FabSwingers.com forum: Yes I,m going to have a whinge...

By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi,

Just wondering whether any ladies actively look at profiles? Or do they simply sit back and wait for people to contact them?

I ask cos when I look at my " who,a looked at me " section .....

It's a constant stream of fellas....

A little disconcerting ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at profiles if I like the profile pic or something said in the forums...and if I’m interested I’ll drop a message even if it’s just to compliment a good pic.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

A lot of people hide their profile to browse, so you may well be getting a it of women looking but you won't be able to tell!

Personally I do message chaps I'm interested in getting to know - some people do, some don't

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

A lot of women view in stealth mode so their views won't show up. I just looked at you but you wouldn't know it

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. Some even used to put my keyword Floccinaucinihilipilification on their message, even though it was worthless.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I look and sometimes I even send a message !!! Shock ... Horror

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Hi,

Just wondering whether any ladies actively look at profiles? Or do they simply sit back and wait for people to contact them?

I ask cos when I look at my " who,a looked at me " section .....

It's a constant stream of fellas....

A little disconcerting ha ha

I’m not saying this is what is happening with you, but, as far as I’m aware, most women are on stealth

so you will never know

You could be getting viewed all day!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s not unusual for women to look in stealth mode, I do. So you’ll never know how many women have actually viewed your profile.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hi OP.

I look at profiles, m and f. If I don't message or wink off the back of that though then I'm not interested .

If I fab a pic it's generally just because I like that pic.

Some people view profiles in stealth mode also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode always. If I'm looking then I will go looking quite happily. I perve from the forums a fair amount though.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I got fed up if sifting through my inbox so now I block men from messaging and hunt for my victims myself

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Hi,

Just wondering whether any ladies actively look at profiles? Or do they simply sit back and wait for people to contact them?

I ask cos when I look at my " who,a looked at me " section .....

It's a constant stream of fellas....

A little disconcerting ha ha

I’m not saying this is what is happening with you, but, as far as I’m aware, most women are on stealth

so you will never know

You could be getting viewed all day!

D."

Correct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is disconcerting OP and most average guys like me have to put up with not really being noticed.

I'm currently thinking of a new profile to write that nobody will read either lol.

But keep posting on the forums and by showing others who you really are you'll be fine mate

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

They go ninja otherwise they're then inundated with, hey you looked at my profile, messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Hi,

Just wondering whether any ladies actively look at profiles? Or do they simply sit back and wait for people to contact them?

I ask cos when I look at my " who,a looked at me " section .....

It's a constant stream of fellas....

A little disconcerting ha ha

As whingeing threads go, this is not a very good one - barely a whinge in sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I look and message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like most don't have it showing when they visit a profile, but some do.

I have found that fabbing a few pics is a good way of showing you like someone and has resulted in messages from some. I do find that it's much easier to communicate with couples though.

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hhhmm bloody ell...!!!

So when it comes to you ladies I have no idea that I,m at the very least being noticed !!

That's just not tennis ..!

Please please please fellas could you switch your " gaydar" on to stealth like thy ladies...

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Perhaps if Fab owners are reading this...

Suggestion..

How about " how many viewed you in stealth mode " feature ?

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a bit wary about viewing profiles as I've looked at some and they don't float my boat so I didn't message them and got numerous messages from one guy who turned abusive when I politely said that I wasn't interested

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