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By *essica Flabbit OP   Woman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Can someone somewhere anywhere please explain to me the latest craze of ghosting

Why invest time and effort into getting to know someone..

Sleep with them then ignore them

Anyone know the answer to this???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s easier than telling someone they don’t want to see someone again i guess, yes It’s cowardly And a shitty thing to do!

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Not a new thing unfortunately

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland


"Can someone somewhere anywhere please explain to me the latest craze of ghosting

Why invest time and effort into getting to know someone..

Sleep with them then ignore them

Anyone know the answer to this??? "

Because some guys just want a one off so will say or do anything to get a shag, they are happy to con you into thining they want more, then after its easier to ghost you, and yes this is the male typing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Ghosting is the new old thing being adopted these days.

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

time wasters love

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Because it’s easier than telling someone they don’t want to see someone again i guess, yes It’s cowardly And a shitty thing to do! "

Exactly this

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

This has been happening for years and years, I was first ghosted 14 years ago, best to move on to better things, there is plenty of lovely men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember reading on the Monzo forum where a guy was ghosting a girl.

He ignored all or her messages and phone call through all form of media.

She found that he was a Monzo account holder and sent his messages £1 at a time haha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Because it’s easier than telling someone they don’t want to see someone again i guess, yes It’s cowardly And a shitty thing to do! "

This. It's not fun but people who do this aren't worth agonising over. Just concentrate on moving on and finding someone who has more respect for others.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Why not just be honest from the start?

I want a fuck & thats it, if the ladie is happy with that all good

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

As previously said ... males will tell you anything you want to hear to get your knickers off ... best policy is to have boundaries in place and also be aware of the same old crap they all say ... not saying they all like this but you have to dig around for the good ones ..... basically he got what he wanted and off he went .... he saw no news for an explanation he got what he wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As previously said ... males will tell you anything you want to hear to get your knickers off ... best policy is to have boundaries in place and also be aware of the same old crap they all say ... not saying they all like this but you have to dig around for the good ones ..... basically he got what he wanted and off he went .... he saw no news for an explanation he got what he wanted "

This is spot on

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Because having lack of basic social skills and understanding of human interaction is seen as an accomplishment.

Instead of having a human conversation

People would rather described it as "awks" and turn their phone off.

As others have said be glad you have dodged a bullet. Its the sign of huge emotional immaturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach OP, Sorry this happened but welcome to the real world. Ghosting isn’t new, just easier online. Lie to get a meeting, have sex, job done and move onto the next one. Look at it this way. You’re worth more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they emptied their balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get alot of text ghosts, if that counts

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Because they emptied their balls."

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who actually cares???

Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?

Not as if you’re married, is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been message ghosted twice this week

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I've been message ghosted twice this week "

What’s that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been message ghosted twice this week

What’s that ??"

Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Who actually cares???

Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?

Not as if you’re married, is it?? "

We're not married but I've been with my partner over 4 years and would be a little upset if he ghosted me. Though I'd also be slightly impressed considering we share a flat .

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I've been message ghosted twice this week

What’s that ??

Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol "

Must admit I do that when I don’t like the face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I've been message ghosted twice this week

What’s that ??

Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol "

Weird why would you do that maybe she accidentally winked you I done that once and got a mouthful from a man calling me a silly little girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been message ghosted twice this week

What’s that ??

Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol

Must admit I do that when I don’t like the face pic "

My face is my friends list only though so only one of the women saw it. Awk, it is what isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been message ghosted twice this week

What’s that ??

Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol

Weird why would you do that maybe she accidentally winked you I done that once and got a mouthful from a man calling me a silly little girl "

Maybe it was an accidental wink, I actually hadn't thought about that

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views "

My god wasn’t me was it .... thats My modus operandi ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who actually cares???

Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?

Not as if you’re married, is it?? "

The person who’s been ghosted does, cause you tend to question what you did wrong, or whether it was something else you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easy to say just move on, though when you’ve been speaking to someone for a considerable amount of time and suddenly nothing and for apparently no reason it isn’t nice. Just knowing why would be something. Still ultimately it’s their loss and realistically if they are the type of person to just disappear on you then quite frankly what ever you did or thought was there means nothing....still it can hurt

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By *essica Flabbit OP   Woman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire


"Who actually cares???

Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?

Not as if you’re married, is it??

The person who’s been ghosted does, cause you tend to question what you did wrong, or whether it was something else you did. "

That right there . You do wonder wtf you did wrong...

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By *essica Flabbit OP   Woman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire


"Ach OP, Sorry this happened but welcome to the real world. Ghosting isn’t new, just easier online. Lie to get a meeting, have sex, job done and move onto the next one. Look at it this way. You’re worth more than that. "

Thank you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views

My god wasn’t me was it .... thats My modus operandi ha ha "
Hahaha ni it wasn't you

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By *essica Flabbit OP   Woman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire


"It’s easy to say just move on, though when you’ve been speaking to someone for a considerable amount of time and suddenly nothing and for apparently no reason it isn’t nice. Just knowing why would be something. Still ultimately it’s their loss and realistically if they are the type of person to just disappear on you then quite frankly what ever you did or thought was there means nothing....still it can hurt "

We'd been speaking for 8 months. Aside from the not knowing I miss the friendship.. but wipe your mouth and move on is going to be my mantra

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