FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks. I’m kind of new/kind of not. Can’t seem to draw any attention or get any replies. Any ideas where I’m going wrong or am I just not that attractive? :/ I respect all honest answers. Cheers

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's just the sheer number of men on here. Don't take it personally. Either you get lucky and they read your message, it stands out and they are attacted to you or you need to find other ways to grt to know people like interacting with people on the forums or (when we're not in a pandemic) going to socials or club events. Best of luck

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You’re not ugly, no and I have to say, from a few guys recently asking exactly the same question, your profile is pretty strong. I particularly like there’s no bloody dick pics!!! Your biog has some effort in it and gives a nice warm intro.

Best advice would be to try to interact on forums and chat and get involved. Also look into some of the social events that are starting to pop up.

And finally, read suitors profiles too!

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

"Hi folks. I’m kind of new/kind of not. Can’t seem to draw any attention or get any replies. Any ideas where I’m going wrong or am I just not that attractive? :/ I respect all honest answers. Cheers"

Are you kidding me! I've had a peep at your profile, and it's almost too good to be true to a lot of ladies on fab. I'm sure you'll be swamped with mail soon bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tim take your time you will get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your profile OP.

But there is a pandemic going on at the moment and I expect that, like myself, plenty of people aren't even looking to talk to anyone new right now.

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

just jump on the forums take part in the fun and frolics on here and you’ll be fine. There’s lots of sexy, friendly folk on here.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's just the sheer number of men on here. Don't take it personally. Either you get lucky and they read your message, it stands out and they are attacted to you or you need to find other ways to grt to know people like interacting with people on the forums or (when we're not in a pandemic) going to socials or club events. Best of luck

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That all you need to read mate. It's no big thing

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The second picture is great and nothing wrong with any of the pictures, a really good selection

The profile text is also good. As others have said, just bad timing with the pandemic.

Good luck Op, I hope things do eventually turn in your favour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys much appreciated!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You have excellent pics

welcome and good luck

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Patience and your very attractive xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for responding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh you're doing all the right things, you have a good avatar photo, decent profile photos, and complete profile with a good description.

So just sent well considered, polite, and thoughtful initial messages, not tons, but a good well written opening message.

Then hope for the best. Unfortunately single men aren't really in demand here, so you'll get a lot of no reply deletes. Just keep at it (but don't keep harassing the same people). You'll get some one in the end depending on your needs.

Also don't send friend requests to people you're not already talking with, it's annoying.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and see if you can get cam verified. That'll help.

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