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What if you was single the rest of your life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

46 and always been single sure what's another 40 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

In my mind I'm always single....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too

46 and always been single sure what's another 40 years "
That is right, it would be the same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now, I've realised I'm more than happy being single... I came out of an abusive relationship last year and I'm still dealing with issues from that.

Eventually, a relationship would be nice but until then I'm happy having my freedom and independence and Fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

It's not something I have to "cope" with being single.... it's a choice and I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too

In my mind I'm always single.... "
That is also good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

I love it!

Now waiting for the day I can live alone!

Damn kids!

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By *inkSwingCouple
over a year ago

Preston

I'd have a right arm like Popeye

Swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

How long have you been single Shag?????

Longest spell I’ve been single since the age of 18 is three weeks.

T

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Both have their pros and cons - I'd never stay in a relationship because I didn't want to be single, and I'd never insist on staying single if I met someone I liked enough to have a relationship with. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I'm perfectly happy being single, and if that's for the rest of my life then so be it...but I'm also happy being in the right relationship. If that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

I don't like people, So this would well suite me.

More than content with my own company

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd prefer not to be single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too

I love it!

Now waiting for the day I can live alone!

Damn kids!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too

How long have you been single Shag?????

Longest spell I’ve been single since the age of 18 is three weeks.

T"
That is good. I have been single all my life and loving it

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

I was enjoying being single and couldn't see being in a relationship again . Until i met the wife on here . Now couldn't imagine life without her

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm happy being single and could see it continuing. It may change but either is good.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am happy to be single and will remain single for the rest of my life. I like being alone but will always have a dog by my side.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Never understood the popular reasoning that being single equals being less happy than being attached.

I'm perpetually single and I'm proper giddy most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single so far!

No intention of ever marrying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both have their pros and cons - I'd never stay in a relationship because I didn't want to be single, and I'd never insist on staying single if I met someone I liked enough to have a relationship with. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I'm perfectly happy being single, and if that's for the rest of my life then so be it...but I'm also happy being in the right relationship. If that makes sense "

I do remember you posting something similar way back in time about this. It made sense that time and makes perfect sense now.

Thanks for sharing that lovely post again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm content being single, I'm open to not being single forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to be single and will remain single for the rest of my life. I like being alone but will always have a dog by my side."

Well said and if you ever get lonesome I will come running!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No what about it. Probably been single for over ten years now and doesn't bother me at all. Like my own company - if I get a bit 'lonely' I go for a walk or into town but it doesn't happen that often. Can't see myself in a relationship ever again mainly because I'm not looking for it.

Can't really be bothered about relationships nowadays - been there and done that - and my longest 'serious' relationship was back in my twenties and lasted 3 years.

My longest relationship altogether was about 8 years but we only saw each other a couple of times a week because she lived with someone and she wouldn't change her situation which was fine by me. Eventually it just fizzled out.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I've been single 12 years probably will be for another 12. No drama no hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about this a lot lately. I thought I was happily single but recently I thought I had changed my mind. I set up a pof profile a couple of days ago and then hid it the day after.

Basically, I go through notions where I feel I want someone but I always talk myself out of the idea soon after.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't mind if I'm single or in a relationship as long as I'm happy. As many others have said I'm happy on my own, I've a good circle of freinds. I won't rule a relationship out but it's not something I'm actively looking for.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

At this moment in time I'd be very content to be forever single.

In the 2 or so years of singledom, I've grown to love being solely in control of my money, decisions and happiness.

I'd need a bit on side though!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve been single for more years than I’ve been in relationships. It doesn’t bother me and I imagine I’ll remain single with the odd bit of fun along the way just like I’ve always done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. Been single more than attached during my adult life.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm perfectly content being single. Not looking for a relationship. However, if one came knocking at my door I wouldn't turn it away necessarily. If it was the right man

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"At this moment in time I'd be very content to be forever single.

In the 2 or so years of singledom, I've grown to love being solely in control of my money, decisions and happiness.

I'd need a bit on side though!"

Single would be fine, but a snuggle buddy would definitely help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single so long now I doubt I'd make a very good girlfriend.

I'm used to my own space and like living alone.

I miss sex and intimacy though - I watched a soppy film yesterday and I wondered if I was ever going to be kissed again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plan to be

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm better as a team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how being in a couple always seems to be the default version of how we should live. Saying that I wouldnt like to be without a special someone for the rest of my life, just doesnt have to be a fulltime someone. I like alone time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t know what to do the shock of money of my own would kill me now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be completely fine with it. Too many people I speak to who are always looking for someone, as if that's suddenly going to make them happy. Need to find happiness in yourself first, can't put that pressure on others to make you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how being in a couple always seems to be the default version of how we should live. Saying that I wouldnt like to be without a special someone for the rest of my life, just doesnt have to be a fulltime someone. I like alone time too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the single life and sometimes when I've told women this they seem to think it's a bit weird, but I really do like being free and single.

I've been single for so long now I couldn't tell you what it was like to be attached lol. It doest bother me but I do sometimes think that it would be nice to share moments with someone else, however I don't want commitment and I don't think anyone else is in my wavelength. I guess I'm just what you would call a loner.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd be happiest living alone but in a poly network.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my choice to be single. Ive been in love and got my heart shattered, not going there again

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

After 3 failed marriages, I think I'll stick to single. Have to admit to evenings are lonely. That and Alexa is sometimes the only person I talk to some daysm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single and very happy to stay that way. I have no intention of ever having another relationship again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would miss cheating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would miss cheating! "

A shining example of why being single is better

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Not sure i want to think about being single for the rest of my life, but i do know if you look to hard you will not find.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Wouldn't bother me, I've been single since 2006.

Yes, it would be nice to have someone to share life experiences with, but I do not need a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think some are meant to go it alone & can say it wouldn’t bother me either

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I honestly think some are meant to go it alone & can say it wouldn’t bother me either "

I'm a better person as a team x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I want to think that far ahead....

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Totally happy with being sine for ever, spent 25 years in the wrong relationship but have wonderful children and grandkids, but yh I'm happy to go through life alone

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

colchester

Happy fucking days

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

46 and been single nearly all the time. Cant see it changing as much as I'd love the "hi honey I'm home" sctick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly think some are meant to go it alone & can say it wouldn’t bother me either

I'm a better person as a team x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single people are a lot happier and have more freedom.

Marriage is very old fashioned and dying out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would be very happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got used to it now! So I suppose that is that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single people are a lot happier and have more freedom.

Marriage is very old fashioned and dying out."

First statement I disagree with depends on your situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being single.... it really is a bugger... knowing that I mean so little to anyone else....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single people are a lot happier and have more freedom.

Marriage is very old fashioned and dying out."

Don't have to be married to be not single. Co-habiting, civil partnership. Don't even have to live together if you've got a long term partner.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

There's a good chance that I may always be a widow.

If that's the case I'll be a merry widow....he wouldn't have had it any other way...and I'm cool with it.

I do at times miss having that really special person who really gets you. On the whole I'm happy just doing me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just me to worry about.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'll stay single forever, I much prefer it.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Being single isn’t a chore... it’s not something to cope with! If anything I’d say it’s the other way around.

I’d like to marry, eventually. But I’m in no rush and content where I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you cope being it and do you prefer it or do you need someone in your life? I dont mind being single infact I like it as I have so much to do and as well I like my own company too "

Quite happy in my own company tbh...was married..didn't work out ..will never be going back down that road or anything like it again

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