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Things that have changed sexually for you as you got older

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there something you once loved but now it doesn't do much for you? Have you discovered something new which you now love to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that, got the medals, now just happy to go with the flow and forget labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s the opposite for us... we have got more hornier, dirtier and the sex is getting better with age

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By *ewcouple321Couple
over a year ago

teesside

Watching my gf get fucked by someone else....haven’t done it yet...but open to offers! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never thought I would ever want a girlfriend who sleeps with other guys, but now I like the thought of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gone middle-aged bi.....curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never thought I would ever want a girlfriend who sleeps with other guys, but now I like the thought of it "

I never thought I'd want a girlfriend and now I know I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve discovered this year I can squirt. Only one guy has ever made it happen. Such an amazing feeling!

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"Is there something you once loved but now it doesn't do much for you? Have you discovered something new which you now love to do? "

Took me until I was 41 to realise I actually enjoyed receiving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my gf get fucked by someone else....haven’t done it yet...but open to offers! Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot more open minded, life's too short.

Just need to find a willing and able partner in crime.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Think it’s the opposite for us... we have got more hornier, dirtier and the sex is getting better with age "
Same

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I discovered at the end of last year that I can have orgasms from penetration alone...it was a very pleasant discovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It good to read that people sex lives get better with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I realised just how vanilla my sex life was until I split with my ex 12 years ago!

I didn't realise I could gush/squirt and I've certainly become less self conscious over my scars/wobbly bits. I NEVER used to get naked. As I get older though, I couldn't care less.

I never really entertained the idea of 2 guys before and now it's one of my favourite things to do

Anal play was never something I'd do but I'm rather partial to it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 20 I found women in their thirties most attractive but now I find my preferences have aged with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost impossible to meet single women for sex or couples but very easy to get sucked off and fuck tgirls and gay bottoms. And gay guys suck cock better than women and funny enough all arseholes are the same to fuck and tighter than any pussy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It good to read that people sex lives get better with age."

yes there's still hope for me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to skip the foreplay & just say fuck me, but now I love it.

I used to hate sucking cock but now I lick & suck it as my favourite lolly pop. Nothing better than his cum on my lips, swallowing the taste of lust

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just confidence.

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By *ordan02081995Man
over a year ago

Crosspool

I've realised I actually have a turn off - phlegm. I never thought anything would repulse me but the thought of kissing someone and feeling phlegm on their tongue makes me feel naucious.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

As I got older, I guess it's open mindedness, I was never interested in anal but because my gf loves it so much... Now so do I.... Watching her with someone else is new and amazing... As is my understanding of what makes me and women tick. Everything for the better and long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I discovered that my lust needs to be in line with some of my principles in order to full enjoy the elated experience that sex can be.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes I discovered that my lust needs to be in line with some of my principles in order to full enjoy the elated experience that sex can be. "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women.

Now I’ve discovered men I have lost interest in women almost completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like we said before we are more dirtier... hornier and more promiscuous now then we ever were

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I seem to collect kinks as I get older. I also discovered rolling orgasms this year. That was fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I've become a lot more sexually confident in the last two years.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes, my vagina has got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive had got higher

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Now into my 60's, I've become more bicurious and far more open and broadminded to all sexual scenarios. But on the downside, my erections can just suddenly disappear and then reappear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to watch more cricket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still don’t like sex

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By *entcouple69Couple
over a year ago

London/Kent

I’d say more open minded as I crept towards turning 30. Also became less of a general people pleaser which opened my eyes to what I actually really enjoy (if that makes sense). Slowly learning to accept my body too but I’m not sure I’ll ever be massively confident.

It’s also interesting for us as the mr has over ten years on me. He’s certainly got hornier with age. I can’t keep up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My back is shot the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irregular sex due to no longer having a sexual partner after divorce, erections that sometimes don’t stay the course and needing a few days to recover after achieving climax. Aches and pains due to old age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That ok sex isn't what I'm putting up with, and that it's perfectly ok to find the sex I want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to collect kinks as I get older. I also discovered rolling orgasms this year. That was fun! "

Whatever is a rolling orgasm

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Think it’s the opposite for us... we have got more hornier, dirtier and the sex is getting better with age "

Definitely same

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Patience comes when older and appreciation too x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Apparently I've become a lot more sexually confident in the last two years. "

yes i definitely find that with age and the partner you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My orgasms have gotten much more intense

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I seem to collect kinks as I get older. I also discovered rolling orgasms this year. That was fun!

Whatever is a rolling orgasm "

When you have them in rapid succession and one seems to roll into the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to collect kinks as I get older. I also discovered rolling orgasms this year. That was fun!

Whatever is a rolling orgasm

When you have them in rapid succession and one seems to roll into the next "

Fair play its hard enough to give a woman one lol, but you are getting them in quick fire succession

Great lockdown look btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I realised just how vanilla my sex life was until I split with my ex 12 years ago!

I didn't realise I could gush/squirt and I've certainly become less self conscious over my scars/wobbly bits. I NEVER used to get naked. As I get older though, I couldn't care less.

I never really entertained the idea of 2 guys before and now it's one of my favourite things to do

Anal play was never something I'd do but I'm rather partial to it now "

Wow !! You really say all the nicest things ...or dirtiest..either way ..you say them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't settle for less than what you want...need ... desire..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I seem to collect kinks as I get older. I also discovered rolling orgasms this year. That was fun! "

Hell yes

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby


"Watching my gf get fucked by someone else....haven’t done it yet...but open to offers! Lol"

Happy to raise my hand and see if I can help ..... haha

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