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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the best tips to move on from someone you loved

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

K*ll them

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"K*ll them

"

I jest. I jest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"K*ll them

"

You're style is unorthodox, but effective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old wives tale I once heard was half the lenght of time that you have been with a person... Other than that, no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distraction helps and with distraction time passes and then things get easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same advice from last week. Distract yourself. Stay busy. It's stops hurting eventually

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"K*ll them

You're style is unorthodox, but effective "

You!

I’m looking for you. Where exactly are you?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Embrace the new freedoms you have now, away from the confines of a relationship. Do something new, maybe something you have put off, show them you have moved on and getting on with your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"K*ll them

I don’t think killing will help

You're style is unorthodox, but effective

You!

I’m looking for you. Where exactly are you? "

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Spend time learning about yourself...

What do you do for fun...

What do you do for you...

I think when we lose or break up with someone we love.. We have to learn about the part of us that's left and heal... And for a really cheesy finish.. Regrow...and It takes time... X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to. "

I want to it just scared really

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"An old wives tale I once heard was half the lenght of time that you have been with a person... Other than that, no idea. "

Just an hour then

Doesn't seem too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really"

It's ok to be scared of unknown. Even if you are scared of something, do try to tackle it, taking action, however small, putting yourself path is all what's needed sometimes to set us into a new good direction. Persevering at is a different chapter though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really all depends on where you are in terms of accepting the loss of the relationship, how you are currently feeling and what you are thinking.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really"

What is it that scares you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to. "
perfect and you won't really move on, despite all the advice until you decide you want to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Distraction, and time. Throw yourself into yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really

What is it that scares you? "

Being hurt again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really

What is it that scares you?

Being hurt again"

OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really

What is it that scares you?

Being hurt again

OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends? "

Not really she made sure I didn’t have any before she destroyed me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "

I do I just have no self esteem left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "

It’s almost like you knew her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming they were the one to do the hurting.

Very hard to move on if you were in the wrong.

Forgiving yourself is tough.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really

What is it that scares you?

Being hurt again"

Then do not fall in love again. That is how i cope. My guard is up from now on and i will happily remain single.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really

What is it that scares you?

Being hurt again

OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends?

Not really she made sure I didn’t have any before she destroyed me "

Start from there then. It'll be difficult during this current time but as things move forward maybe work on building some friendships. Self esteem is something I can't help you with, that comes from within you have to believe you're worth it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

I do I just have no self esteem left"

Work on yourself. I've been where you are. Loving yourself means you can withstand these blows

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London


"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.

I want to it just scared really"

Life is full of risk

What are you gonna do.... Live your life indoors and alone?

Love is supposed to be scary. Opening yourself up to be loved is an act of vulnerability. It's how trust grows in a relationship.

There are shitty people in this world and not so shitty people. But youll never know if you only inside your thoughts

Strap a pair on head out the door an hold on for the ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

It’s almost like you knew her lol"
I’ve just had similar experience with a man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death.... "

Witchcraft for example....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death....

Witchcraft for example.... "

Dunk that bitch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death....

Witchcraft for example.... "

Lol there trying to do that to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

It’s almost like you knew her lol I’ve just had similar experience with a man x"

Care to chat privately ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"K*ll them

"

So the counselling is still not working then, Estella?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death....

Witchcraft for example....

Dunk that bitch! "

It seems she is dunked lol just left me ruined

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"K*ll them

So the counselling is still not working then, Estella?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"K*ll them

Lol I think I need her on my side though

So the counselling is still not working then, Estella?

"

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons."

No she was cruel and unkind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"K*ll them

You're style is unorthodox, but effective "

(Karatechopface)

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"K*ll them

You're style is unorthodox, but effective

(Karatechopface)

"

I’m deathly, me.

(Poisonkissface)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons."
true. People come and go. How they leave stays with you forever though.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.

No she was cruel and unkind "

But you still loved her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"K*ll them

You're style is unorthodox, but effective

(Karatechopface)

I’m deathly, me.

(Poisonkissface)"

Enter the dragon...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.

Yes I did

No she was cruel and unkind

But you still loved her?"

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.

Yes I did

No she was cruel and unkind

But you still loved her?"

Well you need to do some soul searching and realise you deserve better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.

Thank you for your words

Yes I did

No she was cruel and unkind

But you still loved her?

Well you need to do some soul searching and realise you deserve better. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better

It’s almost like you knew her lol I’ve just had similar experience with a man x

Care to chat privately ?"
OP I rather not sorry I’m trying to forget about it but thanks anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me because I'm dreadful at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on with your life. It's difficult at the moment but in the future find new interests,you willm make new friends. For now take the time to work out what you want in life, what your interests are.

We can all offer advice but only you can act on it

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