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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.

On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.

MsD

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.

On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.

Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh

MsD"

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.

On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.

Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh

MsD"

Tell me about it..bloody story of my sexual life. Overthinking is my middle name! Kinda frustrating.

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I hope you achieve this I 'think' MrD enjoys when I do it!! I love doing it anyway, several times a week.

On a serious note, there is nothing worse than wanting to achieve something sexually and not getting there. The head takes over and the body wont comply.

Oh yes i forgot the bit about the mind overthinking it all. And the body just not playing alonh

MsD

Tell me about it..bloody story of my sexual life. Overthinking is my middle name! Kinda frustrating. "

Not just Kinda its bloody frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have this exact issue. It still takes me a long time to cum from it.

Not that I'm complaining. I enjoy the sensation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."

Are you able to orgasm in other ways?

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Climaxing from a bj is the absolute best feeling

In some ways, even more intense than through intercourse.

Sorry you haven't experienced this yet Op

To all the ladies who enjoy gracing us with this pleasure, a big THANK YOU.

Horny now

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this.

Are you able to orgasm in other ways?"

Yes . But i do last a fair while. Which my partners have always loved

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha"

And your in Scotland.

that's typical of my luck

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha

And your in Scotland.

that's typical of my luck "

Haha soz n that.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Had it for years. However once the damn broke, now I sometimes have to tell them to stop

. It's all mental.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Took me years for it to happen. Then I found 2 women who knew what they were doing & now no problem. The problem was in my head thinking it couldn't be done & women with the right technique.

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."

Find someone who’s prepared to take their time and listen to your body. I’ve had a few partners who’ve struggled to climax from a BJ, so we’ve taken our time, had a giggle and communicated about what feels good and ta-da, the elusive climax exploded.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I love it when I make a guy climax from a BJ, it's a great compliment as well as being a turn on for me.

I think the key is communication, and having someone that can read your body and alter things to what you enjoy, rather than having one set way that they suck cock

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this.

Thank you for that nugget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately I've never really struggled with this. I do find blowjobs a huge turn on though

Might have something to do with a long term ex who hated giving them, and K's very skilled mouth

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I never use till I met my partner.

For me its a case of relaxing and not thinking to much about it.

I normally try and play with my girlfriend at the same time removing my focus on the bj.

Couldn't believe it the first time it happen!

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."

Get a guy to do it - seriously!

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By *unguy30Man
over a year ago

London

I’m the same way not cum from them yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same! Wouldn’t mind it happening once to feel what it’s like. But doesn’t bother me that I haven’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to be able to make me cum with her mouth easy, not cum from A BJ for awhile.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Rare but yes and wow.

There the odd superwoman out there but for most she will either take the time and effort to learn what makes you come or just do the same as what she always does and wonder why it doesn’t work

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Seems to be a FAB thing, I've never encountered in real life

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"Seems to be a FAB thing, I've never encountered in real life "

So you've never managed to make a gut cum from blowing?

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Can get too sensitive such is strength of my orgasm - usually waiting my turn like a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doughnut had never come from a blow job before he met me, not saying I'm good at it as I think I'm quite shit but don't think the women he had been with before me has made him feel wanted and needed in the bedroom.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never reached orgasm from oral till about a year ago. Mrs took the time to really understand what worked for me, probably more difficult as I had built it up for so long thinking I couldn't.

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

And your miles away. I could cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Same, I really struggle to come from a bj... Love them, enjoy them, but don't come very often from them.

As others have said though... What makes it happen for me is all on the head, and I have a couple of horny scenarios I play in my head which get me over the finish line.. Takes time though

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I just wouldn’t stop until he did

all about taking time and the fact that the person giving it is enjoying it as much as the man receiving it

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always used to struggle also; more due to me tensing up - almost akin to a sensory overload (it’s such an intense sensation)

My best advice is to simply relax; you should not apply any mental pressure on yourself to cum - which will almost certainly negate the probability of it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor you that must be awful.

Best sensation ever in my opinion, hope you find your answer here

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By *r Normally Kinky OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I just wouldn’t stop until he did

all about taking time and the fact that the person giving it is enjoying it as much as the man receiving it

Your deffo an

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be like this but now I relax and boom mouth full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

I'm not surprised having just watched some of your bj videos!

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"I just wouldn’t stop until he did

all about taking time and the fact that the person giving it is enjoying it as much as the man receiving it

Exactly this. She gets it

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

I'd love you to prove that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve assisted with this, a few times. One of my videos demonstrates this. I love the experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

My kinda lady

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By *elenshubbyMan
over a year ago

Uxbridge

It's only happened once that I have NOT cum.

I love looking into the eyes of a guy who is just about to receive my load

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I quite regularly make guys cum from BJ unintentionally as part of foreplay. It’s very disappointing for me, but apparently should be a compliment haha"

I need your magic touch, sertraline has taken a lot of sensitivity from touch and temperature. I've been off it for months now and it's bloody annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of those tricks guys play on here to get girls to give them blowjobs lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Seems to be a FAB thing, I've never encountered in real life

So you've never managed to make a gut cum from blowing?"

What I meant was I e read about it being a challenge for some men o FAB but the guys I've met have never had that issue.

I've always just taken it as a given from my own experience if I'm sucking their cock the man is going to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times in 26 years

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By *itKerryMaleMan
over a year ago

kerry

Never managed to cum from one but I've never particularly enjoyed them

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've been drained before she sucked the lt out of eme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have honestly never reached an orgasam from having my cock sucked. Anyone else have this issue.?

Any tips or tricks so i can achieve this."

I'm similar, a lot of patience is required and a willing partner, but it's sooo worth the wait!!

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

It's a great feeling to be sucked from start to finish.

Lots of variation needed for me to achieve this.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Some women like it others dont

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I could do with mine done been ages wonder if a decent applicants wana apply pm me lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've rarely cum from a bj too, women tend to give up after a while and want my cock inside them, which isn't a bad thing?

I'm very much a 'giver', taking more pleasure from seeing my partner enjoy herself, and probably have a mental block by thinking if I cum before she does I've been too self-indulgent?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"3 times in 26 years"

I'm probably in single figures too mate, which is ironic given the almost daily offers of bj's I receive from men.....

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I am genuinely shocked some of ye men havent had it alot. Its mad what you think is very run of the mill and happens frequently, is rare for others.

I do it on MrD about 3 times a week!! Love doing it. Such a rush to make him hard then suck him dry.

MsD

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

26 times in 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck a watermelon prior it will desensitize your bell head to fruitsex and you'll cum from mouthsex

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"26 times in 3 months"

Were you keeping score?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give. It’s taking the time, variety and myself enjoying giving as the person receiving.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

relaxing and enjoying is very important, tell her or him how you liked to be sucked.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Fuck a watermelon prior it will desensitize your bell head to fruitsex and you'll cum from mouthsex"

Sounds seedy

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have watermelon every day lol

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Keeps ur arteries clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck a watermelon prior it will desensitize your bell head to fruitsex and you'll cum from mouthsex

Sounds seedy"

nice one

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

ne neither... they always tell me to stop as they don't want to cum too quick and want to fuck... so maybe op picking the wrong lovers or he's built up a mental block stopping him from enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a fairly common things. I think for many there is an element of not relaxing enough or possibly being used to too firm of a grip from wanking but for some I think the sensation just doesn't do it for them the same way some women just don't orgasm from or even enjoy oral sex. We're all different. "
Hmmm I wonder if this can be reversed

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Which bit?

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Depends if u wana explode I like to fuck 1st then when it's ready let them have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never failed to make a guy cum yet

Several women have said this with me and failed miserably.

Some of us just dont cum from oral, just like some women don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which bit? "

The wanking bit. If I stopped wanking and received more BJ's, would I cum from oral?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Which bit?

The wanking bit. If I stopped wanking and received more BJ's, would I cum from oral?"

Possibly. The more sex I have the easier I find it to orgasm with another person. Its to simplistic to say its guaranteed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often a sensitivity problem, I've had the same issue, you can cut down the wanking or abstain from it completely, after around 2 weeks you'll notice a big difference. I did it for 2 weeks when my ex travelled away for a conference, when she came back I blew like a repeating bottle rocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"

Thank goodness for this reply.....

Thinking I was abnormal, get a lady who knows what she is doing and it’s between a minute and a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"

Haha I wish it's just as awkward for us, the only way I've done it is through 69'ing the extra stimulation can push you over the edge plus it's only fair if I cum in your mouth you should cum all over mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every guy I have spoken to on fab has said the same thing! Is it just a line the men use to make you try hard and then feel 'special' when they do cum? (Grrrrrr)"
Yup, I hold myself back so it never ends!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Its all about her technique surely... some I never will others I may as well have kept the engine running it was so quick... and the build up to the meet adds to it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely cum from a bj, bit embarrassing sometimes when the lady has been sucking for ages and nothing cums. Not for the lack of wanting to cum. Usually when I cant cum from bj, we go to fucking and then the orgasm for me is very intense and I cum very easily.

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