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Chastity. What do you get out of it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been curious about this fetish for a while. Gents, what do you get out of being in chastity? Ladies, what do you get out of keeping a gent locked up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, you're supposed to be locked, there's no getting out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious about this myself. I think I'm beginning to get the cuckold thing, but cocks locked in a cage I don't get that.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I've been curious about this fetish for a while. Gents, what do you get out of being in chastity? Ladies, what do you get out of keeping a gent locked up?"

Well, you don't get laid...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Obviously I don't have the same physical prevention but in previous D/s relationships I've had enforced periods of denial. It makes you extra horny and when you're eventually allowed release it's so intense!

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West

Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it "

Do anything**

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it "

Couldn't have put it any better than this! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it "

Sounds like you get a lot out of it.

What does he get out of it? Being endlessly horny and tormented?

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

for us its a case of jewel (the cuck) loves being controlled and denied by Ms. Scarlett. She is allowed to do as she pleases with anyone she wants and when she wants even without jewels knowledge. Outside of the sexual side jewel is very happy so do as much as possible to make Ms. Scarletts life easier more enjoyable even just day to day

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it

Sounds like you get a lot out of it.

What does he get out of it? Being endlessly horny and tormented? "

Well that depends on the scenario / set up of the relationship.

He gets to feel satisfied by obsessing over me... also live porn when I have a more well endowed gentleman over to show him how to make his wife cum properly

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West


"for us its a case of jewel (the cuck) loves being controlled and denied by Ms. Scarlett. She is allowed to do as she pleases with anyone she wants and when she wants even without jewels knowledge. Outside of the sexual side jewel is very happy so do as much as possible to make Ms. Scarletts life easier more enjoyable even just day to day"

This too, i can’t remember the last time i saw some dirty pots... he just does it to please me so i don’t have to. And he enjoys it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it

Sounds like you get a lot out of it.

What does he get out of it? Being endlessly horny and tormented?

Well that depends on the scenario / set up of the relationship.

He gets to feel satisfied by obsessing over me... also live porn when I have a more well endowed gentleman over to show him how to make his wife cum properly "

The live porn bit must be such a mindfuck when he can't cum or even get hard. I bet he loves and hates it all at once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine those cages must hurt when you are getting hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine those cages must hurt when you are getting hard "

Especially if they're spiked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine those cages must hurt when you are getting hard

Especially if they're spiked! "

Ouch sounds so painful. I find it painful when I get an erection in tight jeans, nevermind caged

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have been the control aspect if I had ever done it, a little bit of sadistic pleasure in his discomfort and inability to just please himself when he wanted without my say so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would have been the control aspect if I had ever done it, a little bit of sadistic pleasure in his discomfort and inability to just please himself when he wanted without my say so. "

I'm getting the impression ladies enjoy being so totally in control of a male. Is that a turn on for you, though? Or is it something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Males get a heightened sense of arousal, and because they can’t fo anything with it, tend to focus more on the partners wants and needs in an attempt to satisfy their cravings. Sex becomes selfless and they’re allll about the partner.

As a woman, obviously I absolutely enjoy all of the above... but also, power trip, I have my mans prized possession under lock and key... he will do literally anything at the thought i may just unlock it.

I would 110% recommend trying it

Couldn't have put it any better than this! X "

2nd that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would have been the control aspect if I had ever done it, a little bit of sadistic pleasure in his discomfort and inability to just please himself when he wanted without my say so.

I'm getting the impression ladies enjoy being so totally in control of a male. Is that a turn on for you, though? Or is it something else?"

Yeah I dont know really. Sort of all part of the tease, switching the power balance over a bit. The cage itself not a turn on as such but the effects of it would be. Seeing a bit of (sexy) suffering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would have been the control aspect if I had ever done it, a little bit of sadistic pleasure in his discomfort and inability to just please himself when he wanted without my say so.

I'm getting the impression ladies enjoy being so totally in control of a male. Is that a turn on for you, though? Or is it something else?

Yeah I dont know really. Sort of all part of the tease, switching the power balance over a bit. The cage itself not a turn on as such but the effects of it would be. Seeing a bit of (sexy) suffering "

Reading comments on here, male chastity seems to bring out the evil in certain kinky ladies.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Why is this running through my head?

https://youtu.be/NlmOgpvm_pE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is this running through my head?

https://youtu.be/NlmOgpvm_pE"

I'm scared to check that lol.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"Why is this running through my head?

https://youtu.be/NlmOgpvm_pE

I'm scared to check that lol."

Haha. It's Jasper Carrott singing Bastity Chelt lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is this running through my head?

https://youtu.be/NlmOgpvm_pE

I'm scared to check that lol.

Haha. It's Jasper Carrott singing Bastity Chelt lol"

lol

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By *assysaz40Man
over a year ago

chorley

I love the fact I am not in control

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Blue balls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blue balls. "

I bet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder who's more into chastity. Men or women. There have been a mix on this thread so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are men more into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess this is a bit of a niche thing from the lack of responses now. If nobody else shows interest, I'll let this thread die away. But thanks for the replies to this point.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I imagine those cages must hurt when you are getting hard

Especially if they're spiked! "

Yep.. my Mr has a spiked one x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine those cages must hurt when you are getting hard

Especially if they're spiked!

Yep.. my Mr has a spiked one x"

Ouch! Doesn't he object?

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I love Mr being caged. Gives me a feeling of power. He’s more attentive when caged. Longest he’s gone is about 4weeks, with regular tease and denial/edging, but I’d like to try for longer x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love Mr being caged. Gives me a feeling of power. He’s more attentive when caged. Longest he’s gone is about 4weeks, with regular tease and denial/edging, but I’d like to try for longer x"

How long would you like him to go for? And does he know what he might be in for? lol

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"I love Mr being caged. Gives me a feeling of power. He’s more attentive when caged. Longest he’s gone is about 4weeks, with regular tease and denial/edging, but I’d like to try for longer x

How long would you like him to go for? And does he know what he might be in for? lol"

I struggle sleeping caged, but I'm sure you get used to it xx

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Fun for whoever is into it

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"I love Mr being caged. Gives me a feeling of power. He’s more attentive when caged. Longest he’s gone is about 4weeks, with regular tease and denial/edging, but I’d like to try for longer x

How long would you like him to go for? And does he know what he might be in for? lol"

I’d like him permanently caged obviously being let out for my pleasure when I see fit. We’re nowhere near that yet tho, baby steps. Fits and starts, but always come back to it. X

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"I love Mr being caged. Gives me a feeling of power. He’s more attentive when caged. Longest he’s gone is about 4weeks, with regular tease and denial/edging, but I’d like to try for longer x

How long would you like him to go for? And does he know what he might be in for? lol

I struggle sleeping caged, but I'm sure you get used to it xx"

He is generally ok sleeping in it when caged now, but yeah took a bit of getting used to. The main thing we’ve struggled with is fit. Tried many cages and yet to find a long term one that doesn’t cause some sort of discomfort after a while sadly. X

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I find it hard enough to think even without months of sexual frustration pickling my brain.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

This may sound daft, but I've wondered if a guy is caged how does he get on with personal hygiene?

Those that I've seen pictures of, it would appear impossible to touch thus clean yourself properly.

I'm guessing that with a metal cage using a urinal is impossible, so you have to pre like a sissy.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

I get cock cages . And chastity , it’s a great little fun thing to do between a couple , There’s a nice feeling of being wanted by someone , it’s kind off the same feeling ( mentally ) wearing my-ownership chains around the neck ..a wedding ring perhaps. How long do you go for .. there’s a whole science behind that , plenty to read on the other site , fitment hygene etc .. ..

20 days was my longest chastity period .. the resulting orgasm was weird ... Also the thing is with chastity and denial . Things in the body start shutting down if you don’t use it .. Sperm production being one . As I say tons and tons to read up on this subject ...

One last thing though , to the ladies that say “ He “ is more attentative when caged ..? He should have been all over you like a cheap suit in the first place .. If you had to cage him to gain his attention .. Maybe he wasent the right guy ? ... What would I know though . Good luck to everyone who practices chastity

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By *assysaz40Man
over a year ago

chorley

I love the feeling of not being in control

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"I love the feeling of not being in control "

Totally xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the male, is it mainly about not feeling in control? And for the female, feeling in control? Sounds like it.

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