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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you all visit clubs and organised social events or do you only meet up with people through the site?

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

Never been to a club but would be open to trying

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m far too shy for group gatherings, I just meet one to one. Although i even find that a bit of a trial at times.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Small and intimate thank you

Not interested in large socials or clubs

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club or organised social event. Meeting via the site only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been that keen on crowds.

I'm better, I hope, one on one.

Some think I'm better just hidden in a cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't the confidence to do a club.

I stick to private meets. But even then I get the butterflies sometimes

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I regularly attend clubs and kink socials (called a munch). I've attended one grouo swingers social and intending to attend more once its allowed again .

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I've met people 1 on 1 but I also went to a couple of organised socials and met some great people which lead to more individually and at clubs

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We've attended a couple of socials and busted a club once just before lockdown.

It is less daunting as a couple though x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Clubs. We love the music and atmosphere. It's like a sexy nightclub where we don't feel old

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been to a number of large organised socials as well as numerous clubs. Great fun and a different vibe and experience from 1:1 meets.

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Try a club, you'd be pleasantly surprised!! They're so liberating and freeing, and so fun!! You don't have to do anything you don't want, I'm not an exhibitionist so I'd have a laugh and meet people and go back to my hotel, however I do play on premises now.

I had a couple of years doing private meets from fab, then this time last year tried my first club entirely alone as a single female and never looked back! I met my bf soon after so only play with him but we still went a couple of times a month before all this corona nonsense!

It's a very different experience for single guys obviously, but so is fab. Defo try your local when it's safe to do so, I can't wait for us to be able to go back!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t done a club yet but hoping to in the future.

Organised socials i’ve done and wanna do more when I can, not as daunting as I thought they’d be.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I stick to clubs, once ive met I would meet 1 on 1 maybe

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

For us we like clubs whether that’s a meet or just a pop along and see how the night goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only clubs or organised socials, one to one isnt for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of group socials, 1 on 1 meets, never been to a club

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We’ve been to clubs - large & small - and to a few of the large socials as they are great fun & we’ve met some really lovely people

J x

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston

I decided to give up on meets and just go to clubs and parties but then lockdown intervened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to find someone to try my first club with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to find someone to try my first club with "

You and 2 thousand others on here

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Clubs, organised socials & 121 meets from here too...pre covid.

Clubs are great fun, socials are brilliant for meeting new people that I'd probably never have met otherwise but prefer 121 meets.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I like 1 2 1 just for the intimacy and privacy, clubs don’t appeal and may get to a social one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't want to go to a club but it seems like it will be the only way for me to meet someone

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Think I'm far too shy and self conscious to go to a club but it does intrigue me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer clubs..safer for me. Have met 1 to 1...but rare occassion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you supposed to actually MEET up with these people? Scary. Might just stay under my rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love going to Fab group socials and the rest are 1 on 1. Haven’t done a regular sex club although this might be changing after lockdown is truly over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one to one meets, but I was looking forward to going to my first MLS when lockdown happened.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I prefer 1 on 1 meets.

I have been to a few group socials, and they haven't been the best experiences I've had, but I did meet some nice people.

I've been to clubs, but I find them a bit tacky, especially as a single (perhaps I've been to the wrong clubs).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

If I attend clubs alone, it's often to socialise, catch up with friends and sometimes make new ones. I've made arrangements to meet people more intimately once our paths have crossed at a club. I love the no pressure feel that comes with attending clubs. If someone floats my boat, we can take it from there.

Now and again I'll attend clubs as a couple with another guy (or if I'm VERY lucky, two guys) and make full use of the facilities. Jump in the hot tub, use the massage tables, sex swing, fetters wheel, dentist chair....

I do love a more intimate encounter if I'm meeting someone regular but it's also fun to venture to clubs, be watched and maybe find others to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finally got to venture to a MLS last Summer and that was great fun. I find busy social situations a bit overwhelming at times but everyone was so friendly and welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would rather go to Swingfields if I was going to go anywhere. Something about it appeals to me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Clubs and 1 to 1s, occasionally more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both and would again. My problem is the flipping distance though.... always miles and miles away

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do go to clubs and social but quite shy in a crowd so to get to know the real me it is better to meet on a one to one basis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather go to Swingfields if I was going to go anywhere. Something about it appeals to me. "

The thought of the beer tents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started our swinging journey going to clubs. Came on fab after a recommendation from the bar staff at pleasures. Had already been swinging for about 5 years before we were on here

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Normally only tend to meet at clubs nowadays it's a lot less hassle and easier to meet genuine people without all that message tennis malarkey.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Normally only tend to meet at clubs nowadays it's a lot less hassle and easier to meet genuine people without all that message tennis malarkey."

That goes for me also.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Never been to a club or group social, I've been asked to go by a number of fab ladies, it just doesn't appeal.

Much prefer a more intimate social/sexual evening here. Music drinks and great food have always made for some fantastic evenings.

Maybe I'd like the club scene, one day I'll maybe venture out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club only and with my partner only. Not technically a “swinger”- I’m an exhibitionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attended an all female social which was really lovely! The larger organised social I went to was awful. There was definitely a clique and I felt looked down on for my age. I went with another 'Fab' female luckily. Wouldn't attend again. (Sorry but just my experience). I don't mind a club environment for the odd night out but again - feel my age is an issue there too. The last club I went to no one spoke to me the whole night other than a couple I'd chatted to beforehand and had planned to see there. So for me private meets are definitely my preference!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I attended an all female social which was really lovely! The larger organised social I went to was awful. There was definitely a clique and I felt looked down on for my age. I went with another 'Fab' female luckily. Wouldn't attend again. (Sorry but just my experience). I don't mind a club environment for the odd night out but again - feel my age is an issue there too. The last club I went to no one spoke to me the whole night other than a couple I'd chatted to beforehand and had planned to see there. So for me private meets are definitely my preference! "

Why is your age an issue? I've been attending clubs since I was 21 with no issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m far too shy for group gatherings, I just meet one to one. Although i even find that a bit of a trial at times."

I'm exactly the same x

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Attended clubs in the past with my then partner.not done the big club since I have a been single did a bi night a small sauna otherwise recently it's been odd 1-2-1 before lockdown.

I'm thinking once restrictions are lifted and I have been off the scene for a while I will have to do socials and clubs to get back in the swing as it were.

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