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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation " Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!  | |||
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"What, forced contact....? " No...the opposite! Just an act of appreciation  | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation " You never reply when I do | |||
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"What, forced contact....? " Heaven forbid | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....  "Not my profile tho...and that was my point. But thank you  | |||
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"What, forced contact....? Heaven forbid "Hey you
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation You never reply when I do " | |||
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"What, forced contact....? Heaven forbid
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you "I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities..... | |||
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Cwtches n stuff....
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab. If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat. | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat. "So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ? | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities....."Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they? | |||
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"Ever wish you could fab someone’s profile? Sometimes I can’t fab the pics - there aren’t any public ones, or I’m not a fan of the ones they are showing, but they have a really great profile. Don’t necessarily want to start a dialogue either...but I just want to say I like or appreciate their personality. Be a good new feature... "That's quite interesting actually. A novel idea though i'm not sure if it would work well. People might be tempted to fab it more to try to get attention rather than actually finding it pleasing. Some people have messaged me out of the blue just to compliment me on mine. Very flattering that is | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "I would have no problem doing that | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
"Exactly. I didn’t know about the ‘unspoken rule’...but there’s a lot I don’t know
Tbh, if I messaged someone to say I like their profile and they just said ‘cheers’...I might think they were a bit...erm...arrogant...sorry!! | |||
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"Ever wish you could fab someone’s profile? Sometimes I can’t fab the pics - there aren’t any public ones, or I’m not a fan of the ones they are showing, but they have a really great profile. Don’t necessarily want to start a dialogue either...but I just want to say I like or appreciate their personality. Be a good new feature...
That's quite interesting actually. A novel idea though i'm not sure if it would work well. People might be tempted to fab it more to try to get attention rather than actually finding it pleasing.
Some people have messaged me out of the blue just to compliment me on mine. Very flattering that is "You’d hope that they’d read it...or at least more likely they’ve read it. | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they? "Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man.... Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
"Reread your comment...no...if I like the pic, I fab the pic. I want to be able to fab the profile, without opening up a dialogue at that point. | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
I would have no problem doing that "Send me a paragraph I can cut and paste | |||
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"I know you're probably talking about me, so thanks OP. X" Obvs  x | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "Could just say you admire their style! I’m sure most will just appreciate that! | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
Reread your comment...no...if I like the pic, I fab the pic. I want to be able to fab the profile, without opening up a dialogue at that point. "But if the pic doesn't let you fab it.... | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x"No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough  | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "This ^ xx | |||
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" When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule " This is exactly whay I do - I put in my title "No reply required" and then put the compliment in the text box. Only once I have never had a reply to thank me or a bit of a conversation. It then fizzles out or we have found a friend | |||
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"I sometimes wish you could fab status updates " You'd be page 1 of the hot dad jokes daily. | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "I do this as well. I might offer some praise of my own in turn if their profile is good and leave it there. I've no way of knowing if the purpose of the message was just a complement or to serve simultaneously an ice breaker. I'll reply with just enough to allow them to re engage if the latter was the case. | |||
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"I sometimes wish you could fab status updates You'd be page 1 of the hot dad jokes daily. "Its my superpower (should I be worried ) | |||
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"I know you're probably talking about me, so thanks OP. X Obvs x"How have I never seen your May 3rd video? | |||
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"I know you're probably talking about me, so thanks OP. X Obvs x
How have I never seen your May 3rd video? "Only you can answer that! | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough "So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture.... | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough
So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture.... "I reckon this could drive some great profile wording...all the people who want a bit of connection and personality would have somewhere to start! Tho maybe not 1000 words | |||
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough
So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture....
I reckon this could drive some great profile wording...all the people who want a bit of connection and personality would have somewhere to start!
Tho maybe not 1000 words " | |||
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"You can appreciate my personality anytime, OP "You just need to write another 990 words and then I will | |||
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation " I do this occasionally. I've made the odd friend friend this way. | |||
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"You can appreciate my personality anytime, OP
You just need to write another 990 words and then I will "Sometimes words are not needed.. | |||
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"You can appreciate my personality anytime, OP
You just need to write another 990 words and then I will
Sometimes words are not needed.. "Ok...I got no words now x | |||
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