FabSwingers.com forum: Would you meet someone without seeing a face pic?

By *ordan02081995 OP Man
over a year ago

Crosspool

Would you meet someone without seeing a face pic first?

I have met guys who don't send face pics, as they need discretion, this is particularly common on chat apps and sometimes on this site. I am happy to meet them, but I wonder how other people feel about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

Would you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward. And I dont think so. They would have to be something out of the world to convince me otherwise and I would always wonder whether they hide something not particularly pleasant whether to do with their features or life.

Unless it was a group social. Then who cares. You just bump into mostly strangers and welcome to say hello to anyone.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. Or whether they are running a social experiment on me testing how naive I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don’t reply to message without a clear face pic either on profile or with message

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Nope

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Once. I wanted to do a blind date for my bucket list check off, and we are still friends to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once. I wanted to do a blind date for my bucket list check off, and we are still friends to this day

I like happy ending

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Nope wouldn’t meet without knowing who I’m talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done once, took a chance and it worked out well. But, I probably wouldn't do that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I did 25 yrs ago when dating was done through a newspaper column.

We've moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Scary concept

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Never no!

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not a chance!!!!!

Someone who doesn’t want to show their face has something to hide. I’m not wanting any drama. We all have a life off of fab and seek ‘discretion’ to some degree. I don’t have face pics on my profile but I always share when chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never without a pic, theres no need to these days and excuses always sound suspicious to me.

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By *uicy and GymCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Nope

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely never, no, not...ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet someone without seeing a face pic first?

Never done it in 15 years...

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By *ortherner26Man
over a year ago

North East

No. Very suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never !

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No I wouldn't.

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

No chance, very suspicious

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

No I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, we arranged a GB through a guy on here who does them and didn't see any of the guys until we arrived. When meeting guys its the scenario that does it for us not what they look like. For couples we like to see a pic but only because we'll be socialising with them before play. As long as they are in reasonable shape what they look like is irrelevant because its more the scenario than looks.

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Once - NEVER again!!

Sheila and I met a guy without seeing face pic first, it was a social but jeez he did not look his age stated on the profile and everything about physically was him was a huge turn off for her when she saw him approaching us.

Nice guy to talk to but I'm pretty sure his age was 10yrs older than on the profile and had never really trained at all like he claimed he does daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and if they only have a filtered pic then they can do one too. It's amazing how many think you would meet them without seeing their face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ockandspoonCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Nope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet someone without seeing a face pic first?

If I was intrigued enough I would meet them for a social.

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By *UCKDOLLYWoman
over a year ago

scotland

Absolutely no chance !

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

No. Face pic essential for security. I also send that, and other info to my 'person' in case. And check in with them so they know I'm safe after.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I think you can get a good sense of someone from a face pic. Never met without one. Video call is always a good idea - love to hear a voice also! X

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Depends. Some people show a partial face and you get a good idea what they look like. Of half their face is hot it's unlikely the rest of it is going to be terrible.

Plus it's the connection sometimes rather than the looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done and would again, there’s no expectation so I don’t see the issue, if I’m meeting someone there’s something there for me to want to....

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By *gib254Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Never could be a minger

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We have done, but we never meet the silhouette or disembodied dick pic profiles - unless they send a face picture first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, when they say "Oh but I'm good looking you won't be disappointed".

I probably will be so why would I let someone who I literally have no idea what they look like come over?

You could be Shrek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I never send them and I’ve done Ok

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Oh and yes I’ve met without seeing their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I will meet without a face pic, but would need a whole body shot to ensure I am getting a person of interest. I always send a full body including my Face to the person I am Meeting and usually a close up face and if that hasn't frightened them away I happily meet. only had one encounter when I left a meet and that was of course face stubble....... well she should have shaved.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolouetly no way lol. X

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You would not know if the pic was current! It could be 20 years old!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, I need the attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would not know if the pic was current! It could be 20 years old!!!!"
at least you have some idea what they look like x

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I get the privacy of face pics which is fine, but without I'd need to have chatted on cam to see them, even if only for a short time.

Likewise I wouldn't expect to meet anyone if they didn't ask for a face pic from me. They might be genuine but I'd think it was a wind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the body was outstanding I probably would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never ever never as one of us is as fussy as fuck.

If it works for you op then great!!!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You would not know if the pic was current! It could be 20 years old!!!!"

Damn you got me. I'm actually 8 in all my pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would not know if the pic was current! It could be 20 years old!!!!

Damn you got me. I'm actually 8 in all my pictures. "

This makes me... uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask Stevie wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it’s like opening a present at Christmas

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

it’s not all about how photogenic someone is. It’s the whole connection for me

But nope I wouldn’t meet without seeing a face pic 1st

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

Absolutely, I would. And do, at times.

I've found that quite a few men are willing to, too (I don't have pics up, but am willing to send mine, when asked, at the right time).

I don't find that chemistry and appearance always to hand in hand.

If he doesn't engage my mind and make me laugh, we won't be meeting anyway, no matter what he looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not, I need the attraction. "

Same here

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You would not know if the pic was current! It could be 20 years old!!!!

Damn you got me. I'm actually 8 in all my pictures.

This makes me... uncomfortable

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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

I have done many many years ago when I was going through a bad time. Extremely stupid but would never do it now.

Always insist on face pic and as much information as possible now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

If there’s no physical attraction there’s no point.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the body was outstanding I probably would lol"
so what if she/he looked like hunchback of Notre dam or a she devil but with a great body lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done and will do it again.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if they describe themselves as "good looking" and that it will be our loss if we don't meet then they are probably Quasimodo so nope

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

No I wouldn't.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

That would be a huge no for us. Especially with couples, we have to make sure we like both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have done and will do it again."
Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this with a couple on here. They wanted to meet me and we had a potential time/date arranged. I said are you going to send any face pics across before. They insisted that they had ‘nothing to prove’ because of their verifications so wouldn’t sent one.

What a deluded mind set!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i would and i do. I never send a face pic of me either.

I always have a social first anyway and that would be after messaging for a while.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no. Not a chance. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Why bother with any pics first, if you are going to guarantee anyone anything without attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helll naw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I did many many many years ago, but no definitely not anymore.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

No never

Physical attraction is very important to me and especially when I’m looking to actually get physical with someone

If I’m not attracted I couldn’t have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never. Face is the most important thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

This is not blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once. It was in a public venue, and I think we're all mature enough to mention if there wasn't any attraction? The worst that can happen is that you have a chat and realise there's no chemistry? Besides you can warm to people and pictures are a little deceiving?

Would I go to someone's private residence or hotel room without a face pic? Probably not as that's a little more awkward.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"Yes, i would and i do. I never send a face pic of me either.

I always have a social first anyway and that would be after messaging for a while."

That's same as us, we have met people without seeing face but it's always been a social 1st

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, i would and i do. I never send a face pic of me either.

I always have a social first anyway and that would be after messaging for a while."

Same for us, in our opinion, a picture really gives no indication as to whether the person will prove to be attractive in the flesh.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I have done a few times in the club, would I arrange a blind meet outside of a club? Absolutely not

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Sometimes..... for added fun if spoken plenty and close. But why ? Other than for added fantasy/surprise , and less likely to do anything with that big unknown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

I tend to meet someone in public anyway. How are you going to recognise someone in a busy place if you haven't seen each other's faces? Ask them to whip their genitals out so you can compare them to their photos on fab?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nope!

My thinking exactly. I wonder if they describe what they are going to wearing.....maybe they have a carnation on their jacket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!

My thinking exactly. I wonder if they describe what they are going to wearing.....maybe they have a carnation on their jacket

Or a very unique hat!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When I was looking to date 20 odd years ago I did with varying degrees of success - for a meet off here I wouldn't, although there are people who I went on to meet whose face I didn't see until some time after we'd been chatting and formed a connection and chemistry with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!

Gosh, I wonder how people found each other before camera phones?

We've never had an issue with finding people, they describe where they're sitting and what they're wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be brave enough to meet for a social with a blind date kind of feel. It's much better to know what the other person looks like though so that you know there is attraction and dont waste each others time. Still, I've been on blind dates before in the past and even though there was no attraction I still had a fun time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!

Gosh, I wonder how people found each other before camera phones?

We've never had an issue with finding people, they describe where they're sitting and what they're wearing."

Sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fecking way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet someone without seeing a face pic first?

Not unless we happened to meet at a club and there was an attraction

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes and I have.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! Absolutely not. This isn't "blind date!"

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