FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?"

Of course it is ... pfft!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one. "

Would you send it first though? Or only after he sent one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?

Of course it is ... pfft! "

Kinda annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?"

I've had one or two before.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one.

Would you send it first though? Or only after he sent one"

If I was asking to see one, I'd send mine first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably depends on the context of the message.

I wouldn't ordinarily send one. Happy to send as a conversation progresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?"

It is entirely up to the individual sending the message, and those whom they message.

If one takes the time to correctly read a profile before messaging, there shouldn't be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?"

For me it depends on how well the conversation is going, if I feel a potential connection during conversing then I will and have done.

I don't respond if someone literally just asks or makes no effort in a conversation, there has to be a dialogue prior

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope and I don't demand them either, will swop once we have been chatting for a while and that goes for friends pic perving as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?

For me it depends on how well the conversation is going, if I feel a potential connection during conversing then I will and have done.

I don't respond if someone literally just asks or makes no effort in a conversation, there has to be a dialogue prior"

First pic you ever sent me was boobs, I think I was whinging in the forum. I'm not complaining mind.....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No I don't but I don't expect others to either. I usually swap face pics when a conversation seems to be flowing and looking positive. I tend to do this by becoming friends so they can see my friends only pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

They probably wanted to see your puppy in return

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My face is right here I don’t need to send it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People all over Fabs demanding all sorts. Stick to what you're comfortable with, there are lots of people that prefer to keep anonymous until they're sure there's a spark there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one. "

This

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By *slimshady69Man
over a year ago

Jesmond

"I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one.

Would you send it first though? Or only after he sent one

If I was asking to see one, I'd send mine first. "

I’d love to be able to send you one NSA, but your filters won’t allow it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?

For me it depends on how well the conversation is going, if I feel a potential connection during conversing then I will and have done.

I don't respond if someone literally just asks or makes no effort in a conversation, there has to be a dialogue prior

First pic you ever sent me was boobs, I think I was whinging in the forum. I'm not complaining mind.....

I think you're right, but I wouldn't send just anyone my boobicle picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

They probably wanted to see your puppy in return

Maybe my puppy isn't real.....

(she is, I promise

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?

For me it depends on how well the conversation is going, if I feel a potential connection during conversing then I will and have done.

I don't respond if someone literally just asks or makes no effort in a conversation, there has to be a dialogue prior

First pic you ever sent me was boobs, I think I was whinging in the forum. I'm not complaining mind.....

I think you're right, but I wouldn't send just anyone my boobicle picture

They're very pretty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women ever send face pics with their first message?

So many demanding men do this or they wont reply...

Or is this just another double standard on fab?"

Just join the FPF threads and target the ones you want to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, not that I’ve had it happen a lot but it does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get messages????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I never demand one, if I'm asked then fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

They probably wanted to see your puppy in return

Maybe my puppy isn't real.....

(she is, I promise

Picture to my inbox please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

They probably wanted to see your puppy in return

Maybe my puppy isn't real.....

(she is, I promise

)

Picture to my inbox please?"

Done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't usually send face pics with a first message.. but equally i don't ask for them either.

unless we're playing fpf of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

Maaaate you need to coach me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You get messages????

Rarely

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t send first messages- don’t need to at all.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No and don't expect with a first message but maybe after a couple, it makes sense for everyone as if there is no attraction conversation is pretty pointless

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get messages????

Loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few vag pics with first messages this week.... ....I've totally nailed my fab approach now....

They probably wanted to see your puppy in return

Maybe my puppy isn't real.....

(she is, I promise

)

Picture to my inbox please?

Done x"

Thanking you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"No and don't expect with a first message but maybe after a couple, it makes sense for everyone as if there is no attraction conversation is pretty pointless

Jo x"

This

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By *hy guy400Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

"I don't usually send it in a first message, but I would if I was asking to see one. "

Are you gonna upload a pic with your Smiths T-shirt on??

Favourite Album??

Mine is the first one.. The Smiths -The Smiths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldnt send it in a first message, neither i demand one straight away.. however there is no point putting it off because if you are looking for physical attraction then it will be awkward to let go off someone due to lack of it after chatting for a long while..

Ps. Face friday is an exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we message first, we'll send a picture. If people message us without one we don't respond. Waste of time. You don't walk up to someone in a bar with a balaclava on is my thinking. Just show your face and it's an instant yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more about who messages first. I don't expect one on the first message from guys, but I'd like one in the second message if I give him the go ahead.

There's just no point continuing if you don't find each other attractive is there?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I think it's more about who messages first. I don't expect one on the first message from guys, but I'd like one in the second message if I give him the go ahead.

There's just no point continuing if you don't find each other attractive is there?"

I agree with this when the intention is to potentially meet that person. Messaging off the back of a thread is often different and may not carry these expectations.

If I see someone I fancy and would want to potentially meet I send a face pic very early precisely for the reason mentioned above.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Never but then i never ask for one either.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I find having my face visible all the time doesn't help as sending a face pic is often prompted by the desire to see one in return.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

If I message first then I’ll attach a face pic. It’s only fair as that's what I ask for from others in my profile text.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No, I don't send any pics with messages.

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