a big number and I'm getting on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never celebrated them. I was planning to do something for my 40th, but it never happened.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

18th I went to the Hippodrome in London.

Nothing for my 21st or 30th (was kinda hoping for a surprise party buy hey ho!)

My 40th I took 2 weeks off work and went to Xtasia one weekend and Chams the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had big plans for Ash's 50th but lockdown scuppered our plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18th Family

21st Saw the Rolling Stones (performing, obs not personally lol)

30th Sat in ICU waiting room

40th New York

50th Spoilt by family and friends, and treated to various experiences

I have no interest in a big surprise party or anything like that... Not my thang at all.

Enjoy your special day, however it may be spent xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

"

Big 5-0 kayaked a reservoir in Thailand (took over 5 hours), nice dinner and crashed out for the rest of the evening.

Big 4-0 a threesome

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

It just dawned on me... I am turning 40 in a month and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

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Yearly

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

30th joint party with friends who hit the same milestone that year

40th family get together

50th meal out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18th - big party.

21st - 100 people at ours for a barbecue. People were to arrive at 3pm. At 3:10 the heavens opened.

30th - me and 20 male work colleagues out for a night in London.

40th - quiet meal as it was just before my dad passed away.

50th - who knows what I will do. It would be good to think that the world will have returned to some sense of normality by then.

Whatever you get to do and whomever you spend it with I hope it is your best birthday yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my 50th in lockdown a few weeks ago..Should have been on a Caribbean cruise. Instead had a bbq in the rain with a handful of people..Whoop whoop!

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

My 30th was a year of ups and downs. I celebrated with a girly trip to Dundee where my friend was from......much needed drinking, dancing, laughing and flirting.

My 40th was organised by my sister by numerous surprises over 4 days consisting of (for each day I would receive an envelope in the morning with hints of what was in store)

Day 1 spa trip, fine dinning lunch and a family meal in the evening.

Day 2 day out at golf driving range, then pub followed by bowling and a meal out

Day 3&4 trip to liverpool stayed in the yellow submarine boat lots of food

Day 4 a shopping spree all paid for by sis and brother in law.

I am currently in the middle of organising my sisters 50th which was supposed to be a hot tub country getaway for about 16 girls but having to scale back so still searching alternatives

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My 40th was spent at Xtasia - it was a fantastic weekend!!!

J x"

Fabulous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was supposed to be going to Maldives for partners 50th beginning next year, that's now on hiatus. Got cabins booked for select family and friends "

Fingers crossed Maldives happen!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Family meal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I spent a week in a lovely little cottage in the countryside with a hot tub and lots of nice food and drinks, walks and baking amazing cakes and scones. A wonderful friend sent me a cheese hamper, another a book signed by my favourite author. It was really lovely because it was a chance to relax and do things that I really enjoy. And have hot tub sex. "

Sounds just perfect one should be "spoilt" a little!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"40th Mr N and I went away for the weekend. 50th I honestly can't remember, 60th we went out for a meal. We've actually celebrated the on between birthdays more lol. Mostly because it depended on funds at the time.

70 is the next one. "

Weekend away would be very desirable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just had my big 50.

I may celebrate my 51st birthday with a party instead. Lol"

It's a good plan. And hopefully hugs are allowed then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was 30 I went out with friends for a meal then on to a nightclub.

At 40 we had a big house party into the next morning and had champagne at 6am.

At 50 I held a party in a transgender club and the turnout was amazing.

Variety is the spice of life "

That's a very inspiring list !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40th ( Ali ) was spent in Sunderland Royal Hospital. Was suppose to be a Big Weekend with the girls in Blackpool but 3 days earlier i fell on loose paving and broke my knee cap clean in half. Totally affected my life since. Sorry op but you asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is on Sunday, having a few friends round in the garden for a Chinese tomorrow night, it was my big birthday last year (40) but didn't have the set of friends we have now so will be good to have a drink.

Danish x"

Good company makes for the best celebrations!

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Twas my 40th on Monday.. I went back to work after 14 weeks and had a haircut... Wohoooo Now that’s living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a birth month not a birthday . I think my 40th lasted half a year!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was my 30th last year. Went to Sheffield a few days before my birthday with my mum and stepdad to go to a Harry Potter improv comedy night that was hilarious and went out for lunch, then did a bit of shopping the next day. My stepdad took me through to Whitby on the day itself so he could buy me my birthday presents.

If I can get away with it this year, what I would love to do is go to York with my bestie and her little girl, do some serious shopping and get some lunch, book a hotel and have my fab friend come across in the evening, and hopefully, as they now live on a narrow boat full time, hopefully my parents could be in York then too."

A nice extended celebration! And full of treats. Hope things are back to 'normal' by the time your birthday comes up in a calendar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By celebrating it

Arent you specific! "

Trying to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally do a few things, time spent with family and close friends and then I normally book somewhere for some me time. Where I can just chill out and switch off from the world for a while.

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Went to new york for my 50th was great right up untill my daughter rang and said some twat had

broke into my works unit and nicked my brand new truck ( sorry enterprise hire truck company )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went back to Jamaica for my 30th birthday after first going for my 17th

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smashed out of my trolley -mr vyper "

Your what?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Always with my mum as it’s also one of her big birthdays, born the same day 20 years apart, so the focus is normally on mum and what she wants to do. I then just go to the pub with mates a week later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was 50 last year. My mam died on my 38th birthday and I've never celebrated it since but last year my inlaws paid for us to stay with them in Benidorm for the big 50. Have to say it was the best birthday in a very very long time "

So lovely of them. And I'm sorry you lost your mum on your birthday.. it must have been very difficult x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had one recently so hide my Facebook profile and generally stayed under the radar. Can’t be doing with it "

That's okay too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For my 40th, I’d got wind of 2 ‘surprise’ parties planned for me. Couple of close friends tipped me off knowing how uncomfortable I would be.

So I booked a long weekend to Norway, managed to find a race to run on the day and did some sightseeing as well as decent beers and food . Totally satisfying "

Hold on a sec.. did you escape from your surprise parties ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

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I didn't ..being the center of attention was or never will be my scene..I'd run a million miles away from it but have absolutely no problems attending them .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

I didn't ..being the center of attention was or never will be my scene..I'd run a million miles away from it but have absolutely no problems attending them ."

So what's your perfect birthday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am sorry for not replying to all. Running on low energy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a birth month not a birthday . I think my 40th lasted half a year! "

Preach

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My 40th was spent in York and my 50th was a 3 day break at Donald Trumps Turnberry spa hotel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My 40th was spent in York and my 50th was a 3 day break at Donald Trumps Turnberry spa hotel."

Sounds lush

York is on my list of places to visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Little surprise dinner party in a local restaurant for my 50th. Last time I celebrated a birthday before that I was a student on my 21st. For that I had a house party in the digs I was renting. I don’t celebrate birthdays usually, I prefer peace and quiet."

But did you enjoy your surprise dinner? It's good to break with tradition one time at least !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the big 40 next and I will be celebrating it with a drink and listening to Jerry Lee Lewis - middle age crazy.

I can remember listening to it first when I was around 20 years old and wondering what I would be upto when I hit 40.

My how time flied.. I don't feel any older but when I see the number in text I think to myself yep that's a big number and I'm getting on now "

It does fly. I feel like it's on fast forward sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never celebrated them. I was planning to do something for my 40th, but it never happened."

There is always another year to make up for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"18th I went to the Hippodrome in London.

Nothing for my 21st or 30th (was kinda hoping for a surprise party buy hey ho!)

My 40th I took 2 weeks off work and went to Xtasia one weekend and Chams the next."

Adventurous birthdays stamp of approval

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had big plans for Ash's 50th but lockdown scuppered our plans "

50+1 special celebration ?

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

on my 18th the girl I was with at the time sadly lost her dad, my 21st was spent alone as none of my "friends" turned up.... and on my 40th well thats when I found out my then woman was in bed with another guy....im just hoping today doesn't hols as many bad vibes or memories

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"on my 18th the girl I was with at the time sadly lost her dad, my 21st was spent alone as none of my "friends" turned up.... and on my 40th well thats when I found out my then woman was in bed with another guy....im just hoping today doesn't hols as many bad vibes or memories "

Is it your birthday today?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"18th Family

21st Saw the Rolling Stones (performing, obs not personally lol)

30th Sat in ICU waiting room

40th New York

50th Spoilt by family and friends, and treated to various experiences

I have no interest in a big surprise party or anything like that... Not my thang at all.

Enjoy your special day, however it may be spent xxx "

That's a wonderful variety of experiences. Minus icu experience of course.. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one coming up.. would be nice to know how others marked it or helped to make it special for someone else?

Big 5-0 kayaked a reservoir in Thailand (took over 5 hours), nice dinner and crashed out for the rest of the evening.

Big 4-0 a threesome "

Both sound very rewarding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It just dawned on me... I am turning 40 in a month and a half "

High 5 birth year buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little surprise dinner party in a local restaurant for my 50th. Last time I celebrated a birthday before that I was a student on my 21st. For that I had a house party in the digs I was renting. I don’t celebrate birthdays usually, I prefer peace and quiet.

But did you enjoy your surprise dinner? It's good to break with tradition one time at least !"

Yes I loved it. I had no idea until I got to the top of the stairs in the restaurant. I was really surprised who had been invited and came. It was a lovely evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Little surprise dinner party in a local restaurant for my 50th. Last time I celebrated a birthday before that I was a student on my 21st. For that I had a house party in the digs I was renting. I don’t celebrate birthdays usually, I prefer peace and quiet.

But did you enjoy your surprise dinner? It's good to break with tradition one time at least !

Yes I loved it. I had no idea until I got to the top of the stairs in the restaurant. I was really surprised who had been invited and came. It was a lovely evening "

Aww

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I've not a clue what I did on my 50th. Probably a meal with the parents.

I remember my 49th, though, as I was at a rock concert at Borderline in Soho.

I don't really bother with my birthday, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birthday cumming pm

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south


"on my 18th the girl I was with at the time sadly lost her dad, my 21st was spent alone as none of my "friends" turned up.... and on my 40th well thats when I found out my then woman was in bed with another guy....im just hoping today doesn't hols as many bad vibes or memories

Is it your birthday today?"

Yes it is!

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Helicopter flight.

Rally driving day.

Balloon flight.

So far.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

My 30th coincided with a solar eclipse, so I was up a mountain being spiritual. Then later everything went downhill - drinking and dancing til the wee hours.

My 40th was spent in a luxury hotel with extended family.

My 50th was spent in a hotel too - with champagne and strawberries and a fab friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on my own in a pub somewhere

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