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By *KAholeandglory OP   Couple
over a year ago

exeter

As the subject says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Some seem to be, I’ve had a few invites to meet but I won’t be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the subject says. "

Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some seem to be. I'm certainly not.

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By *KAholeandglory OP   Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"As the subject says.

Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen."

Who’s to say the pics wasn’t before lockdown?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Some never stopped & some will jump right into meeting as soon as the 4th is here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not yet. When clubs think its safe then maybe....i respect my bubble my health my family my job."

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By *KAholeandglory OP   Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"No not yet. When clubs think its safe then maybe....i respect my bubble my health my family my job.

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Can’t wait for the clubs to re open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the subject says.

Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen.

Who’s to say the pics wasn’t before lockdown? "

We have had invites to parties then coincidentally the same profiles have pics up of play the day after the date they have asked us to attend, doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work it out, but yeah we don’t know for certain.

However what we do know is there are thousands of swingers on here, it’s a numbers game so the odds of no one meeting would be ridiculous. We have chosen not to till we are told we can but we aren’t everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not yet. When clubs think its safe then maybe....i respect my bubble my health my family my job.

Can’t wait for the clubs to re open "

Some are opening this weekend but for socials only.

People shouldn't be meeting unless they are in an exclusive bubble without social distancing.

Unfortunatly social distancing is gonna be a thing for quite sometime.

So yes some are meeting and keeping the social distance and others are just ignoring it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few offers to meet including a hot tub encounter this evening..

He soon realized what i thought about that!

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By *utForAdventure26Couple
over a year ago

St Neots

It's madness to meet right now. Didn't take long for people to forget the sacrifices key workers have made now the clapping has stopped did it? *facepalm*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....? "

Are you lonesome tonight?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....?

Are you lonesome tonight?..... "

Yeah, faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....?

Are you lonesome tonight?.....

Yeah, faf? "

Thought you'd never ask

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"As the subject says. "

Yes I think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....?

Are you lonesome tonight?.....

Yeah, faf?

Thought you'd never ask "

Am I wearing you down....?

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By *KAholeandglory OP   Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"As the subject says.

Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen.

Who’s to say the pics wasn’t before lockdown?

We have had invites to parties then coincidentally the same profiles have pics up of play the day after the date they have asked us to attend, doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work it out, but yeah we don’t know for certain.

However what we do know is there are thousands of swingers on here, it’s a numbers game so the odds of no one meeting would be ridiculous. We have chosen not to till we are told we can but we aren’t everyone else."

That makes sense

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

A couple of months ago, most statuses had anti meet comments suggesting anyone offering or hinting at it would likely be blocked. This has changed completely over the past month and more hint at meeting rather than chastising those who wish to meet. Once pubs, restaurants and hotels are open for business, expect to see objectors dwindle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "

I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "

Yeah I agree. These things are being opened up on the proviso of social distancing. You can't have sex at 1m+.

People seem to think it's over but it certainly won't be if everyone switches back to normal straight ways. We're already seeing spikes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "

Ditto. Apologies for giving a damn about myself, my community, and the NHS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "

What will be different in October?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

What will be different in October?"

I thought the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't be going into shops let alone meet too risky

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i get way more requests to meet from last week. I just keep reporting as we not out of lockdown yet.

so if you're reading this and want to ask me to meet. The answer is no. I still got my family and friends, the elderly to think about

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I won't be going into shops let alone meet too risky "

if everyone wore masks etc you would feel much safer going to a shop.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "

There maybe a second wave by then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

There maybe a second wave by then?"

I'm thinking this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "

I judge the people cramming together on beaches, in pubs, fucking around etc as strange and abnormal.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am in my bubble with my fwb and wont be meeting anyone else until we know what's going on with new cases and the flu season.

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

I have a meet arranged for Saturday with a very beautiful woman and thinking of postponing it .

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

Only morons.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have a meet arranged for Saturday with a very beautiful woman and thinking of postponing it ."

if you can meet safely, why not? When i suggest this to men on fab, they stop talking. A true gent would go for nice walk in a park to see how you communicate with eachother. Great sex starts with communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets what's that?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

What will be different in October?"

Another 3 months to make a more educated decision lol.

I have mine and my daughters birthday in october, plus halloween of course

So will observe and wait.

Of course if nothing has changed or things are worse by then, then I will stay put, but I think another 3 months is being more than cautious enough

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My stance is, any change in public policy will take 2-4 weeks for new cases, and 6 weeks to show the immediate death toll. I'll make any decisions on whether to change my behaviour no sooner than 6 weeks after restrictions are relaxed.

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By *slite1Man
over a year ago

ludgershall


"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else."

Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course they are

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.

Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case"

This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.

Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing

What will be different in October?"

That’s when it will start to get worse...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure are...

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle

Had a few offers from guys but politely declined. I will wait until lockdown ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are,but not those that post on the forums, obviously

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.

I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "

Wonder why October is the date you have chosen.

End of oct onwards is when the cold and flu season starts and covid has the similar trates to flu.

No, I'm not meeting, others can do as they feel is correct for them.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No intention of meeting at the moment.

I am going away for a weekend with hubby soon, but we will take sensible precautions around others.

It's not worth the knock on effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are,but not those that post on the forums, obviously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have been, not sexually just friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope people ain’t

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.

Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case

This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.

Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area."

This is how it all starts again

People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reality is that a lot of people no longer care about Covid-19 or are just accepting the risks it poses to them (selfishly ignoring the more vulnerable?) because they are bored of lockdown and are 'over it'.

We've all seen mass gatherings on the news and social media with no regard to social distancing so why not just follow the flock and extend it into do what we want rather than do what we feel is right?

I'm not condoning it, just observing.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.

Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case

This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.

Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area.

This is how it all starts again

People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs "

And the thing is, it'll be them who will be kicking off moaning that we're having to go back into lockdown!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.

Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.

Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case

This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.

Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area.

This is how it all starts again

People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs "

It's not even stopped here yet. And we're opening...

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