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"Looking lovely to me x" Yeah like they are old pre covid pictures | |||
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"You sound fed up OP. Hope you're ok. If you are feeling unsexy then maybe try and start doing something to make yourself feel better. Small steps can make a huge difference over time. Try setting yourself a small achievable target and go from there. It may sound harsh, and I know it isn't always easy, but there is only you who can do something about the way you feel. Good luck and hope you feel brighter soon. " Thank you its refreshing to read an honest post that's not taking piss or been mocked | |||
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"I am really really unhappy with my body atm and not a hope in hells chance would I meet anyone looking the way I do (to me) I went shopping with my daughter this morning and bought a load of stuff to start calorie counting from tomorrow. I need to also sit and write down an in the house toning plan to go with the walking cardio I am going to do. I have a shot knee and the 10lbs I have gained over Covid have taken quite an effect on it. Gotta get the junk outta this trunk!! " Totally feel ya there Over half a stone A knee that's been operated o twice Cant ride my horse as shes not backed Feeling meh No meets till I dropped the wobble | |||
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"One foot in front of the other, OP x" Absolutely just could do with a pusher along side | |||
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"Should start a motivation group here on fab. I mean well- tomorrow I’ll start and then poof! Tomorrow never comes... " I'm not well enough yet but will be all over it when I am. | |||
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"Should start a motivation group here on fab. I mean well- tomorrow I’ll start and then poof! Tomorrow never comes... I'm not well enough yet but will be all over it when I am." Well well soon | |||
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"Should start a motivation group here on fab. I mean well- tomorrow I’ll start and then poof! Tomorrow never comes... " That would be a great idea | |||
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"I'm all up for more movement So lets get a covid curves group going Open to suggestions Keep it clean that comes later.. much later Meets at a county park vigorous walk 3 peaks Lets do it " I'd love to do some vigorous walking or hiking. I've never tried. Just like the idea of it. During lockdown I have been walking a fair bit by myself whilst listening to podcasts. It's OK but getting kinda old now and notice on my app I'm doing less each week. | |||
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"I'm all up for more movement So lets get a covid curves group going Open to suggestions Keep it clean that comes later.. much later Meets at a county park vigorous walk 3 peaks Lets do it " That sounds a brilliant idea. Walking is underestimated as a fitness tool I think and so much more enjoyable than other exercising. | |||
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"Size does not make someone sexy, confidence does. Get yourself dolled up and take some new photos " When I look in the mirror and see the mess then no. I do not feel confident right now. I know . I do not want to mask myself in makeup and clothes | |||
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"Go easy on yourself. It has been super challenging times! Just simply getting moving, walks, air and stretches will make you feel better in yourself. Arriving back in your body gently. You first, just feeling healthier builds confidence. X " Yes I do wanna do all this but not by myself having a tag team buddy would be ideal | |||
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"Size does not make someone sexy, confidence does. Get yourself dolled up and take some new photos When I look in the mirror and see the mess then no. I do not feel confident right now. I know . I do not want to mask myself in makeup and clothes " You're not a mess. You've had a tough time, we all have | |||
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"Go easy on yourself. It has been super challenging times! Just simply getting moving, walks, air and stretches will make you feel better in yourself. Arriving back in your body gently. You first, just feeling healthier builds confidence. X Yes I do wanna do all this but not by myself having a tag team buddy would be ideal " My old partner | |||
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"Lost 6LB according to my scales. Will be fun putting it back on when work becomes less stressful." I bet your friends only pics are magical!!! No pressure or expectations, but I’d love it if you be my temporary friend | |||
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"Well we can all make a pledge to do an hour of walking for example or whatever we feel is suitable. Starting tomorrow. If it is raining, wear a jacket and wrap up warm! Alternatively, jogging on the spot indoors, jumping Jacks, yoga,whatever people feel like... Please sign in the dotted line to make your pledge ...................... " I've pledged exactly that 2 months and 2 weeks ago. Not easy and have to kick my own but sometimes to keep doing it, but now I'm 13 lbs lighter. It's all about determination and sticking to it. | |||
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"The first half of lockdown I was doing quite well - getting out and about, walking a lot, biking, did the firs two weeks of C25K...the last 6 weeks it's all gone to pot due to illness and other things. Reckon I've put back on at least 10lbs of the 3 stone I'd lost before March. I hear you OP, finding the motivation is hard when you feel like crap. It's a vicious circle. But...you've got this! I'm determined to get out for a log walk tomorrow and start getting back into better, healthier habits. Count me in for a little motivational group!" Three stone in March. Well done. | |||
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"Dont feel like meeting Not sexy Dont do timber " I dont see anything wrong with you, you look FINE from the photos but if you want to improve then head to one of those AONBs and walk. You'll get something physical from it and you will get something mentally from it, with the views. I prefer mountains, rivers, waterfalls and seas, you appear to have a nice selection around you. I recommend the Peak District as a start | |||
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"I have the inclination, but no determination OP! wishing you all the best x" I'm same Back to work tomorrow should be good start to burn and tone. Should be back to a new self in no time | |||
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"I hear you OP. I've worked throughout the Pandemic and our service has been under massive amounts of pressure, so I've grabbing food on the go rather than a proper healthy diet, by the time I get home I literally cook the 5 year old a children's meal quickly and I have a cup of tea and off to bed we go I'm so exhausted!! I'm not feeling overly confident about my looks right now at all, I look like a run down exhausted stressed key worker " You looking your shittest is better than me at my best | |||
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"Size does not make someone sexy, confidence does. Get yourself dolled up and take some new photos " I love that mindset but I don't think it's true for all. My wife lacks confidence because if weight she's put on. Once it's gone she'll feel more confident | |||
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