FabSwingers.com forum: Help to better my chances

By *aribbeanNic OP Man
over a year ago

Harlow

I've been here too long and still haven't had any luck, I don't think I'm that bad looking or maybe I am so how can I improve my chances of meeting? Ive written my profe as honest as I can so what else can I do?

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

Green arrow shows you’ve asked for help previously, so not certain if you’ve changed things from last time.

I’ll assume you have changed things.

Pics - good that you included face pics but every pic is the same. You are going to appeal to some people and some you won’t...that’s just human nature. Try taking different pics.

Profile text - it’s quite graphic so again you will lose quite a few if they read that.

Try and be less graphic and a bit more informative about what you are after and what you can offer.

This is your shop window to sell yourself...if you want women to stop and look in, be different to the 40 odd other shops selling the same thing!

Look around and get ideas but be yourself...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Here's advice I have given many times and it's only ever once been taken up, and the person who did said he learned something useful.

Post an example of a message you send out to start a conversationwwith a new person so we can give you feedback. Most messages we get are truly awful, but presumably the sender thinks they are acceptable or they wouldn't bother sending it.

Don't fall into the trap of writing crap messages. It's a waste of everybody's time including yours. Seek advice here.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Show some flesh. This is Fab not facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion your profile is too sexual

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Show some flesh. This is Fab not facebook."

We'll done for taking advice on the cock photos, OP. You may feel you can't win given the piece of advice above. It's a balance. People do tend to like a bit of teasing. You can show some of your body, but a cock-fest puts off a significant number of people.

I would also recommend a variety of smart and casual clothes. IMHO photos look best taken by somebody else (no selfies) outside on a sunny day in pleasant surroundings.

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