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"I must be so naive as I have no idea what lamp post piss means! " This  | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it??" I may be a bit dull but what exactly is lampost pissing? I have seen it mentioned on threads before but I just scroll past them. Now I am curious...educate me peeps please Her x | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? I may be a bit dull but what exactly is lampost pissing? I have seen it mentioned on threads before but I just scroll past them. Now I am curious...educate me peeps please Her x" Like a dog marking it's territory | |||
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"I've seen girls piss in bushes on a night out" Go to a music festival and you’ll see all sorts of locations to urinate for all genders | |||
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"am i the only one who hasn't got a clue what this means?!
Px"Not at all, I didn’t have a clue either until Posh posted | |||
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"am i the only one who hasn't got a clue what this means?!
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it??" YES! Tis why I don't talk to anyone who I chat to! Dog eat dog in this world. Drives me nuts! People don't like sharing! Weird swinging technique! | |||
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"I think women are worse than men for it tbh" I'd agree with this too | |||
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"am i the only one who hasn't got a clue what this means?!
Px"Marking their territory is what I think it means. Or just being to the popular men and  to the others | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? I may be a bit dull but what exactly is lampost pissing? I have seen it mentioned on threads before but I just scroll past them. Now I am curious...educate me peeps please Her x Like a dog marking it's territory " Ah right, thanks... nope I haven't done this and have no intention to start. I quite enjoy seeing people flirting with a guy I fancy and I know that one day I will spend time in his company. It's a sexy secret to smile for
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"Im still confused, are you talking metaphorically? or about women literally pissing up lamp posts?"  | |||
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"Ok for those who have asked an are u sure of lamp post pissing and its meaning it's kinda like a soft pissing on a lamp post scent marking and saying his one belongs to me. So I the case of how I'm saying it would be if a woman likes a guy on fab she would make it rather obvious to other women and users that this guy is for her to try and put others off. I hope that clears up the confusion " Haha niceone | |||
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"As the supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore I am, I would like it known I am hereby peeing on all the lampposts. I'm putting flags in and claiming everyone. Or not. Because actually it's a bit daft. Why not just flirt like mad and be all privately smug when someone else flirts with someone who wants you? "That should be the grown up option but this is fab and full of childish people  | |||
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"As the supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore I am, I would like it known I am hereby peeing on all the lampposts. I'm putting flags in and claiming everyone. Or not. Because actually it's a bit daft. Why not just flirt like mad and be all privately smug when someone else flirts with someone who wants you? "Do you have a sprinkler system for that?
But I'm with you totally, and for me personally it's an unattractive trait | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? I may be a bit dull but what exactly is lampost pissing? I have seen it mentioned on threads before but I just scroll past them. Now I am curious...educate me peeps please Her x Like a dog marking it's territory Ah right, thanks... nope I haven't done this and have no intention to start. I quite enjoy seeing people flirting with a guy I fancy and I know that one day I will spend time in his company. It's a sexy secret to smile for
Her x"this 2 is how I feel when I see a woman flirt with other guys that I'm already planning to me and I certainly wouldnt tell another user whom planning to meet as I dont think thats Fair on either party | |||
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"As the supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore I am, I would like it known I am hereby peeing on all the lampposts. I'm putting flags in and claiming everyone. Or not. Because actually it's a bit daft. Why not just flirt like mad and be all privately smug when someone else flirts with someone who wants you?
That should be the grown up option but this is fab and full of childish people "Oh god. Don't call me a grown up! I'll have a tantrum  | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he?" Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them | |||
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"I must be so naive as I have no idea what lamp post piss means! " I'm with you on that one. U wut m8?  | |||
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"As the supreme Shameless Perverted Attention Seeking Whore I am, I would like it known I am hereby peeing on all the lampposts. I'm putting flags in and claiming everyone. Or not. Because actually it's a bit daft. Why not just flirt like mad and be all privately smug when someone else flirts with someone who wants you?
Do you have a sprinkler system for that?
But I'm with you totally, and for me personally it's an unattractive trait "There's a whole shewee, bucket, pump setup. I'll send you the link | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? I may be a bit dull but what exactly is lampost pissing? I have seen it mentioned on threads before but I just scroll past them. Now I am curious...educate me peeps please Her x Like a dog marking it's territory Ah right, thanks... nope I haven't done this and have no intention to start. I quite enjoy seeing people flirting with a guy I fancy and I know that one day I will spend time in his company. It's a sexy secret to smile for
Her x"This. We do flirt with everyone because it's light hearted and fun. And it's good to make others feel good. However if we genuinely want you, you will be told in private and that's where discussions of actual meets will happen. Jo.Xx | |||
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"Have you not read the forums woah betide you if you LP in the wrong place ". | |||
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"Have you not read the forums woah betide you if you LP in the wrong place "There's a lot of wet walls around the place | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them " Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..  | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions.. "There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^ | |||
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"Is the opposite also true ... for example, is refusing to give a nice guy a post-meet verification a form of lamppost pissing? ( assuming the guy is god-of-love otherwise )." No | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..
There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^ "Safest choice. | |||
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"You see this behaviour everywhere though. In the workplace, at school, among groups of friends. There will always be those, not just women, who claim a special relationship with certain popular people, they make it clear that they have private conversations nobody else is privy to, private jokes etc. Usually the lamppost is not aware it's being pissed on but sometimes it positively encourages it " Amen. Though there is a fine line sometimes between appreciating friends publicly and the thing you described. I guess that line is different for all of us. | |||
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"You see this behaviour everywhere though. In the workplace, at school, among groups of friends. There will always be those, not just women, who claim a special relationship with certain popular people, they make it clear that they have private conversations nobody else is privy to, private jokes etc. Usually the lamppost is not aware it's being pissed on but sometimes it positively encourages it Amen. Though there is a fine line sometimes between appreciating friends publicly and the thing you described. I guess that line is different for all of us. " You see it in the forums but I wouldn’t say I see a lot of ‘hands off he/she’s mine’ and more a general appreciation which is good. I could be wrong and reading it entirely the wrong way but that’s how I see it. | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..
There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^ "In extreme cases (and I've been on the receiving end of this) some women will check out who verified you, then message that person and say nasty things about you to stop them meeting you again... sad really | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..
There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^
In extreme cases (and I've been on the receiving end of this) some women will check out who verified you, then message that person and say nasty things about you to stop them meeting you again... sad really "This yes. That’s why sometimes people don’t veri each other and keep them hidden | |||
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"You see this behaviour everywhere though. In the workplace, at school, among groups of friends. There will always be those, not just women, who claim a special relationship with certain popular people, they make it clear that they have private conversations nobody else is privy to, private jokes etc. Usually the lamppost is not aware it's being pissed on but sometimes it positively encourages it Amen. Though there is a fine line sometimes between appreciating friends publicly and the thing you described. I guess that line is different for all of us. " Yes. You normally know if people are good friends though. I remember a fine example at work, a colleague made a massive fool of herself, so much so that I actually felt sorry for her | |||
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"Because actually it's a bit daft. Why not just flirt like mad and be all privately smug when someone else flirts with someone who wants you? "Yes this!
I'd rather feel a little smug than jealous any day. | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them " No, I know how it works, this was what I do and I personally find it very strange that others go on like this. | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..
There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^
In extreme cases (and I've been on the receiving end of this) some women will check out who verified you, then message that person and say nasty things about you to stop them meeting you again... sad really "It is sad and not just reserved you women Or you get PM’d asking ‘is there something I should know, I don’t want to be stepping on toes.....’ No there isn’t and even is there was I wouldn’t tell you, as you are just being nosey. | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he? Thats not really the way it works.. the people who do it, try to do it to exclude others, as if no one has claims on that person but them Like following on threads and chipping into attempts of flirting with other people for example? or making friends with girls who they fancy so they can nose about what's happening? Or there is a different name for these actions..
There is a reason a lot stays private and you’ve listed a few right there ^
In extreme cases (and I've been on the receiving end of this) some women will check out who verified you, then message that person and say nasty things about you to stop them meeting you again... sad really
It is sad and not just reserved you women
Or you get PM’d asking ‘is there something I should know, I don’t want to be stepping on toes.....’ No there isn’t and even is there was I wouldn’t tell you, as you are just being nosey.
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"I don’t think it happens so much these days, but I am not on the forums as much as I once was so wouldn’t notice I guess. I do think there is a flip side to this however as the “lamppost” may have over-committed with promises in private messages that aren’t born out in their forum interactions. Strange one really, I have never been one for “ownership” and I am not sure how that develops via purely virtual interactions " I've been a member of internet forums since the late 90s and very early 2000s. This sort of ownership develops very quickly on the net. It can rapidly become intense. You'd see little "slip ups" where someone would "accidentally ' use a person's real name, refer publicly to a private conversation or mention something that occurred between them but go on to say it was their little secret. It's all very subtle | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it??" Yeh big boy, we do. Pissed on yours several times today! | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? Yeh big boy, we do. Pissed on yours several times today! "I thought my feet where getting wet | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? Yeh big boy, we do. Pissed on yours several times today! I thought my feet where getting wet"No, that's called rain. You're out in it. | |||
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"So I'm wondering do ladies lamp post piss when it comes to a guy they fancy and have been chatting to. I've heard men accused of it but do women do it?? Yeh big boy, we do. Pissed on yours several times today! I thought my feet where getting wet
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"It’s the door way s**tting that really gets me "man that's nasty | |||
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"Iv been accused of this with Ash. I don't see it that way as we are a couple, I'm loved up and I don't care if the whole world knows. "And you're a damn gorgeous couple (far as I can tell, you're lovely anyway). Ash! I don't know you but you've got a beautiful gorgeous lady. | |||
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"Iv been accused of this with Ash. I don't see it that way as we are a couple, I'm loved up and I don't care if the whole world knows. "God, you're a couple, how absurd. | |||
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"Iv been accused of this with Ash. I don't see it that way as we are a couple, I'm loved up and I don't care if the whole world knows.
And you're a damn gorgeous couple (far as I can tell, you're lovely anyway).
Ash! I don't know you but you've got a beautiful gorgeous lady. "Awww thanks. He is just so lovely and inclusive on the forums and in life in general. Hes definitely my better half.  | |||
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"Iv been accused of this with Ash. I don't see it that way as we are a couple, I'm loved up and I don't care if the whole world knows.
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Personally it's none of my business who others are meeting so long as it doesn't affect me (which it shouldn't) and on the occasions when I know someone I have met, or meet, is meeting someone else I'll wish them a good time, much as I would a mate going on a night out.
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"I find it really quite sad when I see it happen publicly on a forum. Guess it takes all sorts but i find it so needy. And off putting. Not what fabs about to me" I won't piss on you but I'm putting a flag in you and claiming you! | |||
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"I find it really quite sad when I see it happen publicly on a forum. Guess it takes all sorts but i find it so needy. And off putting. Not what fabs about to me I won't piss on you but I'm putting a flag in you and claiming you! "Where's the flag going?
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"I find it really quite sad when I see it happen publicly on a forum. Guess it takes all sorts but i find it so needy. And off putting. Not what fabs about to me I won't piss on you but I'm putting a flag in you and claiming you!
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"I wouldn't do it on fab as such, but I do prefer a man I'm playing with not to be playing with lots of other girls at the same time. I don't really share lol They are welcome to have other girls, I just won't be one of them!" Exactly! | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever got wet" is it not raining where you are | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever got wet is it not raining where you are " Not even a shower | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever got wet is it not raining where you are Not even a shower" pissing down here | |||
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"Iv been accused of this with Ash. I don't see it that way as we are a couple, I'm loved up and I don't care if the whole world knows. "Omg that's nuts | |||
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"Have come across more so in chat groups before a MnG. Met a guy for coffee and halfway through our coffee he told me that another lady had warned him off me. And another guy told me the same a few weeks later. No idea what the lady's issue with me is. So now if a guy messages me that has met her I just avoid. Not here for drama " That's awful. A friend of mine had that happen very frequently to her in the past. If I were contacted out of the blue by someone telling me to not meet "x" because of "y" i'd politely tell them to mind their own business. Totally uncalled for and it's behaviour I class in the fruitcake category. | |||
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"They don’t lamppost piss they lamppost gush " Only when you find the on button | |||
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"They don’t lamppost piss they lamppost gush Only when you find the on button" I’ll have a good look at finding yours | |||
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"They don’t lamppost piss they lamppost gush Only when you find the on button" I'd love to flick your buttons. | |||
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"Have come across more so in chat groups before a MnG. Met a guy for coffee and halfway through our coffee he told me that another lady had warned him off me. And another guy told me the same a few weeks later. No idea what the lady's issue with me is. So now if a guy messages me that has met her I just avoid. Not here for drama " I know a guy who had that done to him 
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"Have come across more so in chat groups before a MnG. Met a guy for coffee and halfway through our coffee he told me that another lady had warned him off me. And another guy told me the same a few weeks later. No idea what the lady's issue with me is. So now if a guy messages me that has met her I just avoid. Not here for drama That's awful. A friend of mine had that happen very frequently to her in the past. If I were contacted out of the blue by someone telling me to not meet "x" because of "y" i'd politely tell them to mind their own business. Totally uncalled for and it's behaviour I class in the fruitcake category." That's forum life, everyone thinks they know before they KNOW because someone else, very "helpfully", warned them all about you..... | |||
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"am i the only one who hasn't got a clue what this means?!
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Marking their territory is what I think it means. Or just being to the popular men and to the others"Absolutely this happens and has happened to me. | |||
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"I'm obviously in my own little world all the time as I have no clue what goes on. Sounds like the best place to be. Mrs "can I join you sounds fun | |||
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"I'm obviously in my own little world all the time as I have no clue what goes on. Sounds like the best place to be. Mrs "Care for company? | |||
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"I had no idea what it was ... thought we had all moves on since the playground .., I don’t do games or stupid behaviours !!" Really?? Where ever there's people, there are mental games! Welcome to the chat sites! | |||
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"Of course some do. But not all. I don't think it's always a negative thing either " How do people lampost piss positively?
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"Of course some do. But not all. I don't think it's always a negative thing either How do people lampost piss positively?
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"I've seen it and on my old account I used to get messages from newbie members threatening me to stay away from a certain member o.O I find it quite worrying how possessive some people can become over someone they like when there is no commitment between the two of them. " really ? That's sad x | |||
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"I had no idea what it was ... thought we had all moves on since the playground .., I don’t do games or stupid behaviours !! Really?? Where ever there's people, there are mental games! Welcome to the chat sites! " I’ve been swinging a long time maybe I just moved through all this ... no idea how you do it !!! | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice.... "That's actually so true. And Nippy, that's not me pissing on you.... | |||
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"Yes they do and i've seen many examples of this. It's uncomfortable when you're at the center of it..." Where’s my picture | |||
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"Yes, happens all the time. Some just don't get the concept of nsa or swinging, I think " Or understand that yes he is currently talking to 10 different ladies at the same time and planning meets with all them. | |||
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"This all goes completely over my head. I play my own cards very close to my chest and don't think I'd even recognise this behaviour if it was happening around me. Naivety is sometimes blissful. " Wish I was..  | |||
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"There's a few guys I talk to and fancy on here but this a swinging site and not a dating site. If he wants to talk to/get attention from someone else (and they do) then so be it. I do, so why shouldn't he?" Exactly this. | |||
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"I've seen it and on my old account I used to get messages from newbie members threatening me to stay away from a certain member o.O I find it quite worrying how possessive some people can become over someone they like when there is no commitment between the two of them. " Very much this ^^ | |||
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"I wouldn't do it on fab as such, but I do prefer a man I'm playing with not to be playing with lots of other girls at the same time. I don't really share lol They are welcome to have other girls, I just won't be one of them!" This for me too. I have a jealous nature and although I would never say anything (because the rational side of me wins out) it would just make me right fucked off. It’s one of the reasons I don’t meet men from the forums. Don’t poo where you eat kind of thing. | |||
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I don't get involved.
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"It can also be two friends having flirty banter. See that a lot on here "Yeah, I think I possibly come across like I am but I'm just an outrageous flirt. There's noone who is 'mine' and would hate anyone to think this was my opinion. X | |||
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"It can also be two friends having flirty banter. See that a lot on here "This is always where I'm coming from. I don't know if it's perceived differently because I'm married? Just not something that's on my radar at all. Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I've seen girls piss in bushes on a night out Go to a music festival and you’ll see all sorts of locations to urinate for all genders " My daughter loves doing man pisses when we go camping but as far as I know she doesn’t do it up lampposts (or on fab members) | |||
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" Personally it's none of my business who others are meeting so long as it doesn't affect me (which it shouldn't) and on the occasions when I know someone I have met, or meet, is meeting someone else I'll wish them a good time, much as I would a mate going on a night out. "
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I'm not of a jealous disposition, but I only sleep with people I like, and I'm glad to see people I like are having a good time.
Of course, if they cancel on me to meet someone else that's an entirely different matter, but as long as they turn up when we've agreed to meet, what happens at other times is really none of my damn business!
In terms of being dragged into other people's drama, I find it easy to avoid. It helps that A) I don't go for forum bods on the whole; B) I'm not one of the cool kids; and C) I'm not attractive enough for other women to feel threatened by me. | |||
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"I wouldn't do it on fab as such, but I do prefer a man I'm playing with not to be playing with lots of other girls at the same time. I don't really share lol They are welcome to have other girls, I just won't be one of them! This for me too. I have a jealous nature and although I would never say anything (because the rational side of me wins out) it would just make me right fucked off. It’s one of the reasons I don’t meet men from the forums. Don’t poo where you eat kind of thing. " | |||
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"It can also be two friends having flirty banter. See that a lot on here "Yep. I have a real life friend of nearly 5 years on here and sometimes we outrageously flirt on here the same way we do in person. We don't even have a sexual relationship, it's just a bit of fun. | |||
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"Lets put it this way, one of the first things I noticed about the forums was the depth markings around the edge - I initially wondered what they were for and soon realised it was so you knew if you were at the shallow end or deep end of the pissing pool
Personally it's none of my business who others are meeting so long as it doesn't affect me (which it shouldn't) and on the occasions when I know someone I have met, or meet, is meeting someone else I'll wish them a good time, much as I would a mate going on a night out.
I have occasionally been asked about or had it commented on that I've met someone and it gets ignored."Spot on as usual | |||
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That's actually so true.
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy.... "I'll get my coat, I just saw great tits..... | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy.... "How embarrassing Nippy, have another look - it wasn’t me. | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
That's actually so true.
And Nippy, that's not me pissing on you....
A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
How embarrassing Nippy, have another look - it wasn’t me. "I know, I know.... Sssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh... | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
How embarrassing Nippy, have another look - it wasn’t me.
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
That's actually so true.
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
That's actually so true.
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
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Assumed it was just that because the etiquette is to completely ignore each other forums once you’ve held hands " | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
How embarrassing Nippy, have another look - it wasn’t me.
I know, I know.... Sssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
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"Yes, happens all the time. Some just don't get the concept of nsa or swinging, I think Or understand that yes he is currently talking to 10 different ladies at the same time and planning meets with all them. " Some blokes don't get that either tbf lol | |||
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"I think with lpp it's about knowing your target. It's about the two of you, not anyone else. Lpp from unwanted ppl is awful, but when it's someone spesh it can be quite nice....
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A little bit of wee escaped when I read you'd quoted me Estella, like an excited puppy....
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