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"I've been chatting with someone who told me this today. Do anyone else agree? " Depends on their personality haha x | |||
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"As in we don't care what they look like? "Yes she basically said that guys on here will sleep with anyone going by verifications. So came to the conclusion that appearances don't matter for swingers and its just all about sex | |||
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"I've been chatting with someone who told me this today. Do anyone else agree? " Did you ask what did matter? | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most." Maybe it's a bit different in clubs | |||
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"As in we don't care what they look like?
Yes she basically said that guys on here will sleep with anyone going by verifications. So came to the conclusion that appearances don't matter for swingers and its just all about sex "Must be true as I got laid on here. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. Maybe it's a bit different in clubs" I think that it can be the case - several of my friends before have said they haven't had to be attracted to the person to have sex with them, it was more of a heat of the moment thing. Maybe your friend meant it in that way? I do think for the majority of people looks are important though. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. Maybe it's a bit different in clubs" Maybe. I think there are three general kinds of people when it comes to attraction. The ones who aren't interested at all in how someone looks but are attracted to general attitude, personality etc. The ones who wouldn't think of having sex with someone unless they found them physically attractive. The ones who just want sex and don't care who with. Of course there are loads of variables within those three but your friend has probably had their fair share of the third type and got fed up | |||
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"Agreed. If you’re a swinger you should be prepared to fuck anyone and everyone. " Totally this!  | |||
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"As in we don't care what they look like?
Yes she basically said that guys on here will sleep with anyone going by verifications. So came to the conclusion that appearances don't matter for swingers and its just all about sex "Well I don't necessarily disagree with what she has said, when I first joined u got many offers for sex meets before I put any pictures on, so to them appearance obviously didn't matter. I think though these were desperate people looking for sex with absolutely anyone who would say yes, not true swingers. | |||
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"As in we don't care what they look like?
Yes she basically said that guys on here will sleep with anyone going by verifications. So came to the conclusion that appearances don't matter for swingers and its just all about sex "I don't think it has anything to do with being a swinger. There are just people for who appearance doesn't matter as long as they get sex. I think a lot of those people are attracted to a site like this because they believe it is going to be full of people desperate for sex. Luckily not everyone thinks like that though. Mrs x | |||
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"Great news. Form a queue then ladies. " I've been in it for weeks  it's not moving very fast | |||
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"Great news. Form a queue then ladies. I've been in it for weeks it's not moving very fast "I like to take my time. Patience. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most." Actually it leads me to understand Humans are diverse and it would be erroneous to generalise It also leads me to understand that some humans lie It also leads me to understand some humans say things in forums to signal Beyond that a hot dog is a type of sandwich x Oh and jesus is a made up story based upon taoist confusion and Buddhist philosophy blended into abrahamic mythology xx | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. Actually it leads me to understand Humans are diverse and it would be erroneous to generalise It also leads me to understand that some humans lie It also leads me to understand some humans say things in forums to signal Beyond that a hot dog is a type of sandwich x Oh and jesus is a made up story based upon taoist confusion and Buddhist philosophy blended into abrahamic mythology xx" Yeah, but where do you stand on ghosts?  | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. Actually it leads me to understand Humans are diverse and it would be erroneous to generalise It also leads me to understand that some humans lie It also leads me to understand some humans say things in forums to signal Beyond that a hot dog is a type of sandwich x Oh and jesus is a made up story based upon taoist confusion and Buddhist philosophy blended into abrahamic mythology xx Yeah, but where do you stand on ghosts? "Oh gosh Seriously I see right through them  | |||
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"Very choosy on the site, not so after a few drinks in a club "Kind of agree with this. It is not all about appearance when you meet someone face to face. Sometimes the chemistry between two people can not be avoided and personality is more of a factor than looks. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. Actually it leads me to understand Humans are diverse and it would be erroneous to generalise It also leads me to understand that some humans lie It also leads me to understand some humans say things in forums to signal Beyond that a hot dog is a type of sandwich x Oh and jesus is a made up story based upon taoist confusion and Buddhist philosophy blended into abrahamic mythology xx Yeah, but where do you stand on ghosts?
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Seriously I see right through them " | |||
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"Let's face it though, you ladies could turn up dressed in a bin bag and still get it ha ha " Wouldn’t want it though. I prefer a fussy picky man too personally. | |||
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"Let's face it though, you ladies could turn up dressed in a bin bag and still get it ha ha " Maybe that's how you think but most men have higher standards than you give them credit for. | |||
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"I've been chatting with someone who told me this today. Do anyone else agree? " It does believe me but saying that I do see a lot of fugleys getting lucky. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most." #threadaholic | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic "what can I say, I don't get out much lately | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately "You too eh? I'm not the youthful gaddabout I used to be..... | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately "Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about. | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
You too eh? I'm not the youthful gaddabout I used to be..... " | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about. "I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach "Oh a beach how nice | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach
Oh a beach how nice "we've been locked down so long now that it feels like an outing even though its just across the road road | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach "You go steady......
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach
You go steady......
#livingitlarge"Someone has to take over where Ozzy Osbourne left off | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach
You go steady......
#livingitlarge
Someone has to take over where Ozzy Osbourne left off"So, walk on the beach, takeaway coffee and sniffing ants with a straw. What are you up to the day after? | |||
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"I've been chatting with someone who told me this today. Do anyone else agree? Depends on their personality haha x" m Lol... | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach
You go steady......
#livingitlarge
Someone has to take over where Ozzy Osbourne left off
So, walk on the beach, takeaway coffee and sniffing ants with a straw.
What are you up to the day after? "all I'm prepared to say is that any bats in the vicinity need to be wary | |||
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"I believe that appearance isn’t just about if you consider yourself good looking or not but it shows how well you look after yourself and what you want others to see taking the care and time to make an effort is as important to us as it is for them " yes, its presentation. Good presentation says a lot and shows respect for the person you hope to meet. | |||
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"I agree that they don't matter..... In as much as it's the overall attraction that matters. Attraction is a package deal that encompasses a lot more than just looks! There are a lot of women and couples on here that are drop dead gorgeous, but I still wouldn't meet them because of other factors. And there are def others that are not classically beautiful in the traditional sense, whom I would drop everything to meet. It's usually down to a real mental connection and often there is just that indefinable spark of something that makes them incredibly attractive..... " I am in agreement; looks matter but only to a certain extent, for me. At the risk of coming across as nasty and I really don’t want to, if somebody looks like Miriam Margolyes and I attempt to have sex with them, my dick won’t lie. Simultaneously, you can look like Sharon Stone and that will initially make me rock hard but, if you are a massive tosser as well, I will not want to touch you with a barge pole. Your looks will attract me initially but what’s inside you is what will make me want to meet you again or not. | |||
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"I agree that they don't matter..... In as much as it's the overall attraction that matters. Attraction is a package deal that encompasses a lot more than just looks! There are a lot of women and couples on here that are drop dead gorgeous, but I still wouldn't meet them because of other factors. And there are def others that are not classically beautiful in the traditional sense, whom I would drop everything to meet. It's usually down to a real mental connection and often there is just that indefinable spark of something that makes them incredibly attractive..... I am in agreement; looks matter but only to a certain extent, for me. At the risk of coming across as nasty and I really don’t want to, if somebody looks like Miriam Margolyes and I attempt to have sex with them, my dick won’t lie. Simultaneously, you can look like Sharon Stone and that will initially make me rock hard but, if you are a massive tosser as well, I will not want to touch you with a barge pole. Your looks will attract me initially but what’s inside you is what will make me want to meet you again or not." | |||
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"I've seen a lot of threads where people say looks are unimportant. I've seen a lot of threads saying "who has the best tits/arse/other body part" on fab. I've seen a lot of threads in praise of BBW. I've seen a lot of threads in which people tell other people they're gorgeous or claiming they're punching or that they don't contact those they consider to be "out of their league". This leads me to believe that appearances absolutely do matter to most. #threadaholic
what can I say, I don't get out much lately
Non of us do, soon though! We can get out and about.
I'm getting a bit fed up now, next week I'm letting loose with a cup of takeaway coffee on the beach
You go steady......
#livingitlarge
Someone has to take over where Ozzy Osbourne left off
So, walk on the beach, takeaway coffee and sniffing ants with a straw.
What are you up to the day after?
all I'm prepared to say is that any bats in the vicinity need to be wary"Ahemcough Corona Virus..... | |||
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"I believe that appearance isn’t just about if you consider yourself good looking or not but it shows how well you look after yourself and what you want others to see taking the care and time to make an effort is as important to us as it is for them yes, its presentation. Good presentation says a lot and shows respect for the person you hope to meet." Agree | |||
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"I've been chatting with someone who told me this today. Do anyone else agree? " I believe you spoke to someone one that told you that. I Definitely believe it. | |||
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"Hell no, disagree. Looks matter. " I think the nice way of putting it would be to say."swingers are less body critical?" Very few are written off for having lumps and bumps in the wrong places? That's healthy isn't it? | |||
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"Hell no, disagree. Looks matter. I think the nice way of putting it would be to say."swingers are less body critical?" Very few are written off for having lumps and bumps in the wrong places? That's healthy isn't it?" A very interesting point, esp. if you think that by visiting a club or nudist place once you have seen in-person more every-day, "real" naked bodies than the average person would get to see in their whole life - and it is quite the departure from what we see on media! Many people think that because something is not conventionally attractive or because they don't find it attractive personally it wouldn't and shouldn't have any appeal, but this is simply not true (like someone mentioned above there is no accounting for tastes!). And I also see that most straight people judge the bodies of same sex by conventional standards simply because the sexual attraction is not there (ie. literally can't feel or see the attraction!). I guess my answer is that appearance matters to casual sex people but not in the prescribed way. | |||
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"Let's face it though, you ladies could turn up dressed in a bin bag and still get it ha ha " I’ve seen some sexy as fuck photos of forum users in bin bags | |||
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"Let's face it though, you ladies could turn up dressed in a bin bag and still get it ha ha I’ve seen some sexy as fuck photos of forum users in bin bags" I've fond memories of Debbie Harry in the Atomic video in not more than a bin bag. That's for people of a certain age lol | |||
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