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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi group.

Do over recently start licking a girl I know she loves sex and sleeping with many partners and I have no problem with this. I've fallen for her as a person and not just because of what I know about her. We finally hooked up and she was generally surprised on how I was in bed. We both had an amazing time. But shes said she thinks we will be dangerous toghter. She can see herself falling for me and it worries her so she left. I'm not wanting to change her. She said I totally took her by surprise yo the point shes may not want to sleep with anyone else again. So why did she leave. I have said I'd never set any boundaries shes free yo carry on as she wants but I'd just like to be in her life. I'm confused as fuck. All I want to know is that she will come back to me. Any ideas should I leave her to think I dont want to keep calling.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Keep an open mind and communicate well together, so that you can decide what you want to do

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It may not be what you want to hear but what I've learnt is that if someone wants to be with you ,they will be with you.

If they don't, they won't.

Sad but true.

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

She sounds scared as she maybe knows she’ll fall for you and her heads telling her that what she doesn’t want. All you can do is wait it out and hope she changes for mind...

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Honestly I'd leave her be. if she wants you she will make the contact.

Maybe she just doesn't want a relationship at all

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Yeah give her space. She knows where you are and what the deal is. Making it more intense will probably push her further away. Maintain hope but not expectations. You need to try and live your own life not be looking backwards.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"It may not be what you want to hear but what I've learnt is that if someone wants to be with you ,they will be with you.

If they don't, they won't.

Sad but true.

"
Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She sounds scared as she maybe knows she’ll fall for you and her heads telling her that what she doesn’t want. All you can do is wait it out and hope she changes for mind..."

^ What this gent says, makes sense to me and something I'd have said similar.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It may not be what you want to hear but what I've learnt is that if someone wants to be with you ,they will be with you.

If they don't, they won't.

Sad but true.

"

Yes, I agree.

Op, accept that for whatever reason, this woman doesn't want to be with you. You will make things very difficult for yourself if you hold on to false hope.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Personally, I have been in your position way too often. You can't actually do anything but let them figure it out for themselves. It is torture having things end abruptly or not getting that closure, but actually in my case they both returned! On the other occasion I thought I will be the one to determine my own position so I decided to let it go regardless.

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By *ark979Man
over a year ago

catford

She can see herself falling for you and obviously you arent on the same page

You more or less indicated that if you got with her you would still want to go on meets , whereas ahe would want a monogamous relationship.

If you arent ready for that you should leave her be .

Obviously i could be 100% wrong mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may come back, she may not. You have no control over that. All you can do is live your own life, and maybe, if your very lucky....

If not then your life goes on, and one day you may find someone who stays. If you do then none of this will matter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may not be what you want to hear but what I've learnt is that if someone wants to be with you ,they will be with you.

If they don't, they won't.

Sad but true.

"

I agree shouldn’t be complicated!!

But worst case scenario mate that’s a glowing endorsement if a cool girl sees this thread !!

Every cloud and all that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She came back so all is good with the world for now

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