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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I work with was saying how her daughter was on the large side and said to me - yes she’s like you ! Ffs thanks for that I know I’m fat I don’t need it pointing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong wit th'odd wobble but hardly say you were fat....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I have a wobbly bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lack respect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat jokes are not acceptable and can be very cruel I'm a big guy and always have been and was bullied in school about it I'm not so concerned now as I used to be but still have hang ups over it. Anyway I happen to like curves on a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems there's a lot of (some thinly veiled) insults being directed at others on this forum to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all here for the same thing I think If people can insult someone on this site due to size they don’t respect this as a whole As being a swinger sad really

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just smile and think of the issues that they have, that drives their need to project their negativity on you...

if on here, please report any abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people "

It’s only an insult if you take it as such

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's just not called for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just smile and think of the issues that they have, that drives their need to project their negativity on you...

if on here, please report any abuse "

Good idea it was a message on here actually, I didnt think to report it just deleted in disgust.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone I work with was saying how her daughter was on the large side and said to me - yes she’s like you ! Ffs thanks for that I know I’m fat I don’t need it pointing out "

completely uncalled for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said!!!!!

Nxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been called fat all my life... honestly there is probably some deep issues for it but on the surface I’ve never cared. Lost a shit load of weight so far but that’s nothing to do with that. That’s for me. I do nothing for the ones who have to project their issues onto other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nowt wrong wit th'odd wobble but hardly say you were fat...."

Exactly! Haha! Thank you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been called fat all my life... honestly there is probably some deep issues for it but on the surface I’ve never cared. Lost a shit load of weight so far but that’s nothing to do with that. That’s for me. I do nothing for the ones who have to project their issues onto other people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones saying the insults are the ones living at home with mommy and got no lives

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wobble like a weavel...do I care no. Do I care what anyone else thinks....not a chance in hell.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Insulting someone to do with their weight is the last of the socially acceptable bullying it seems.

Because if someone gets upset you can pass it off as a "health" thing.

It stings. I still remember the first time I was criticised for my weight. I was 8 and it was my mother's friend. And it's never gone away. I remember that the same as I remember every time my ex called me fat, ugly and stupid.

So now I say to hell with it. On the outside if not deep down.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people "

You look absolutely stunning from what I can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Well said!!!!

N xx

Have a great day people "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Well said!!!!

N xx

Have a great day people "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Insulting someone to do with their weight is the last of the socially acceptable bullying it seems.

Because if someone gets upset you can pass it off as a "health" thing.

It stings. I still remember the first time I was criticised for my weight. I was 8 and it was my mother's friend. And it's never gone away. I remember that the same as I remember every time my ex called me fat, ugly and stupid.

So now I say to hell with it. On the outside if not deep down. "

And it's calling us stupid as well. Thanks, I live under a rock, I had no idea being overweight could cause health problems.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Insulting someone to do with their weight is the last of the socially acceptable bullying it seems.

Because if someone gets upset you can pass it off as a "health" thing.

It stings. I still remember the first time I was criticised for my weight. I was 8 and it was my mother's friend. And it's never gone away. I remember that the same as I remember every time my ex called me fat, ugly and stupid.

So now I say to hell with it. On the outside if not deep down.

And it's calling us stupid as well. Thanks, I live under a rock, I had no idea being overweight could cause health problems. "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people "

I wouldn't take it to heart, on another thread today someone stated that "size 10 or less all look ill, or like smackheads"..... so it's not just fat insults doing the rounds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't fishing for compliments guys just gets under my skin when think it's okay to go at someones size (amongst other things)

Ugh! I'm grumpy, atleast I know I'm not crazy though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wobble like a weavel...do I care no. Do I care what anyone else thinks....not a chance in hell."

And what if the admirer thinks a wobble is kinda super sexy..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people

I wouldn't take it to heart, on another thread today someone stated that "size 10 or less all look ill, or like smackheads"..... so it's not just fat insults doing the rounds

"

FFS! Really??? WTAF????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just smile and think of the issues that they have, that drives their need to project their negativity on you...

"

Exactly

Everyone is obsessed with weight and body image - it's really boring.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people

I wouldn't take it to heart, on another thread today someone stated that "size 10 or less all look ill, or like smackheads"..... so it's not just fat insults doing the rounds

"

None of it is necessary at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people

I wouldn't take it to heart, on another thread today someone stated that "size 10 or less all look ill, or like smackheads"..... so it's not just fat insults doing the rounds

FFS! Really??? WTAF???? "

Yep really.....

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Normally means they have their own insecurities and will try to make themselves feel better by putting others down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it either, people often feel the need to message me and point it out.

As though I don't pick my every flaw apart myself whenever I look into a mirror. I really don't need others doing it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

Face palm

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Some ppl are just tackless or just don’t think b4 opening their mouths or just down right or orrible..

I have a few wobbly bits, why, because I’m getting old, I have a social life that can be deemed unhealthy, but fuck other’s opinions, I enjoy life to suit me, not them.. we all die in the end and what’s the use of putting an healthy body into the ground .... u wouldn’t buy a brand new car and take it the scrap yard, would u? So wreck the fucking thing, enjoying life

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

Face palm "

Banging head on desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness though we all have things about us that we feel sensitive about, especially when others use it as a stick to beat us with.

With me it's no hair lol

I'd hope that a tiny few could see past that but I like real women...

No room for insults period but don't take it to heart as for every knocker theres 10 more who think to the contrary.

We all beautiful to someone... even me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

Oh noooooo

Why is it mostly men that have this opinion? it's absolute shite

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We need more love and appreciation for each other on this site.

No matter of size, colour, height or many other things. We may not want to meet each other, but surely we can respect each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand it either, people often feel the need to message me and point it out.

As though I don't pick my every flaw apart myself whenever I look into a mirror. I really don't need others doing it too. "

Exactly this! I can't speak for everyone but I know so many people that do this, we don't need it from others. Generally we are our own worst critics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We need more love and appreciation for each other on this site.

No matter of size, colour, height or many other things. We may not want to meet each other, but surely we can respect each other.

"

Wise words as always Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

Oh noooooo

Why is it mostly men that have this opinion? it's absolute shite "

I don't have that opinion, I've met some horrible fuckers in all sizes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

Erm.....I think you missed the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

Swing and a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have lots of wobbly bits "

barely

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

Oh noooooo

Why is it mostly men that have this opinion? it's absolute shite "

I can't comment on the whole personality thing.

Gusset sniffing springs to mind when looking at you avatar picture though LemonButterCream x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all seriousness though we all have things about us that we feel sensitive about, especially when others use it as a stick to beat us with.

With me it's no hair lol

I'd hope that a tiny few could see past that but I like real women...

No room for insults period but don't take it to heart as for every knocker theres 10 more who think to the contrary.

We all beautiful to someone... even me haha "

Yeah there can be, unfortunately it's usually the insults that stick with us though

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

wow. just wow

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

Oh noooooo

Why is it mostly men that have this opinion? it's absolute shite

I don't have that opinion, I've met some horrible fuckers in all sizes "

Yup, exactly. I'm shocked some people are really out there believing that a woman's clothed size is what defines her personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!

Oh noooooo

Why is it mostly men that have this opinion? it's absolute shite

I can't comment on the whole personality thing.

Gusset sniffing springs to mind when looking at you avatar picture though LemonButterCream x"

Pervert!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Body shaming goes right on across the board here and i see it crop up a lot when its a "do you prefer x or y body type" Ive seen woman being as derogatory about mens bodies far more than i see men doing it and then you have all the stereotyping coming into play. slim women are up their own arses, men who go to the gym are narcissists, i prefer "real bodies" than a bag of bones and so on and so forth. ridiculous carry on out of adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re all beautiful and there are always arseholes.

Be happy, be you and the world will fall into place! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

You look amazing to me

Have a great day people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres another form of bullying though which is the cowardly troll.

Always making snide comments at their victims but in ways no one else can tell.

I've a gorgeous friend on here that's going through this right now, funny how they never pick on guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world would be a better place if galf tge people weren't busy criticizing the other half. Shorty, fatty, four-eyes, baldy, etc. What about being kind? polite? respectful? Especially as beauty and physical attraction are completely arbitrary and subjective concepts. Everyone you find beautiful is beautiful. And that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? I find bigger girls much more attractive as slim girls are more likely to be up themselves more. *please don't take offence if this applies to you*

Bigger girls are more likely to have more of a likeable personality!"

Seriously? Why would your size make you any more or less likeable/nicer/up yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres another form of bullying though which is the cowardly troll.

Always making snide comments at their victims but in ways no one else can tell.

I've a gorgeous friend on here that's going through this right now, funny how they never pick on guys... "

Agree with this. There's so much of this going round, unhanded comments that no one else see's.

Shame we can't all just be adult about things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a question, just a moan. What's with all the fat insults today???

Is there something in the air? Yes, I have wobbly bits and no, I don't need your opinion on them

Rant over!

Have a great day people "

We all have wobbly bits

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