FabSwingers.com forum: Playing beforehand

By *r Bob OP Man
over a year ago

Banffshire

How many would suggest that foreplay - and there could be a debate as to when that actually begins - is more exciting than penetration? Answers on a post card etc

By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

It begins with the first inbox if it's done properly

By *r Bob OP Man
over a year ago

Banffshire

Totally agree. The mind is a powerful stimulant.

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Orgasms are the icing on the cake but not the cake itself. It's the point of reaching satisfaction after exploring each others bodies, kissing, touching etc. It's like arriving at a destination after a very enjoyable journey.

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For me, penetration isn't the ultimate aim or goal of sex, it's just another facet of the many facets of sex, and there have been times where penetration hasn't even occurred, and those times have been just as, if not possibly more so, satisfying than when penetration has been part of it.

As I said on a thread yesterday, good sex isn't about a specific act or a skill one person possesses, but about two like minded people coming together and feeling comfortable and relaxed enough to explore in whatever way feels right for them at that moment in time, it's about a connection and chemistry, sexual compatibility and being on the same wavelength and just letting things go with the flow and see where it leads.