FabSwingers.com forum: Being asked for your Facebook

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit forward yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I get maybe wanting to chat elsewhere but I think Facebook is very personal. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He kept asking.

I keep this and my normal life very separate.

Unnerved me somewhat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a bit creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say no. If they don't understand a need for separation, it's a bit worrying.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Anyone asking me for my Facebook or Twitter would get very short shrift - I can think of two people on here that I'd willingly share my Facebook details with and both are people I have known for some time, interacted with a lot and trust implicitly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone asking me for my Facebook or Twitter would get very short shrift - I can think of two people on here that I'd willingly share my Facebook details with and both are people I have known for some time, interacted with a lot and trust implicitly "

Same. I’ve got one person on my Facebook and id trust him with my life! Anyone else no chance!i don’t even give my number.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah, I don't think my mother needs to see someone posting on FB that they seen my Wang. Bit weird for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I'm not the only one!

I've told him in no uncertain terms that it wont happen.

Not sure any more chatting will happen

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

That's a little bit too stalkerish for me. That would be a red flag and definitely not something else I would hand out. That would give someone access to your friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Absolutely weird, should be totally separate. I made the mistake of using whatsapp to message somebody once and when they got weird they used my number to find my facebook and messaged my family. Just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been ask on here for my facebook I'm always carefull who I share my facebook with

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

definitely wouldn't give my fb name to anyone on fab lol

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"He kept asking.

I keep this and my normal life very separate.

Unnerved me somewhat "

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Absolutely weird, should be totally separate. I made the mistake of using whatsapp to message somebody once and when they got weird they used my number to find my facebook and messaged my family. Just no "

Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why they would need your Facebook. Definitely seems a bit much, especially if you’ve only been chatting on here for a short time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red flag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red flag!"

Big big red flag. Too many stalker types here already don’t need that going on too. I find it bad enouhh FB everyone here seems to want your kik, your snap, your wozzywoowatsits , like I’m here aren’t I, what’s wrong with keeping it here ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm not on that site

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Kik stopped live video function, whats app and messenger the only ones now? Still a red flag situation

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Red flags and block bottom !

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's peculiar and would carry risks that are inappropriate for most people. If you don't know someone, they have not earned trust etc.

Possibly harmless but not worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really odd. Glad you said no to him!

I don’t even give my number out, WhatsApp is linked to Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No social media Privately and I have what’s app simply as I have 3 different phones. One is purely a burner/play phone for fab that I throw in the draw when I don’t need it.

What’s app is purely for cam to cam veri if someone can’t use the site. Outside of that it sits switched off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on and don’t give it a second thought.

Rule of thumb for us is one red flag = goodbye.

Best of luck op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s weird. Having said that I didn’t know anyone had it anymore. Got rid of it about 3 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

Not a hope...

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Weird or creepy I haven't decided. I've had guys give me their fb, I promptly find them & block them on there

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve never been asked for it but I’ve put enough messages through to people that has my full name on so they can see my Facebook... all they’ll see to be fair is more photos of me but clothed so it’s boring compared to this .... fab is the new Facebook x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone once got hold of my info and shared it with my family, got threatening messages, they even knew my street name, now old account deleted and have this one, very cautious now, and because of this i don't think i'll be meeting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance would I give someone on here my Facebook. It would need to become something much more 'real' for that to happen.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"That’s really odd. Glad you said no to him!

I don’t even give my number out, WhatsApp is linked to Facebook.

Only if you have your phone number on Facebook

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"He kept asking.

I keep this and my normal life very separate.

Unnerved me somewhat "

Yes I agree . Two completely seperate things , this and vanilla life .

Nobody on Fab needs someone else's FB details

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

No way am I sharing my Facebook with anyone I dont know well in real life, its too personal and would give away my much guarded privacy.

One person on here is a friend now on facebook and I trust her with everything including my cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way am I sharing my Facebook with anyone I dont know well in real life, its too personal and would give away my much guarded privacy.

One person on here is a friend now on facebook and I trust her with everything including my cat. "

MY CAT

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"No way am I sharing my Facebook with anyone I dont know well in real life, its too personal and would give away my much guarded privacy.

One person on here is a friend now on facebook and I trust her with everything including my cat.

MY CAT

MY CAT! She stays here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook is like the other side of the mirror for me. Alice between the lands.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I remind them that I am not naked on Facebook and they are getting a better deal here.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Facebook is like the other side of the mirror for me. Alice between the lands.

Never thought of it like that, but that rings true to me

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

If people from here have gone on to my FB then it means we’ve become friends. But that’s after meeting them and getting to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ivy is my alter ego and alot more sexy and fun than facebook me.

Why would you want to downgrade

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I remind them that I am not naked on Facebook and they are getting a better deal here.

Are you sure they wouldn't prefer to see you with clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

100% a no from us, 2 totally different parts of our lives.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Ivy is my alter ego and alot more sexy and fun than facebook me.

Why would you want to downgrade

Your Facebook is like being scatterbombed daily

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

Likely to be a scammer or weirdo, from Facebook it's easy to find workplaces, friends, where you go etc etc sometimes phone numbers are linked to it.

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"
Totally weird. Facebook is full of my family and real life friends. Not a chance would I have any connections with a fab member on my private fb account. Very weird to even ask someone.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’re Facebook friends with only one couple from here and that’s after a couple of years of regularly seeing them as close friends.

Expecting a random newbie to respect the boundary between here and real life is a big ask and we certainly wouldn’t trust people who just ask out of the blue.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I dont use anything other than Fab as I dont have the time but its often the first thing that gets asked, to move the conversation elsewhere...it simply isn't happening.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I remind them that I am not naked on Facebook and they are getting a better deal here.

Are you sure they wouldn't prefer to see you with clothes on

I'm not into that.

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By *he Sunshine BagCouple
over a year ago

London

Just a quick tech question on this thread. My partner is worried that (you know how spooky/psychic facebook and instagram can be at times)That on a potential meet, a social media app, might recommend this person as a 'friend' as the software knows you have been in close proximity to them. This is something she is keen to avoid. Have any of you had any experience of this happening? Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, the two sites should be kept separate.

Facebook is your friends, family and life outside of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no run a mile no need for anyone on fab to have ur Facebook and as for phone numbers well I don’t mind as I keep my contact personal number to my self and just buy a cheap throw away phone with a pay and go SIM card easy to just snap sim and get a new one

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

There are a few people on here who I am FB friends with, known them for the best part of 10yrs and trust them.

Anyone else who asks a 2nd time after being told no, gets blocked. FB is for friends and family, people I meet for NSA sex don't fall into that category, nowhere near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's definitely weird.

But then I'm very private about my Facebook, I don't even have my last name on there.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

Instant block

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

Probably a reporter.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

Probably a reporter. "

Hello how are you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've deactivated Facebook, but on there I have four trusted fabsters as friends.

A few years ago when my actual phone number was attached to my Facebook, someone who I gave my number to kept messaging me on WhatsApp, when I blocked him on there he sent me a friend request on Facebook. He got blocked on there too. Definitely not so free with my number nowadays!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would not allow Fab friends to become facebook friends although nobody has ever asked. However i had a fab friend who turned out to be the nephew of one of my old work colleagues and we both had her on facebook. All came to light when she posted his graduation video. Luckily i could trust him as he could me but i do everything to keep my home life and family life private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very Wise in my experience. x

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Been asked for facebook/Instagram details a few times, answer is always no.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

Probably a reporter.

Hello how are you xx"

Been rushed off of my feet since about March! Still at work now!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

Probably a reporter.

Hello how are you xx

Been rushed off of my feet since about March! Still at work now!

Xxx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

Probably a reporter.

Hello how are you xx

Been rushed off of my feet since about March! Still at work now!

Xxx"

Thanks for asking, sweet cheeks x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!

Probably a reporter.

Hello how are you xx

Been rushed off of my feet since about March! Still at work now!

Xxx

Thanks for asking, sweet cheeks x

Xxx

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By *ercedes60Man
over a year ago

waterford

Too forward. And in my opinion not secure. They on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"

Yeah that comes off a little creepy to me if it's right off the bat

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

it is cheeky of them to ask. They are definitely going to stalk all your social media and I would keep a very safe distance from that person.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"it is cheeky of them to ask. They are definitely going to stalk all your social media and I would keep a very safe distance from that person. "

Indeed, very cheeky

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Stalker alert! Just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does anyone else think it's weird?

I mean being asked by someone you've just started chatting to on here!"
definitely avoid !

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