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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m taking a fab break. May hide rather than delete but I need a break.the amount of trolls and negativity is taking its toll.

I have another account that I organise socials from and the messages are nothing but lovely, this account, for some reason, the opposite.

I have no idea why or what I have done, I try to be nice to people and go out of my way to be friendly and helpful but no, just horrible messages at least twice a day.

I’ll be back in some form after some respite but will still be around on kik and WhatsApp.

Look after yourselves.

GG xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs and enjoy your break.. x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sorry to hear you have been getting such negativity, I have only ever seen you being friendly so cannot see why hope you enjoy your break

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, my lovely. Have had to hide my profile due to it. Am just having the odd read and reply on the forum now. Fed up with the horrible mails and the vileness of it all.

Xx

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

i will miss you on here very much and i cant believe any person would ever be horrible to you it upsets me that i really cant wait for our little rendezvous in August your an amazing woman all the best till we meet

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

We have never really spoken but I have seen you around. It's really sad that good people feel this way! I wish you the best and hopefully you'll pop back because you're great on here ..take care x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You are one of the most genuine, friendly, beautiful, sexiest person that we know. You have a heart of gold, and we are honored to call you a close friend.

People criticise and put others down, just so they can have the feeling of being 'superior' and so they can hide their own insecurities. I feel sorry for those who do that, it is so incredibly pathetic.

Also remember those people who try to bring you down are already beneath you....and not in the sexy way

Keep smiling gorgeous girl and we will see you very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay safe and stay happy!!!

T

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Take care GG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry to hear this OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really sorry to hear that . You’ve always been lovely, funny and kind.

Hope you’re ok. Xxx

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

This is indeed a huge shame. Hope to meet you in person one day real soon. Take care and sincere best wishes for now x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Never let the worst of the Internet know they have impacted you, it empowers them more.

Enjoy your break

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Oh no there’s no need for it. There should be a way we can deal with these people.

Sending positive vibes GG

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So sad people have made you feel this way, I don't understand why anyone would be so cruel

Take care

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no there’s no need for it. There should be a way we can deal with these people.

Sending positive vibes GG "

Block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame to see yet another bright light vanish from the forums because of the saddos. Block, block, block!

Thanks for the chats, take care and a big fuck off to the haters Xxx

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Oh no there’s no need for it. There should be a way we can deal with these people.

Sending positive vibes GG

Block them "
Never let people you have never meet face to face get you down probably, just bored Sad losers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This makes me sad because you are just lovely. Sending hugs, enjoy your break. Please come back, you are valued xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m taking a fab break. May hide rather than delete but I need a break.the amount of trolls and negativity is taking its toll.

I have another account that I organise socials from and the messages are nothing but lovely, this account, for some reason, the opposite.

I have no idea why or what I have done, I try to be nice to people and go out of my way to be friendly and helpful but no, just horrible messages at least twice a day.

I’ll be back in some form after some respite but will still be around on kik and WhatsApp.

Look after yourselves.

GG xx"

There are jealous vindictive people on fab who just ruin it for the genuine lovely people. A break is sometimes good to allow yourselves some calm and positivity back into your life, its just such a shame this happens. I wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry to hear this! Anyone who knows you knows you’re truly gorgeous in the inside and outside and a wonderful person to spend time with. A lot of us are getting nasty messages atm, it’s just such a shame to see the good ones go as it means the bastards are winning.

Take care and see you back both here and in Manchester soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its sad that the twats of life spoil it so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sending you love sweetie!! I’ll miss you on the forums. Xx

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

A break is often the best way to get some perspective.

Remember that the messages you get here reflect the person sending them and not you.

Don't let them get to you. You're strong.

Enjoy your time away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry to read this GG. You’re a lovely lady and these people really need to take a long hard look at themselves. I will miss you, but take care of yourself and hopefully will catch up soon x

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Take care GG you’ll be missed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no. Sad to read this. It drove me away too. Sometimes you just need a break from it. People say ignore it but it can get to you eventually. It got to me so it was time to go. You’ll get to the stage where you think fuck it and hopefully you’ll come back. Unfortunately there is an awful lot of nastiness and jealousy on here. Hard to rise above it sometimes. Take care gorgeous! And if you want my kik let me know xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you’re alright GG, you’ve been here as long as can remember and more.

You must’ve seen it all before and know exactly how it works so for it to get to you is quite surprising and possibly a sign of the times on here.

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thanks all. It just gets a bit exhausting.

You’re right Sam. I’ve had a lot of inboxes from men, women and couples saying it’s a strange time on here for some reason and the aura has certainly changed somewhat.

I won’t be deleting, it’s not that bad, I just need a breather.

Hope everyone else is ok. It’s sad to hear that the genuine amongst us are feeling this way in our little space

Much love to all xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Much love

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1


"Thanks all. It just gets a bit exhausting.

You’re right Sam. I’ve had a lot of inboxes from men, women and couples saying it’s a strange time on here for some reason and the aura has certainly changed somewhat.

I won’t be deleting, it’s not that bad, I just need a breather.

Hope everyone else is ok. It’s sad to hear that the genuine amongst us are feeling this way in our little space

Much love to all xx"

Sorry to hear that you have to experience this an having to take a break and hide your profile. It highlights that some people can't respect others and learn to live in harmony with each other. There was a thread last night about politely turning someone down. The amount of people saying they got really nasty messages after saying sorry we won't meet.

Some people need to understand that your nasty messages or comments can really hurt and in some cases break someone's self esteem and confidence.

Let's learn to respect others.

Stay safe, all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all. It just gets a bit exhausting.

You’re right Sam. I’ve had a lot of inboxes from men, women and couples saying it’s a strange time on here for some reason and the aura has certainly changed somewhat.

I won’t be deleting, it’s not that bad, I just need a breather.

Hope everyone else is ok. It’s sad to hear that the genuine amongst us are feeling this way in our little space

Much love to all xx"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Enjoy your break GG, sorry it had to come to this. Hopefully when you return things are better for you and on the site in general, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear it GG, hope you feel loads better for your break. All the best, lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, sorry to hear you've had some negativity from folk on here, unfortunately it's rife when someone can't take a "no thanks".

Anyway, I'm a Yorkshire based chap so if you need to re-engage with decent types than feel free anytime to drop me a line.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Enjoy your break GG

Though come back with new enthusiasm though.

Times arnt good at the moment.

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