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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s your main motivation for starting a thread, is it to draw attention to yourself, to get more people looking at your profile so more people fab your photos thus sending you up the charts to page one, or maybe it’s cause you are genuinely interested in what people’s favourite colour is, or is it so you can do intellectual wheelies on a subject you read about 10 minutes again. So what’s your primary motivation for starting a thread, maybe it’s none of these excellent examples I stated, who knows it maybe cause you need to know more about something, or maybe you think the lounge needs spicing up with some healthy debate, even though no ones ever said ‘ You know what, I didn’t see it like that, you’ve open my eyes to a new way of seeing this subject, I was wrong and indeed you were correct, my sincere apologies. I will learn from this and try and be a better person in future!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just enjoy the laugh it brings. Nothing in depth at all. It's just a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom? Spare time? Genuine interest? It’s a mixture for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like attention.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boredom? Spare time? Genuine interest? It’s a mixture for me."

This right here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo. "

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are so tame atm, I post really interesting and controversial topics to spice things up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully this thread will get my photos to number one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!"

More calories than what!? You see, this is a very controversial and thought provoking topic. It's celery anyway and I don't have an excess of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo. "

I followed your advice and the salad tasted wubbery, and the that recycled lamp stand has started to rot. Forum advice....tut!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!

More calories than what!? You see, this is a very controversial and thought provoking topic. It's celery anyway and I don't have an excess of that. "

The energy used to chew the cucumber cancels out the calories in the cucumber, that’s what I heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo. "

I rem_mber the giant dildo one

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

The muddled musings of a befuddled mind with an impish sense of fun.

Mostly.

I think I achieve that.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Boredom? Spare time? Genuine interest? It’s a mixture for me."

I like your bum.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

I followed your advice and the salad tasted wubbery, and the that recycled lamp stand has started to rot. Forum advice....tut!! "

Sorry. You should never trust advice from an internetter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General musing, interest in something or just trying to open dialogue normally. But it’s a mix and match of everything. I do enjoy the ones started that are genuinely thought provoking as much as I enjoy the mindless flirting and having a laugh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!

More calories than what!? You see, this is a very controversial and thought provoking topic. It's celery anyway and I don't have an excess of that.

The energy used to chew the cucumber cancels out the calories in the cucumber, that’s what I heard. "

Wait! You're eating your cucumbers!? Rookie error

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

I rem_mber the giant dildo one "

It was years ago I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!

More calories than what!? You see, this is a very controversial and thought provoking topic. It's celery anyway and I don't have an excess of that.

The energy used to chew the cucumber cancels out the calories in the cucumber, that’s what I heard.

Wait! You're eating your cucumbers!? Rookie error "

Ah dammit!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have only ever regularly posted two threads here. Because it’s a bit of fun, because it brings a smile to those who join in, just because I can!

It’s good to see a variety of threads posted by different forum users.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Iv never started one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv never started one "

I’m shocked, I thought you were a prolific thread starter!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Iv never started one "

Still

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Because I'm an attention seeking whore

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not a massive thread starter but usually because I have a genuine interest in something or because I need some help with something.

And getting into the spirit of the forums because it would be very quiet if no-one started any threads.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Iv never started one

I’m shocked, I thought you were a prolific thread starter! "

I would bore you all to tears

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Iv never started one

Still "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

I rem_mber the giant dildo one

It was years ago I think "

I knew you'd say that! I have been on here for five years on and off.

I swear someone told you to wrap it in a carpet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore "

That’s my title, actually!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to have a laugh, some people take this site too seriously x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Iv never started one

Still

Nope "

I'm pretty sure you could start a thread about the history of knitting patterns and it would get 175 replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening."

Not everyday, yesterday I didn’t start a thread at all, mainly cause I was extremely busy. But don’t presume you know what’s going On in people’s lives, in this incredibly difficult time, what with people Losing their jobs because of the pandemic and using the forums as a way of escape. But I’m so pleased for you that you have other things going on for you, that’s great.

The irony wasn’t lost on me when the example’s Alanis Morissette gave in the song ‘Ironic’ Weren’t actually irony, which in itself was ‘Ironic’, maybe she knew that all along.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore

That’s my title, actually!"

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore

That’s my title, actually! "

Supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore here people!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore

That’s my title, actually!

Supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore here people! "

My kinda gal

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sometimes it's because I've had a thought I want to share, and this seems like an appropriate arena in which to do so.

Sometimes it's because I'm hoping for some advice I might actually be able to implement.

Sometimes it's because I'd like a wee bit of sexy attention.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have something I want to talk about, usually.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Iv never started one

Still

Nope

I'm pretty sure you could start a thread about the history of knitting patterns and it would get 175 replies "

I so wish I knew how to knit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom, like today I’m being paid to do nothing at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly an idea pops into my head and I post it. Rarely get many replies though!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Iv never started one

Still

Nope

I'm pretty sure you could start a thread about the history of knitting patterns and it would get 175 replies

I so wish I knew how to knit "

There you go , theres your first thread . You can thank me later

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I have something I want to talk about, usually."

I'll listen

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening.

Not everyday, yesterday I didn’t start a thread at all, mainly cause I was extremely busy. But don’t presume you know what’s going On in people’s lives, in this incredibly difficult time, what with people Losing their jobs because of the pandemic and using the forums as a way of escape. But I’m so pleased for you that you have other things going on for you, that’s great.

The irony wasn’t lost on me when the example’s Alanis Morissette gave in the song ‘Ironic’ Weren’t actually irony, which in itself was ‘Ironic’, maybe she knew that all along.

"

I think you're trying to be clever.

It's not hitting the spot.

You come across as arrogant.

I'll leave it with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

Someone told me you burn more calories eating a cucumber, or is that celery ?!"

Negative foods,there are more calories burned whilst eating these foods that there are in them, celery, apples, grapefruit blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention, decent conversation, fun

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore

That’s my title, actually!

Supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore here people!

My kinda gal "

Why thanks sexy bum

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's all about me me me

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"It's all about me me me "

Which is nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive started some because im passionate about those particular topics.

Sometimes they are just fun ones because I feel lonely, its a brilliant excuse to make new friends x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Usually because I want to know what to do with excess cucumbers or on one memorable occasion how to dispose of a giant dildo.

I rem_mber the giant dildo one

It was years ago I think

I knew you'd say that! I have been on here for five years on and off.

I swear someone told you to wrap it in a carpet."

they did and leave it in old ladies dustbins along with other most useful tips and hints

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Because I'm an attention seeking whore

That’s my title, actually!

Supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore here people!

My kinda gal

Why thanks sexy bum "

Now I'm blushing

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Mostly boredom. Occasionally gathering opinions on something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get replies

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"To get replies "

You’re a hunk aren’t you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inspiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To get replies

You’re a hunk aren’t you. "

You made my day !

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

To keep my mass of fans up to date and happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good way to get to know people, and I crave attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An idea pops into my head and I go you know what I'll start a thread on that. I post and watch what happens - it will either disappear, be mocked, engaged with, sometimes its a bit Leftfield, sometimes not. It is interesting watching the ebb and flow of threads and the tangents they can take. Or just disappear completely.

Another reason is I like writing and love the English language and I find it fun throwing stuff out there.

Anything could happen in the next 60 minutes! Thunderbirds Are Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly an idea pops into my head and I post it. Rarely get many replies though!"
Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never started one "

You really should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer...boredom and I’m a bit daft

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Anything could happen in the next 60 minutes! Thunderbirds Are Go! "

I thought that the quote was "Anything can happen in the next half hour", and that it was from Stingray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually genuine curiosity

I don't post often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening.

Not everyday, yesterday I didn’t start a thread at all, mainly cause I was extremely busy. But don’t presume you know what’s going On in people’s lives, in this incredibly difficult time, what with people Losing their jobs because of the pandemic and using the forums as a way of escape. But I’m so pleased for you that you have other things going on for you, that’s great.

The irony wasn’t lost on me when the example’s Alanis Morissette gave in the song ‘Ironic’ Weren’t actually irony, which in itself was ‘Ironic’, maybe she knew that all along.

"

Yep this is a form of escape for me as well.

And it's good to moan because if you didn't then others may not go hang on I think he's right, let's start some different threads, which in turn may bring in and/or encourage others to contribute.

Got to keep the gene pool mixing and mutating.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Iv never started one

You really should "

I will if I can think of something interesting to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything could happen in the next 60 minutes! Thunderbirds Are Go!

I thought that the quote was "Anything can happen in the next half hour", and that it was from Stingray. "

Maybe... my memory is not always brilliant. That is how I rem_mber it though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I don't start threads often - either curiosity, a way of wanting to reach out or a dare. A couple of times it's even been down to boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random thoughts inspired by some comments.

Photo challenges because I enjoy seeing others efforts and doing it myself.

That's about it. Need to write something, share reflections and for mutual appreciation.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I rarely start threads. I don’t give it much thought either. The last one I started was about Twitter and I just wondered what others experiences of twitter were. Nothing deep - but I did reply to everyone on the thread and not just the hot tottie

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I rarely start threads. I don’t give it much thought either. The last one I started was about Twitter and I just wondered what others experiences of twitter were. Nothing deep - but I did reply to everyone on the thread and not just the hot tottie "

I bet the hot tottie got the 1st replies

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Boredom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening.

Not everyday, yesterday I didn’t start a thread at all, mainly cause I was extremely busy. But don’t presume you know what’s going On in people’s lives, in this incredibly difficult time, what with people Losing their jobs because of the pandemic and using the forums as a way of escape. But I’m so pleased for you that you have other things going on for you, that’s great.

The irony wasn’t lost on me when the example’s Alanis Morissette gave in the song ‘Ironic’ Weren’t actually irony, which in itself was ‘Ironic’, maybe she knew that all along.

I think you're trying to be clever.

It's not hitting the spot.

You come across as arrogant.

I'll leave it with you."

Not arrogance, more hubris. But I’ll try to be more humble and empathetic like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason behind them is usually explained in my OP. Sometimes I'm thinking out loud, other times I'm just trying to spread some happiness and sometimes I'm just a big fat perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason behind them is usually explained in my OP. Sometimes I'm thinking out loud, other times I'm just trying to spread some happiness and sometimes I'm just a big fat perve "

And might I say your photos are well worth a perv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boredom? Spare time? Genuine interest? It’s a mixture for me.

This right here "

Same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP do you start a thread everyday about how boring the forum is and about how everyone who uses it lacks any form of intellect?

The irony isn't lost on me!

I've solved the issue by having things in my life other than the Fab forum.

Try it, it's enlightening.

Not everyday, yesterday I didn’t start a thread at all, mainly cause I was extremely busy. But don’t presume you know what’s going On in people’s lives, in this incredibly difficult time, what with people Losing their jobs because of the pandemic and using the forums as a way of escape. But I’m so pleased for you that you have other things going on for you, that’s great.

The irony wasn’t lost on me when the example’s Alanis Morissette gave in the song ‘Ironic’ Weren’t actually irony, which in itself was ‘Ironic’, maybe she knew that all along.

Yep this is a form of escape for me as well.

And it's good to moan because if you didn't then others may not go hang on I think he's right, let's start some different threads, which in turn may bring in and/or encourage others to contribute.

Got to keep the gene pool mixing and mutating."

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