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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! " Virtual hugs & chocolate coming your way. Not nice, but so important to have it done.  | |||
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"It happens, big hugs and chocolates brownies do? " Perfect thank you!  | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! Virtual hugs & chocolate coming your way. Not nice, but so important to have it done. "Absolutely! I'm glad it wasn't delayed by covid! | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! " It is normal for this to happen. A couple of paracetamol and lots of chocolate lovely  X | |||
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 blanket, hot water bottle, all the snacks and get cosy for the evening
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"I feel for you OP "Thank you. Its sucky. And not in a good way. Oh well, ouchy but necessary! | |||
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"*sends chocolate mould of his penis*" You're so generous  | |||
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"Sending hugs, perfect excuse for hot choc, hot water bottle movie and a blanket Xx" Blanket is out! Might stick disney plus on! | |||
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. " Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle!  | |||
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Sending hugs understanding and sincerest sympathy.
I hope you don't have to wait too long for your results and praying it's nothing sinister.
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle! "Awww, wee sausage. 
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important "Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done! | |||
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle! " | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! It is normal for this to happen. A couple of paracetamol and lots of chocolate lovely X"I have dark milk buttons on the go | |||
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"Huge hugs and more chocolate from me. Bloody things are a necessary evil in our lives xxx" Yep! I wouldn't dream of missing it but urgh! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done! "Was that at GP or FPC? Mine was due in April/May but the nurse said not to worry as they've always been OK... Wondering when I should try and have it done - need my IUD replacing as well...  | |||
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" blanket, hot water bottle, all the snacks and get cosy for the evening
"Definitely the plan for the evening! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done! "Me too, and that is horrible having that done | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done! "My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx | |||
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"Sending hugs xx" Thank you! | |||
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"Happy to send hugs and some Lindt chocolate (all I’ve got in at the moment). I can’t understand what it’s like but I can imagine...hugs x" Thanks Doc! The chocolate and sympathy is appreciated! | |||
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I hope you don't have to wait too long for your results and praying it's nothing sinister.
Jo.Xx "Thank you, I really appreciate that! | |||
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle!
Awww, wee sausage.
Hope it eases soon lovely x"He's a cutie! Thank you! | |||
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"Hot chocolate and paracetamol and I’ll make you some chocolate cookies to dunk! Xxx" Aww you guys are the best! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
Was that at GP or FPC? Mine was due in April/May but the nurse said not to worry as they've always been OK... Wondering when I should try and have it done - need my IUD replacing as well... "At my GP practice. Yeah the contraception thing is a pain too! I have friends on the depo who can't get their next one. | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
Me too, and that is horrible having that done "It is but far better than the alternative! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx"I know so many who have. Dread to think if they hadn't had their smears and it wasn't caught at the pre cancerous stage! | |||
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"I hope you feel better tomorrow, sending a bottle of red wine and a bar of galaxy dark chocolate." Perfect! I have sangria in the fridge. I may pour myself a glass! It's only weak so shouldn't make the bleeding heavier like alcohol can! | |||
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"Oh mine was like that last time!! It sucks so much! Love and cuddles!! Xx" Not fun is is it but it's worth it to make sure it's all clear! Thank you | |||
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"Sending hugs, perfect excuse for hot choc, hot water bottle movie and a blanket Xx Blanket is out! Might stick disney plus on! " Frozen 2 is out, go on! | |||
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"My last smear was awful! I had a trainee nurse in as well, so they opened the spectrum too far so she was able to see what they should be looking at. I've also had to have a colposcopy as had abnormal cells found, was just monitored every 6 months and thankful back to down to annual, but the female doctor at the hospital was my worst experience, I swear I picked up an infection, as I had painful cramps for weeks/months after that I had to go on post operation anti-biotics!" Oh gosh I'm sorry to hear that! You've been through the mill you poor thing. I work in gynae and unfortunately all these type of things come with a risk of infection. Vaginas are a bit like mouths in that they naturally have a fair amount of bacteria but it often doesn't cause issues. Sorry to hear you were one of the unlucky few and I hope everything is fine for you now . | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx
I know so many who have. Dread to think if they hadn't had their smears and it wasn't caught at the pre cancerous stage! "I've had cervical cancer having a smear test is nothing compared to have treatment for cancer. Keep up to date ladies if you have not had a test due to covid now is the time to badger your doctors to get one done! | |||
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"Sending lots of warm hugs & anything you need xx I used to have to have them every 6 months J x" Oh gosh. I feel like they come around quick enough as it is! Bless you! | |||
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"Chocolate and hugs... possibly Ben and Jerry's too" Apparently its on offer in Heron Foods! Everyone make note! | |||
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"Sending hugs, perfect excuse for hot choc, hot water bottle movie and a blanket Xx Blanket is out! Might stick disney plus on! Frozen 2 is out, go on!" I'm thinking Maleficent! | |||
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"Brings back memories...chill and spoil yourself" Definitely the plan! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx
I know so many who have. Dread to think if they hadn't had their smears and it wasn't caught at the pre cancerous stage!
I've had cervical cancer having a smear test is nothing compared to have treatment for cancer.
Keep up to date ladies if you have not had a test due to covid now is the time to badger your doctors to get one done! "So sorry to hear that! Though I'm glad to see you say had and hopefully that means you're in remission! Absolutely agree! As sorry as I feel for myself it's so important to do! | |||
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"My last smear was awful! I had a trainee nurse in as well, so they opened the spectrum too far so she was able to see what they should be looking at. I've also had to have a colposcopy as had abnormal cells found, was just monitored every 6 months and thankful back to down to annual, but the female doctor at the hospital was my worst experience, I swear I picked up an infection, as I had painful cramps for weeks/months after that I had to go on post operation anti-biotics! Oh gosh I'm sorry to hear that! You've been through the mill you poor thing. I work in gynae and unfortunately all these type of things come with a risk of infection. Vaginas are a bit like mouths in that they naturally have a fair amount of bacteria but it often doesn't cause issues. Sorry to hear you were one of the unlucky few and I hope everything is fine for you now . "I'm back to normal now, I think I was monitored for about 4 years, 1 would come back normal but then the next one wasn't, I'm just glad I am back down to annual testing. I think I must be nearly due for another one shortly, so will be awaiting my letter soon in the next week or so, so will wait and see. But I will say, I didn't like those anti-biotics lol as you definitely can't drink on them so a fair warning to those others it might happen to  | |||
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"Sending lots of warm hugs & anything you need xx I used to have to have them every 6 months J x Oh gosh. I feel like they come around quick enough as it is! Bless you! " Had everything whipped out last year. I had no cervix left due to CIN3. I’m very pro-smear as my 1st saved my life when I was 19. As Buxom Red said above a smear is better than the treatment xxx | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx
I know so many who have. Dread to think if they hadn't had their smears and it wasn't caught at the pre cancerous stage!
I've had cervical cancer having a smear test is nothing compared to have treatment for cancer.
Keep up to date ladies if you have not had a test due to covid now is the time to badger your doctors to get one done!
So sorry to hear that! Though I'm glad to see you say had and hopefully that means you're in remission!
Absolutely agree! As sorry as I feel for myself it's so important to do! "Yes I'm fine now, had it twice. I've been clear now for five years. Very little cervix left to do a smear on but still go for mine. . | |||
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle! "Aw bless... hope you feel better soon..
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"My last smear was awful! I had a trainee nurse in as well, so they opened the spectrum too far so she was able to see what they should be looking at. I've also had to have a colposcopy as had abnormal cells found, was just monitored every 6 months and thankful back to down to annual, but the female doctor at the hospital was my worst experience, I swear I picked up an infection, as I had painful cramps for weeks/months after that I had to go on post operation anti-biotics! Oh gosh I'm sorry to hear that! You've been through the mill you poor thing. I work in gynae and unfortunately all these type of things come with a risk of infection. Vaginas are a bit like mouths in that they naturally have a fair amount of bacteria but it often doesn't cause issues. Sorry to hear you were one of the unlucky few and I hope everything is fine for you now .
I'm back to normal now, I think I was monitored for about 4 years, 1 would come back normal but then the next one wasn't, I'm just glad I am back down to annual testing.
I think I must be nearly due for another one shortly, so will be awaiting my letter soon in the next week or so, so will wait and see.
But I will say, I didn't like those anti-biotics lol as you definitely can't drink on them so a fair warning to those others it might happen to "So glad to hear you're better now and that they're still keeping an eye! Hope the next one goes smoothly! Oh bless. I hate taking antibiotics in general! | |||
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"Sending lots of warm hugs & anything you need xx I used to have to have them every 6 months J x Oh gosh. I feel like they come around quick enough as it is! Bless you! Had everything whipped out last year. I had no cervix left due to CIN3. I’m very pro-smear as my 1st saved my life when I was 19. As Buxom Red said above a smear is better than the treatment xxx " Absolutely with you on that! | |||
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"That sucks, but well done for getting it done, it’s so important
Absolutely! After a few friends have had pre cancerous cells removed before it got too serious, I urge any woman to get it done!
My daughter (who is 32) has just had a colposcopy. I had one at 38. Both for pre cancerous cell removal and both with a punch biopsy too. I would also urge all women to go too xxxx
I know so many who have. Dread to think if they hadn't had their smears and it wasn't caught at the pre cancerous stage!
I've had cervical cancer having a smear test is nothing compared to have treatment for cancer.
Keep up to date ladies if you have not had a test due to covid now is the time to badger your doctors to get one done!
So sorry to hear that! Though I'm glad to see you say had and hopefully that means you're in remission!
Absolutely agree! As sorry as I feel for myself it's so important to do!
Yes I'm fine now, had it twice.
I've been clear now for five years.
Very little cervix left to do a smear on but still go for mine.
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"Take two paracetamol and a hot water bottle on your tummy. Luckily I have a needy cat who is doubling as a hot water bottle!
Aw bless... hope you feel better soon..
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"Oh no!! I hope the pain stops soon lovely. I really need to book a smear and this post reminded me so thank you. I had one booked but they cancelled it due to COVID. "Thank you! And I'm glad it reminded you to book one too | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! " Time heals all wombs. | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! Time heals all wombs. "Have a hug tho, I just wanted to get my joke in! | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! Time heals all wombs.
Have a hug tho, I just wanted to get my joke in! "Cracking joke as well | |||
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"Sending hugs, perfect excuse for hot choc, hot water bottle movie and a blanket Xx Blanket is out! Might stick disney plus on! " You've got Hamilton and Frozen 2 to choose from today's new releases! Sending you hugs, chocolate and wine. | |||
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"Sending hugs, perfect excuse for hot choc, hot water bottle movie and a blanket Xx Blanket is out! Might stick disney plus on! You've got Hamilton and Frozen 2 to choose from today's new releases! Sending you hugs, chocolate and wine." Pretty good time to be feeling sorry for myself eh! | |||
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"Feel better soon xx I've not cramped from them before" I have a grumpy cervix! | |||
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"Had mine Monday- not pleasant but better than the alternative! You have my sympathy lovely xxx" Absolutely agree and thank you | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! " Oo lots of hugs  I had mine 2 weeks ago! Xx | |||
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"Feel better soon xx I've not cramped from them before I have a grumpy cervix! " Ouchie...painkillers xx | |||
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"Christ! What did they use, sandpaper? The word 'smear' sort of implies a gentle wipe with something." It normally is but at the same time it is not the most comfortable either, then you have some inexperience to factor in or the not so inexperienced and tend to it like a tread mill! It's usually not the smear itself, it's the way it has been taken! But I still advocate all women to keep themselves up to date | |||
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"Christ! What did they use, sandpaper? The word 'smear' sort of implies a gentle wipe with something." It's kind of like a bottle brush thing they use to get some cells. It's not hugely invasive or anything but any amount of messing with your cervix can trigger cramps. Too deep penetration gives me cramps. Lucky me. | |||
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"Had my smear today and now I'm spotting and have cramps. Send hugs and chocolate! I hate being a woman sometimes! " Oh lovely, hope you feel better. Mine is due, will be ringing Monday. I had CIN 3 cells removed a couple of years ago, so don't take chances now
So if any of you ladies are putting it off, please don't. I did and I was very lucky....Thank goodness for a persistent Dr who insisted....
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"Christ! What did they use, sandpaper? The word 'smear' sort of implies a gentle wipe with something." My only issue has been zealous speculum use. Those metal fuckers hurt. Although poking around in the cervix is super weird. Stuff shouldn't be there  | |||
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