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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly not love, but definitely fallen in deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?"

Yes. They made me feel I'm dirt and that hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good tune

And no I haven’t. If it happens it happens. I don’t regret much in my life. Apart from starting smoking, I regret that

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. Young and stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... ended badly. I’ll love again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Yes. They made me feel I'm dirt and that hurt. "

Did they start a commotion?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yep. Won't do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Won't be doing that again.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, it messed me up for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good tune

And no I haven’t. If it happens it happens. I don’t regret much in my life. Apart from starting smoking, I regret that

Nozza you need to give that smoking lark up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good tune

And no I haven’t. If it happens it happens. I don’t regret much in my life. Apart from starting smoking, I regret that

Nozza you need to give that smoking lark up!"

Got a vape stick

. Cut down a lot. Maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, it messed me up for a long time. "

Really?

Without wishing to pry in what way? Affairs of the heart are always painful in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good tune

And no I haven’t. If it happens it happens. I don’t regret much in my life. Apart from starting smoking, I regret that

Nozza you need to give that smoking lark up!

Got a vape stick

. Cut down a lot. Maybe one day "

Well try to give up but you are smoking hot I have to say !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?"

Loved and lost! 100 percent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent "

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance.........."

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Yes the buzzcocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me. "

A winter's day, in a deep and dark December

I am alone

Gazing from my window to the streets below

On a freshly fallen silent shroud of snow

I am a rock, I am an island

I've built walls

A fortress deep and mighty

That none may penetrate

I have no need of friendship

Friendship causes pain

It's laughter and it's loving I disdain

I am a rock, I am an island

Don't talk of love

But I've heard the words before

It's sleeping in my memory

I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have died

If I never loved I never would have cried

I am a rock, I am an island

I have my books

And my poetry to protect me

I am shielded in my armor

Hiding in my room, safe within my womb

I touch no one and no one touches me

I am a rock, I am an island

And a rock feels no pain

And an island never cries

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Possibly not love, but definitely fallen in deep. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times, guess that's what you get for wearing your heart on your sleeve

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me. "

I'm the other side, I'd rather not have loved but took the lesson from it to make sure it doesn't happen again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me.

I'm the other side, I'd rather not have loved but took the lesson from it to make sure it doesn't happen again

You are over that love? Do you look back in anger or with a fond smile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?"

Always loved and lost!!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve fallen in love with someone WHEN I shouldn’t have.

A long time ago now, it took until my early forties to have my heart broken for the first time as an adult- and it fucking hurt. Wonderful memories now though and I still think of her pretty much every day.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me.

I'm the other side, I'd rather not have loved but took the lesson from it to make sure it doesn't happen again

. I don’t think it can be helped though I really don’t. If it happens it happens. I guess I’m too soft deep down, always have been. But I’m good at dusting myself off and getting on with it I suppose. If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be, if not then it’s time to move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it’s hard to truly describe what love is. But when it’s gone it truly does hurt. That said time is a healer.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

I am not so sure ...........I sometimes think what if I had not asked her to dance..........

I’m sure people will be split on that one depending on their experiences. No regrets, just lessons and memories for me.

I'm the other side, I'd rather not have loved but took the lesson from it to make sure it doesn't happen again

You are over that love? Do you look back in anger or with a fond smile?"

I'm well over that one, there are good memories, no anger or hate or anything but there are after feelings (towards myself not him) I guess you would say, that make me certain I won't be in such a position again

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent "

Agreed, but no need to do it again, just fall in lust now it’s much simpler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, who hasn’t ha

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Can you fall in love with someone you shouldn't? Surely if you love them then you absolutely should at that point in time...perhaps later, circumstances may change and you no longer love them, but when that happens I am grateful to have shared the obviously good times with someone that stirred that emotion in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you fall in love with someone you shouldn't? Surely if you love them then you absolutely should at that point in time...perhaps later, circumstances may change and you no longer love them, but when that happens I am grateful to have shared the obviously good times with someone that stirred that emotion in me. "

Exactly this. Except you said it so much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She shunned my natural emotions made me feel like dirt

I was hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

Agreed, but no need to do it again, just fall in lust now it’s much simpler "

Lust is the immediate response to attraction and desire whereas love is the slow etching of time on your heart

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

Agreed, but no need to do it again, just fall in lust now it’s much simpler

Lust is the immediate response to attraction and desire whereas love is the slow etching of time on your heart

As a grown up, Love is something you choose to do , very very carefully, with the right person, it’s a verb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the buzzcocks

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Love comes all shape and forms for me so can’t really point out the feeling of fall in love but I definitely fall in lust , multiple times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This entirely. But also why is it not possible to bewitch people or yourself into never (ever) falling out of love and leaving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This entirely. But also why is it not possible to bewitch people or yourself into never (ever) falling out of love and leaving

I don’t understand this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This entirely. But also why is it not possible to bewitch people or yourself into never (ever) falling out of love and leaving

I don’t understand this?"

You dont have to understand, just drink the potion.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The forbidden fruit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This entirely. But also why is it not possible to bewitch people or yourself into never (ever) falling out of love and leaving

I don’t understand this?

You dont have to understand, just drink the potion. "

The elixir..........of lust

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Buzzcocks

And yes, now well over it.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yea... sometimes I think you can’t help falling in love with someone .... loves such a strong word though ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot of people on here who have said never again and I’d be lying if I said it’s not upsetting. I get your reasons, I’ve loved and lost. It fucking sucks. but the good times were so damn good that I do hope it happens again for me. I won’t long for it, aim for it or expect it but I also won’t run from it if that’s how I’m feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, but it wouldn't be love if you planned it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup

Where did you come from....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

Yes. They made me feel I'm dirt and that hurt. "

Sorry to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup

Where did you come from....?

Erm.... I've always been here, generally mind my own business and sit in the corner, unless something either makes me laugh... Or twitch (and not in a good way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

And I would never have left....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup

Where did you come from....?

Erm.... I've always been here, generally mind my own business and sit in the corner, unless something either makes me laugh... Or twitch (and not in a good way)

You're not far from my corner....

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Yes, we staid together for far too long, it all ended in tears and I learned my lesson. Love needs to be shared, otherwise it goes stale and it hurts

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Yes, we had an amazing time together and I felt like she was perfect for me, but she was flighty and met someone else while she was working on a cruise ship. Took me a long time to get over her and we nearly tried again a few years ago when she moved back to the UK saying she missed me, but then true to form she buggered off back to New Zealand after messing me about and she's married with kids over there now. I'm well over it this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved and lost or better to have never loved at all?

Loved and lost! 100 percent

Agreed, but no need to do it again, just fall in lust now it’s much simpler

Lust is the immediate response to attraction and desire whereas love is the slow etching of time on your heart

As a grown up, Love is something you choose to do , very very carefully, with the right person, it’s a verb "

I wish it was that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?"

Yes

Still broken hearted but was recent.

I don’t know if I even believe in love anymore tbh.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Yes, we staid together for far too long, it all ended in tears and I learned my lesson. Love needs to be shared, otherwise it goes stale and it hurts

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many broken hearts in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many broken hearts in the world."

I love you Jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many broken hearts in the world."

Too many dreams can be broken in two

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i fallen in lust with many men that i shouldn't of. to me love is normal a mutual deep feelings between two people who respect eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many broken hearts in the world.

I love you Jason "

I love you Sheila.

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By *ackie_wmifsTV/TS
over a year ago

wolverhampton

My tale has spanned many years yet recently I seem to be remembering the events and faces more and more.

I wont bog you down in details - my behaviour and attitude is often questionable, this I associate with my very strong sex drive which has never been satisfied by my wife.

I own and run a small business - I established it in the early 90s and rented part of a office which house several businesses. The office block was subleased to us all to by “The Colonel” a member of the Territorial Army.

Amongst the various businesses was an employment agency run by a blonde - I’ll call her J

J came from money - self made money that afforded her a private education and plenty of worldly experience - she and her sister were the beauties of the town and by all accounts they had a ball.

J and The Colonel were an item - me, I was a struggling startup working crazy hours and not getting the sex I needed.

The Christmas party .......... oh the Christmas party here it starts ( Like so many others I’m sure

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Stressed up and fuck near broke I’m invited to the Christmas party in the local pub - plenty of beer / wine J and I start drinking heavily - later I retreat to the office before going home. Who do I find slumped in her chair ............. J with her red dress hitched high up the leg. I ended up with my face nestling in her blond semi shaven pussy eating her sweet scent. We were both completely pissed.

We returned to work after Christmas, me embossed that I’d taken advantage of J. About a week passed before J came up to see me to make it clear she wanted more ....... and that’s when we switched into overdrive.

Fucking on my office floor in the dead of night after she come back from the pub.

Fucked on her boyfriends ( The Colonels ) desk - mmmmm I can still smell her now.

Lurking in the shadows of her neighbours cottage as The Colonel driving by at midnight in his car ( he was become suspicious )

Me hiding in J’s upstairs cupboard when he called in to check up on her late one night. I switched off my phone and mobile so a call wouldn’t give me away - we fucked especially hard after he’d gone.

Fucking J in her lovely stockings in the back of my car ( she always wore stockings for a car fuck )

One late afternoon coming down stairs from my office ( we were completely alone ) and sat in her reception I decided to get into her mind ( I’m pretty good at that with women ) She was standing in front of me talking sex - as I was seated and I described my attending an interview with her and wanting to make a good impression as I wanted a job - she responded - as I described my scenario she moved closer ........ our knees almost touching. It didn’t take much she hitched up her skirt and mounted me - I kept in role as she ground her gusset into my ever ready cock - somehow we pulled our underwear aside and my cock fed on her pussy - her posh accent and private education thrown aside and we fucked like animals.

Threesomes I introduced her to mms and I was surprised how she so easily slipped into be a slut.

There was a problem - she loved the booze - it was as intertwined into her life as much as her love of a good fucking and she wouldn’t throttle back. We’d met too late in life and to be honest she’d have never have looked twice at me if we’d have met earlier.

I fucked up the relationship - Stupid but that’s what happened and J wanted nothing more to do with me.

Drink finally caught up with J - her health suffered horribly and I attended her funeral with a heavy heart - I couldn’t talk to anyone about it although I’m sure several acquittances knew about us.

I’m not sure that last paragraph belongs here but I can almost hear J laugh about it.

Anyway that’s it - a super memory - thank you J

Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last paragraph is terribly sad

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Oh many times.

I fell big time for a fuck buddy when we were both partnered. It nearly ruined my life, not because anyone found out but because he treated me like, well the fuck buddy I was. I got completely infatuated with him and drive myself crazy when I couldn’t see him or he wouldn’t reply to my texts and stuff. I was struggling with my mental health and homed in on this idea he was what I needed to be happy. He absolutely was not, and he was actually a bit of a prick.

This was years ago, before I really understood what I needed and the only time that ever happened. We stick fuck now and again, but I’ve realised he isn’t as amazing as of thought he was In bed, not as amazingly gorgeous as I believed either!!!

Never again!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh many times.

Never again!!!!"

This is my life right now, I hope I have those realisations soon as I just feel broken and can’t even talk to friends etc. Feel so lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?"

One? Can I declare 4 please

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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

A couple of times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken hearts can be mended when shared with another one

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By *on CheeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Broken hearts can't be Mended ..onwards and upwards is a myth it stays with you forever either with anger or loss unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My tale has spanned many years yet recently I seem to be remembering the events and faces more and more.

I wont bog you down in details - my behaviour and attitude is often questionable, this I associate with my very strong sex drive which has never been satisfied by my wife.

Amongst the various businesses was an employment agency run by a blonde - I’ll call her J

J came from money - self made money that afforded her a private education and plenty of worldly experience - she and her sister were the beauties of the town and by all accounts they had a ball.

J and The Colonel were an item - me, I was a struggling startup working crazy hours and not getting the sex I needed.

The Christmas party .......... oh the Christmas party here it starts ( Like so many others I’m sure

)

Fucking on my office floor in the dead of night after she come back from the pub.

Fucked on her boyfriends ( The Colonels ) desk - mmmmm I can still smell her now.

Lurking in the shadows of her neighbours cottage as The Colonel driving by at midnight in his car ( he was become suspicious )

Fucking J in her lovely stockings in the back of my car ( she always wore stockings for a car fuck )

Threesomes I introduced her to mms and I was surprised how she so easily slipped into be a slut.

I fucked up the relationship - Stupid but that’s what happened and J wanted nothing more to do with me.

I’m not sure that last paragraph belongs here but I can almost hear J laugh about it.

Anyway that’s it - a super memory - thank you J

Jack

Powerful words Jack. Did you love J of was it lust at the highest level?

Whichever it was part of your life that remains with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with?

One? Can I declare 4 please"

There are two on my heart breaker list. But hey I live to tell the tale!

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