FabSwingers.com forum: Do you fuck on the first date?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?

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By *ensual massagerMan
over a year ago

Bolton

It's pretty rare that I haven't on the first meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Sometimes it just progresses to that result, what starts out as a nice cosy kissing and cuddling session, soon becomes oral, and once the blood is flowing, where do you stop. No harm in it, and if it's not mutual, one of you should say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

Have done and will do again, if we are both attracted in that way.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It has happened.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have done before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally not, but it's happened lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It has never been my intentions but that coffee meet has been known to end up in bed.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Yeah I don't see any problem with doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, circumstances and mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it before and let's be honest will probably do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it before... probably will again!

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if by "date" you mean a normal type of date than usually no but if you mean a meeting arranged through here or other sites we use then almost 100% yes:-That's what swinging is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do try to, but it doesn't always go to plan

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

The kiwi being Kevin bloody wilson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I want to see them again, if I want to see them again for another date, I won't because it's a bit like a donkey with a carrot situation. Keeps them coming back.

If I find them attractive but don't want to date them again but wouldn't mind a shag I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are talking meets, then it has happened, because the connection and chemistry has been so good, however not normally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells. So yes I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your dad own a brewery ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your dad own a brewery ?

Cani see your tits

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Read up a few messages..

That line been done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

Its actually a song by Kevin bloody Wilson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did yes

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

If the chemistry is right and she wants to, then I will. Depending on the vibez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your dad own a brewery ?

Cani see your tits"

No coz it’s mr and she’s gone shopping coz I’ve run out of icing sugar lol

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

A date no, not had one in over 20 years anyway

On a meet yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

Its actually a song by Kevin bloody Wilson

What she said !

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By *enjamanMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Why wouldn't you have sex on first meet off here. After all that's what everyone is on here for.

Otherwise no point in being on here.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Vanilla date? Rarely

Fab meet? Will that's kinda the point isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These dates you speak of are those the sticky things your nan used to get at Xmas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a date with a view to there potentially becoming a relationship, then no, I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single I wouldn't have sex on the first date. Anticipation and excitement for a second date is much more alluring than giving out straight away.

On a Fab meet well that's different, if at the social meet you both decide to progress then go for it.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been on a date for a REALLY long time - but if you mean a Fab date then it has been known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't rule it out. But sometimes a non-sexual first date with an amazing kiss at the end is underestimated in how well it can set the tone and desire for a second. I had a brilliant hands free date last year with possibly the best kiss I've ever had as we were walking back to our cars at the end. The amazing all night sex on the second date was never in doubt from the beginning of the first date, if that makes sense....

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By *uplbigtitsCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

I have never been on a first date and not let them fuck me I would be disappointed if he didn't

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

Its actually a song by Kevin bloody Wilson

I already said that

There were some great videos of some of his songs

Youd hear his songs and visualise the scenario see the video and it be exactly how you visualise it

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

SW18 London

Conversate, sex on the first date I state "You know what you do to me"

She starts off, "Well I don't usually"

Then I, whip it out, rubber no doubt

Step out, show me what you all about

Fingers in your mouth, open up your blouse

Pull your G-string down South, aoowww

Threw that back out, in the parking lot

By a Cherokee and a green drop-top

And I don't stop, until I squirt

Jeans skirt butt-naked it all work

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

It's all horses for courses

S scintillating first date gets you ready for the anticipation of the second date.

A first date can occur without expectations yet the mood the moment the chemistry results in memorable sex

Its throwing off the shackles of convention going with the flow and letting things happen naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"We did yes

So did we - in fact, within two hours of meeting - but we had been talking online for months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date no.

Fab meet yes, I'm not into socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened, think it all depends on the attractions and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably would if i could get a first date to go on

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Always fucked on first date since a was young, come to think of it i have fucked while not on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

I was just about to quote that song lol

I dont go out o a first date with the intention of fucking, but like if the magic happens I'll not say no

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

My free time is limited so it would be a planned thing rather than a go with the flow thing off a social tbh

Especially with long distance first meets

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Funny ,I don't see meets as dates.

On FAB I have meets.

In the outside world I have dates.

The aim of a meet is to see if it's someone I want to fuck.

The aim of a date is....oh hang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person, circumstances and mood

"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

I have, and I don't think it's wrong at all, if you both are consenting.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

First meet, yes I would.

First date.... no, I don't think I will

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If we're talking dates then no,on a meet then yes of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about proper dates (not fab meets), no, I want things to be as less sexual as possible on the first meeting. If there's chemistry and we agree to see each other again, then yes, I go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it once and would do it again do the chemistry was right.

I’ve also had a social with someone and then fucked them the next day, one of my finest ever moves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A first date no, or on a first social, but I would tease and touch until they were gagging and then drop them off, anticipation is part of the chemistry for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done but not doing it leaves the lust for next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, No, Maybe

1. Average Date ..... Yes (always try it on)

2. I want ten kids with her/gorgeous, No ( Perfect Gent )

3. She's D*unk with Vomit in Hair, Maybe ( Joking!! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With enough chemistry Yes but I would not be planning on seeing them again. A good date waits until at least the third and it’s soo much better.

Fab meets, aslong as the guy isn’t pushy and I have chemistry With them, there is always that potential, time etc permitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

I used to be indecisive but so sure now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d fuck on any date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some interesting views on here

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably hold hands on a first date. I cant see myself ever dating though, easier to 'meet' and fuck straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your dad own a brewery..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

I think thats a good way round to do it actually. There would be none of the first date awkwardness would there if you have already had your tongue in each others bum.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

I think thats a good way round to do it actually. There would be none of the first date awkwardness would there if you have already had your tongue in each others bum.

100% this.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

"The kiwi being Kevin bloody wilson"

Yeah that's what came to my mind, Aussie though I think

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

I think thats a good way round to do it actually. There would be none of the first date awkwardness would there if you have already had your tongue in each others bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fab meets have been so good I couldn't wait to get them naked.

I don't set out with that goal, so if they're not what I'm looking for, it's fine to have a coffee and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some fab meets have been so good I couldn't wait to get them naked.

I don't set out with that goal, so if they're not what I'm looking for, it's fine to have a coffee and leave. "

I love a coffee

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's varied and if there's a large crowd, it could take forever if I didn't

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

We would have fucked each other on the first date but decided to wait till the following day which turned into a 8 hour fuck-a-tho.

That was 25 years ago.

We still fuck on first dates now if it goes right.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

More often then not - don't see the big deal if one does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done and would do again if it felt right.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If the chemistry is there then I see why not x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Honestly think for guys and girls the deciding factor is normally what you are already getting or can get.

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By *ooking for fun30Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I have on some first dates but haven't on others. It depends.

Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with fucking on first date or even first time meeting. We are adults fucking is normal why wait. Slut shaming needs to stop

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yes if I feel like it.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Simply depends on how we get along and if we laughing. I think we’re going to be halfway there

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It has happened but never go with the intention ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose your dad own a brewery

Can I see your tits

Or will you show them to me

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have and haven't. I don’t find anything wrong with it. Sometimes you just can't help yourselves!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

If you mean first date all those years ago as a starry eyed teenager then the answer is No.

If you mean a first date on hear the answer is Yes (twice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't date anymore as I'm married. But always have sex on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

But honestly? Yes.

Pretty all my girlfriends have been from one night stands from bars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

I think thats a good way round to do it actually. There would be none of the first date awkwardness would there if you have already had your tongue in each others bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened a couple of times.

Either I am irresistible or they were desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a date, no I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No K B W fans then :p

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By *D04Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

If the moods right then why not

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By *heKinksCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

If there's a sparkle

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Have done it before and let's be honest will probably do it again. "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I find that fucking before the first date really breaks the ice for things to talk about on the first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. That's pretty much why I'm there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! And no regrets really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always just seems to happen

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Fab meets. Yes of course. We talk here, arrange to meet if all is satisfied on both sides then meet to fuck.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Of course, that’s the whole point of meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on a date... But would, if I ever did, as I wouldn't want to get into anything with someone I wasn't sexually compatible with

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No , not first date .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you."

I completely agree. I think I'd be disappointed if I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if we click

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If it's right, it's right.

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over a year ago

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i fuck on the first date and it ends up being one night stand. I fuck on the second date, more likely to come back again

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"i fuck on the first date and it ends up being one night stand. I fuck on the second date, more likely to come back again

I've only ever had relationships where there has been sex on the first date...its the chemistry that made it all click.

Had dates where by the 5th there still wasn't anything happening on either side so it fizzled out naturally and glad it did too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to date but meet and play. This isn't a dating site. However, given the number of guys who catfish, I always insist on a social first.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Noooo

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Depends, sometimes I have sometimes I hav not

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Considering I've fucked women I've met an hour before in a nightclub then yes, but it all depends on the chemistry on an actual date and it's not something I'd push for or expect, but if it happens then all good

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Depends on how I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. I look for a connection from a first date. The sex and intimacy is more than worth waiting for if the connection is there. Perhaps I'm old fashioned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you."

I don't quite see it like that. Years of online dating ( not fab related) has made me cynical enough to want to see a guy a few times and get a sense that he actually likes spending time with me and not just doing it so he gets sex at the end of some time spent together

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Yes, if i fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, if we get on

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you.

I can understand that, it does work both ways too regardless of gender.

Each to their own i guess

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Yes, if i fancy them

Have a lot of criteria though but if they tick the box ....

Why not ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if it was a proper date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if all happy

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you.

Absolutley .. good luck x

I can understand that, it does work both ways too regardless of gender.

Each to their own i guess

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Not if it was a proper date "

Depends on how well it went lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound weird to you swingers but I rather now

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Yes why not if both want to then go for have fun

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Absolutely!

Fab meets or an actual date then why the hell wouldn't you if you both like each other and think its a good thing.

All this will they respect you in the morning stuff is bollocks, if you want sex then enjoy it whenever it happens between you.

I spent many years online dating too. The quality of men are not much different to men on fab. But I gained the attitude if that's all most men want. Two can play that game. So at least on fab, we both being more honest about it.

Besides, having nsa sex with consented married man be the best

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Definitely not. I look for a connection from a first date. The sex and intimacy is more than worth waiting for if the connection is there. Perhaps I'm old fashioned! "

unfortunately old fashion values doesn't seem to commute with most modern men. I asked alot of exes and they told me if a girl wasn't prepared to even want to sleep with them on the first date, then it was a turn off as they want that instant animal lustful attraction

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

Kevin bloody Wilson

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I'm not here to date but meet and play. This isn't a dating site. However, given the number of guys who catfish, I always insist on a social first."

i do cam chats as a first social. But even before doing cam chats, I like to have a decent online chat or phone call. Majority men haven't even got past cam chat phase with me

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Well I definitely would, if we both want to. Why wait, when we’ve decided to get face-to-face and still fancy each other?

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"The kiwi being Kevin bloody wilson

Yeah that's what came to my mind, Aussie though I think"

Think that is the perception..

But think he is a kiwi that made it big in oz

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I have done, usually because chatting on here for a while has built up enough of a connection

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Ok the first inclination at the start of the thread was kevin bloody Wilson.....

Having read through it I think it's time for (think this was their name)..

Racey..

Some girls will

And some girls wont

Some girls need a lotta loving

And some girls dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, it depends who you meet, sometimes it as a social meet before too. I like the mix of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your dad own a brewery?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Always. Hit me up, people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

Usually , we find ocials a little frustrating soemtimes.i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. Hit me up, people!

Tearing off tights with my teeth.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do on here but I make sure beforehand that we’re compatible through chats/cams first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we click and they instigate. Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have a few times in the past. I tend to do socials first now having been catfished and deceived with age /photos.

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By *igtattooedbeardedGuyMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Is a question posed by s kiwi big on oz.

Do you fuck on first dates

Does your dad own a brewery

Can you feel you tits

Or will you show them to me...

In the past have asked the occasional ozzy girl..if her dad owned a brewery..some said no and wondered why I'd asked that..others said no ....and no you cant feel my tits either...

But in respect of actual question had 2 one night stands that led to relationships.

Kevin bloody Wilson=legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before Fab, I'd have said no. Now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not. I look for a connection from a first date. The sex and intimacy is more than worth waiting for if the connection is there. Perhaps I'm old fashioned!

That's sad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and most likely will happen again with the right person. When the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my fab dates are first dates and only set up with fucking and sucking in mind. I rarely do second dates...I like a variety and thrill of a new partner

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

I'd fuck on any first date if she's game!

On a proper date if we fuck ain't gonna be no second date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in my dating days if I fucked on the first date, it was always going to be just sex. Which was cool with me.

Oral is usually my go to for first dates lol

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

"Back in my dating days if I fucked on the first date, it was always going to be just sex. Which was cool with me.

Oral is usually my go to for first dates lol"
haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked them, it was important to seal the deal with my blow job skills.

Worked every time lol

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

"If I liked them, it was important to seal the deal with my blow job skills.

Worked every time lol"
yeh i could see that working ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened.. not every time. Sometimes a person can really get your juices flowing ya know lol

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By *iggers1979Man
over a year ago

Heckmondwike

I fuck on any date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been known.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a man on here that wouldn’t like it to happen

But in general social first and if the chemistry is electric who knows where it might end up

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I did with one man and we got married at the end

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By *uicy and GymCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We fucked on our first date ....3 hours after meeting

but we are a very happy couple so worked for us

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We did - and have been together 30 years!

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Yes, but not just the first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a date if you dont fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And now I can’t stop singing the “Kevin bloody Wilson” song!

My secretary isn’t too amused with me right now

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I dated my ex wife for 8 weeks before we had sex

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Just go with the flow.

I never meet expecting it. But if the spark is there and we’re both feeling it then why not!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Or think it’s wrong to do so?

I’m more a go with the flow kind of guy, and did that unintentionally with one of my ex’s who I was together with for nearly 3 years after.

Thoughts?"

I have done yes! If you’ve both made ‘that’ connection, why not?

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"And now I can’t stop singing the “Kevin bloody Wilson” song!

My secretary isn’t too amused with me right now

Bit early in the year to be singing the song he does about mummy getting intimate with santa

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"I dated my ex wife for 8 weeks before we had sex

Theres a lesson here to be learned

Take note of my next post

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'll fuck on a first meet if thats the way it leads

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"We did - and have been together 30 years!"

If there is ever a lesson to be learnt this must be it.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"I'll fuck on a first meet if thats the way it leads"

Fancy a date...?

I know I know I know

I have read your profile but I can dream

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