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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

you thought about swinging, sex with somebody other than your partner or a multisum, gangbang or whatever...

What prompted you to take it further and become a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bored and thought what the hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dare

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I was bored and thought what the hell. "
Really? I mean how did you... did people get the idea? Was it something you heard other people discuss or did you have a specific fantasy or ...?

Im genuinely curious.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A dare "
Wow - and you went straight for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my boyf at the time an absolute git but I thank him for the eye opener

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"my boyf at the time an absolute git but I thank him for the eye opener "
Brilliant

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was swinging from my first sexual encounters. Took me a long while to realize i was doing "typical" things that are associated with swingers

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I was swinging from my first sexual encounters. Took me a long while to realize i was doing "typical" things that are associated with swingers"

Really what you are saying is that you have never done vanilla only you were nt aware of it at the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice "
Would you say that some of us are just natural born swingers then?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I was swinging from my first sexual encounters. Took me a long while to realize i was doing "typical" things that are associated with swingers

Really what you are saying is that you have never done vanilla only you were nt aware of it at the time? "

Correct, first experience was a guy, second a girl, then i was doing threesomes, same room fun three somes all the things you can associate with swingers. I thought there was something wrong with me then as i was different to other people i knew. Ive never associated love and sex together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice Would you say that some of us are just natural born swingers then? "

Im no expert and not sure about that, but hellfire pissed off I didnt know about FAB years ago or even last year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to admit it was my randy hubby !! lol x

it was about 1990 and i was 18 years old and he shaved my pussy.. i wasnt happy as it - had took me 18 years to grow that and i was happy with my wispy hairs. lol x

it was kinda unheard or thought about at our age - To have a bald fanny - in fact it was like the guys at school lol - some off us girls thought we were great because we had Longest Pubes.. !!

.Had me Shaved and pierced within a few months of meeting hubby lol .. married and shaved for 20 years soon lol x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"have to admit it was my randy hubby !! lol x

it was about 1990 and i was 18 years old and he shaved my pussy.. i wasnt happy as it - had took me 18 years to grow that and i was happy with my wispy hairs. lol x

it was kinda unheard or thought about at our age - To have a bald fanny - in fact it was like the guys at school lol - some off us girls thought we were great because we had Longest Pubes.. !!

.Had me Shaved and pierced within a few months of meeting hubby lol .. married and shaved for 20 years soon lol x "

Wow, so you kind of naturally grew and evolved into this with your partner? Brilliant and it sounds like a good recipe for a long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both read erotic books and we were sat reading a book each on night and turned out we were both reading about swinging and after talking about it for a while we signed up to fab the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met our first few Folks via contact mags..

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and then dial-up internet..

.wow - feeling old at 38 lol x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"we both read erotic books and we were sat reading a book each on night and turned out we were both reading about swinging and after talking about it for a while we signed up to fab the rest is history"
Did you think at first that it was a bit... well, pervy or did you take to it like the proverbial duck?

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice Would you say that some of us are just natural born swingers then? "

after three years of swinging i would say my wife was born for it!!!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice Would you say that some of us are just natural born swingers then?

after three years of swinging i would say my wife was born for it!!!!"
Is it a genuine openess to try new things or a lack of feeling bad about sex? What makes some people take to it so naturally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both read erotic books and we were sat reading a book each on night and turned out we were both reading about swinging and after talking about it for a while we signed up to fab the rest is historyDid you think at first that it was a bit... well, pervy or did you take to it like the proverbial duck? "
no we were lucky the first guy we met was a real gent and is now a realy good friend and he put us both right at ease from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to when I was first experimenting it all started, slowly.

Like Diamond, I didn't think of it as swinging, wasn't aware of the term then, but a few of us playing at dares to see how far we would go, tended to not go much beyond groping.

A few year later, after leaving home and lodging with a friend, it advanced much more. again that was pretty much sharing girlfriends.

First time I (along with a partner)sought sex beyond the two of us with people other than friends was going through the loot paper towards the back.

Through a top shelf contact mag several years later we joined up to a swing site mentioned there, had a meet and was pointed towards fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never feel bad about sex. Couldnt comment if its genuine openess. I know that Im comfortable and confident with what I am doing but I am new to the scene so dont know if what I am saying makes any sense to anyone?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think it is tricky to say that you are born to it but I really should not be like this given my upbringing and yet I have been horny for as long as I can remember.

My first sexual boyfriend and I, 30 years ago, would often have sex outdoors without much care if we were caught.

10 years later my partner at the time said that he had never had a threesome when in conversation with one of his friends. After a night out together I agreed to sharing them as a Christmas present to them both - Santa was kind to me too.

Then two years ago I met someone on another site and fairly early on he took me to a club and subsequently we had a couples profile on here.

I enjoy the freedom, the adventure, the joy of seeing others have pleasure and of course my own selfish pleasure. But, I do find it a little addictive and that is a concern as I would not want this to become all of my life.

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"My first meet from another site said to join here, so good meet and advice Would you say that some of us are just natural born swingers then?

after three years of swinging i would say my wife was born for it!!!!Is it a genuine openess to try new things or a lack of feeling bad about sex? What makes some people take to it so naturally? "

sure there's a part of it about being open and comfortable in saying what you wnat, plus a willingess to try something new. once started though, let's call it the 'basic instinct' seemed to emerge - the 'true self' if that's not being too highbrow - LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about it my first relationship turned into swinging but I didn't know what it was at the time lol basically the mans mates started to watch and eventually joined us for gang bangs lol it got me into older men and multiple men meets and I don't regret a second of it some may say was being taken advantage of but not once was I made to do anything I didn't want and not once was I told what to do so yeah may be immoral for a much older man to fuck a teenager with his mates there and later on joining in but that's all it was. I enjoyed it I asked for the fella to set up more meets after first time which I wanted a couple men watching and I asked if they will fuck me too . and it made me who I am today lol. Mmm

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