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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously guys do i look like a BBW?? ive been told two days in a row im a BBW, now dont get wrong i think big women can be just as sexy and im no slim chicken myself but no way would i class myself as a BBW. Whats your _iew??? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're everything a girl should be! I think you'd be perfectly described as curvy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they mean big boobs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perfectly curvy..without doubt.

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

don't get too hung up on how other people describe you.

I've been told I'm a right ugly twat, but then again my mom always told it as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"don't get too hung up on how other people describe you.

I've been told I'm a right ugly twat, but then again my mom always told it as it is "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You NOT a BBQ

I guess you are size 14 at most.

You are beautiful. BUt no BBW.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't get too hung up on how other people describe you.

I've been told I'm a right ugly twat, but then again my mom always told it as it is "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get that all the time too lol im paranoid now,im not slim but a 14 lol xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Just a guess here.....but I'm thinking that no guy is going to say you look like a BBW on this thread....because they hold out a hope that you might shag them?

I could of course be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bbw on the smaller scale yeah..

*do not shoot me*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i get that all the time too lol im paranoid now,im not slim but a 14 lol xx"

dont be you are a very sexy woman x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bbw on the smaller scale yeah..

*do not shoot me*"

Dont be silly i admire your honesty x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not at all youu look slim.. some people are just very insensitive. They see big boobs and expect all of you to look that way.

you look pretty perfect to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a guess here.....but I'm thinking that no guy is going to say you look like a BBW on this thread....because they hold out a hope that you might shag them?

I could of course be wrong"

Maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all youu look slim.. some people are just very insensitive. They see big boobs and expect all of you to look that way.

you look pretty perfect to me "

xxxxx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"You NOT a BBQ

I guess you are size 14 at most.

You are beautiful. BUt no BBW.

X "

LMAO@BBQ !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You NOT a BBQ

I guess you are size 14 at most.

You are beautiful. BUt no BBW.

X

LMAO@BBQ !! "

well i can be hot sometimes like a bbq lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You NOT a BBQ

I guess you are size 14 at most.

You are beautiful. BUt no BBW.

X

LMAO@BBQ !! "

SORRY but that is autocorrect for you, just got a new phone that needs to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a guess here.....but I'm thinking that no guy is going to say you look like a BBW on this thread....because they hold out a hope that you might shag them?

I could of course be wrong"

I read their profile and realise I'm not what they're looking for and much too far away to hope for a meet - sometimes it's just nice to be nice...

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!"

Im not looking for compliments but thanks

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

If your name was Big Busty Wendy you'd be a proper BBW

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a guess here.....but I'm thinking that no guy is going to say you look like a BBW on this thread....because they hold out a hope that you might shag them?

I could of course be wrong

I read their profile and realise I'm not what they're looking for and much too far away to hope for a meet - sometimes it's just nice to be nice..."

well said

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

Hmmm this is a good one.

Have arranged to go to a club with a friend, hotel booked and then find out the evening is a BBW night.

Not a skinny minx. But do ask the question, when do you 'become' a BBW.

Is there a size, shape?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Hmmm this is a good one.

Have arranged to go to a club with a friend, hotel booked and then find out the evening is a BBW night.

Not a skinny minx. But do ask the question, when do you 'become' a BBW.

Is there a size, shape?"

Btw I'm size 10/12 below, 16 on top.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!"

Plus if you saw my comment i think bbw are just as sexy you would realise im not against it far from it but obvioulsy you like to dress up as a woman so what would you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm this is a good one.

Have arranged to go to a club with a friend, hotel booked and then find out the evening is a BBW night.

Not a skinny minx. But do ask the question, when do you 'become' a BBW.

Is there a size, shape?"

I would say a size 20 plus??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't know how big/curvy you have to be to be classed as a bbw, but I think you are not one of them.

I think you look great.

I'm sometimes referred to as a bbw, but I don't think I am either. It doesn't bother me though.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!

Plus if you saw my comment i think bbw are just as sexy you would realise im not against it far from it but obvioulsy you like to dress up as a woman so what would you know"

Oooh - NASTY! Now why would you think it was the male making the comment? It was actually me, the wrong side of curvy female.

Anyone with half a brain can see what you're actually doing is fishing for compliments. Pretty much everyone knows what a BBW is and if you're happy you're not one then why get all affronted if some idiot says you are? If someone said you were a giraffe would you come on here asking if your neck was too long?

Get over yourself ffs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally don't know how big/curvy you have to be to be classed as a bbw, but I think you are not one of them.

I think you look great.

I'm sometimes referred to as a bbw, but I don't think I am either. It doesn't bother me though. "

I know what you mean but men just dont seem to get it that woman have issues with there size whether you are a size 10 or 20 xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I know....there is a doorway.. if you can get through facing forward you arent a BBW ... if you have to turn side ways you are.. would that work

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!

Plus if you saw my comment i think bbw are just as sexy you would realise im not against it far from it but obvioulsy you like to dress up as a woman so what would you know

Oooh - NASTY! Now why would you think it was the male making the comment? It was actually me, the wrong side of curvy female.

Anyone with half a brain can see what you're actually doing is fishing for compliments. Pretty much everyone knows what a BBW is and if you're happy you're not one then why get all affronted if some idiot says you are? If someone said you were a giraffe would you come on here asking if your neck was too long?

Get over yourself ffs!

"

Im not going to get in to a argument about it you clearly have issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know....there is a doorway.. if you can get through facing forward you arent a BBW ... if you have to turn side ways you are.. would that work "

PMSL xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x"
well you would say that as you was hanging out of the back of me last night lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x well you would say that as you was hanging out of the back of me last night lol x "

And very nice it was too!!!

Can't wait to do it again lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x well you would say that as you was hanging out of the back of me last night lol x

And very nice it was too!!!

Can't wait to do it again lol"
role on Wednesday you sex beast x

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By *rAdventurerMan
over a year ago

Richmond

Curvy perhaps voluptuous

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x"

Ok MR ..Curvy or BBW ?? smiles.

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By *rAdventurerMan
over a year ago

Richmond


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x

Ok MR ..Curvy or BBW ?? smiles. "

BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No your not a BBW you are a sexy curvy lady.

BBW can be sexy very curvy ladies

Just be comfortable with what you are

A very sexy curvy lady x

Ok MR ..Curvy or BBW ?? smiles. "

A lovely sexy curvy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said it before that I would rather call myself a BBW, to be told by others that I do not qualify as one and should consider myself as curvy instead; than the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm just cynical....

But maybe guys on this thread will say 'ooo no you're not a BBW, god perish the thought, have very dare anyone say that you are.

And on another thread they would be bowing down on their knees to worship the bigger girl.

Some men will say anything to get a meet. If you have a vagina they will tell you you're the spitting image of Cheryl Cole.

I also don't really understand why, if you have nothing against BBWs or bigger ladies, you would start a thread surprised that men could dare to call you one.

Personally I couldn't give a shit how men, whom I'm never gonna meet, describe me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just cynical....

But maybe guys on this thread will say 'ooo no you're not a BBW, god perish the thought, have very dare anyone say that you are.

And on another thread they would be bowing down on their knees to worship the bigger girl.

Some men will say anything to get a meet. If you have a vagina they will tell you you're the spitting image of Cheryl Cole.

I also don't really understand why, if you have nothing against BBWs or bigger ladies, you would start a thread surprised that men could dare to call you one.

Personally I couldn't give a shit how men, whom I'm never gonna meet, describe me "
to be honest no I dont want to be looked at as a bbw because thats not how I see myself some women are happy to be big but I'm not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would rather be called curvy than a bbw it sounds more sexy, BTW people I have had weight issues all my life so things like this I am going to take to heart we can't all be made out of steel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't worry about what people say about you. You don't need anyone else to justify what you are. People will come up with all sorts of descriptions, a lot of it is about their own self image problems.

Its not just the men either, there are lots of women who are equally, if not more so, quick to try and knock you down with a snide comment, people are competitive and sometimes feel threatened.

Just ignore these men who say you are BBW, you know the truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And if you really Want to get in to a debate about it I do find full figured women attracted which I don't see as a bbw a bbw to me is someone who is morbily obese and I don't care what you say that is not attractive not only are you ruining your health your also denting the nhs so now I say bbws Ffs get over yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just don't worry about what people say about you. You don't need anyone else to justify what you are. People will come up with all sorts of descriptions, a lot of it is about their own self image problems.

Its not just the men either, there are lots of women who are equally, if not more so, quick to try and knock you down with a snide comment, people are competitive and sometimes feel threatened.

Just ignore these men who say you are BBW, you know the truth "
well said xxxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Is the OP convincing herself or others here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard to tell from your pictures, but from what I've seen I would have considered you a BBW.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the OP convincing herself or others here? "
op?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is the OP convincing herself or others here? op?"
original poster- the person who starts a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - opening poster ie You

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP - opening poster ie You"
gotcha lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't think you're bbw nor curvy but just plain silly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually don't think you're bbw nor curvy but just plain silly"
well id hate to say what I think of u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can say whatever you want silly, it's an open forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that but if I say what I really feel ill get kicked off so jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too fat to jog lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"don't get too hung up on how other people describe you.

I've been told I'm a right ugly twat, but then again my mom always told it as it is "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Maybe if the op wants everyone to say no your not a bbw she was a tad niave to put the thread in the first place. No need to get irritated if everyone doesn't agree with you its the way an open forum works. Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if the op wants everyone to say no your not a bbw she was a tad niave to put the thread in the first place. No need to get irritated if everyone doesn't agree with you its the way an open forum works. Welcome "
I don't mind people disagreeing with me one woman said she thought I was a bbw I said I appreciate your honesty but its when bbws get on there high horse trying to say I have something agaisnt big w omen it pissies me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you're not... but why did you have get all arsy a few posts ago?

couldn't see a need for that really

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Maybe if the op wants everyone to say no your not a bbw she was a tad niave to put the thread in the first place. No need to get irritated if everyone doesn't agree with you its the way an open forum works. Welcome I don't mind people disagreeing with me one woman said she thought I was a bbw I said I appreciate your honesty but its when bbws get on there high horse trying to say I have something agaisnt big w omen it pissies me off "
if you have confidence in yourself why care what anyone thinks?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I know that but if I say what I really feel ill get kicked off so jog on "

Errr you asked a question on a public forum, you won't always get the answers you are hoping for and there is no need to be nasty when that happens.

If you only want answers to agree with you, you are on the wrong forum as most people on here have their own mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curvy and nice.

stop worrying.

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By *lizabethBennetWoman
over a year ago

somewhere local


"Seriously guys do i look like a BBW?? ive been told two days in a row im a BBW, now dont get wrong i think big women can be just as sexy and im no slim chicken myself but no way would i class myself as a BBW. Whats your _iew??? xx"

BBW only has usefulness as a term when people use it to describe themselves, anyone telling you to use is at best a cheeky fecker, at worst trying to make you feel insecure about your body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your comfortable with who you are its simple.

Fuck what everyone thinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a little confused by this thread.

I personally dislike many of the labels that are used on here especially bbw, I would therefore understand if the Ops point was a blanket dislike for the label, but it appears that the Op is happy to use it to describe other women on here but uncomfortable with it being assigned to her.

I would not call you a bbw because I do not like the term, but I have seen women slimmer than you as well as larger than you class themselves as bbw. In your opening post you yourself profess to not being slim.

The two people you refer to as calling you a bbw this week probably intended no malice and were probably pitching you, if you are comfortable using the label on others why shouldn't they use it on you?

This is a genuine question, I'm not being funny, maybe I'm missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont. "

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi i agree with black spice...im probably a bit larger than op but i to have been classed as a bbw! I dont like the term as i have seen much larger ladies who have themselves used it! However im not unrealistic to know that i am 'big' or curvy as i like to say! Its a perception that each person has and thats fair enough!! If i hear it...i walk away!!!

Op..u are gorgeous lady...just how a woman should be...surround urself with people who tell u that and sod the rest!

Lifes to fecking short girl..stop worrying about how u look and enjoy!!!

Ok dear deirdre moment over xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm this is a good one.

Have arranged to go to a club with a friend, hotel booked and then find out the evening is a BBW night.

Not a skinny minx. But do ask the question, when do you 'become' a BBW.

Is there a size, shape?

I would say a size 20 plus??"

see this is the $100 question

Ask 50 people what size a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies, because whats big is subjectional to what you like

If you like big ladies then a size 20+ maybe what you class as big, if you like slim ladies you will see a size 14/16 as big

I class myself as a BBW, to me im over weight and i have saggy bits so im big

As for if i think your a BBW, thats not my place to comment, if your happy thats all that matters

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

having given your photos a very close examination you are very fit and no way bbw in fact you my kind of lady mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the OP convincing herself or others here? "

got to be honest here i was thinking the same

I dont mean this rude but it sounds to me like she knows she's big but hurt that its been pointed out and is now looking for a bit of a ego massage

We are what we are, if we are over weight we either have to accept that or do something about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi i agree with black spice...im probably a bit larger than op but i to have been classed as a bbw! I dont like the term as i have seen much larger ladies who have themselves used it! However im not unrealistic to know that i am 'big' or curvy as i like to say! Its a perception that each person has and thats fair enough!! If i hear it...i walk away!!!

Op..u are gorgeous lady...just how a woman should be...surround urself with people who tell u that and sod the rest!

Lifes to fecking short girl..stop worrying about how u look and enjoy!!!

Ok dear deirdre moment over xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. "
being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur just tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one called you fat.. they called you a bbw its only you who _iewed it in the negative light when you put it into context.

big beautiful woman are what the initials stand for but to some its just a tag to simply indicate to men they are curvy with a little more cushion for pushin.

You use it for others and they might like the tag either, so just ignore it if you dont like it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yeah you're beautiful, yeah you're not a BBW (god forbid that anyone should have to suffer THAT label), yeah you're sexy ... yadda yadda yadda!

Plus if you saw my comment i think bbw are just as sexy you would realise im not against it far from it but obvioulsy you like to dress up as a woman so what would you know

Oooh - NASTY! Now why would you think it was the male making the comment? It was actually me, the wrong side of curvy female.

Anyone with half a brain can see what you're actually doing is fishing for compliments. Pretty much everyone knows what a BBW is and if you're happy you're not one then why get all affronted if some idiot says you are? If someone said you were a giraffe would you come on here asking if your neck was too long?

Get over yourself ffs!

"

Agree the comment was very nasty. When I read the op my initial thought, and nothing she's written since has altered that is someone's fishing for compliments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a 18/16 on bottom and 16 on top and I've been told by dome beautiful BBW women that I'm too small.......but I don't look my size being 5ft10 x your a very sexy woman you are whatever you say you are x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is "

Now you see, you're wrong.

You're not a slim woman but dislike being called a bbw. Black Spice is black but doesn't like being called a big black cock.

I'm much larger than you and don't like bbw either but accept on sites like these people need "ready reckoners". Very few people go unscathed by comments made by other fabsters, whether intended or not.

It can be tough going if you're needy/fragile/lacking in confidence etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is "

Are you implying a BBW is fat

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

Are you implying a BBW is fat"

Are you implying they're not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

Are you implying a BBW is fat

Are you implying they're not?"

I'm simply saying one persons opinion of BBW is different to others but NO ONE deserves to be called fat

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington

well, none of your public pics show much of your stomach, but I'd say you have lovely curves, nowhere near what I'd consider a BBW.

Damn I wish I still lived in Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, none of your public pics show much of your stomach, but I'd say you have lovely curves, nowhere near what I'd consider a BBW.

Damn I wish I still lived in Reading "

so your basing being a BBW on tummy flab? I kinda went for the overall.. bingo wings, double chin, legs, ass, boobs

the OP could be a size 12 with just unflattering pictures, or she could be a 16 and carries it well.

Think there is no definite definition, its just all about how you see yourself and how you as an individual stereotype the label BBW.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

Are you implying a BBW is fat

Are you implying they're not?

I'm simply saying one persons opinion of BBW is different to others but NO ONE deserves to be called fat"

I'm a size 22 and fat.

You can sugar coat it all you wish but at that size and 5ft 7...I'm fat. Not sure what you mean by "deserves" though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously guys do i look like a BBW?? ive been told two days in a row im a BBW, now dont get wrong i think big women can be just as sexy and im no slim chicken myself but no way would i class myself as a BBW. Whats your _iew??? xx"
Who cares what other people think! you are you and thats all that matters!

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington


"so your basing being a BBW on tummy flab? I kinda went for the overall.. bingo wings, double chin, legs, ass, boobs

"

not entirely (jesus, people think in such black and white terms on this forum) but tummy flab's certainly a factor, so without seeing that it's hard to estimate.

There's one pic with her tummy, and although she's clothed I wouldn't say Hannah's got a lot of fat on her, and what she does have is carried well.

now off to see what other comments I've made are going to have people jumping down my fucking throat today...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh get over yourself seriously

Been on sites like this for knocking on 10 years and only had a small handful of insulting messages and trust me bbw wasn't the offending term trust me

If fishing for compliments is your bag try the chat rooms you'll have more luck there than here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although as far as look at me threads go well done you've got everyone looking that's for sure much kudos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've obviously got weight issues, probably shouldn't have started this thread cos it seems like you haven't liked some of the answers.

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder and they should say bbw is in the eye of the beholder too. Everyone's definition of plump, curvy, bbw, ssbbw is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Are you implying a BBW is fat"

haha! post of the year!

no shit sherlock!!

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By *keenyMan
over a year ago

harrogate


"Seriously guys do i look like a BBW?? ive been told two days in a row im a BBW, now dont get wrong i think big women can be just as sexy and im no slim chicken myself but no way would i class myself as a BBW. Whats your _iew??? xx"

You are a very sexy curvy woman

You look like a real woman

You are not a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You look like a real woman

You are not a bbw "

oh dear god... is it thursday??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

You look like a real woman

You are not a bbw

oh dear god... is it thursday?? "

Makes you laugh doesn't it?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all "

is that £ or lb? lmao

why not split it 50/50 then you'd be a BBW millionaire lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all "

Hmmm...bit early for cake, hold it for tea time and I've worked out my Propoints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all

is that £ or lb? lmao

why not split it 50/50 then you'd be a BBW millionaire lol "

Ohhh sassy are u calling me fat....omg...booo hoo flicks hair breathes in my tummy flab ,tucks in my chins and stomps off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all

is that £ or lb? lmao

why not split it 50/50 then you'd be a BBW millionaire lol

Ohhh sassy are u calling me fat....omg...booo hoo flicks hair breathes in my tummy flab ,tucks in my chins and stomps off "

can i have your cake before you leave though please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all

Hmmm...bit early for cake, hold it for tea time and I've worked out my Propoints. "

Dont wait too long ya know what us fat lasses are like i mean constant eating cakes,pasties,choccy.....so hurry up it may go quick....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a cream cake

Jeeez wish i haf a pound for every bbw thread id so be on the beach in the Maldives.....happy sunday all

is that £ or lb? lmao

why not split it 50/50 then you'd be a BBW millionaire lol

Ohhh sassy are u calling me fat....omg...booo hoo flicks hair breathes in my tummy flab ,tucks in my chins and stomps off

can i have your cake before you leave though please? "

Blimey eating my cake too....damn i tell ya these forums are shocking.......SHOCKING.......pfft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen this thread and seen your pics.Yes you are a bit chunky but your personality shines through.I'm told that it's not all about looks in any event so if you lose a few pounds to go with your winning personality then yoy should be quids in. Kudos to you as well for basically starting a thread asking for people to rate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv not even looked at the OP pics as dont see the point....as a lot of people have said size doesnt matter to others......as long as ur happy with ur size it doesnt matter what anyone calls you. you should be comfortable enough in your own skin to know all of us are beautiful........ its taken me years to realise that as i have always struggled with self confidence but i know if i think im ok someone else will to xxx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just seen this thread and seen your pics.Yes you are a bit chunky but your personality shines through.I'm told that it's not all about looks in any event so if you lose a few pounds to go with your winning personality then yoy should be quids in. Kudos to you as well for basically starting a thread asking for people to rate you "

Oh oh!!! Now you've done it! The op was apoplectic at being called a bbw, calling her chunky will push her into cardiac arrest territory!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Just seen this thread and seen your pics.Yes you are a bit chunky but your personality shines through.I'm told that it's not all about looks in any event so if you lose a few pounds to go with your winning personality then yoy should be quids in. Kudos to you as well for basically starting a thread asking for people to rate you

Oh oh!!! Now you've done it! The op was apoplectic at being called a bbw, calling her chunky will push her into cardiac arrest territory! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kit Kat Peanut Butter Chunky is delicious!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, a Lady's dress size isn't what makes her attractive. It's the way she carries herself, her confidence, her personality, her wit, the twinkle in her eye! A woman who says, ''this is me, take it or leave it'', lol! Size is only important when you are looking for clothes as a guide to what item will fit you when you take it into the changing room. I'm a 14, but sometimes I can wear an item marked a 12 (even a 10 once), sometimes I need the 16. It's not the label, it's what it looks like once it's on. And if you look good in (or out of it!!!) then the size is irrelevant. I call myself average on my profile, but some have said I'm athletic. Others have said curvy, 'cos at 46 I DO have curves, lol! I'm just me and their opinion is just that, their opinion. If you don't see yourself as a BBW, then you aren't. I can't really express an opinion about you just from your pics. I'd have to chat with you, meet up, see what you were like in person. It's the whole package, not just the visual.

There is one thing that I do find attractive and that is maturity. And I will say that from some of your replies to other's comments, you have lacked a little of that. I understand you are sensitive about your size, but it's not nice or attractive (regardless of size) to throw nasty comments back at those who are simply expressing an opinion that you asked for. And if you would like my opinion of your size based solely on your pics, I would say 'curvy'.

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify.

being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is "

Thank you for clarifying your position. So basically you infer that using the label bbw is the same as using the word fat, and you state it is a 'bad thing' to be called fat. If in your own head it's a bad thing or negative, why do you use the term in your description of others?

Your living in a house constructed of sand and other minerals that are melted together at very high temperatures (oh it's easier to just say glass) so why do you keep picking up stones?

If you don't like the label then maybe you should consider not adding to it's circulation by using it, especially, by your own admission, in a negative way.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I've only read the first few (maybe 10 at most) posts, had a quick look and can only summise "curvy". I've never sees that as a bad thing as long as one is healthy and happy, who else cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....... being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

Now you see, you're wrong.

You're not a slim woman but dislike being called a bbw. Black Spice is black but doesn't like being called a big black cock.

I'm much larger than you and don't like bbw either but accept on sites like these people need "ready reckoners". Very few people go unscathed by comments made by other fabsters, whether intended or not.

It can be tough going if you're needy/fragile/lacking in confidence etc. "

Thank you, that's the point I was trying to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any term used can be taken 2 ways. Complimentary, as I would think it was intended or as a slur.

For instance I often use the word Dyke in reference to myself and so do one or 2 members of my Family, but not in an offensive way. But it can also be used as an insult. It's about the context. I don't get offended by the words so much as the intent behind using them.

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often use the word "Chinky" to affectionately describe all things Chinese, and have no issues being called one as such.

People would look at me as if I am from another planet, especially when I launch into one about not liking the cheap quality goods coming out of mainland China, the fake goods such as eggs, medicines, baby milk powder etc., as I am Chinese myself!

I do object to being branded together with China Chinese though, as I was born a Brit and have carried a British passport all my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of Big Black Cocks, I consider them as Big Beautiful Cocks! Dreamy!

I can only ogle as some to them though, as they are way too big for me!

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By *he one in the middleMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Have looked at your pics and you are not a BBW in my eyes

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"so your basing being a BBW on tummy flab? I kinda went for the overall.. bingo wings, double chin, legs, ass, boobs

not entirely (jesus, people think in such black and white terms on this forum) but tummy flab's certainly a factor, so without seeing that it's hard to estimate.

There's one pic with her tummy, and although she's clothed I wouldn't say Hannah's got a lot of fat on her, and what she does have is carried well.

now off to see what other comments I've made are going to have people jumping down my fucking throat today..."

Wow, if you think joining in on your posts and questioning what you said jumping down your throat so much that you have to swear at people...maybe stepping away from the keyboard would be a better option.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

" I don't mind people disagreeing with me one woman said she thought I was a bbw I said I appreciate your honesty but its when bbws get on there high horse trying to say I have something agaisnt big w omen it pissies me off "

But you DO have something against big women. You said yourself they're 'unattractive' and cost the NHS money. You stated earlier you think I have issues ... I'd say yours are far more deep seated than mine.

I think it's YOUR obvious dislike of big women that have resulted in you not wanting to be aligned in any way with them and you're horrified that someone has _iewed you that way.

The fact you responded to my earlier post by openly insulting my partner says more about you that you realise. Slating cross-dressers, slating BBWs - anyone else you'd care to show contempt for?

You may think being fat isn't attractive. Some people find overweight people attractive - some don't. It's subjective.

But MOST people would find an overt intolerance of others quite an unattractive trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you are.

In fact: Yum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rate one's personality higher than one's physical attributes such as body size, as I am unlikely to play with a gent who built like a Greek God with the personality of a slug or a "Kevin", or someone that is opinionated and immature etc...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Big or small, tall or short the worst thing to have is a bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You are a very sexy curvy woman

You look like a real woman

You are not a bbw "

Oh my, I'm not a real woman then! What does that make me?

So funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although as far as look at me threads go well done you've got everyone looking that's for sure much kudos "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big or small, tall or short the worst thing to have is a bad attitude"

.

Who stole your cream?! MEOW!

Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"" I don't mind people disagreeing with me one woman said she thought I was a bbw I said I appreciate your honesty but its when bbws get on there high horse trying to say I have something agaisnt big w omen it pissies me off "

But you DO have something against big women. You said yourself they're 'unattractive' and cost the NHS money. You stated earlier you think I have issues ... I'd say yours are far more deep seated than mine.

I think it's YOUR obvious dislike of big women that have resulted in you not wanting to be aligned in any way with them and you're horrified that someone has _iewed you that way.

The fact you responded to my earlier post by openly insulting my partner says more about you that you realise. Slating cross-dressers, slating BBWs - anyone else you'd care to show contempt for?

You may think being fat isn't attractive. Some people find overweight people attractive - some don't. It's subjective.

But MOST people would find an overt intolerance of others quite an unattractive trait."

On the button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love curvy or larger woman.

always find them to be great in bed and give a hell of a lot.

each time has been one to remember thats for sure.

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By *keenyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

do bbw have

big boobs

big belly

big ass

big legs

big as in more then curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u are what you want to be just as people label you with something, doesn't mean you have to accept that label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i hope this thread has been a lesson in piety for all you "jollys" out there who think you kick ass with your voluptuous bottoms and curvy tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the word 'voluptuous'.

Something to get one's tongue around!!!!!!!!

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bugger has a lable from boy to girl man to woman when we are born. The Op is no skinny minny but who really gives a fuck what other people call us I dont.

Yes your right to a degree but some of us don't like some of the labels out there. I don't particularly like the label 'bbc' but because I choose to be on here I can't stop people using it as a label for me. That said it doesn't mean I'd choose to use it to describe someone else or start a thread asking others whether I was a bbc or not.

As I said, maybe I'm missing something, but hopefully the Op will clarify. being called a bbc is not a bad thing but being called fat is

Are you implying a BBW is fat

Are you implying they're not?

I'm simply saying one persons opinion of BBW is different to others but NO ONE deserves to be called fat"

if your fat your fat, and i dont mean your as in you i mean anyone whos fat

being called fat isnt something you get called because you 'deserve' it if your called fat its because you are

If your slim you wouldnt take offence at being called slim so if you do take offence at being called fat thats down to your own insecurities abd again i dont mean your as in you i mean anyone who takes offence at being called fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nice smooth skin on my face and arse because I am fat.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ok, if someone doesnt like being called fat would they sooner be called obese as thats the medical term. Now you get morbidly obese.clinically obese, obese, and overweight. All correct terms depending on your bmi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight"

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?"

I didnt mean it nasty either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now "overweight" and no longer "obese", after losing nearly one and a half stones since I joined FAB in 2009.

The weight loss had been gradual. I ate less, especially in the evenings, and exercised more by being more active.

No magic formula, and no drug involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be called by my name, lol!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I am now "overweight" and no longer "obese", after losing nearly one and a half stones since I joined FAB in 2009.

The weight loss had been gradual. I ate less, especially in the evenings, and exercised more by being more active.

No magic formula, and no drug involved.

"

Ive gone from morbidly to obese, just got to loose a couple more of my bmi then i will be overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?

I didnt mean it nasty either"

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And neither did NN.

However, both of you were not happy with your weights for whatever reasons and did something about it, rather than to moan and groan about the perceived or real prejudice being directed at you because of your size!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I think the negative aspect of the word fat comes from the fact it's usually tagged with something unpleasant such as 'lazy' or 'ugly'.

The same can't be said of the word slim - in fact it'd probably come with the words 'gorgeous' or 'beautiful' attached so you can't really compare the two when it comes to a factual description of a body size.

Bigger / larger / overweight woman sounds factual. Fat woman just sounds blunt and negative (even if it's true). In my humble opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I do not like about my sister is her insistence in name-calling me "fat face" ever since I was a child, because she said it in a mean and nasty way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, should we HAVE to refer to ourselves as anything?

Can't we just be.....

I know, that's a dream I have, lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think the negative aspect of the word fat comes from the fact it's usually tagged with something unpleasant such as 'lazy' or 'ugly'.

The same can't be said of the word slim - in fact it'd probably come with the words 'gorgeous' or 'beautiful' attached so you can't really compare the two when it comes to a factual description of a body size.

Bigger / larger / overweight woman sounds factual. Fat woman just sounds blunt and negative (even if it's true). In my humble opinion anyway "

The word fat has never bothered me, im always saying i got a fat arse. Fat was the only word used to describe someone overweight its only cause people want to see it as negative that they do

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?"

Congratulations to those of you who have managed to find your personal routes to success.

You're great role models *applauds* - but please be mindful that some of us haven't found what works for US yet or there may be some who have issues to overcome in order to reach a healthier weight.

Certain comments just might come across as being a tiny bit condescending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a lady of the cloth lol and i would refer to myself as a BBW, but i carry my weight well. I dont have large legs or arms etc..

But i was told by the guys from here to put down curvy when i first joined the site.

I get a lot of body builder types and always have done all my life which for some reason like me!!!

It has it advantages being cuddly, but i would still prefer to be thinner.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"At the end of the day, should we HAVE to refer to ourselves as anything?

Can't we just be.....

I know, that's a dream I have, lol!

"

You're so lovely!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?

Congratulations to those of you who have managed to find your personal routes to success.

You're great role models *applauds* - but please be mindful that some of us haven't found what works for US yet or there may be some who have issues to overcome in order to reach a healthier weight.

Certain comments just might come across as being a tiny bit condescending.

"

Again it's down to perception isn't it as I didn't find anything condescending in any of the posts. On the contrary, I found them inspirational.

Just goes to show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all of the comments, but looked at your pics and thought HOT BBW....(sorry), think it is because you are a busty lady. Of the comments I did see I don't think there is a specific size=BBW (correct me if I'm wrong)!!!

However please, please don't take my comments as a bad thing, you look gorgeous in the pics that I looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, should we HAVE to refer to ourselves as anything?

Can't we just be.....

I know, that's a dream I have, lol!

You're so lovely! "

Thank you

We all have issues of one kind or another. Things we can be overly sensitive about. I was MUCH larger in my younger days; fat was an apt word for me. A size 28. Ok, I might be 5'10'' and I did carry it ok, but I didn't want to, lol! I still have people comment about it to this day and I have been the size I am now for about 20 years. I used to care what people thought, now I don't. Wish I could have felt like that sooner, but, hey, life is a learning curve.

Hippo x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?

Congratulations to those of you who have managed to find your personal routes to success.

You're great role models *applauds* - but please be mindful that some of us haven't found what works for US yet or there may be some who have issues to overcome in order to reach a healthier weight.

Certain comments just might come across as being a tiny bit condescending.

"

Only condescending if you choose them to be, ive been overweight all my life. Its how you choice to percieve things. If people want to be in denial then thats up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer snappy people that call a spade a spade, rather than those that beat around a push and take political correctness too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have been overweight all my life and at one stage clinically obese.

However, I accept I am what I am, and make the most of what my maker has given me.

The greatest indignity I had encountered, was for a kindly sales lady in the John Lewis maternity department asking me when I was due, when I was looking for something smart and formal to wear to a wedding, when nothing off the peg fitted in the days when off the peg clothes for the larger sizes were not so common as they are today.

It was in the mid 1990s. And that was the last time I shopped for formal clothes, and had them made for me instead ever since.

Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence.

When my weight went up, I just have them loosened, or have new ones made, simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence."

And may I say, what you have on in your profile photos is VERY flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd worry more about your attitude than your body size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence.

And may I say, what you have on in your profile photos is VERY flattering "

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Thank you!

I edited out the bad bits and kept the good bits in the photo!

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall


"You NOT a BBQ

I guess you are size 14 at most.

You are beautiful. BUt no BBW.

X "
no i think you are a C B W curvy beutiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone doesnt like being called fat or bbw guess they could always loose weight

glad you said that cause a couple of times i've wanted to say, if you dont like the way you look do something about it

Thing is its hard to say that without sounding nasty and i dont mean it that way but at the end of the day its hardly rocket science is it?

Congratulations to those of you who have managed to find your personal routes to success.

You're great role models *applauds* - but please be mindful that some of us haven't found what works for US yet or there may be some who have issues to overcome in order to reach a healthier weight.

Certain comments just might come across as being a tiny bit condescending.

"

its not condescending at all

The simple fact is anything is lifes you want is worth fighting for it just depends how bad you want it

Ive suffered all my life with my weight and have weight over 20 stone in the past, its a never ending circle, the bigger you get the more unhappy you are, the more unhappy you are the more you eat, the more you eat the bigger you get...been there, done it its not a nice place to be

I remember getting on the scales at weight watchers many years ago and being told i had 10 stone to loose i went home and cried, i thought how the hell am i going to do that and felt like giving up before i started, but even tho i never got to my goal i did loose 9 stone of it and i have yoyoed ever since, loosing a couple of stone, putting it back on, going back to fat camp and getting it off again, thats just me

Im f**k all special, loosing weight isnt easy, i more than anyone know that, but if you want to do it you will do it, food can be like an addiction and like any addiction you have to really want to do it or it will never happen, you cant wish yourself thin

When i was bigger i used every excuse under the sun for my weight, from illness to medication, heard it all cause ive said it all, cause i felt better people thinking i was fat because i was ill rather than cause i over ate so i know how bad it makes you feel, but the simple fact is if you eat more calories than you burn off you will be over weight, we all know that and if people dont like being over weight theres only one person who can change that....but you have to really want to

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"u are what you want to be just as people label you with something, doesn't mean you have to accept that label.

"

If that's true then I want to be a 5ft7, size 8 with 36d boobs, oh and have black hair.

I agree with the above comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not fat, just too short for my weight!

Yeah right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i am curvey 14 ... 5.9 long legs now 11 stone and big tits ... my tits a BBW . ONLY .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence.

And may I say, what you have on in your profile photos is VERY flattering

.

Thank you!

I edited out the bad bits and kept the good bits in the photo! "

PMSL!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only in the last year that I have come to feel confident about my body. What got me to change how I felt was considering what I might look like when I was say, 80 (if I live that long) and how I would feel then about the body I have now. And I think I would probably love to have the body I have now when I'm 80. So if I could love it then, why not celebrate it now, in the here and now, lol!

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence.

And may I say, what you have on in your profile photos is VERY flattering

.

Thank you!

I edited out the bad bits and kept the good bits in the photo! "

Well, you B&W photos show a bit more of you and those are VERY sexy. In fact I had a naughty thought looking at one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having properly fitted clothes in flattering colours certainly boosted my self-confidence.

And may I say, what you have on in your profile photos is VERY flattering

.

Thank you!

I edited out the bad bits and kept the good bits in the photo!

Well, you B&W photos show a bit more of you and those are VERY sexy. In fact I had a naughty thought looking at one of them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me trying to do a beached whale or Jabba the Hut impersonation no doubt!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

boo

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