FabSwingers.com forum: If someone handed you a box of everything you lost in life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would be the first thing you would look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I plead the 5th before I answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dignity, d*unk Indigo has lost that many a time on the street of Newcastle

However, more sentimentally a gold charm bracelet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I plead the 5th before I answer? "
You can plead anything you want

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

My sanity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it has to be a thing, my sanity. If it can be a person, my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I plead the 5th before I answer? You can plead anything you want

Okay then, I am afraid I cannot answer thia, as I plead the 5th

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My parents

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This*

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"If it has to be a thing, my sanity. If it can be a person, my dad. "

I feel you there

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

My self respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I plead the 5th before I answer? You can plead anything you want

Okay then, I am afraid I cannot answer thia, as I plead the 5th

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Hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paradise

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

My mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it has to be a thing, my sanity. If it can be a person, my dad.

I feel you there "

I'd totally love to feel you there Bossy...

The answer is my Dad.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

An early nineties John Richmond Destroy t-shirt and Michiko Koshino jacket - I just don't know where they went?!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants a box of old teaspoons and odd socks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it has to be a thing, my sanity. If it can be a person, my dad.

I feel you there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex

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By *kynyrd64Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

My son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My girls mum, innit....

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

My paper driving licence

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston

Too much to mention

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By *ngel_vs_devil33Woman
over a year ago

i’ll let you know

If it could be a person my brother. As for an object it would be a necklace I lost years ago, x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My partner, I really miss that bearded chunky munky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep question! I dont think I have an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deep question! I dont think I have an answer. "

That's true, you don't know how not losing something may affect the future....

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The T-shirt I lost at t in the park 1996.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum, dad , sister, niece and my old social skills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I have to open it?

Signed

Pandora

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

My dogs...

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

My mum

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My dad, my best friend or my ex. All who died too young. A hard choice to make.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My super mario watch

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

An angel that gained its wings before I got see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person I used to be...

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

My mam

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"My mam

Hugs. It really is a loss you never truly recover from.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My grandparents and my uncle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suit jacket that had two enamel depeche mode tour badges on it. A French house music 12 from 2000 that I am haunted by a riff of but can't remember the title or the artist. My paperback copy of Look to Windward that my pal who passed away wrote in. A keyring I lost at slaine castle while Robbie Williams was playing. A Ladies and Gentleman we're Floating in Space hoodie. An Aussie cricket hat I bought in the arse end of NSW. My original copy of Hatful of Hollow.

I could go on at length, but this is reminding me of a Divine Comedy song which I need to listen to immediately...

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"A suit jacket that had two enamel depeche mode tour badges on it. A French house music 12 from 2000 that I am haunted by a riff of but can't remember the title or the artist. My paperback copy of Look to Windward that my pal who passed away wrote in. A keyring I lost at slaine castle while Robbie Williams was playing. A Ladies and Gentleman we're Floating in Space hoodie. An Aussie cricket hat I bought in the arse end of NSW. My original copy of Hatful of Hollow.

I could go on at length, but this is reminding me of a Divine Comedy song which I need to listen to immediately...

Wow you’ve lost a lot of stuff

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"My mam

Hugs. It really is a loss you never truly recover from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My will to live

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I could go on at length, but this is reminding me of a Divine Comedy song which I need to listen to immediately...

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A suit jacket that had two enamel depeche mode tour badges on it.this

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"My super mario watch"

I also had a Gizmo cuddly toy and an impressive collection of micro machines. Really miss the micro machines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could go on at length, but this is reminding me of a Divine Comedy song which I need to listen to immediately...

Wow you’ve lost a lot of stuff

That list doesn't touch the sides. At the end of the day it's all just stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My innocence.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A locket my grandparents gave me before the year they passed, it was stolen from a pool locker. Anything else doesn’t matter

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

My ex, the mother of my kids

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By *melfCouple
over a year ago

Stoneybridge

Buttplug.

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By *ug2334Man
over a year ago

newmarket

my wife ????? fucking cancer

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"My super mario watch

I also had a Gizmo cuddly toy and an impressive collection of micro machines. Really miss the micro machines."

And my thundercats collection, never forgive my mum for giving them away.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

A Vivienne Westwood necklace

My other grandma's crucifix

(Both in a purse that got stolen)

A diamond necklace that was left to me by my grandma.(lost in a house move)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My way a few times but have always found a new one.

A couple of jobs but found other work

However the relatives, grandparents and friends I have lost or lost contact with, they are the ones I d like to find in my box.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

My sanity would be nice but I'd settle for my Van Morrison bootlegs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Vivienne Westwood necklace

My other grandma's crucifix

(Both in a purse that got stolen)

A diamond necklace that was left to me by my grandma.(lost in a house move)

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My baby x

All the things that meant the world to me, lost in a house fire, definitely my pets included in that x

Viv x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"What would be the first thing you would look for.

My dad - and the opportunities I had for further education when young. X

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

A glass decanter that was given to my grandfather, he got it from the BA tobacco company when he retired. I lost it in a house move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the first thing you would look for.

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I (Rick) rarely lose anything, but I did lose all my keys in 1979, and to this day it remains a mystery !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marbles

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

My brother!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"The person I used to be..."

Stay strong. She will return one day.x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

If only i knew at 50 what i thought i knew at 20 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matching Tupperware and lids

A manky old grey hoodie I left at a theatre

A gorgeous peridot earring

My two cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hand it back unopened..if I d already lost it then I wasn t meant to have it, by having it back would that change who I was at that moment of rediscovery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two Saint Christophers I've lost over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last 3 minutes thinking of what to put here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the cash I lost that fallen out of pockets.

A very old camcorder tape, when I decided to video myself when I was younger, i mean the old type of tape. So I can destroy it properly hopefully it's has been destroyed properly years ago.

A book I bought from Cadburys world back in the early 90s. Lost it a few days after unsure where it went.

A cd containing photos of a drinking night with friends including one with me naked, again would destroy it, or I keep this one in fact.

Obviously loved ones.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The box would be so fucking big that nobody could lift it, let alone pass it around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived in Germany, I won an Easter hat making competition. I was five, and I won a book about a girl who was a superhero. When we moved back to Scotland I lost the book. I loved that book.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

my children

My grandad

The material stuff has no relevance in comparison

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

This is a very sad thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who wants a box of old teaspoons and odd socks?"

So sorry to hear of everyone's losses! Sending hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the first thing you would look for.

My marbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Material things rather than people?

A leather jacket I lost about 15yrs ago.

People...my wee Granny & Granda.

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By *lue Eyed Blonde GuyMan
over a year ago

Alfreton

I would look for somewhere to put the box so I do t loose it again.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

my parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost too much, don't think it would fit in a box. Both material, people and myself.

It would also be a bit like opening Pandora's box I'd imagine so I'd probably deliberately not open it.

Dissociation is a good psychological defence mechanism, I don't think I could face confronting everything and everyone I've ever lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fighting spirit. I use to take no crap when I was in school x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My fighting spirit. I use to take no crap when I was in school x"

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

My first crush at school. Jane, where are you?

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