FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

So...after

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many many posts about how immoral swinging is and how its the same as cheating, i thought i would start a post (and please no argueing) i just want to know YOUR opinion on it (not your opinion on what others say on this thread)

In my opinion, sex and love are two very different things,,, however when you love someone you should be honest with them and swinging is honesty about your sexual needs and wants, cheating is not! so in my opinion swinging is not immoral at all,,,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I agree with you entirely.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you entirely.

"

Us too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I entirely agree with you ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Group huuuuuuuuuuuuuuug !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm (((((hugging))))) the group....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many many posts about how immoral swinging is and how its the same as cheating, i thought i would start a post (and please no argueing) i just want to know YOUR opinion on it (not your opinion on what others say on this thread)

In my opinion, sex and love are two very different things,,, however when you love someone you should be honest with them and swinging is honesty about your sexual needs and wants, cheating is not! so in my opinion swinging is not immoral at all,,,

"
Agree with you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

try asking the same question on a non swingers site - no doubt the answers will be different

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try asking the same question on a non swingers site - no doubt the answers will be different "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Many many posts about how immoral swinging is and how its the same as cheating, i thought i would start a post (and please no argueing) i just want to know YOUR opinion on it (not your opinion on what others say on this thread)

In my opinion, sex and love are two very different things,,, however when you love someone you should be honest with them and swinging is honesty about your sexual needs and wants, cheating is not! so in my opinion swinging is not immoral at all,,,

"

Although I will say that the whole concept of swinging to some people is immoral in itself - I personally agree with you completely

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I agree the difference and a very good opening thread.

I think swingers do respect others people's choices but it is when they are asked to justify that choice to play or not to play, does it often go tits up. If people made it clear on profiles, people read them, responded to people who meet their requirements, didn't hoodwink or try and convince them to make an exception, blame 3rd parties for the reason they are here and were HONEST... everyone on here would get fun with likeminded people....

if only................

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I agree the difference and a very good opening thread.

I think swingers do respect others people's choices but it is when they are asked to justify that choice to play or not to play, does it often go tits up. If people made it clear on profiles, people read them, responded to people who meet their requirements, didn't hoodwink or try and convince them to make an exception, blame 3rd parties for the reason they are here and were HONEST... everyone on here would get fun with likeminded people....

if only................

"

Dont you think that most of the arguments only occur because one person is trying to "make" another person accept their own stance? If people could agree to disagree without blaming, judging and labelling..... the world would be at peace, not just the scene.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I agree the difference and a very good opening thread.

I think swingers do respect others people's choices but it is when they are asked to justify that choice to play or not to play, does it often go tits up. If people made it clear on profiles, people read them, responded to people who meet their requirements, didn't hoodwink or try and convince them to make an exception, blame 3rd parties for the reason they are here and were HONEST... everyone on here would get fun with likeminded people....

if only................

Dont you think that most of the arguments only occur because one person is trying to "make" another person accept their own stance? If people could agree to disagree without blaming, judging and labelling..... the world would be at peace, not just the scene. "

I do indeed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/06/12 12:56:06]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I agree with OP. I have done both, cheating and swinging, and cheating is certainly not my intention for future relationships, but I will be swinging forever more...i hope!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual freedom is to be prized, and is better relationship glue than believing that any form outside-relationship sex is illicit and the end of the world.

Wolf

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/06/12 12:53:31]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Bubblicious and Wolf ... absolutely, it is the beauty of freedom without associated guilt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No argument here. We agree with you too OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice to see no halos will be slipping and choking here lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the old lust or love thing. Swingers are open about lust, the others try to hide it and end up cheating on and lying to a partner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nice to see no halos will be slipping and choking here lol "

Im not quite sure what you mean by that post Miss Ruby

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy, cheating is when you don't tell your partner something. Swinging is when both partners are aware.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with OP. I've done both. It's far better when both people in the relationship are aware of what is going on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top