FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't women ask guy's out

By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

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By *artyanna16200TV/TS
over a year ago

leeds

Because your vile and horrid and eat worms and you smell and we hate you so there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

Can you share the link where you found these stats please ?!

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to"

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I will just ask Men and Women.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to do the asking and have done so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

I am not available 98 times a year! Lucky if its 20!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I got chatted up once years ago and I’d love to again

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that"

I do love a lewd hand gesture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence."

And get rejected! Jeebus no

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego"

Well i hope ive given you more confidence.

One life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

I do love a lewd hand gesture."

. In that case Mr N has asked many a man out while driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, where is your evidence based research from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

I do love a lewd hand gesture.

. In that case Mr N has asked many a man out while driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will happily ask guys out

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we are to deal with rejection everyday

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we haveto deal with rejection everyday "

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

If a man asks 100 ladies out, he’s probably not very choosy; I hope at least 98 of them turn him down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

I do love a lewd hand gesture."

Circle with the left hand, index finger on the right hand slipping in and out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we are to deal with rejection everyday "

Very true

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

They do...well some have me anyway

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that"
maybe it's time for ladies to take the lead .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego

Well i hope ive given you more confidence.

One life."

Sadly its never gone well for me in the past. So while I appreciate your good intentions, I rely on my own stats

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I have never been able to read a woman.

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By *xccvvMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire North East

Ladies are afraid of rejection, which may happen very rarely. Us blokes get turned down many times, even in our younger days.

Blokes are hardened to rejection, it is something we develop as we get older lol.

Also ladies do not like being told they cant have something they want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we are to deal with rejection everyday

Very true "

It isn’t, what man asks a woman out everyday, most blokes take Thursdays off ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been asked out by women. Even on here, all of the friends i have have been from people asking mw

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm not confident enough to make the first move with men, women or couples so we just wait for people to approach us mostly.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask men out..the response is usually favourable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

I get a mixture of responses. No one can be attractive to everyone!

What I find interesting is that in a bar I never get hit on, whilst here it's a free for all

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I asked Mr our! The rest is history

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I do

I get a mixture of responses. No one can be attractive to everyone!

What I find interesting is that in a bar I never get hit on, whilst here it's a free for all

I’m going to the wrong bars

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that maybe it's time for ladies to take the lead ."

women have been leading since time immemorial.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have never been able to read a woman."

not even using braille?

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego

Well i hope ive given you more confidence.

One life.

Sadly its never gone well for me in the past. So while I appreciate your good intentions, I rely on my own stats "

If you read the guys response to my comment it may help you understand

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I do

I get a mixture of responses. No one can be attractive to everyone!

What I find interesting is that in a bar I never get hit on, whilst here it's a free for all

Oi oi

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I ask men out..the response is usually favourable

That's great to hear ??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not shy. I know what i want and asking someone to meet is no issue for me. They can only say no which is fair enough but life is too short to sit on the fence

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

In recent years I've done more of the pursuing. I often worry it's unattractive as you're always told "men enjoy the chase" but it hasn't seemed to have worked out too badly for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In recent years I've done more of the pursuing. I often worry it's unattractive as you're always told "men enjoy the chase" but it hasn't seemed to have worked out too badly for me. "

Chase me dammit

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that maybe it's time for ladies to take the lead .

women have been leading since time immemorial. "

No no this is not true

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"In recent years I've done more of the pursuing. I often worry it's unattractive as you're always told "men enjoy the chase" but it hasn't seemed to have worked out too badly for me.

Chase me dammit

I'm just waiting for my moment to pounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am happy to do the asking and have done so."

This

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Ladies are afraid of rejection, which may happen very rarely. Us blokes get turned down many times, even in our younger days.

Blokes are hardened to rejection, it is something we develop as we get older lol.

Also ladies do not like being told they cant have something they want lol "

It's to do with culture my friend

Guys don't get turned down in the Philippines do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am happy to do the asking and have done so.

This

Where's my invite to smash your backdoors in then

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"In recent years I've done more of the pursuing. I often worry it's unattractive as you're always told "men enjoy the chase" but it hasn't seemed to have worked out too badly for me. "

Good your a good example for your sister's

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I am not shy. I know what i want and asking someone to meet is no issue for me. They can only say no which is fair enough but life is too short to sit on the fence "

A positive response is a turn on

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat "

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I am happy to do the asking and have done so."

A positive response

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Good to hear but i am aware some men do not like women who is too forward which is a shame as we are all equal.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Also, where is your evidence based research from?

Yes

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I will happily ask guys out "
positive women are definitely hotter

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Good to hear but i am aware some men do not like women who is too forward which is a shame as we are all equal."

Screw those guys, but not literally

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I asked Mr our! The rest is history

Well done you

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I have never been able to read a woman.

not even using braille?

I'm good with touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever been asked out once and that was by another woman. Make of that what you will.

And on here I'm always the first to make the first move, so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't something I've ever done. Maybe I should try

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I do wish some would be more forward.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

Can you share the link where you found these stats please ?!"

They look about right to me.

Dr. I concur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I would NOT end up with a 98% chance if I went round asking men out. I think that's a porky.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I think women like to feel desired and adored , well that's what a fem friend says lol

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that"

If you dont want to share with open forum please private message me the details. I'm not good at picking up on these things

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Thankfully Ladies do sometimes approach and ask people out

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"It isn't something I've ever done. Maybe I should try"

You go Sister x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that"

This! We give you lots of openings, you just have to know what you're looking for x

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

If you dont want to share with open forum please private message me the details. I'm not good at picking up on these things"

True men are not mind reader's!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

I've asked 5 guys out in the last 3 years... yeah i am still waiting ...

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

This! We give you lots of openings, you just have to know what you're looking for x"

We aren't unfortunately mind reader's

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've asked 5 guys out in the last 3 years... yeah i am still waiting ..."

Ask a 1000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

This! We give you lots of openings, you just have to know what you're looking for x

We aren't unfortunately mind reader's

We're saying it so loudly in our minds though, come on guys

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have always had the power!

Some fellas will just hit on anyone that looks at them, then you have some fellas who are a little more selective.

I've always been a more quality rather than quantity type guy even though I don't think I'm all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They definitely do and I enjoy declining just to make me feel that I am important then wank my sorrow by using my tears

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mrs does

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m old fashioned.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Thankfully Ladies do sometimes approach and ask people out

A small percentage yes

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

This! We give you lots of openings, you just have to know what you're looking for x

We aren't unfortunately mind reader's

We're saying it so loudly in our minds though, come on guys

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but that just isn't working. Life is to short

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I’m old fashioned. "
that's not an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you actually try to ask out a randomly selected 100 women OP, just to see if they said yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the answer.....

It's because most woman have standards. ..

And guys will fuck just about anything.... Ha Ha.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I do lol "
you go sister

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I have the answer.....

It's because most woman have standards. ..

And guys will fuck just about anything.... Ha Ha.

Rubbish and untrue and not nice to say such things about Men !

Guys have standards to! Don't be a prime example of exactly what men don't need or need to hear!

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Mrs does

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your mrs is hot

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Would you actually try to ask out a randomly selected 100 women OP, just to see if they said yes?"

Some guys have been rejected from 100s of women and yesterday I've been rejected many times

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Would you actually try to ask out a randomly selected 100 women OP, just to see if they said yes?

Some guys have been rejected from 100s even 1000s of women and yes i've been rejected many times to

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego"

As if a man will turn you down!!!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

This is an interesting one. What's the context?

In real life, the woman does ask the man out. Women seem to be obsessed with relationships in real life.

On fab, they know that it's all about sex, and majority of women who I know aren't really able to do the no strings sex thing.

My experience on here is that women are petrified of being rejected. They don't seem to be able to handle it too well. God knows why.

That being said; women do ask from time to time. I've been asked today actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its a man's world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find a decent one - I will

I think your statistics are a tad off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked out the other day. I didnt like it, she was too confident lol made me feel unmanly. I said no...and she was fit as well :/

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?"

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I got asked out the other day. I didnt like it, she was too confident lol made me feel unmanly. I said no...and she was fit as well :/ "

Flipside! How many females have turned you down?

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"If I find a decent one - I will

I think your statistics are a tad off too "

Remember this is fab

Outside in the world its different and i know my facts are correct.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

This is an interesting one. What's the context?

In real life, the woman does ask the man out. Women seem to be obsessed with relationships in real life.

On fab, they know that it's all about sex, and majority of women who I know aren't really able to do the no strings sex thing.

My experience on here is that women are petrified of being rejected. They don't seem to be able to handle it too well. God knows why.

That being said; women do ask from time to time. I've been asked today actually.

It's to do with culture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!"

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I find a decent one - I will

I think your statistics are a tad off too

Remember this is fab

Outside in the world its different and i know my facts are correct. "

Know????

Are they from the ONS or summat....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll send a first message..

Or ask someone out

If I’m interested or intrigued..

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival....."
no we are definitely dealing with ego's in this culture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!"

Yes we are...

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I'll ask a guy out, but only if I'm sure he is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't exactly been asked out but I've been asked for my Kik and whatsapp and I have been asked to meet up with someone who I chatted with online. It's never anyone who I fancy though

or maybe I'm just a fussy bastard.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"If I find a decent one - I will

I think your statistics are a tad off too

Remember this is fab

Outside in the world its different and i know my facts are correct.

Know????

Are they from the ONS or summat....?

was typing error

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I'll ask a guy out, but only if I'm sure he is interested.

Noticing the signs

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

"I got asked out the other day. I didnt like it, she was too confident lol made me feel unmanly. I said no...and she was fit as well :/ "

Do men not like being complimented, flirted with, and asked out anymore??

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I got asked out the other day. I didnt like it, she was too confident lol made me feel unmanly. I said no...and she was fit as well :/

Do men not like being complimented, flirted with, and asked out anymore??"

i certainly do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival..... no we are definitely dealing with ego's in this culture

Do you just reply with the same answer to everyone despite any evidence they present, because your experience is more important or something....? Definitely ego's then....

I've asked a handful of girls out but I do ok with my date trapping because I allow them to reach the same conclusion as me, no ego's....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ask men out, I don't even mind being told no, I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to get a fuck though. Harder to get a relationship.

If a guy asked 100 women for permission to court them with a view to marriage his success rate would be much much higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy to get a fuck though. Harder to get a relationship.

If a guy asked 100 women for permission to court them with a view to marriage his success rate would be much much higher. "

Tru dat!

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

They do had a few off here wanting relationships and couple stalkers literally heard of men stalking but not women crazy shit too

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival..... no we are definitely dealing with ego's in this culture

Do you just reply with the same answer to everyone despite any evidence they present, because your experience is more important or something....? Definitely ego's then....

I've asked a handful of girls out but I do ok with my date trapping because I allow them to reach the same conclusion as me, no ego's....

Your confidence now comes across as irrogance. Instead of finding the balance in this conversation. You have to stroke your ego! by disagreeing, when it is clearly explained by several people without ego's on here wrighten there feelings.

Sometimes it's best to just listen and try to withhold yourself from your ego

I don't need to explain myself to anyone

Do your research educate yourself and respect yourself

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I'll ask men out, I don't even mind being told no, I just move on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival..... no we are definitely dealing with ego's in this culture

Do you just reply with the same answer to everyone despite any evidence they present, because your experience is more important or something....? Definitely ego's then....

I've asked a handful of girls out but I do ok with my date trapping because I allow them to reach the same conclusion as me, no ego's....

Sometimes it's best to just listen and try to withhold yourself from your ego

I don't need to explain myself to anyone

Do your research educate yourself and respect yourself

I'm not asking you out fella, chill out....

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"They do had a few off here wanting relationships and couple stalkers literally heard of men stalking but not women crazy shit too"

Ok, I hear your ego! how many turned you down in life?

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"The do if you give them the chance....

What's the question asking equivalent to mansplaining?

No they don't only a small percentage do and tell me how you would give a woman the chance

Seems we are dealing with ego's!

In your experience maybe. I've rarely asked women out, it's usually a mutual arrival..... no we are definitely dealing with ego's in this culture

Do you just reply with the same answer to everyone despite any evidence they present, because your experience is more important or something....? Definitely ego's then....

I've asked a handful of girls out but I do ok with my date trapping because I allow them to reach the same conclusion as me, no ego's....

Sometimes it's best to just listen and try to withhold yourself from your ego

I don't need to explain myself to anyone

Do your research educate yourself and respect yourself

I'm not asking you out fella, chill out....

Thought you was gonna

your alright fella, no stress

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Easy to get a fuck though. Harder to get a relationship.

If a guy asked 100 women for permission to court them with a view to marriage his success rate would be much much higher. "

That's hilarious ?? because it's true x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we are to deal with rejection everyday "

Speak for yourself, I have to beat them off with a big stick.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego"

I’m the same. I don’t think I’ll ever ask anyone out.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I never make the first move because I am not that bold or confident enough to

Well i hope my facts have given you more confidence.

And get rejected! Jeebus no

Be brave, As men we are to deal with rejection everyday

Speak for yourself, I have to beat them off with a big stick.

Must be a wealthy geeza then

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I'm terrified of rejection. I've a very fragile ego

I’m the same. I don’t think I’ll ever ask anyone out. "

If you don't try you my never no the answer

One kife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy to get a fuck though. Harder to get a relationship.

If a guy asked 100 women for permission to court them with a view to marriage his success rate would be much much higher.

That's hilarious ?? because it's true x"

Not many women want to be told that a guy only wants to fuck them whereas I don’t believe many guys would have a problem with a woman saying could I just fuck you please?

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By *itch74Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Because they're too tight to pay for a round of drinks

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

No over thinking going on here - and you've missed my point completely but your statement: "If a female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate." whilst potentially accurate, *does* completely over simplify things, and there is no escaping that - for starters it assumes a woman would be interested in those one hundred guys in the first place...and that doesn't even take into account things like personality and looks of the lady concerned etc

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

Are we talking about on fab? Or in the real world?

On fab I have no issue declaring an interest if there is one - but in the real world I’m more reticent! X

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"If a man asks 100 ladies out...he may end up with around 3 possible chances.

If i female asks 100 guys out she would end up with around 98 chances a higher success rate.

What's going on ladies ?

Are we talking about on fab? Or in the real world?

On fab I have no issue declaring an interest if there is one - but in the real world I’m more reticent! X"

In general,In the western world

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Because they're too tight to pay for a round of drinks

Why don't you buy a guy a drink for a change ?

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Easy to get a fuck though. Harder to get a relationship.

If a guy asked 100 women for permission to court them with a view to marriage his success rate would be much much higher.

That's hilarious ?? because it's true x

Not many women want to be told that a guy only wants to fuck them whereas I don’t believe many guys would have a problem with a woman saying could I just fuck you please?

Your so right xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program"

I personally will stay with my own shivery program.

It’s not a cross gender projection.

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By *hilleddevilMan
over a year ago

north Manchester

"Good to hear but i am aware some men do not like women who is too forward which is a shame as we are all equal."

You can be as forward as you like with me

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Good to hear but i am aware some men do not like women who is too forward which is a shame as we are all equal.

You can be as forward as you like with me

Some do x

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By *mlcutencuddleyMan
over a year ago

derby

i think it would be nice off a women to ask me out even if she thinks shes not got enough confedance or she think she may get rejected as for me im only 4ft 8" tall ive found over the years alot of women like a man to be taller than them

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It's never ended well when I have.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program

I personally will stay with my own shivery program.

It’s not a cross gender projection."

Your already partnered, why would you need shivery again?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program

I personally will stay with my own shivery program.

It’s not a cross gender projection.

Your already partnered, why would you need shivery again?"

Part of my values, I don’t live in a throwaway society.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"i think it would be nice off a women to ask me out even if she thinks shes not got enough confedance or she think she may get rejected as for me im only 4ft 8" tall ive found over the years alot of women like a man to be taller than them"

Yes this is true, but they also like men who are funny,confident,dress well and have things going for him

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program

I personally will stay with my own shivery program.

It’s not a cross gender projection.

Your already partnered, why would you need shivery again?

Part of my values, I don’t live in a throwaway society."

And your welcome to them, I'm done with Disney life's to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off finding 100 men I'd like to ask out be a miracle

I'm in my 40s. I have asked 5 guys out over the years and everyone said no so I don't ask anymore. Lesson learned.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"First off finding 100 men I'd like to ask out be a miracle

I'm in my 40s. I have asked 5 guys out over the years and everyone said no so I don't ask anymore. Lesson learned."

There's no such thin as a miracle and this has been scientifically studied and about time to. Believe in yourself and you can move mountains

You have 95 more to go

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Also, I would NOT end up with a 98% chance if I went round asking men out. I think that's a porky.

"
it really doesn't make men seem a tall fussy does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First off finding 100 men I'd like to ask out be a miracle

I'm in my 40s. I have asked 5 guys out over the years and everyone said no so I don't ask anymore. Lesson learned."

You should ask me out id 100% say yes ha xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program"

Again you appear to have missed my point completely or have chosen to, but I disagree that looks are *always* the first thing anyone looks at - attraction can take many forms and not just physicality, and one doesn't *have* to come before the other.

Not sure what being cold has to do with anything or why it's outdated, or even why I would be shivery as I don't have a fever - but you seem determined to think your way is the only way and the right way, so you stick to what you do, I'll stick to mine, which I am perfectly content with thank you very much.

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I've been invited to meet by women OP it's not completely one sided

I also think your stats are a little wide of the mark and over simplify things somewhat

Read what the positive ladies said and simple is always best. Not to over think

In order

The first thing a female is attracted to is looks. This helps to discover someone personality. How simple do you want it. Shivery is outdated my friend get with the program

Looks and attraction first my friend. If you don't believe me i suggest you do some research

Good luck in finding out

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Also, I would NOT end up with a 98% chance if I went round asking men out. I think that's a porky.

it really doesn't make men seem a tall fussy does it

We guy's have standards to you must understand that or there could be tears.

How can you answer that question?if you have already given up and never tried,nonsense

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"It's never ended well when I have."

So what at least you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tilly asked vyper out he’s never been the Dane since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP thanks for tonight, you've made me chuckle a few times. Why argue so hard and inflexibly at comments and experience from ppl who've lived very full fab lives....? Why are they so wrong to hold different views to your own...?

Stay open fella....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I ask men for meets etc, some cases I've been turned down. It's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask men for meets etc, some cases I've been turned down. It's life. "

I would never turn you down, Keeley!

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I’ll send a first message..

Or ask someone out

If I’m interested or intrigued.."

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I ask men for meets etc, some cases I've been turned down. It's life. "

Good to hear

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"Tilly asked vyper out he’s never been the Dane since

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"OP thanks for tonight, you've made me chuckle a few times. Why argue so hard and inflexibly at comments and experience from ppl who've lived very full fab lives....? Why are they so wrong to hold different views to your own...?

Stay open fella....

I don't see many disagree with me.

I'm not arguing, i've let me ego go... Have you read the responses? Only positive feed back and energy i felt in the majority

There's a lot more to life than fab

Swallow the red pil

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I ask men for meets etc, some cases I've been turned down. It's life.

I would never turn you down, Keeley!

Right back at ya hot stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that"

We're simple creatures. Usually easier to be direct. If you want something...

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

We're simple creatures. Usually easier to be direct. If you want something... "
ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem doing the asking OP.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

In my opinion I see so many times that men seem desperate to get female s and maybe you don't see it but it does come across quite loud and clear , maybe that puts women off ???

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I have no problem doing the asking OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way things are allows ladies to be lazy. I've no interest in any guy that contacts me. I'm capable of finding those I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it, when the needs must

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"In my opinion I see so many times that men seem desperate to get female s and maybe you don't see it but it does come across quite loud and clear , maybe that puts women off ??? "

Ladies no what's going on no excuses

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By *ustataste OP Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

"I do it, when the needs must"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them 'out' or ask for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay open fella....

I don't see many disagree with me.

I'm not arguing, i've let me ego go... Have you read the responses? Only positive feed back and energy i felt in the majority

There's a lot more to life than fab

Swallow the red pil

Only so many times I can ask you to listen to the actual words, to remain persuadable and open to others who might be able to offer wisdom. You've just done the same thing again with your reply and been unnecessarily rude again. We'll agree to disagree. Have a good'un....

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

"I do too "

I will wait patiently then!!!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"In my opinion I see so many times that men seem desperate to get female s and maybe you don't see it but it does come across quite loud and clear , maybe that puts women off ???

Ladies no what's going on no excuses

"
lol I wasn't making any excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be asked out by a woman, very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but it's never gone great

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"there are ways of asking without words, many men don't seem to have cottoned on to that

This! We give you lots of openings, you just have to know what you're looking for x"

Men are crap at picking up signals you have to be direct and just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that men asking women out is and always should be how it should be.

For the survival of a good gene pool, women will most likely make the right decision. Yes, some will be toffee nose twats that will reject most men, but if it was the other way around, women asking men out all the time, most men will just say yes and we'll end up with a limp wristed generation that can't do anything for themselves. Protest everything because they are so hard done by......oh wait, shit. Something went wrong somewhere

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