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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I once cancelled a date as I was semi addicted to Last of Us.. It was very good

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ate too much

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It was cold out

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I once cancelled a date as I was semi addicted to Last of Us.. It was very good"

Had terrible wind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a bloke offering it!!

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex-girlfriend got dropped off by friends at my house after she'd had a night out.

I was all ready to go to bed when the doorbell went. She came in. Was d*unk. And wanted sex.

It just really pissed me off - I really like my own space. Eventually we went to bed in different bedrooms and she tried to leave the next morning without waking me but set the burglar alarm off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I ever have to be fair! In real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already had sex with another woman and I was exhausted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint think I have. Except on here!

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

She needed to get d*unk to feel sexy. There is no way I'm putting myself at risk when she is intoxicated and can not consent.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!

One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.

Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Work deadlines usually

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!

One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.

Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X"

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I ever have to be fair! In real life!"

What Nora said.

I'm normally the one turned down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I ever have to be fair! In real life!

What Nora said.

I'm normally the one turned down. "

I wouldn't turn you down.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I ever have to be fair! In real life!

What Nora said.

I'm normally the one turned down. "

What?? No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

Wow, how vile is your story. You can't be calling someone a slag for sleeping with another adult who both are on a swingers site. You're also on here arranging to meet people so does that make you one too? Don't be so judgmental and maybe tone down the jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x"

I think that quite a lot on here to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x

I think that quite a lot on here to be honest "

Sometimes a chat and a cup of tea better for them than any play. You soon pick up on this if you are prepared to listen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old colleage who used to flirt. I was a bit more taken than him. He was d*unk after a night out and came into our bar for closing time. We lived close so we shared a taxi home and I took him inside to make sure he got in ok. He asked me to stop and watch a film and tried it on with me and it was the hardest no I've ever given! Knowing I wanted to but actually he'd probably either regret it or not see it as a big deal when I would absolutely have wanted more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of times for most people fall into these six reasons :-

Attached at the time

Not attracted to them

They were d*unk

They were on the rebound

They wanted a revenge shag

Not worth the drama

...or a mixture of some or all of the above if the proposition was made after 2am at the afters of a wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrived pissed, on sniff and was an arrogant cunt x

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks. "

Sorry about that , but your a great DJ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks. "

Smooth operator !

A weasel never gives up, bless his little trainers.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sorry about that , but your a great DJ! "

How would you know this

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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago

Brighton


"Ate too much"

A few times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned upto a meet and she pulled a crack pipe out and offered me a hit. Safe to say iv never left so quick

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Just couldn’t be arsed!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x"

A lot of people treat fab like a dating site, get too involved and then cannot detach .... always ends up in tears ..

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes..... because I had no desire to become a badge of honour on an undesirable list

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Because I’d been friends with the lady for 20 years and I knew our friendship could recover from me disappointing her but having sex would have been terminal for said friendship. She was tipsy and grieving and God I wanted her but after a couple of awkward chats we are back on track. We even joke about it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally its because I've found its too last minute to make it stress free. Either they didn't want me staying overnight even though it was an hours drive each way for what might turn out to be only 30 minutes of fun, or there was too much rushed planning making it impossible to get ready properly.

I don't like turning up not being able to shower or still dressed from work. Even though some women like the scruffy tradesman like scenario of the guy 'come to fix the plumbing'

;)

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

you need to have a word with yourself

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

Last weekend I tried to postpone a date due to the situation but now won’t answer my messages, life goes on (she is absolutely beautiful and sexy too ) .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent."

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I wasn't attracted to him

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

Why is she a slag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t like her shoes.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

Why is she a slag?"

Because we're the sweeney son, and we haven't had any breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t be assed at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was a Tory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ate too much"

I've done that one a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Responsibilities and being a parent can be the biggest shag killer ever at times.... ....not complaining mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was my ex and I was giving her her stuff back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory "

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!

One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.

Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing . "

I'll shag ANYONE....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE.... "

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then ! "

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Was raining out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually because someone's status or update suggested they had it already an hour ago haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)"

I don’t think we’d be discussing politics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catfishes lol

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)

I don’t think we’d be discussing politics "

i take it this is L answering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left a bit.... Right a bit..... Ooohhh just there....!! Yes....!!! Yessssss....!!!! YESSSSSS....!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)

I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol"

I'd have them both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't want to mess up my brand new car.....

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I once cancelled a date as I was semi addicted to Last of Us.. It was very good"

Opening night of celebrity get me out of it!!! Husband reminded me later that we could have just watched it on catch up...... (you’d think seen as he hates it anyway he’d have reminded me before it started!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)

I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol"

What makes you say that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was a Tory

Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .

I'll shag ANYONE....

Get your fine arse to Kent then !

You always say that but then never follow through.....

(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)

I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol

I'd have them both! "

Oh yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned it down a few times in real life I've been in pain from a day at work and unable to to feel motivated enough to put the effort in etc etc

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent."

Bravo for you that situation can really lead to a lot of trouble. I saw that happen between two colleagues a few years ago. Needless to say it didn’t end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he messaged me he wanted to tie me up to the bed I’m not that kinky

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

she had smelly breath

I thought if she can not be bothered to brush maybe she had not washed her bottom half also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent.

Bravo for you that situation can really lead to a lot of trouble. I saw that happen between two colleagues a few years ago. Needless to say it didn’t end well "

What she said^

There's always tomorrow when you're both sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to a couples house for an evening of adult fun and games.

I arrived at the Abode and knocked on the door to find a chap in a pair of tracky bottoms and aged football shirt standing before me. On entry my fears were realised that this house had not been cleaned in a long time. The lady took my two bottles of wine to the kitchen. I realised that my loins would not be stirred in the slightest so like a good news of the world reporter I made an excuse and left.

I suppose the two seater chesterfield sofa in the garden should have been fair warning but I managed to escape unscathed but minus two bottles of a rather nice Chilean Merlot.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a change of heart about the person..

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

At a social when an older guy came up to me. He's known for setting up clubs & services in the past so whether he thought this gave him a free pass I've no idea.

He came and sat next to me and said

"don't leave because I'm fucking you tonight". Wasn't even said in a jokey chat up way.

Arrogance at its highest - cheeky shite and no he didn't! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was invited to a couples house for an evening of adult fun and games.

I arrived at the Abode and knocked on the door to find a chap in a pair of tracky bottoms and aged football shirt standing before me. On entry my fears were realised that this house had not been cleaned in a long time. The lady took my two bottles of wine to the kitchen. I realised that my loins would not be stirred in the slightest so like a good news of the world reporter I made an excuse and left.

I suppose the two seater chesterfield sofa in the garden should have been fair warning but I managed to escape unscathed but minus two bottles of a rather nice Chilean Merlot."

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

Wow. I think he made the correct decision to see "the slag".

Your jealousy is extremely high. And I'm sure "the slag" is on this site doing exactly what you are. Does this make you a SLAG

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby

I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of

1. Didn't find them attractive

2. They were too d*unk

3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.

4. I'd had sex too many times already that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of

1. Didn't find them attractive

2. They were too d*unk

3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.

4. I'd had sex too many times already that day "

I am intrigued by reason 3.

How does one extricate oneself on completion of the “finger test”

Is that not past the point of no return?

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby


"I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of

1. Didn't find them attractive

2. They were too d*unk

3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.

4. I'd had sex too many times already that day

I am intrigued by reason 3.

How does one extricate oneself on completion of the “finger test”

Is that not past the point of no return?"

Its easier than you think. I personally find smells to either be a turn on or turn off. And a smelly vag is enough for me to say not today love.

Hygiene ia important and i really don't fancy putting my penis in something that its owner hasn't looked after.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

The guy looked 25 years older than his photo. He was quickly despatched. Leaving me extremely sexually fustrated.

Mrs N

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Not really no

I havent got over 200 veris on my account like she has

Plus he was all too cocky for himself anyway afterwards the way he was talking to me later making out as tho he was gods gift

She just looks a right one

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

In a way thnk god i never ended up meetin him

Think i got a lucky escape from him

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not really no

I havent got over 200 veris on my account like she has

Plus he was all too cocky for himself anyway afterwards the way he was talking to me later making out as tho he was gods gift

She just looks a right one "

Charming

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Suzie was a mate's wife, and d*unk when she whispered in my ear 'I want you to fuck me'. So I said no. But she was sober the following morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it was my sons mother asking me to sleep with her whilst her daughter was in the bed.total disrespect and I feel to fat shame her as she has no pity for herself making calls to numerous men whilst her wayward partner has no idea what she is upto

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No mental connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath

Was holding out for their mate - That back fired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was driving a white fiat Panda

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Because I didn't like the way my wife treated me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

An ex girlfriend quite a few years ago, we got together to discuss dividing our stuff we bought together. Offered to cook me dinner I turned up to see she was dressed in a way that she knew turned me on.

It was awkward as I was starting to feel randy, but we had previously so many issues I was trying to keep my mind on why I wanted to leave her. But I was struggling.

Eventually I had to leave early and get out of there, it was too much and she was really obviously playing with me.

She didn’t come straight out with going upstairs but I knew from previously in our relationship, what she was insinuating.

So happy now that I didn’t as afterwards she was a right bitch.

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Bad grammar on messages and being a bit of an air head

Definitely sapiosexual

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Living by the motto of “do no harm”

And the 3 conversations I was having when there was only 2 of us there, set off alarm bells. Politely made my excuses and left, feeling incredibly sorry for the person :’(

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I was really into my knitting project.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a way thnk god i never ended up meetin him

Think i got a lucky escape from him"

I think he was the one with the lucky escape from you

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Because it was my sons mother asking me to sleep with her whilst her daughter was in the bed.total disrespect and I feel to fat shame her as she has no pity for herself making calls to numerous men whilst her wayward partner has no idea what she is upto"
Is this post also available with punctuation?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I was 12000 miles away and wasn't going to change my ticket mm

They were too d*unk.

I was uncomfortable

I felt disrespected

Suddenly I wasn't attracted to them

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged

But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here

Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,

Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon

Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead

Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was

Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on

Needles to say i called him fit to burn

Made him feel a shit

So thanks to that certain slag

We are no longer freinds

"

why is she a slag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pulled out a condom. To them, the couple, a No No. I left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a bad mood

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Just wasn't feeling in the mood.

Mrs

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"In a way thnk god i never ended up meetin him

Think i got a lucky escape from him

I think he was the one with the lucky escape from you "

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Really

If only u knew wat he was like luv

Full of shit

Lyin 2timin piece of shit just like a lot of them on here shaggin behind partners backs

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Yes, three times from different women, one I met on a night out, and two I work with. I was with my ex at the time so I said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was to d*unk and i knew it would be a task keeping it up in the state i was in so i pretend to fall asleep which made me feel sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple wanted me to meet them in a carpark and jump in the back of their van for sex. Have to say that triggered a few red flags as they weren't verified.

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