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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably not an consideration for couples, but for single folks if you had to choose between

- a Fabulous Lifestyle with occasional but UNRELIABLE source of fuck buddy's

- or REGULAR vanilla girlfriend or boyfriend who was not into swinging, kinky stuff, or whatever floats your boat,

Which would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mint choc chip

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

The former. Sexual incompatibility can be extremely painful even in an otherwise perfect relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But seriously - a Fabulous Lifestyle for me (failing that abstinence). Can't even remember how long I've been single it's been so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the first one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want and need kinky sex with play partners, I do not do vanilla. Aftercare cwtches are a must though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd choose reliable every time

There's room for growth there

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

That's a hard one,

As much as the latter would be nice they would have to be pretty exceptional in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a hard one,

As much as the latter would be nice they would have to be pretty exceptional in the bedroom "

Have you checked and sorted your messages yet? *hint*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would have to be the first one.

Really hate vanilla sex. Rather have none

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Kink is far more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a hard one,

As much as the latter would be nice they would have to be pretty exceptional in the bedroom "

That is another way of putting it - i.e. what would it take to make you leave your fab lifestyle and get hitched to the one?

Would you sell out for companionship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular vanilla. Over time you learn more about each other and the sex gets better and better.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Fabulous lifestyle

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"That's a hard one,

As much as the latter would be nice they would have to be pretty exceptional in the bedroom

That is another way of putting it - i.e. what would it take to make you leave your fab lifestyle and get hitched to the one?

Would you sell out for companionship? "

Now you put it like that I'd have to stick with the former, the latter is unrealistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The former. Sexual incompatibility can be extremely painful even in an otherwise perfect relationship."

Totally this, i could never settle for less again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First one!!

I did the second and I don’t planning on repeating my mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is kinda baffling...are people really saying that they have a preference for unreliable people as long as there's some kinky sex in the offing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A long term relationship is about so much more than sex. With communication a compromise can be found so I choose reliable. Sex alone is not enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That's a hard one,

As much as the latter would be nice they would have to be pretty exceptional in the bedroom

That is another way of putting it - i.e. what would it take to make you leave your fab lifestyle and get hitched to the one?

Would you sell out for companionship? "

Yes. Loneliness is soul destroying. It wouldn't be selling out it would be making a choice

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