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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

This is for the couples. How did you get into the world of swinging? Was your partner already part of the world? Did you both meet whilst swinging? Who's idea was it?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

M was a long term member of Fab & had been involved in the swinging world for years when I first met him. He was 100% open and upfront about it from the very start.

K

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Mutual decision.

Met MrD in Nov 18. We both dabbled in the lifestyle in former lives, MrD more so than me.

We met online. Talked about our previous experiences. Things progressed between us, we stayed together (despite me saying I was just using him for sex!). MrD gave me time as I was just out of a very bad marriage so when I was ready-ish, I said so!

And here we are....found a man who doesnt mind me shagging other men and is very secure in that and how we feel about each other. Long may it continue.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow MsD.

I'm happy to see a relationship flourish through the swinging world.

Long it may continue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So being open about the lifestyle is one key aspect to a successful relationship then. Cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met 5 years ago at a fetish social so every topic was up for dicussion. D had been on both the swinging and fetish scenes for many years prior lol

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So being open about the lifestyle is one key aspect to a successful relationship then. Cool. "

Communication about it is key too. Dont let anything fester away in your head. Talk about it.

MsD

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We'd been together many years and we're in our early 50s when we started swinging. It was Mr N's suggestion but a joint decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joint decision that started as pillow talk. We googled swinging, found fab, joined and met a guy just for me to give him a bj while Mr watched. We figured if one of us wasn't happy it was only a BJ and no big deal. We did all that in the space of 24 hours lol.

Anyway we loved it and have since done everything from mfm to mmmmmmmf.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

My hubby found this after we shared a woman together randomly during a night out. I said I’d like to explore further and wondered if hubby would let me explore a man too... the next thing I know he’s signed us up to this and started the ball rolling in the search for likeminded couples and it’s actually me who is on this more than him. I don’t think we’d be chatting to anyone if it wasn’t for me lol x

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"We'd been together many years and we're in our early 50s when we started swinging. It was Mr N's suggestion but a joint decision. "

basically the same, although it was MrsJ who suggested it due to a friend suggesting it to her.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

We had our 1st meet at a club. Seams like a lifetime ago now but in a fantastic way.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) had been doing it for a few years before I met Hannah. I was open about it with her before there was any thought of us being romantically involved. When we did get together she said that it appeals to her to some extent so we're giving it a whirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked Mrs about 5 years ago if she'd ever thought about going with someone else but it went down like a lead balloon. Then out of the blue 2 years ago Mrs said she'd been thinking about it & asked me if i still wanted to give swinging a go so here we are.

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